My name is Jessica a.k.a. Gessyka
I love to talk on AIM online, and I love to hang out with friends. I teach myself how to play the keyboard and on it I can play "Fur Elise", "Heart and Soul" with both hands, and a few other songs. My birthday is March 31 1990.
I love to write, draw, play video games. Im not MUCH a tom boy but I like a lot of things that boys like (like skateboarding, video games, hockey, etc.)
I like to help people out very much and I'll help you out as much as I can if you need advice.
I've been through a lot of things, and I'm only 14. Some people think I have the perfect life but in reality, I DO have a lot of problems...
I've had people who passed away, crying all the time, people have told me to kill myself (sluts), I have seen people talk about suicide...I know some people who tried killing themselves, so many things that I'd rather not discuss that are pretty horrible, and a lot of other things now that are on my mind...good and bad and...*cough* puberty too...=(
Oh and I also believe in psychics, spirits (only good) and I'm a Christian Catholic.
MY BFF/Cousin IS RACHAEL! Button Rachael (lol)
Oh and I have a goofy sense of humor but if it's time to get serious, I get right down to it.
E-mail: truevalue53@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA, CT
Occupation: School, babysit (once in a while)
Age: 14
AIM: Infinityo0o (or) Met3oralp
Member Since: November 10, 2003
Answers: 385
Last Update: February 27, 2005
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It's those kind of things you only hear about in movies.. I've always been gah gah about my neighbor(who i've known since i was three) named Jared. He gave me my first kiss and he's leaving high school this yr. Which im gonna break down when he's gone! I've told him before i care about him, and he just doesn't want to ruin our friendship, some peole i know think were going to get married after college but the way its going i just can't see it! i mean i would anyday lose my virginity to him, thats how strong my love is for him. (i'm a type a girl who's waiting for marriage usually) Is there ANYTHING i could do to make him see he cares too? Cuz i know he does. Or am i just suppose to let go... plz share your thoughts on my story! Thank you SO much! (link)
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Awww...
Don't let him go.
If he likes you too then tell him how you feel. That's all I have to say. Tell him that he wouldnt know if it would ruin the friendship if he doesn't give it a chance...then kiss him. (okay, okay you may not want to go that far)...but if you want to you should...after all, he's kissed you before...
TIMES RUNNING OUT!...go get him =)
*pushes you towards him*
good luck...oh wait you probably dont need it....
_-*Gessyka
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No rude comments like the last time, but heres my situation. my bf had to get tested for a sperm count and it turns out that he has a low sperm count or is possibly infertile. We had sex a few days ago and while we were, his condom broke. He didnt cum yet though and he pulled right out and put on a new one. My question is, after hearing about everything related to this. Do you think theres a chance I could be pregnant? All info would help or anyone ever being in the 'broken condom' situation. Thanx. (link)
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There's always a chance.
-Gessyka
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ok i cant handle being told "I love you" by anyone or like people that just say luv ya chick bye bye because i know theyre lying i mean i always think theyre lying or if someone tells me im beautiful i automatically think theyre lying and i dont know why and everytime guys ask me out i say no because i dont want them to like me or love me or w/e and i dont know why whats wrong with me btw im 14/f if that does anything helpful but im so confused why cant i handle it (link)
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That's how I am too...
And if people tell me I'm beautiful or they like my smile or hair or something I always have to find SOMETHING wrong with me to prove thiem wrong...and I can't just take a compliment. (which sucks...and I hate it but it's how I am)...
And that's partly why I broke up with my boyfriend Brian because I was afraid to get too close to anyone...and he told me he loves me still (now that were broken up)...but I don't know what I'm going to do about myself because if I broke up with Brian because of that reason whose to say that I won't do that with other guys?
I don't know how to answer this question seeing how I'm the same way...but next guy who asks you out and you find an interest in...give him a chance and get to know him. I know that's what you're scared about...but I'm almost 15 and I'm the same way.
All I can say is take compliments as they come and just smile and say thank you and then if you feel comfortable enough after they compliment you, compliment them because it may make you feel a little better.
Trust me though...I'm just like you.
Next boy that comes your way who likes you...give him a chance if you feel comfortable.
Hope I helped.
*-_Gessyka_-*
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i have hair down there. and me and my bf are ready for sex. he knows i have it down there but should i shave it??? (link)
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I agree with PrincessPhoebe...you should seriously not be having sex at all if you don't even know what to do about pubic hair...
So that's my answer. (and I don't mean that to be harsh).
-Gessyka
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I have blondish- brownish hair and green eyes. I am pretty skinny and I am like five foot one. I feel like I need a new look- any ideas wuld be greatly appreciated!! (link)
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You should layer your hair...even though I haven't seen a picture of you before you explained how you look so that would probably look very gorgeous if you were to layer your hair.
Hope I helped. =)
-Gessyka
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Well ok, today both of my pointer fingers were really red at the tip and hurt really bad. I walk to school in the morning and I do wear gloves, but for some reason today my two pointer fingers were really red and warm. Any ideas of what it may be?? (link)
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Hmm...
It's probably just the cold or something.
I'm goign by a loing shot here but you you play an instrument? Because guitar can do that to you too...although it would be weird just having only your index fingers red.
It's probably just the cold though so you most-likely don't need to worry.
-Gessyka
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My period is really weird- it comes every 2 to 3 months, lasts for ages (around 10 days), is excruciatingly painful and has a VERY heavy flow. Is there something wrong with me? Please help,
Zoinatrobe. (link)
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Hm...are you stressed? Because believe it or not that can happen to stressed people sometimes.
It's really hard to say...
If it does this next time then you should see a doctor.
Hope I helped. =/
Gessyka_-*
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I'm 15/f in highschool and I know this girl who is pregnant. This isn't about wether its right or wrong, but, she's 15 also, and in my grade. I've known her since 4th grade(just about). She just found out she was pregnant, and I'm on good terms with her and everything, but were not best friends. Y'know? I was thinking I should go up to her and tell her that if she needs anything, I'd be there for her. Should I? Would it be inappropiate? -Sarah (link)
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I think you shoudl definitely let her know you're there for her. There's not much else to say...but just if you're willing to support her you should let her know so she doesn't feel completely overwhelmed.
That's nice of you.
-Gessyka
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i am addicted to cutting my wrists and i know its bad but i just cant stop what should i do? im not going to go to a doctors because they just dont understand and i didnt tell my parents because they would think i was crazy (link)
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There's nothing any of us can tell you to do. You'll have to make that decision on your own. I cut myself and if it wasn't fro my family finding out I would probably still cut myself. It sucls becasue I really get the urge and sometimes and want to feel the pain of it and I just wanna do it, but I can't anymore or else I'll have to see a psychiatrist...which sucks because I know I'm not crazy. I know how you feel, don't worry. You're gonna have to find it withink yourself to stop if you really want to that bad...and, if you know other people who cut themselves or once did ask them for advice if you feel comfortable enough.
Good Luck. *hugs*
Jessie~
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can u still swim if you got like 5 stiches in your finger???????? (link)
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Nah...you shouldn't until they heal. Ask the doctor.
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i cut myself a lot just to make the pain go away and i told one person and they told me to tell my parent but i dont want to i wanna stop but i cant its just hard i need help can someone tell me wat to do please (link)
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I know how hard it is. I'm forced to stop cutting myself because my family now knows about it. You're just gonna have to force yourself, and channel your emotional pain so you WON'T want to feel phsyical pain. It's hard, but you'll be okay. If you really dont want anyone knowing about it, then you'll have to stop.
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i have a blood blister on my pinky toe, and it looks liek a little brown dot under my skin, how do i get rid of it? (link)
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ahhh! dude I have that on my thumb. I never knew what it was. I have no clue how to get rid of those stupid little things!
sorry. =/
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Well, ive been a cutter for about..1/2 a year now. And i cut on my wrist..(i was pissed) and i went out without my wrist band on, and i think my mom saw! what if she sends me away to a mental hospital!?
Please help!
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I'm a cutter too so I know it's hard, but you have to stop if you don't want to get taken away. Two of my friends have been taken away for that, and they're back now and fine and stuff. (They put in a mental hospital before I met them) but you have to stop because they said it was terrible. My family knows about me and they're giving me another chance, and if I don't stop then I have to see a psychiatrist. It sucks. Just please try stopping. You'll be okay. *hugs*
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alright, if it helps, im tara and im 14.
i've been cutting myself for some time now. always on my wrist and always in the same general area. whenever its a cold day i wear a jacket, and whenever its hot out i just wear bracelets. nobody has ever noticed or said anything. so last night i was laying in bed and i forgot to put on a jacket. my mom came in and saw my arm and said something like 'what's that?' .. i freaked out and pulled it away and said i was drawing.. and she asked why and i said i couldnt find any paper. she asked me if i wanted to talk about anything so i just yelled no and she left. i dont think she has even heard of people cutting themselves. so this morning i covered my wrist with coverup and a few braclets so that she'd think it really was drawings that had washed off. it was very akward and i tried to pretend nothing happened. all she said was 'is body art a new trend or something?' i dont know if she believes my excuse or not.. what do you guys think? and do you have any ideas of how i can cover these darn cuts up? mucho thanks in advance.
PS: oh and please dont tell me to stop cutting. im working on it, i promise. but its like cigarettes or drugs, you cant just stop. it takes time and effort.. =) (link)
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I know exactly what you mean, and just last night my family found out about my arms. I cut myself too. If I don't stop my mom said I have to see someone. I can't just stop, I know exactly what you mean...butI'm gonna have to stop, and it's really hard.
I don't knwo how you can cover up wtthese cuts except wearing long sleeves and a hoody...I don't really know what else to say. But good luck on stopping, and please wish me luck.
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i am 13/f & im not sure what masterbating is? can you tell me??? i think i masterbate but i dont know what it is? or fingering myself doesnt give me, much please what all can i do to help me, feel better? and give me orgasisms? i rub it too but that gets boring, what can i do other than that to make it feel good? please help & i rate high! (link)
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Um...what they said ^
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Here's my story though it's kind of embarressing... For about 2-3 years now, I have had this clear slime come out my yeah, and I don't think it's normal, but is it somthing I need to REALLY WORRY ABOUT? I mean is it normal... It's like I am constantly wet (though I am still a Virgin and I haven't been there yet) and I hate it...so I wear baby powder down there to keep it from smelling just in case it does... any advice..... (link)
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Did you have your period yet? You may be starting your first period...and even if you had your period yet that still happens sometimes...
It's called discharge...when you start to get that stuff you should start wearing a pad or something to prevent messiness down there...
Yep...I think you're definitely starting your first period...lol
Good Luck with that.
Hope I helped. =)
Gessyka
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Ok heres the problem.. my friend got her peroid in 5th grade.. so she gets it normally now.. but when she was supposed to get it this month she didnt.. She never had sex.. what could be the problem? (link)
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Aww it's nothing to worry about. When you first get your period the cycle is a little off...Like me, I've had my period for a year, and I just missed this months...it's really nothing to worry about...
But if you miss much more months, I'd tell someone just in case...
But...it's nothing to worry about, don't worry.
=) Gessyka
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hi. i'm a 16/f and when i masterbate, i think of girls. i look at pics of girls. not guys, girls. but i still like guys!! am i..gay? (link)
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No, probably not...don't worry about it. I mean, it's normal and maybe you're curious...
Just don't worry about it...
hOpe I helped.
Gessyka~
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How do I meet my favorite celebrity? (link)
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I don't know...I really don't. Go to a concert if they're a singer and pray that they sign autographs at the end...or go to a movie premiere if you can...
I just recently met one of my all time singers...Gavin Degraw (sings the theme song to one tree hill) and dude it was so surreal...I really hope you get to meet your favorite celebrity...good luck with that...=)
Gessyka
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my aunt has breast cancer. shes like my 2nd mom. i love her so much and im so scared! someone help me (link)
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awww...I am so sorry, My aunt had breast cancer...
And my Grammy also has cancer (bone cancer)...I'm sorry but the only thing you can do is hope and leave the rest up to the doctors...don't worry...
I'll pray.
Good Luck *hugs*
Gessyka
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