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Hey! Whats up? Well here are some random facts about me so you can have an idea of who I am..

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- Marylin Manson scares the hell out of me.
- I'm obsessed with my voice and height.
- My fav perfume is Shalimar from Guerlain.
- I HATE shots!... its a fobia.
- I've never broken a bone.
- I used to live in Colombia.
- I'm from Spain.

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"the present's just a pleasent interruption to the past"
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Member Since: July 28, 2004
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Last Update: August 2, 2004
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Is it ok to go out with someone two years younger than you? (link)
It depends, If you are a girl you need to remember that we mature first and the guys of our age we find the inmature so imagine a guy 2 years younger! If you like him and things are between you guys are great, date him and see if things work out.! good luck.


hey how do u like let a guy know u wanna getta know him better (link)
hehe you are so cute. People will probably tell you -just tell him!- but some of us don't have the guts to tell the guy we like something like that lol! so just flirt with him and maybe you can tell one of his friends that you would like to get to know him better and that you are interested... hope it helps!


anybody ever heard of teenagers going on blind dates to do something fun?? (link)
I went on a blind date once, my best friends fixed it. But had talked to him by msn , anyways we are still going out! so it was great. if you want someone to set you up on a blind date, ask someone you really trust.


I'm friends with this one guy and I like him alot. I've heard that he used to like me too, but I'm not exactly sure if it's true. he is the only guy I've ever felt this way about, and I know it sounds stupid of me to say that because we are only 14. In the past, he has hurt me bad emotionally and once physically. But now, everything between us it great we talk all the time I just don't know if I should tell him how I feel, just forget about him, or keep it a secret. Me and him are like best friends.. I don't want to screw up our friendship..

xOx* kandiie (link)
If he hurt you in the past maybe you should be careful. You guys are friends that a great sign, now just flirt with him, be natural. If you guys are close you can ask him if the 'rumors' were true (that he liked you in the past)?


15 female

theres this guy i like alot and he asked me out today (like 1 in the morning type deal)...he already meet the parents but my mom and dad said his to old...he jst turned 18 today...and ill be 16 in dec...my parents don't know where dating i haven't told them yet...and i kind of don't want to right know bC they told me a couple days agao that he was to old...and i wanna know wat can i do to get my parents to apporve of him so me and him can go out together...w/ out me haveing to sneak behind my parents back bout it!??

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You have to prove your parents that you are mature enough to date older guys. Tell them that you really like this guy and you are trying to be honest and open about it, because you trust them enought to talk to them about it rather than to sneak behind their backs.. good luck~!


15 female

i got my 1st GOOD hicky from my best friend (which is a girl) but we are really close...we were on the way to someones house w/ her and her boyfriend and she was showing me the hickys' that her boyfriend gave her and i was like hey i want a hicky!! and she gave me one...is that wrong for ur best friend to give u a hicky!!??

*I AM NO BI!* (link)
It is not wrong but wouldn't it be better if your 1st hicky was given it to you by you boyfriend? when someone kisses your neck for a while a hicky comes out but there is so much more than that. Its so much better when its your boyfriend and you love him and its natural.


I really like this guy. I like to flirt with him and stuff all the time. I think that if I told him how I feel, we would be going out. The problem is, it's my B/f's ex! I don't know how she would feel! Should I tell him I like him or what? (link)
Well by experience what you should do is talk to your best friend about it. first tell her that you really like this guy but you care so much about her and thats why you are talking to her 1st. You don't need to ask for her permission just talk to her about your feelings and hers.


I am 16, been on varsity football since my freshman year, im going to be a sophomore, im not really worried about having a girlfriend, sometimes i just wish i had one, do you girls like to get close with a guy before you date them, as in like a best friend relationship, or do you like to meet guys and find something new about him day in and day out....?? i dont no anymore lol (link)
Well I dated this guy for 7 months and we were bestfriends first, it was nice for a while but it was like 90% friend and 10% boyfriend and i got a bit bored. now i'm in a relationship that is like 70% boyfriend 30% fiends.. to be honest we just wish it would be 50-50.. get to know him but not in the 'friend zone' ..hope it helped


Hey (f/15), i've dated the same boy for the past 2 years. It's been on and off though. He kept breaking up with me and i kept letting him back, thinking he'd change. our last break up was at the begining of summer and we havent talked since. He called me the other night and we talked for 3 hours. We've never talked like that before, we actually talked about things that matter, and now he is calling me every night. We talk about why our relationships never worked in the past, and how he was an awful boyfriend to me, but now he tells me that that he wants a girlfriend like me. My question is I might be feeling somthing for him again. Should i just keep it quite or should i tell him since we are friends now?
-Confused Friends (link)
I think you just have to take things slow.. just because he wants to get back doesn´t mean just have to.. you like him right? so just take your time, go at your own pace. Tell him you too have feelings for him but you want to take things slower this time.


ok, im a 12 year old girk and ive neva officially gone out with some1. well, this nice guy, whoz a grade older than me asked me out. well, i had known him 4 awhile and i thot he seemed like a great guy. well, i said yes, partly becauz i just wanted a boyfriend. now im not sure if i shud continue goin out with him. i mean, and i goin out with him 4 the wrong reasons. i just dont no. i think i shud continue goin out with him but wont other people in my grade think im weird if im goin out with an 8th grader? well, i dunno if i shud break up with him or just give it a try.... HELP!!! he also always acts shy around me, i try 2 get him 2 loosen up but he still acts weird. THANZ I RATE!!! *****:) (link)
He seems nice but you are right, you are dating him for the wrong reasons. If you like him give it a try! maybe try as friends and take things slower. He probably acts shy around you because he likes you ! lol .. good luck ..


How do I get a popular girl to like me, she flirts with me all the time, but claims she doesnt like me, what should I do? (link)
Popular girls are just like regular girls lol.. just act normal don't try to impress her, she is so used to it that she probably just wants a regular guy to act natural around .. Don't act like you are around her just because she is 'popular' and don´t act 'cool' lol .. hope it works!




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