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When to know its over?
Taylor and I have been dating for almost 6
months now and things were going great. But
there are a few things he does that drive me
nuts but I put aside because I loved him.
Well, the feelings have died down, we barely
see each other, and those little things
he does bother me more and more.
What I'm trying to ask is how do I know
when to call it quits? Yes, I flirt with other
guys now but Taylor and I have broken up
before and I regretted it a day later so
we got back together. I don't want to do that
again.
How can I be sure its what I want?
And how do I go about breaking it gently?
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Have you talked this over with Taylor, I mean about what these things are that bother you more and more. I mean if you have, and nothing has come of it, that's a good sign he's not willing to try to make that happen for you. As for not seeing him as much, that is something that you have to decide if it's important to you. So if you need more time, and not getting it then again it's about time to move on. You can't be sure of when to call it quits though. Look to see if these guys you are flirting with you have feelings toward. If you do, try it out. As for breaking it gently, I would just talk to him about what it is that causes you issues. If he still doesn't get it you can't change it. Hopefully he will understand and let you know if it's something he can work on or not.
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It depends on your personality, just sit down and write the pros and cons of your relationship. Your heat will let you know when pack it up and get the hell out if Dodge. Have you told him that these things erk you that badly? dont break up with him without knowing if he is willing to stop doing this stuff.when all is said and done, you will know when you have had enough. hope that helped
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Just go with your gut. I was in a sinilar situation. I di what had to be done. I broke up with him. Why would you want to waste your time if its not working? You could be with someone else or have your mind on other things. I say if you realized that you dont love this boy, then dont be with him.
HOW TO GO ABOUT IT: there is no gentle way to leave someone. The best thing for you to do is just tell him the truth in a nice way (I.E. its not working anymore and i dont fel the same way about you that i used to. Little things you do drive me crazy and i just dont think we need to be together anymore) And you hope that ya'll can still be friends. HEll, he is probably thinkin the same thing you said ya'll dont spend time together really so he is thinkin somethin!!!
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