heyness! Regina here! whats up everyone! lol well if ya gots n e ?'s you can always ask muah! lol well i love to shop g2 tha beach musq party dance phone i love hockey football volleyball i lyke soccer and tha list goes on lol well IM me er e-mail me er look @ mai Xanga! lyl xoxoxo
~Regina~
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I know this isnt exactly a 'friendship' question but my friend is in real trouble. *
Hes 16, his dad is a drunk, hes got a step mom, and brothers and sisters. Hes my ex boyfriend. He doesnt live in the same state as me but his dad beats him. He pukes all the time from it. Its horrible. He cant do anything about it bc everytime he tells someone his dad denys it and says he plays all these sports and he skateboards so he could have gotten them from somewhere else. His dad only beats on him and none of his other brothers and sisters. i dont know what to do but i mean i really want to help him and i really need to help him. he needs to get out of there fast. ive tried havin him go to the cops but his dad uses the same story. nothings. working. someone please help me! i really want to help him out but i dont know how :// im scared for his life. (link)
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try getting him ta go to tha police again and if his dad does tha same thing tell him ta stick up for himself try an get sum evidence that his dad does that stuff. if that doesnt work maybe he should move out and go sumplace where he feels safe and try tellin tha cops ta hear him out w/o his dad bein ther so he can tell them his side of tha story.
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my best friends parents got devorced about a year ago, and ever since then he has gone into a distructive pattern, he cut himself, smoked pot, and drank, he did all of this to try to dampen the pain. is there anything i can do to get him to stop those and actually help him? (link)
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i think maybe you should get somebody for him to talk to to help him out with his problems. i had a friend that started to cut herself and that she was depressed and she did it to dampen tha pain too. she talked to somebody and it helped her out and now shes a lot better than be4. try gettin him ta talk to someone that'll listen ta him and ta help him.
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A lot of people judge people by their looks and not by their personality. i used to do that too. i realized you arnt going to become a better person and your not going to meet people by judging other people by their looks. It makes me want to cry how i am experecing this. I realized i have been doing that too. i told some people about this person awhile back whom i liked. he wasn't the greatest looking person and the people i told knew that. when i told them, they all looked at me in discuss. that night i reconsidered liking him because of what he looked like and how dorky he was. Now i could have become really good friends with that cretin guy, but because of people and myself judging him, i am not friends with him. Everyone will not notice this, but every look you give a person, if its bad it will bring him/her down. just think about it. How would ypu fee; about it, people making fun of the way you look, or the cold looks you get every day when you walk down the halls. you see every popular boy and girl with someone, having un. Then you see yourslef looking at them wishing you were them. Christina Auhulara has inspired me to write this paragraph, Her song "Beautiful" is a great song. I hope some day you will listen to this song and think the same this i do.
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hey yeah i totally agree with that lyke looks isnt everything...its important....but isnt everything....yeah sumtymes i wish that sum ppl would judge others for their personality than their looks cause ive seen that kinda stuff happen to ppl and i feel relly bad fur them. i meen hey it hurts a lot you cant change tha way you look soo yeah i agree with your words...
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well i met this guy after soccer practice and we hugn out after and we spend spring break together. he was really sweet and we ended up hooking up. on our first month. of knowing each other (i'm 14 hes 16 freshman sophmore) neways.. well after a while we ende up going out. but he was homeschooled then so we didnt see much of each other but we still did.. i broke up wtih him after a week.. but stillhad feelings'.. we both did.. and the bad thingg is that we always ende u seeying each other. and it was awkward. we hooked up a few times after we broke up. and hes' spend the night at my house afew times and we hang out a lot now. and talk on the phone. i'm so confused idk wat i should do. i've known him for like 6 motnhs now. and i think i should find someone new. but when i do.. all i can think of is him.. we both havent hooked up with anyone else except each other..sunce we've known each other.. idk .. waht todo.. (link)
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try to get back with him and try not to break up with him so much lyke whenever you do you styll lyke him dont you? dont break up with him if you styll lyke him....go back out with him you guys could have an awesome relationship...dont miss it! xOxO
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Okay , me and my boyfriend was talkin on ta phone and he asked me to marry him(AND AT A YOUNG AGE TOO) and I said no , was it the right thing to do ???were both 15.he aint mad but he is kinda sad , he said he wanted to be with me forever,and I let him down. was it the right thing to do??? (link)
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lyke was he serious?....are you sure he wasnt lyke messin around and all?...yeah thats a little too young to get married...tell him that you'll styll be with him and that you guys shouldnt get married because youre not prepared for it yet....hope i helped xOxO
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i am still very good friends with my ex..but when i talk to him online, he doesnt talk as much when HIS ex, who he still likes..help? oh yeah and im 14 (link)
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just keep talkin ta him when hes not talkin an wen tha conversation dies lke bring up some random thing lol
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Reggie, will you marry me? (Jordan) (link)
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haha :P
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Hey... i like my best friends cousin.ive liked him for 4 years and he finally liks me and yesterday he said he's proally gona ask me out but i lik his older brothers best friend(hes 14)n' i lik them the same(justin is 13 n' nate is 14)and lately Nate has been flirting 24/7n' hes askin if im single and askin wut my phone # is n' everything, and he said hes proally gonna ask me out..i lik these 2 the same, but i kinda wanna go out wit nate more,but then i dont wanna hurt justin or anything n' i dont kno wut to do! (link)
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hey well i think that you should go out with nate since you lyke him more...if you go out with justin and dont really lyke him then its more lyke a pitty thing and thats not gud! lol tell justin that you just wanna be friends with him but you lyke nate...tell him but try not to hurt his feelings and tell him that you hope he understands and that him if he does thank him.
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hey im 13 almost 14, and i like this guy and he likes me n all, but where not going out, but we want to start to try stuff, like i never made out with some1 b4, and he mentiond severial times he wants to make out with me, andsience i am 13 i was woundering if it was a good age that i can give him a blow job....? i think hell really like it lol but i dk, were both 13 what sould i do? and how should i give him i sign i wanna do something with him and give him a bj?.... and um to make him Cum, do u think if i take his hand and make them squeese my boobs do u think hell cum and get a boner? thanks (link)
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lyke yeah make out if you want to and if he wants to too. but ta make a guy cum an all you gotta do stuff with it lyke a hand job er blow job and all..if you want him ta bone lyke yeah he could feel you up....or down *lol*..fur him ta get a boner... iunno i think 13 yrs old is an aight age...lol...only cuz i started doin that stuff when i wuz lyke 12 :P....haha so yeah
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okay i need help!!!!! kay i have 2 best friends..amber & adriana...okay well today i found out that the guy i like has a girlfriend..so i was telling them about it and i was like do u know who it was saying all that stuff to me and i was like was it u and then they were like oh yah sure it was us gosh why do u have to think all this stuff about us we know u r not a true friend and all this bullshit..then they were like yah we r so sick of ur drama and we r sick and tired of hearing u cry to us allllll the time (this was over the internet) and me and adriana used to like the same guy and then amber was like yah and u r stopping adriana from going out with ricky ( thats his name) and i said no its not my fault i dont care and amber was like yah it is ur fault b cuz she cant go out with him b cuz a certain someone will cry and i just dont know what to do and then amber was like he likes adriana nottttt u!!!! and she was like get over it and was calling me a drama queen when i dont know why..b cuz she is the one wo is starting drama she is a bitch by the way and 2 faced too....what shoulod i do about them or what should i do about amber???? i am sick of all this fighting.!!!!!! (link)
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start hanging out with different people...people who understand you and respect you...you dont have to deal with "friends" lyke them because THEY dont knoe how to be one cept to each other but thats gonna get them no where... get other better friends
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me and this guy.... we will call him... pete. well me and pete have been talking for about 8 months (november-june) and we went out in dec. for about a month but broke up because he "couldn't have a girlfriend". despite that, we still liked each other and continued to see each other without the title of boyfriend and girlfriend.... now it seems like every few days hes mad at me for some random reason and a day later were fine and acting like it never happened but this time i don't even know what that reason is... i asked him the other day what was wrong and he said he would tell me later. well i decided to let him approach me about it first since i had already asked but then today he acted like it never happened except im scared to ask and bring up more fighting.... what should i do?!! (link)
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maybe its not you it could be something else that was upsetting him at tha tyme and totally fergot about it to even mention to you...i wouldnt worry about it a whole lot since hes acting normal around you
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i have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months and i always feel like we are ment to be.. when we are 2gether.. but when we are apaprt its kinda like i dunnoo.. he lives about 30 minutes away form me but h still goes to my same school... i mean its relaly hard being summer and everything... when ever i go 2 the movies i see couples 2gether and me nd my boyfriend neva get to go 2 the movies 2gether bcuz he lives to far away for a ride... and i just sumtymes feel like i want sumbody here thats easier to like hang out with... but i dunno i cant imagin breaking up with my boyfriend but lateltly its just kind of been crossing my mind.. what shood i do? (link)
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if you really feel lyke you lyke this guy you should stick with him and make some tyme for each other so you guys could hang out and stuff :)
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okay, my two BEST FRIENDS are made at me becasue i went and hung out with one of my friends and not them. now they are mad at me...what should i do?please help fast!!
-so confused- (link)
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tell them you have other friends too its not lyke their your only friends in tha whole world *in a nice way*...if they dont accept tell them that you CAN hang out with other ppl and not just them...
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Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do? (link)
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i think you prolly should dump him if hes trynna get you into that stuff and tellin you somethin lyke tha only way ta prove to you that you loved me was to smoke this joint.... AND you dont wanna be with him anymore ...you'll be a lot better off w/o him
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How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do?????? (link)
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wow.....if you want him to talk to you and admit to his friends that hes going out with you....talk to him...question him.... if that doesnt work then he's not tha ryte guy and dump him
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Im 14 and ive never kissed a boy?! is that bad!? will people not date me because of that!? i mean boys have attempted to but i didnt let them because they were jerks and they just wanted sex! so help me! i need to know if thats a bad thing! and you'll probably say just to wait....he'll come to me but i cant wait any longer!! :*(
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no its not a bad thing that you havnt kissed aguy at your age... you dont have to do it jus cuz everyone else is! wait for the right guy and dont be in such a hurry these things take tyme for some people but its not a bad thing just wait for him to come
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everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him (link)
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hes your b/f and it shouldnt matter what your friends think... if they're really your friends they'll respect you for who you lyke and they'd respect ta guy.. ..if you guys wanna have fun an hang out with out having your friends always at your back telling you that hes ugly or you could get better, get tha two of you ta hang out jus you and him...tell your friends that you really care for this guy and that you'd really appreciate it if theyd let you choose on your own who you wanna go out with...
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Okay its now summer and like 2 weeks after summer started, my friend that i used to like was in a car accident, and was hospitalized for about a week and it made me realize that i still had feelings for him. So he asked me to go out with him so i did and we have been going out for about a month, but summer is my time to be like free and meet new guys at the beach n everything you know? I mean i like him, but i don't think i really want anything serious right now. Should i tell him i want a break? Should i break up with him? Or just stay with him?? (link)
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well if you say "yes" to a person you gotta make sure youre prepared and that youre gonna stick with him. if you meet other guys and styll wanna go out with him just be their friend. if you wanna break up with him and meet other guys....wait tho what are tha other guys for if you dont want a serious relationship?....you gonna hook up with one and meet another?...:/ if you wanna dump him go ahead...im sayin you can meet guys and styll have him as your b/f and yeah seasons change but w/e one it is shouldnt matter as long as your w/ him....its all about tryin to stick with him and the comitment you made when you sed "yes"
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im 14 and well ppl always tells me im pretty...but yet no one likes me...i mean if im so pretty why doesn't n e one like me? i mean i don't get it...and i have friends...so it must mean im not awful or weird...i think im nice...plzz help! i just really really dont get it....so could you help me please!?
~Melissa (link)
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maybe some people do and just arnt admitting it ;) lol someone'll prolly does and you'll find out later on just wait you cant MAKE ppl lyke you so wait and see what happens
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Yeah, but, like, if I tell her, id be all like, embaressed and stuff. And like you should, like, see her! OMG! I dunno what to do! (link)
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just tell her she'll take it as a compliment :)
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