Hey im a pretty nice person who needs alot of help im a little messy with my life so it could be polished a bit but i love to help people and im pretty good with advice so im told so yea..
Gender: Female
Location: USA
Occupation: Busser/Dancer
Age: 15
Member Since: April 19, 2006
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Hey, so i've been going out with my boyfriend for about 8 months and we just recently have becoming open with each other and talking about our past relationships and what we have done with people, and i'll admit i hav hookedup wit a decent amount of people..and whenever i mention a guys name he asked me if i have hookedup wit them..and i keep telling him what happened and i think he gets uncomfortable..so when he asks if ive' hooked up wit a guy next time i mention a guys name, shud i just say no or tell him truth, i do think honesty is the best policy but it seems to be making him more upset..so what shud i do? (link)
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Hey i would keep telling him i mean he nows hes not the first one. if he cant handle the truth then thats his problem but make sure you reassure him that he's your boyfriend now and your not gonna cheat on him or do anything that he doesnt want you to..like make him feel comfortable with you
hope you feel better
-tawny
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15/f. my best guy friend recently admitted to me that he has a major crush on me. however, i see him as a brother (and he has remarked that he still sees me as somebody that he can talk to). he and i have talked about how we're always going to stay friends, even if we have feelings for one another because we have a really good friendship. he also asked me if i'd like to go with him to a banquet next year as friends, and i said yes. my only concern is that now things are going to be awkward between us. how can i let him know that it's perfectly fine with me if he likes me, and how would you feel if you were in his position? (link)
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You can let him no by definatly just telling hi it seems like you guys can talk about everything together! which is awesome, if i were him i imagine being a little dissapointed that i like you and you not liking me back but i would remeber the promise or conversation we had about always staying good friends even though one of us liked each other because we were better that way! so there ya go Go for it!
hope i helped
Tawny
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ok there is a guy i like a whole lot who i flirt with but i dont know if he really likes me back or is just havin fun i want to tell him i like him and find out how he feels but i dont want us to have to act totally different just because i told him i like him.i always end up falling for guys to hard and to fast and i always get hurt when i fall for friends and everything always changes but i dont want to happen this time. im really worried if i say the wrong thing everything will change but if he feels the same i want him to know how i feel?!?! im so confused right now!! someone please help!! i rate well! (link)
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I think you should confront him and tell him how you feel im sure everything willbe fine, although about the falling to hard and fast thing try not to get your hopes up to high set low standards ang gradually work up that ways you wont be to hurt next time also guys usually like to be confronted and told so i would definatly tell him but even if he doesntlike you then just tell him that you still want to be friends but dont want that awkwardness and ask him if he could just froget the whole thing if not then i also agree with the person above it just simply wasnt mean to be
hope i helped
-Tawny
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i was 132 august this summer i am 160. ive never been this big ever and i feel so disgusting and have been crying the last 2 weeks. ive never had roles, ive never felt so unhappy. i know if gaiend this from not being energetic and being depressed but i need to lose weight fast. like alot i dont care if its not so healthy but i need to lose at least 20 by june, ive been trying hydroxycut but seriously i cant feel anything. help me, its a must i lose 20 by then
please help, i really dont know what to do with myself=( (link)
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To tell you the truth im not very skinny either.. i weigh about 150 and im pretty dissapointed with myself nothing i have done has worked and i would advise you to eat nothing but veggies and fruits for a while and water and maybe try out curves for women i am 15/f so ya no its pretty bad..i no i wish there was a way that i knew of to lose weight that fast but i really dont no what to tell you becasue losing weight takes alot of time.. so i would just keep excersing and eating fruits and veggies thats the fastest way i can think of but make sure when you wokr out dont be lazy if this is what you really want you have to work for it
hope i helped
-Tawny
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20/F.
So.
I have kind of a unique situation on my hands.
I’ve always thought that people who looked to the internet to find love were pathetic. However, I think it may be happening to me.
I’m not really sure how this happened but two years ago I started talking to this guy on the internet. I didn't think much of it at first as we would only have short, uninteresting conversations and he lives 30 hours away from me.
However, for the past seven months, we’ve been talking at least once a day. We’ve never met, but we can talk for hours about nothing. We have a really great connection and he is probably one of the sweetest guys I’ve ever talked to.
He sent me flowers on valentines day and if I’m not online when he’s about to go to bed, he’ll call me just to say goodnight. For the past month or so he’s even been saying “I love you”, and recently I’ve found myself saying it back.
I know this may seem weird to some of you, but I really like this guy. A lot. We’ve seen each other on web cam many times, so I know he’s actually who he says he is.
Sometime this summer, I’m going to visit my cousin and he happens to live within two hours from her house. We plan on meeting then to see where we stand after we can physically see each other. We’ve talked about this a lot and we both would like to further our ‘relationship’.
My only problem with this entire situation is that I’m slightly hesitant to meet him. Not because I’m worried about the risks that come with meeting people from the internet, but because I find that our ‘relationship’ is moving too fast. He has the next year planned out for us, as far as visits and whatnot, and we haven’t even met yet! Every time I try to tell him that we should maybe meet first before we start planning when we can see each other again, he gets defensive and accuses me of not believing that we’ll like each other. He makes me feel guilty about it because even though I see myself as realistic, he sees me as doubtful.
Oh, and . . .
Please don’t preach to me about being wary of meeting people from the internet. I’m old enough to make my own decisions, don’t bother trying to change my mind. I know there are risks, but I trust him completely. However, just to be safe, we both plan on having someone else there with us when we meet for the first time. (link)
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As long as you no for sure its safe go for it but ONLY if you no its safe which im sure you do, uhmm he seems like a prefect match although you should confront him on his defensive ness just so you guys have a completely awesome start when you meet..but make sure that this is really what you want to do.
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theres this boy and i like him and i want to talk to him but dont know what to talk about what should i talk about to him???? I rate 5's (link)
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Idk if i may be much of a help but i totally have the same problem..and it sucks becasue we have dead silences..but i found out one thing that wokrs it to find something bot of you have in common..hmm does he like to 2-wheel? every guy does.. hmm snowboarding ..try sports skaeboarding guitar? hobbies maybe if he doe splay guitar just to spend time with him you could ask if he could teach you? and if he's shy also just keep bringing up things and ask him how his lifes going if he says nothing joke about it and tell him "Oh come on you have nothing going on in your life?" something like that or if you guys get an awkward silence..dont be nervous and say it out loud like a joke be like" wow this is awkward" and then you guys will end up laughing so yea just be yourself and try not to be nervous
hope i helped
-Tawny
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There is this girl i like at school and im not sure if she lkes me back i've asked her out twice and on the second time i asked her she said "...errr well not right now sorry" what is that supposed to mean plz help i rate 5s. btw this question would be better off answered by a girl (link)
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Girls arent very blunt about these things...i no this is difficult but she is saying she doesnt like you right now, and just wants to be friends, i think you shoudl do just that be a friend and take a look at some other girls maybe youll find someone new try not to stay on her...and maybe down the road you guys will be good enough friends to where she will like you but right now definalty take a look at other girls =P
-Tawny
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my boyfriend proposed to me last week... and i want to say yes ... but something doesnt seem right...
Like there are times when if we dissagree on a subject he will yell and scream ... even if he's completley wrong ...
Hes alaways accusing me of being unfaithful... and I never would do anything like that ...
if i don't want to have sex somehow he always guilts me into it ...
and he's even hit me a few times ...
I just want to know how i can bring these up to him without making him angry ... because i do love him ... im just sligltly bothered by these things ...
Katie (link)
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You are 17!! dont throw your life away you have colledge to go to! i would certainly say No..i no this sounds crazy to you but he doesnt treat you right at all he pressures you into sex he hits you thats abuse and later in life you will have huge problems with this guy, he is making you feel bad about yourself so you can do whatever he wants like your his slave and i no you love him and it hurts but i would seriously find another guy..who nows im not saying this will happen but if you were to get pregnant and married and you decide you dont like him becasue he hits you then its gonna hard to divorce with all the money problems you will have plus you really should go to school..im sure your a beautiful, smart, sweet, caring girl who definalty doesnt deserve this. you are only 17 dont follow what he wants for you because you think you love him and you may..but do what you want. acheive your life dreams and goals its all right in front of you all you have to do is walk away from the one whos making it all worse..i no that this is difficult but i strongly reccomend that!!
please listen to this advice for you!
love Tawny
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ok, so i want to know how i can a better tan without going to a tanning salon. i've been getting tanner doing my school sports but its starting to turn into sunburn (even when i put sunscreen on) and it feels like its taking a long time. is there a lotion or something that will get me a fast, good looking tan? i perfer not to use make up.
thanks, i will rate. (link)
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Well i live in Oregon in usa and i have no clue where you do but theres this really good lotion called Miami Slice its a little spendy but its really good and it works extremly well plus using that and being in the sun dhould make you pretty tan and nice =P haha and if you cant find it then i would say go to a tanning salon and ask the person that works there about the tanning lotions they have and ones that will help you and they will give you one..oh and Miami slice is found at tanning salons i never found it at a local freddies
hope i helped
Tawny
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well im having boy trouble... and the thing is its the third year i had a crush on him and never done anything about it we flirted ALOT like he use to hit me n i use to hit him (yea kindergarden stuff)and then wen we seen each other in the hallway we use to look into each others eyes and just stare till one of us bumpz into sumthin or something/someone interrupts.... but then this year its changed my best friend got his number "4 me" but it was really 4 her b/c she used it all the time.... but then she started likeing him and it hurted me cuz basicaly everyday she use to talk about him 2 me and it really hurted me and him use to talk just a little bit and then it all changed we stoped talking wen i see him i still look @ him n its like he looks right past me and this year i found out he use to like me and theres a chance that he still prob does because today i was walking to class n i see him and he said hold up hold up hold up and he walks torwadz me n says hey wats up i dont answer him because kno he wants to talk to me after i been invisible to him and he touches me and i get butterflyz n i look in his eyez and then i walk away....kno i find out that my bestfriends because is talking to him and i dont like it because i think i really like him... and not to sound mean or nothing but her because isnt all that pretty but maybe im just jelous basicaly im asking what should i do should i leave him alone, try and talk to him like he tryed today or what?
thank you 4reading this i kno its long srry.... (link)
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Hmm well maybe you waited a little too long and now someone else has moved in by now..but you can still get him..so when he talks to you id say go fro it ya no start talking to him usually girls have to do everything, you should start up the whole flirting ordeal if you can. I no ive been repetative but you really need to talk to him because hes gonna slip right past you and it may be too late but do something about it now while you can..its ohkay everyone gets a little jelous actually alot of jelous especially me sometimes..
hope i helped a little -Tawny
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how much do nose jobs cost, and what is the youngest age you can get them? say 14? (link)
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Usually they are extremely expensive..but you shouldnt change yourself the way your nose looks because in the long run your face will look fake and wrinkly and not good and youll have yo keep getting them and getting them then youll end up like michael jackson..so i would really advise you not to..
Tawny
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I know everyone gets sick of these guy questions, but I'm in desperate need of help here.
Anyway, I like this guy. He's wonderful. We're becoming kinda-sorta friends. I've got a few dilemmas here, though.
Number one? He's shy and quiet by nature. I never know if he wants to talk to me, but is too shy... or if he doesn't want to talk to me at all. We don't get many chances to talk to begin with as he is in none of my classes. I've hung out with him before, so we do know each other. I get to talk to him online, usually (on AIM or Myspace). And he won't start conversations with me then! I'm on his top 8 (he has a few hundred friends), and I know it sounds dorky, but I thought I'd throw it in.
My other problem? I'm jealous of a friend of ours (who's a girl) because I think he might like her. She has the advantage, as she is actually in classes with him and has been friends with him longer. She would never go out with him, because she has a bf and she wouldn't ever do that to me (and she doesn't like him that way).
I was thinking about telling him, but I don't know... any advice? Also, what should I do about my jealousy? Thanks!
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Wow this has definatly me tied into it all over i feel the exact same way, uhmm i really dont no what to tell you because i have pretty much the same problem..but maybe it would comfort you becasue i no how you feel, heres maybe a hint of advice...just keepy talking to him because maybe he is shy but in case hes not and this happens what could be the worst that happens? maybe he wont like you but at least you'll be able to find out and get over him..but hey not saying that will happen this can totally go the other way and from the way things look im sure they will so just keep talking!!
hope i helped a little..maybe you even helped me! haha
Tawny
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So, of course, I like this boy. Let's call him..Jack. Okay so I like Jack. And well we're friends and all. I think my friend might be asking him if he likes me or soemthing, but normally when friends ask the buy always you know, they're too embarassed and such, and normally won't answer. I was just wondering if it'd be better for me and him if I asked. If so, what should I say? (link)
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WEll if you think that would be alot better fro you guys..then go for it! ask him tell him your feelings just get it out there and try not to be nervous if it goes as planned you'll wind up one happy camper! haha hopefully, if not theres plenty of other guys out there im sure one will come your way soon..but if ya dont get it out now its gonna kill ya to no.. hope i helped!
Tawny
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ok so.. theres this school dance tm which i kinda told my friend "Lucy" that i would go to. but i don't want to go anymoree. it's going to be so lame, no one's going and she'll just be w/ this other girl the whole time anyway. the reason she wanted to go was bc of this guy, and now he's prob not even giong. the same night is this dance at an all boys school that would be SO much more fun to go to (if you have tickets) or i would just rather hang outt. the dance is going to suck though i think - what should i say to lucy? should i just suck it up and go (would it be to mean for me not to)? or should i tell her ... ? thanks ill rate 5s. (link)
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Well i would say do what you think you would be happier doing...unless this is some huge for your best friend and she needs you then maybe you should consider going for her its only one night it cantbe that bad, but if its nothing to her and she barely cares if you go or not..do something fun with your night even if it is just sitting at home watching movies and eating popcorn:)
Tawny
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I think I may have a yeast infection, but it's a little embarrassing for me because I'm 15 and I live with my dad and brother, and I don't want to tell them because it's embarrassing.
I looked up symptoms online and I actually think I've had the infection for a long time because it's been going on for a very long time, like two years. Is that possible? And what happens if it goes untreated for that long? (link)
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Oh my gosh!! this is like De Ja Vue! ohkay so this is a little embarrasing but wutever..i thought i had a yeast infection because one of my lobes (lips) in my vagina isreally streched out and swollen and i thought it was a yeast infection and i had had it for about 2 years and i didnt tell anyone but finally i told my sister and she said it was really weird but she had one too just not as bad as mine im sure everyone has one if thats your case..idk if mines different but anyways..i would tell someone just to be safe about it that is a girl though..haha guys just dont understand things like that...btw i also looked things up in a medical book and internet and it lead me to all the wrong places i was so scared but i didnt want to tell anyone cuz it was embarrasing but that what you have to do in order for some real help
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Lately I've been hearing voices and seeing things that aren't actually there. I don't want to tell anybody because they'll think I'm crazy.
And also my kitchen timer's been talking to me.
This isn't a joke, I know it sounds like it is, but it isn't. I'm really scared about this.
-Possibly Crazy? (link)
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Wow that sounds a little awkward..i would say that you should really tell your parents and talk to a doctor, or go to a school counsilor if nobody will listen because im sure they have dealt with all this before and they will put you on some medication that could really help stop all of this...also its part of adolesence so im sure its just a phaze that your going through and that it will be gone in no time, but you really need to tell someone close to you..good luck!
Tawny
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Okay, this is really really embarrassing but...I can't think of what else to do but ask it on here...because it's anonymous.
I have these little bumps around my nipples, in the areola kind of, and I was wondering if that was normal...? I'm only 16, so I don't think it would be breast cancer lumps or anything like that... (link)
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Haha no Worries they are perfectly normal! lol i no you heard that a million times..but just so i can make you a little more secure about it..
tawny
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can you have a miscarrige cause the baby does not get enough food? also what are some reasons miscarriges can happen plez help only answer if you know for sure plez thanx alot (link)
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Miscarriages may happen if the mother is involved with drugs or alchol or something that mayb kill the baby, it may happen because of illness or horomones or just if they dont treat there baby healthy
-Tawny
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When I rate people, I generally give all 5s, maybe a 4 or 2, and a 1 if someone is completely rude or didnt answer the question. Well..Let's say I ask a question and I get 5 answers. One of them is horrible, so it gets a 1 rating. The second is okay but kinda bad, so a 3 or 4. The next 2 answered the question and werent jerks, but the 5th wrote a 5 paragraph answer and included links to websites and personal experiences, etc. Should I rate the the 3rd and 4th people 5's like the 5th person, or should I give them fours because there was a better answer?
NOTE--Im rating all fives on this question no matter what (link)
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Well i think whoever gives you someting helpful you can add to your problem then id give them all a five i mean then everyone is happy...then it works out really well but i think everyone should get a five if they give you something you can use...
hope i helped!
-Tawny
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My ex called today to say “happy easter”. We dated for 4 months, he dumped me, and it’s been 3 months since the breakup. We go to school together, have lockers next to each other, and have the same friends, but somehow we’ve managed to ignore each other. We were at the same small party last night, and he smiled at me a few times across the room, but I thought it was just coincidence. Why did he call? He has a new gf, but I think they might have broken up. Any insights into what he might be thinking or trying to do would be much appreciated. (link)
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I think he may just want to befriends i think you should watch out for any more hints that he likes you if you really want to no after you think he might if this happens, It depends on how he made you feel when you broke up did he break your heart? or was it like okay i guess thats how its gonna be like you didnt really care? if its number 1 then id say dont go back out for a dickwad like that who dumped you fro another girl, if its number two maybe the relationship wasnt very alive so he thought he'd try another girl who obviously didnt make him happy so he realized he had it good to begin with..then yea i guess id go back fro him...but its all up to you dont let him mistreat you
-Tawny
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