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what are signs that a guy likes you
and what are signs that they dont
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if a guy avoids you or makes excuses to get away from a crowd when you come around, he dosen't like you. But if he does, and he is not very confident about himself, then he will act very strange around you, kind of awkward like he dosen't know what to say, because most of the time, when aguy likes a girl, he will automatically think that she knows it, and he will start acting differnt around them, beacuse he thinks that everything he says will sound like a come-on to the girl. tHose are the basics for both of your inquiries, but each person varies on both subjects. If he really likes you, you will know it, and if he really doesn't- you will know it.


what is a good free catalog that you can send for by mail. for some up to date and cute ,feminin,gypsy or victorian, vintage looking clothes,jewely,hair accesories..that arent extremly expensive. i dont want a catalog that you can only view on line. i want one that will actually send you a catalog. dont say gypsy rose i already have it. (link)
My mom orders her clothes from this magazine called "Romans". it has alot of clothing with a peasent type look to them, Like peasent blouses and skirts, and chandalear earings and necklaces, and other clothing for ladies with and old world appeal to them, and the clothes are stlyish to, not like knock-off clothes. They are at affordable prices also. The magazine is free and is a subscription type thing to. got to romans.com and check it out and see if its what you are talking about, and if it is you can subscribe to the catalog online. hope that you find what you are looking for.


I have a good friend mike and we've been friends for about two years now and were close. He has a girlfriend named katie and they`ve been dating for a year and we've never had a problem with eachother, but someone told her that i wanted to fight her and she thinks im trying to steal mike, and im not at all im not that kind of person. and when i aksed her who said this she said its one of my good friends and one of her good friends and she promised them she wouldnt tell me. and i didnt go to school today and i guess it was a good thing cuz she went around telling everyone false information and saying she was gonna punch me in my face and all this stuff. and now people are going against me and i cant stop crying. i never did this to anyone. and she said she believes me but i just dont know. i told mike that were not gonna be friends anymore, and im just so upset i dont even know what to say to anyone. there being so mean. (link)
People like that, that listen to bull like that, especially when it comes out of no where, are not exactly people that you should be crying over. They are not worth the tears. Just a sugestion, try going to school and hanging out with someone else for a day, and see if they take notice. If they do, and they try to get your attention and be nice to you, it is all probably a misunderstanding. if they act like they dont care or say nasty things about you or to you, dont bother with them anymore. Friends like that will come and go, and are not worth getting upset over.


I have this guy friend that I have a major crush on. I have a few classes with him, and whenever there's a group project, he picks me as his partner, but I'm really smart and kind of anal retentive when it comes to my grades, so maybe that's why. Today I was wearing a low-cut shirt and we were working together and he passed me a note saying 'excuse the crudeness but could you pull up your shirt? I find it hard to work with boobs to look at" so I pulled up my shirt even though I had worn it just so he would look at my chest. a few minutes later he made a comment about distractions helping him think if it was something he liked. I'm a little confused by the situation. (link)
if he said "boobs to look at" and "distractions helping him if its something he liked", he thinks your hot stuff. Tell him you like him and get the ball rolling.
Trust me


i'd have to say... i think im very unique and i kinda like that about me..so i've decided i want to make shirts of my own,or send in deisgns and people can make then for me. few problemsss...

1) i cant draw at all
2) i dont have ANY idea how to make shirts...
3) theres a design on the shirt i had in mind...but i have no idea how to put that on the shirt (NOT something you sew on,i mean like really on the shirt)

so do you know,if theres ANY sites that will help me make a shirt design and help me learn how to make a shirt? also if you've made a shirt...is it hard? thank you (link)
i just visited this site called "teen chat.com"
And at the top of the page they have a featured article called "How to customize your t-shirts exactly how you want."
hope you find what you are looking for.


okay lets cut to the chase. im fat. overweight. gross legs and arms, potbelly. i'm just fat. ive been doing the healthy weight loss thing for years now and i havent lost any weight

what are some ways to lose weight QUICKLY. health doesnt matter, if youre some kind of health activist dont answer the question. (link)
i was diagnosed with type two diabetes in september. The doctor told me that if i lost about fifty or sixty lbs then i wouldnt have to take medicine for this. So all i did was started drinking diet sodas instead of regular. and ate a little all during the day, instead of three big meals, that way it would never have time to settle. I also had to do some sort of exercise for thrity min. three times a week and in three months i have lost forty- six lbs, and it shows. hope i helped


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Ok me and my friend lets call her Mary have been friends for about a year now and she has treated me like trash. She ignores me and talks about me behing my back but she's the type that will tell everyone my secrets if shes mad at me. And when there's no one else to call she'll call me and use me as a "last resort" she is so consited and she never helps me with anything. I'm not saying im the "perfect friend" because im not so great either, but i don't talk about her behind her back untill well basically now. She always calls me a bad friend when i don't do anything, and i think she's using me so she can have more friends. So I can't get rid of her. Please What should I do???

Please help me!!!! :) (link)
You need to tell that bitch that you dont appreciate her talking about you and disrepecting you, and if she cant be a good friend to you until she dosen't have anybody else to turn to, then she can go to hell, because you aren't on nobodys backlot. If you don't let her know that soon, you will end up going insane. Trust me, because i have been there and made that mistake before, more than once. hope that helps.


what does it mean when people are like "touche" in french? its pronounced as "too-shay". and someone said it in a video. they're like "ah, touche". I believe its frenched but what does it mean.. and like how would you say it in real life? in what situation?

Also I just was about to eat this green jellybean, and i bit it and it was hard and i split it open and it looked funny in there... like hardish so i threw it out. it was also shapped bigger and differently than the others. it was also the size of 2 normal jelly beans. did i do the right thing? tho i kinda wanted to eat it, lol (link)
when people say touche it means like if you insult someone or you make a good point and someone turns around and insults you right back or makes a better piont than you you would say "touche". its like "good one" or "good point".

I dont think that jelly beans go bad, you just got a big green jelly bean.


i dont see why when we give people advice that they dont want to hear, they rate us low. i think that we deserve better than that because we took time out of our lives to try to help them. why give us 1's for fairly good answers that arnt what you expected? does anyone have an opinion on this?!

-WoahThereBabe ♥ (link)
I agree with you. If you come on here and ask for advice, someone is going to give you their honest opinion. It may not be what you expected, but if you are just going to do what you want to do anyway, you should ask and waste someones time, having them THINK they are helping them, and you arent going to listen in the first place.


i might be able to finagle some backstage passes through a friend of a friend and my question is, would i still have to buy tickets, or do backstage passes include entry to the concert? (link)
If im not mistaken, you still would have to buy tickets


Does anyone now a way to make a nice month budget ?
I want to go on vacation but me and my bf are on a really low budget because we have to pay so much depts at the end of the month ,we work hard but we always broke

I don't quite understand this ,i did everything
But the worst is that the whole family is going back home (curacao)for the birthday of my grandma and I'm the only one staying because we don't have enough money
I wanna try to go though but I don't know how


(just for the record I live in Europe) (link)
Take out all your expences for the month, the put EVERTHING else back and only use money if you need it. that should help a little. its what i do.


I've seen the movie twice now. But I'm really curious at the end of the movie when she sees the killer who is he? is it her father? thanks if you can help. (link)
It wasnt her father, just some random wierdo


i like this kid alot. but i dont know what things to do around him to make him realize how i really feel about him. like i know what flirting is but when it comes to actually doing it i dont know what things to specifically do. please help i like him alot and i want him to see that i want to be with him. thanks so much! (link)
I agree, he will be excited that someone has taken an interest in him and you never know, he may feel the same way. do what your heart tells you to do.


Taylor and I have been dating for almost 6
months now and things were going great. But
there are a few things he does that drive me
nuts but I put aside because I loved him.
Well, the feelings have died down, we barely
see each other, and those little things
he does bother me more and more.

What I'm trying to ask is how do I know
when to call it quits? Yes, I flirt with other
guys now but Taylor and I have broken up
before and I regretted it a day later so
we got back together. I don't want to do that
again.

How can I be sure its what I want?
And how do I go about breaking it gently? (link)
It depends on your personality, just sit down and write the pros and cons of your relationship. Your heat will let you know when pack it up and get the hell out if Dodge. Have you told him that these things erk you that badly? dont break up with him without knowing if he is willing to stop doing this stuff.when all is said and done, you will know when you have had enough. hope that helped


hey massie ur books are awesom i am like totally like u. but anyways i like this guy, but he is a year younger than me. i go to a private school and you just dont ask a younger guy out. i mean no one does that at our school. what should i do


13,female
jamie (link)
Screw everybody else. Go for what you want. You never know what could come of a relationship.


I'm a 23 year old girl ,my life has been a living hell since my parents left us ,this was 10 years ago (I was 13 )I was the oldest and as you can understand I was always the one who had to pull it togheter for my other sisters ..I lost almost my whole life doing this...,no good memories,only pain and sorrow .

I fully grow up by my self thanks to the power of God .
But now I live with my bf ,he is good to me .
But memories keep coming back to me ,sometimes I woke up in the middle of the night crying and it just go on and on .

I don't know why but I keep asking myself why they walked out on us like that ,It hurts like hell.
I don't have close friend because I'm afraid
I don't know why ..I have thousand of good friend and you could say I am very popular for making jokes ,organising nice school trip ,parties ,acting in stage plays etc etc and I really can give good advice but I really really can't have a close friend , the truth is I am even afraid to be close to my bf , I don't know why ......I feel so unhappy feeling this way


I feel like I'm in a lonely world , I feel depressed ,I barely sleep and I can't concentrate at school.
My sex life sucks ,just because I can't get in the mood because I cant't stand for people to get to close to me ,I just want it to be quick so he can get off me ,this is a really strange feeling I can't explain,
I love him but I can't explain this weird feeling and its not just with him .My ex broke up with me because I never did have sex with him..
All this is depressing for me ,I can't live like this any longer
I am really dying inside

help me ,I need advice


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I am only 18, and my father left when I was a small child, and then I grew up with an awful stepfather. I wont dare say I know exactly how you feel, but I have troulbe getting close to people too. The only thing I can tell you from the heart is that the same God who helped you grow up on your own, is still there and he will help you deal with this fear also, he and only he has brought me trough some tough personal times, and now I depend on him all thime time. That and finding someone that i could trust, to vent my frustrations too, has helped me get over alot of my depression and anxiety. Just trust and beleive and everything will work out for the best. Also, try to think about all the people who need you and depend on you. Always remember that somewhere in the world someone is thinking about you right now. You grew up and raised your siblings, and are in college- your parents should be kicking themselves in the ass for letting goof you and your siblings. They love you, and God does too. I hope that helped.


17/f

how do you give hand?
[These are serious questions...]
- do you really put your hand around it and go up and down?
- Fast or slow?

When getting fingered...
- What if you smell? Will the guy notice it?
- Do they prefer shaved or not?
- Will my whole pants be off?

.. I am very confused... (link)
I am a guy and have had experiance in both departments, so here goes:
1. Your first question: yes you stroke his penis in an up and down motion- how fast you go depends on what he and you like.

2. Your second question: If you can smell you- He can smell you, simple.

The rest depends on what you and him like. Some guys prefer shaved, some dont and if your pants are on, off or halfway down depends on you, its your body. Whatever you deside, I hope its enjoyable.


my exboyfriend just left me, he says he loves me but he thinks its with his head and not with his heart. Hes really confused. Anyway, he's gone back to his exgirlfriend before me. she really doesnt treat him right, shes so mean to me too. Shes cheated on him a few times already. i really want to make him realise that he shouldnt be with her. i dont care who he goes out with but i really dont want to see him in that state again. hes so nice and everything, so he forgives easily, i dont knnow how to help him. apart from her cheating she doesnt treat him right anyway, thanks for those who can help me with this. (link)
Take it from an expert in this situation. When you try to tell a peer that you think they are making a bad decision, most of the time they will acuse you of being jealous and say some nasty things to you. If you haven't already, i would tell him ONCE and only once. If he dosen't listen and it dosen't work out, you will be there to comfort him and help him move on.




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