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For about six months now, I haven't been eating very much. I never used to have a big breakfast but now it's much smaller and I only have a small cereal bar or nothing at all. I haven't eaten lunch since september. I do have a proper meal in the evening but I never really want it. It didn't really bother me until my boyfriend said that he thought I didn't eat enough. I told him not to worry but it's becoming more obvious that I'm skipping meals. I've tried telling people that it's not a problem and I honestly don't think it is. I am a perfectly normal weight for my height and I haven't been losing any weight at all. What should I tell people?

tell people that you have very fast motobolism and that you dont need to eat as much as other people.

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well im going out with this guy my 2 friends dont like....but i really like him and they want me 2 dump him but i really dont want to....but i dont wanna lose muh friends but i dont wanna lose muh boy....what should i do

you should tell your friends that you really love him. and go with your heart. Its really there problem if they dont like him.

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im 21.ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months. we havent had sex yet. he really wants to do it but im scared that it will hurt. what if i marry someone who doesnt want a wife who isnt a virgin. will sex really hurt the first time? if i only use a condom will i get pregnant? how does to pill work? if my parents find out they will kill me. please help.

you will feel pain the first time. using pills does work. if you really love him and want to have sex with him then find a hotel or his place when no one is home and do it. or you can wait until you get married. it really is all your choice if you want to experiance this.

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Okay this boy in my year iv'e known him since first school and we've always been good friends. Im 13 by the way.I've been out with him a couple of times but nothing serious just a laugh really. I've always had something for him and a couple of weeks ago he asked me out I said no because i didn't think it was right.Then he asked again and i still felt the same. But now i REALLY REALLY like him.He blanked me today and I feel as though i have no more chances?He's not the same with me and he hardly talks to me. Am i right or can someone out there help?? Thanks xxx

he is probably feeling like he is being rejected by you. so i suggest you find a way to show him what you feel to him by giving him a hint then he will like you again.

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OK, see i have this boyfriend we can call him josh. and see for a long time i have been doubting me and him. all my friends are getting sick of me asking them for help so i came to you guys. I sometimes think that i do like him because he says something that completely makes me melt. But then he goes and accuses me of cheating on him and of breaking up with him. Im not sure what to do. Sometimes i want to break up with him and i hate him. but he is everything i love and everythin i hate all at the same time. i know he would never hurt me on purpose and i know that he cares for me but he doesnt call me anymore and we never see each other i have been dating him for 3 months and im confused about this. does this mean he doesnt like me? do i still like him? what do you guys think?

thanx,
the most confused

sometimes its best to just move on and try a new relationship. if you really love him then try your best to get to know his personality. only move on into a new relationship if you really think that its better than what you have.

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ok theres this boy that is so fine and he thinks im obsessed with him because I tell other people he is hot. He thinks hes to good for me. So, for some reason he hates me,and he gets girls to throw pennies at me and they pull my hair too. I'm constantly dodging fights because madd ppl hate me and I have no idea why. I'm nice to people, but they're mean. My cousin says its because theyre jealous. But I only have like 3 friends in my whole school, so i know its not jealousy. I want to get him back....should I stand up to him? Fight him? fight his girls? get my boy joe to fight them? I broke into his locker and i stole his jacket and I threw it on the floor, but this one bitch told him that I did it, so i'm busted for that, and he got his jacket back the next day. Please help----I need to get him back-----real soon like tomorrow----I need some good ideas!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

just be yourself and whatever you do keep avoiding fights. if you think a boy is fine then just try to keep it to your best friends that way word wont spread out the wrong way. if people hate you then dont let them run over you.

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I have hair that is a little longer than shoulder length, layered, and stick straight. I would really like to do shiny mermaid waves in my hair---you know, those waves that are very un-frizzed and soft looking...does anyone know how to do these?

there is some very nice conditioner shampoos for sale if you ask the front desk for silky types they will lead the way

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Is it normal to shave a little bit below your belly button and bit above.. cuz i got the little hairs but they bother me

well its normal for hairs to grow there but i wouldnt recomend shaving them because then you will have to do that for the rest of your life.

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Finals are coming up and im in 9th grade.. Is it really hard? And how much is it worth like points like. How much does it count on your grade? What happans if you have a D and C for both semesters.. and you get a F on your final. would you get it averaged out between the 3 grades?

finals for 9th grade were easy for me because i had nice study guides to look at. usually the finals count as a quiz grade and if you fail them it could really harm your grade. but if you got a c and you were already passing then there is nothing to worry about.

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ok so me and my bf have been fighting a lot lately... nothing major but still i dont like the fact that we fight .. do you have any suggestions for me to help us resolve all this ???

fighting is a thing that always occurs in deep relationships. to stop this you could try something to make him easier going like buying him a small present and telling him how much you truely love him. but remember everyone will always argue even best friends argue.

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Hey i have a prob see i liked my friend for a while and i recently found out that he liked me but i ono if i should belive that or not it may be true because i heard it from his friend but he has a g/f so what do i do and i dont wanna ruin the friendship over this either please help ill rate

if you truely love him then find out if he does for sure have a gf or not and if he doesnt get one of your friends to ask him if he likes you. if he does he will ask you out and it will all go perfect :)

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I did gymnastics at one gym for 4 years. Then I switched to another gym because I didn't like the gym I was at. So then I go to one practice at this gym, only me and my friend from school showed up. I liked it then. Then the other night I went for the second practice. I didn't like it. There was a bunch of people and I like smaller groups and I could just hear them whispering about me and I wasn't comfortable with that. So now that I told my mom I just wanted to quit and then she says I need to go to the mental hospital because I can't make up my mind and that I need to go see a therapist and that I am not going on our school trip to Canada in May BECAUSE I WANT TO QUIT! Why spend money on gymnastics if I am not having fun there?! I really want to go to Canada with my school but she won't let me now! And I have to go to a mental hospital cuz I can't make up my mind?!! WTF. Seriously. I wish she would just go fucking live somewhere else FAR away so I never have to see her EVER again. She makes my life fucking MISERABLE. Now I have to go see a therapist, again! I want to die, or I want her to die. ITS NO FAIR. Wtf do I do?

parents are always annoying. they can sometimes not understand our feelings of things. if you dont like gymnastics try something else and tell her about it she might be interested

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Does anyone have some tips on how to flirt with guys when i go away to florida? ive always wanted one of those vacation romances lol. Meet someone on the beach and hit it off with him..then maybe meet up with him later to hang out. I dont want to seem like an ass if the guy says "i have a gf" or if im out of his league and he totally turns me down. Have any of you had one of those "vacation romances?" tell me about it please if you have! thanks

alright im a guy so here is my advice. all you have to do is when you see an attractive person you can either be the approacher and smile and get him to talk to you or wait for him to come to you by being as sexy as you can :)

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hi,

one of my dreams has been to become a singer but my parents say that if i dont sing in like a talent show at my school then they wont sign me up for anything.. the talent show passed and i didnt try out because i had something else planned for the date that they made the talent show.. ok so ALL my friends tell me that im an amazing singer and stuff ( i dont want to sound concided ) but i dont think im terrible ! any ways.. how can i get my parents to let me go to auditions and signups and stuff.. what can i do to follow this dream ? .. thanks in advance- i rate! :-)

love, singingmyheartout

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well if they already say that you should sing in a talent show they should let you sign up. Im sure you will do very good. singing is a talent that not many people have and its good to go out there and show people your voice.

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Ok, so I used to want to be an archeologist. But since job shadowing, I'm not sure that that's the job I want, I like the history part and the digs, but not the science. I really want to help people, travel, and deal with history. I enjoy a good debate, and have a strong scense of justice too, but I don't know if being a lawyer would be right for me. Does anyone have any suggestions for me? They would be very helpful and appreciated. Thank you!

yes growing up everyone has job changing ideas. but the best idea for you is nation geographic. you can join a exploration group meet new people and even travel.* Also it can help by being a photographer its really fun traveling around and taking pictures of people everywhere and you get to meet people and have lots of fun. I HoPe I HelPed! :)

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I'm a black female, and my hair stops right at the back of my neck. I just started wrapping my hair before I go to sleep, my hair also really thick if that helps any, but what I want to know is, does anyones have any other suggestions as to how to make my hair grow? By next year, I want it shoulder lenght or else, I'm just going to cut it short into a pixie cut and keep like that. Thanks!

just keep washing your hair. i hear if you keep a healthy hair than you will keep a healthy growth

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I enjoy watching tv series on DVD. Ones I have enjoyed are "Soprano's", "Sex & the City", "Star Trek TNG", & "Dawson's Creek". Can anyone recommend a new series for me to watch with a continuing story line; not a comedy like "Sienfeld."

smallville is a very nice television show. it has things similar to dawsons creek :)

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