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ok so after you've given your life to him, and asked for forgivness, and decided to live your life for him, WHERE DO YOU GO? what do you do? how do you start living your new life? im confused :S

pray !! (try to pray for others more that yourself)
if you haven't already go to confession
be kind to others try not to lie or swear and help people in need !!
go to church !!
hope this helps !!
x3 kaylee

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Hi, can anyone help me, I'm turning 16 in a few months and I've never even been on a date!
I feel so pathetic, no boys ever even smiled at me!
I have loads of friends (mostly girls) and they tell
me I'm pretty, but I think they just feel sorry for me. Does anyone have any advice (I'm a girl by the way) even if I do get a boyfriend now, he'd probably be into much more serious stuff than I'm ready for.

well mayb try to flirt with guyz more.....or maybe its just because the guys your around are so used to you like try to meet people in different grades or schools if you're pretty they will like you would be helpful if you would show a picture of you like do u have a myspace or anything ?? cuz i can tell you if you're pretty and i bet you are
if you're friends just bring stuff up and say you look pretty out of knowhere then you defiately are. But if you're asking them am i pretty than they might lie but it sounds to me that they are serious.
hope this helps !!
x3 kaylee

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Ok so heres the deal. lately i have been feeling well out of it? idk but like suddenly things that happened five minutes ago seem very far away. I feel like my memory is going even though I remember everything ( or so everyone says ) I am going to recieve a neurological exam but my doctors don't think there is anything physically wrong with me. I have also been seeing a therapist and am on a new pill for anxiety but the problem isn't going away. am I just paranoid or is there really something there? i went through this thing a couple of months ago where I was getting heart pains and was convinced I was having a heart attack but that disappeared as randomly as it came. will I ever feel more like myself?

sounds to me like ur taking a tiny problem and muiltiplying. There probably isnt anything wrong with you, but you think there is which is causing this.
hope this helps !!
x3 kaylee

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So I just turned 14 and I want to have a party for my birthday. Please no more than 1500 dollars. It can me anything some where I can go for a like mini-vacation with them, or something at home. Anything. With boys & girls, or just girls. Just please give me some good ideas thanks.

Hey --
for my 17th birthday at the beginning of this year i rented out a big fire hall which was only like 200 dollars. (some are more expensive than others.)They are god because they hold a lot of people and they are not that expensive. Then i got a DJ which are only like 50 bucks an hour (some are more or less expensive than that)and i invited my whole grade and everyone absolutely LOVED it. So with all that and food and stuff the most it could cost would be 500 dollars so that's $1,000 less than you said your total cost could be !!
hope this helps !!
x3 kaylee

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i have a huge problem...i am going out with this guy who is really nice but i have this HUGE MEGA load of a problem i like him but i like someone else more although the other person i like is (his brother) and i can't break up with him because THE BIGGEST COUPLE HOLIDAY is NEXT WEEK!!! please help

hey
i think you should give him a chance. If you want to have a boy friend on valentine's day i would keep the guy you have now. BUT MAKE SURE U REMEMBER that if you want to still be going out with him on valentine's day then MAKE SURE that u wait AT LEAST wait a week before breaking up with him because if you do not wait and imediately break up with him people would say she just kept going out with him to get a valentine's day present and you definately do not want people saying that. But if you really don't like him and really want to break up with him and you can't wait a week after valentine's day then break up with him as soon as possible.
hope this helps !!
x3 kaylee

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I'm 13 & so is my boyfriend Logan*. Were both in 8th grade except we go to different schools. We hangout alot & stuff but here's the thing. He has this ex-girlfriend named Kelsey and everytime we're somewhere and she's there too he always trys to like hide from her & not be seen with me and he says it's because his brother still dates her older cousin and he doesn't want to make things weird for him. But I'm not sure. The other night we were at a basketball game together and he did EVERYTHING he could not to let her see us. I just don't understand it. And he has another ex-girlfriend named Blair that he goes to school with and he ALWAYS talks about her to me. Like "let me tell you what Blair did today at school.." or "you'll never believe what Blair said today.." or "oh my god it was so funny today cause Blair.." and just all kinds of stuff like that. I'm not sure what to do. And I want to say something to him because I DON'T like listening to stuff about them at all but I don't want it to seem like I'm mad even though I kinda am. Ughh. I'm just confused. Someone hellpppppp.

hey --
well if he is doing all he can to avoid this Kelsey girl then you know definately that he is not using you to make her jealous so thats good.....but he could be cheating. But if she knows that you are going out with him than I'm 99.9% sure that he's not cheating.....BUT if u and her go to two different school than maybe......but YOU should know him well enough to know if he's the kind of guy that would do that......or idk maybe he is embarrased just seeing her because they are broken up. Or mayb she said somthing about you behind your back that made him want to look like he's not seeing you. But personally i think you should make a point to let her see you with him when she's around -- try to hold his hand or do somthing like that when you see her. If he's cheating than she prpbably wouldnt that he's seeing you-- Yeah you should definately try to do everything in your power to make sure she sees you with him, and maybe if you do not want to do that ask him about it and if he says somthing that sounds like a lie than that's not good. The reason you said that he said that he tries to avoid her with you -- that his brother still dates her older cousin -- yeah that sounds like a lame excuse to me but you of all people should know if he's lying because your his girl !! -- as for this blair girl -- I wouldn't worry about her because maybe he is just trying to make conversation. BUT if he continuously keeps talking about her day and night then you should say somthing about it. Good Luck !!
hope this helps !!
x3 kaylee

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Okay, first off I will give you some details about me. I am a Senior and 18. Now usually I like guys my age or older but since last year when I was a Junior I kept notcing this cute guy checking me out. His locker was in the 8th grade hallway but I didn't think anything of it. He looked older than an 8th grader and had the most amazing blue eyes and smile I had ever seen. Everyday when I walked to class, we would catch eachother looking at one another. It was funny. He would look at me, and then I'd look at him. He would look down and so would I, and then we both would look up at the same time again and smile and then he shyly would turn away. Well this year I noticed his locker was in the freshman hallway, so I asked around about his name and what grade he was in. Turns out he is a freshman and he is only 15, but turning 16 soon. I just turned 18 and it is so weird to me that I can't let this guy go. He is just so adorably cute and I can't get over it. He seems really outgoing and I am very outgoing, but when we are near eachother, we get incredibly shy. Both of us. This isn't like me at all. Well at our school we can get guys/girls stuff for Valentine's Day. I bought a pink note (meaning secret admirer) and wrote a little poem on it. It said, "I've seen you around, You're very cute, but I can't seem to let you know what I want to do. So if you can figure out who wrote this to you, then write me a note and tell me if you feel the same way I do. Happy Valentine's Day." The notes get sent out on Valentines Day. Now there is no way that he can find out I wrote this, but I am nervous that if he finds out its me he might not say anything. I just want to talk to him and break the ice. Because we both abviously like eachother because we both make eye contact and stop talking to who we are talking to when we see eachother in the halls. Any other ideas about what I should do to break the ice. He recently added me on Myspace, which I had no idea how he found me, so I guess he had been searching me :) but he never wrote me anything, and I am too scared to send him a message or comment on his page. Any ideas?

heyy your in luck because that's the way me and my boyfriend were before we got together. Well you see I'm older then him and he went out with one of my friends she's in his grade. That's how i met him. My first step was to BECOME GOOD FREINDS WITH HIM !! Then he asked me out and i was like shocked and so happy but then he broke up with me. This was awhile before we got back together. Then when i would see him in the halls at school he would stare and me and i would stare at him as we walked past each other. I purposly tried to walk past him or a class he was in to make him look at me. (i asked around to find out what classes he was in this is a good idea to find out his schedule.)Then i broke the ice one day imed him. I had not imed him in so long and i was scared. But then we started a convo and he asked me out again !! So you have to break the ice because it seems to me that this guy is to shy to break the ice.
i think that you should send him a comment on mayspace. Like hey whats up or somthing. Or even when you see him at school try saying hey or somthing. Then there's a pretty good chance he will start talking to you. And if you comment him on myspace im sure he will comment you back !! And im pretty sure if he likes you this will give him the courage to ask you out.

hope this helps !!
x3 kaylee

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I really want to lose weight but i'm just way too lazy to do anything and i don't know if i could really commit if i start. So how do i get my lazy butt of this computer chair and start toning up? And does anyone have some exercise tips like say do 10 push ups today and add 10 more the next day? Thanks!

Hey.
I'm a runner and believe me when i started i never felt better in my life. You lose wight you become very fit !! AND if you run past guyz they will stare at you. Guyz love in shape girlz !! Running is a quick fast way to lose wight and even if you have to walk some its better then sitting in a computer chair doing nothing !! If you can't seem to run start out with a little area and then start going father and longer. Before you know it you'll lose weight like crazy and be able to run farther and longer which makes you lose even MORE weight. So get up try it !! Trust me it works.
hope this helps !!
x3 kaylee

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ok! im moving at the end of the mounth and i really like this guy that i have been goin out with for 2 years off and on i want to get back together but im moveing and this could really be bad! i really like him alot but im afraid not to ask him b/c of the moveing thing and im afraid of him saying no b/c of the moving thing! any help will be greatfully appreciated.

hey i hear ya. I moved a while ago while still in a relationship. And here's the way i saw it. I really liked my boyfriend so i didn't break up with him right away. When i started to meet new guyz and i never rarely saw him i broke up with him. Shortly after that i found out that he was cheating on me !! So that's the problem if you keep up the relationship with him he might cheat. But if you really like him then stay with him !! But make sure you can trust him to be faithful if your not around.
hope this helps !!
x3 kaylee

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What can i do to make my room more comfterble so I can make myself happier (nothing that costs alot of money)

well it depends what you like !! If you like certain bands or singers put up posters !! Put up pictures of funny times with you and your friends !! maybe try painting your room a relaxing color. Your room should reflect your style whether its sports dancing music or any hobbies so do what you think will be best for you.
Hope this helps !!
x3 kaylee

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as you all know valentines day is coming up and i have been goin out with my boyfriend since christmas day....i'm havin alot of trouble thinking of a present to buy him....someone told me he's buying me jewellery but i have no clue what to get him.. i dnt know wat jewellery he likes but i no he loves his mountain biking and his bikes... so if anyone has some idea's of what i could get him please tell me!

heyy well even if he loves biking i dont you should get him something for biking...at least NOT for valentine's day !! if he's buying you jewlery then its probably kinda expensive unless he buys really cheap stuff. If you have been going out with him since christmas then u should know his style and what he would probably get you...i would recommend cologne mayb a shirt from his favorite store...mayb since he loves biking get him a gift card to a store that has biking stuff...jsut dont buy the biking stuff yourself !! Gift card are always good because he can pick out w/e he wants !! hope this helps !!

x3 kaylee

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what do you get a guy you've been dating for about a month and have so far only made out with for valentines day?
heres whats a no:
-flowers
-teddy bear
-chocolates
-heart shaped chocolates

i would like an original idea...
k thanks

well you should try to find out how much he's spending on you or what he bought you (i personally get my friends to ask him and it always works=P) but if u can't find out i would buy him something like cologne mayb somthing from his favorite store ask him where he shops? just dnt't buy anything to expesive unless your totally in love wit him !! Itunes cards are good ideas 2 or som kind of gift card to mayb his favorite store. Hope this helps
x33 kaylee

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