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Hello! My name is Paige. I have been through plenty of experiences, so i think i give good advice. You can ask me anything from family stuff to sex. If i dont know the answer to something, i will try my hardest to find the information. I will NEVER reject questions people leave in my inbox, in fact i LOVE getting them! IF YOU SEND ME AN INBOX MESSAGE PLEASE LEAVE YOUR EMAIL IF YOU ARE AN UNREGISTERED USER! I wont sugar coat anything, i will be straight forward and truthful with you.

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Okay so I used to have a few pimples here or there, no big deal. now my skin is cleared up and a new problem hits.

I'm getting these awful patches of dry skin around my nose and on my forehead.

I tried exfoliating (made it worse)

I tried every moisturizer possible.

I tried bio oil. I tried vaseline.

I mean this fucking sucks. like. my skin tone is uneven and foundation is necessary.

Foundation on peeling skin is like. the worst possible thing.

I looked like I had a flesh eating virus today. Help:(

My skin is the same way. For face wash, i use st ives.
As for the moisterizers, i as well tried everything there possibly is. I found that in the winter Dove; deep moisture works best

And in summer/fall that wet and wild moistizer works best too.

When i get out of the shower, i usually put toner on, any kind is fine..since i havent gone to the store i have been using witch hazel which is good too. Then i put dove; deep moisture on. If i see i have any peeling skin, i usually get a toothbrush and kinda brush it off. (weird i know, but it truthfully works)

Also, sometimes if i know my skin is peeling more than usual, i use a washrag with my face wash and scrub the hell out of it lol

Hope i helped

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17/f

I'm a virgin. Is it REALLY that important to lose it to someone you love? I don't plan on falling in love anytime soon. My first kiss wasn't special. It annoyed me at first. My second kiss wasn't special either, but I found the guy attractive and realized that was perfectly fine with me. I'm not about to go have some unsafe rendezvous with a stranger or anything, I'd just like to know.

I wouldnt say it is EXTREMELY important. But, it would be nice to think back about it and say, "wow he truly loved me." or vice versa.

Sex is much better when it is with somebody that you love and loves you.

Therefore, its not that important, but it would be a nice memory :]

Good luck

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does any body no where i can get free ringtones i have verizon and i used to go to myxertones.com but they wont give verizon ringtones anymore. but i want completely free i dont wana have to pay anything

www.zedge.com

is amazinggg!

I use myxertones.com too

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okay i started to give my boyfriend a bj last sunday, but i didnt really know what i was doing so i didnt go long enough and he didnt ejaculate. i told him id make up for it this weekend and give him one the right way.
well ive been thinking bout it a lot! and i know i cant get pregnate or anything, but is it safe?

im the first girl thats given him a blow job and hes never had sex or anything so like this is the first "sexual activity" either of us has had but i wanna make sure its safe for me and him both if i do it again.

Since you or him never had sex or anything, then its fine. :]

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So here's the situation I have been friends with this guy for a few months now and ever since we first met it was clear we both like each other and like we kissed before and tried dating but it just didn't really work out. Now we're just friends and its working really well except there's still like tension between us because its clear we still like each other. I was thinking we could be like friends with benefits and stay just friends but then like if we get the urge to kiss each other or fool around thats fine and theres no commitments and no expectations which was the problem before. I don't really know if this will work out though and I'm afraid of telling him my idea and how he might react to it....

Honestly, i am going through this now. I have a friends with benefits of three years, and its quite difficult. Its difficult because i have feelings for him, and i know he has them for me...but it sometimes hurts. I dont blame you for wanting a friends with benefits relationship, it is absolutely perfect. Perfect until you experience it.

If its really what you want to do, and you are POSITIVE you wont fall even harder for him, then i'd say go for it. As long as you protect yourself and dont get too envolved. Thats the hard part.

All guys love the idea of a friends with benefits, no strings attached. If you brought it up, im sure he'll agree with it.

Also, keep in mind...if you guys tried dating and it didnt work out, do you really think you should try friends with benefits? just a thought.

Good luck & be careful

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Well if any of you have seen Laguna Beach you kno that they ask eachother to there school dances in really cute ways. Well my friends and I started doing that too. Last year I sent my bf on a scavanger hunt, but this year i'm drawing a blank. any ideas???

Thanks =)

That is cute :]

-If he has a car, ask him by writing it on his car.
-You can get a jar, and get sticky notes, fill it up with things you love about him, and on one sticky note you can ask him.
-Put fortune cookies in the microwave a few seconds. Take them out, take out the old fortunes, then put in new ones with "Tolo/Sadies/go with me?" Heat them back up, then close them up
-Make a puzzle that he'll have to put together
-Give him box to open and put a smaller box inside, and then a smaller one etc until it comes to the smallest one with a note asking him.

GOOD LUCK!

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my friend cheated on her boyfriend. her boyfriend forgave her and they are on a break now. so i want to have a talk with her but i dont know what to say to her. we already know she made a mistake and all that stuff. but now i want her to make sure she appreciates everything her boyfriend is doing. for example: he is still talking to her, texting her and appreciates her. i just want to talk to her about that and remind her. how do i do that or what do i say?

Hello, thanks for writing in my inbox.

I think its a good thing that you want to remind her of how good she has it with her boyfriend. Sometimes people need friends like you to keep em in line :P

If i were you, i would just bring him up in a subtle way. Say, wow hes just so sweet to you, hes everything you could ask for in a guy. Just little things like that. Or, you can bring up how her boyfriend forgave her, and say how it is an amazing thing that he did :]

Little things like that should do the trick!

Good luck

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my ex and i broke up but we have been talking now to work things out. but i do get sad thinking about him. i knw its normal but how do i explain it to him. he thinks that i just get sad thinking of him so why try to work things out and be together again. any help would be appreciated.

Thanks for writing in my inbox.

Yes, you are correct it is normal to feel sad and upset when your relationship ends.

Just explain to him, HE doesnt make you sad. The thought of how things used to be reguarding him make you sad. And, how you miss him and wish everything was back to normal. Tell him the reason you should work things out is because everyone deserves a second chance, and you need that closure because you are obviously not over him.

Good luck

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Hey, I'm 15 and I'm a girl. I have not had sex yet.

This is like.. embarrassing..

So, when I shave down there.. afterward it always looks irritated. There are like little red bumps, and sometimes they hurt. Sometimes though when I shave, like I don't even know what happens, it starts like bleeding little red dots. I even have scars.. Is there something wrong? Like, I want it to stop, haha. It's embarrassing, there's always like little red scabs and if I shave over them they start to bleed and it just makes my vagina look disgusting. This only happens on the surface of my vagina and a little like around it on my thighs almost. It doesn't happen underneath though? Has this ever happened to anyone else? Is there something wrong, or someway I can stop it? Thank you so much, and sorry if this is long.

Yes, i has happened to me before. It was because i was shaving up instead of down. If you shave down, it goes along with the way of your hair, and if you shave up it irrates it. I usually just use shaving gel, and make sure it lathers really well, and that should help too. also, a friend of mine says to put lotion on it when you get out of the shower :]

Hope i helped

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16/f

I had sex for the first time with my boyfriend about a week ago. We used a condom, and I'm pretty sure the condom had spermicide on it. He also pulled out before anything happened just to be safe. I am going on the pill for any future intercourse, but I just wanted to know if I had any legitimate reason to be worried. I don't believe I came in contact with any of his precum or anything. My period is due in a week - a week and a half.

No, you are fine. You dont have anything to worry about. You used protection and he pulled out to be safe, you were extra extra careful :]

Its a good thing that you are going on birth control, but yeah you dont have anything to worry about :]

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The song on the last epiosde of What I Like About You when Vick and Val get married and they play a song from when they thought they were married to when they were getting married, it's a beautiful song and want to know it, please help, thanks!!!

Its called 'The Beginning' by Alice Peacock

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I am an alto singer and would like to try out for my school's production of Into the Woods. We are not allowed to try out using a song from the musical and starting this year we must sing an entire song, not just the usual 15 bars. The past two years Ive sang the bars from Home- beauty and the beast, and popular- wicked. The problem is I cannot sing all of home and Im not confident in my voice for all of popular. I tried Fine Fine line- avenue q, but it is also too high by the third line. I could sing Not that girl- wicked. but its a tad boring. Help!

What about songs from rent? They arent that hard :]

Or from wicked - for good.

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i finished my period on a monday then i had unsafe sex the following day (tuesday)..does that mean i can still get/be pregnant??????

Yes, you can still get pregnant. You can even great pregnant when you are on your period.

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I have AT&T but i really like Verizon's Blackberry Storm. If i got the phone unlocked from Ebay could i use it even though i have AT&T? Or is there anyway I could get it with AT&T

Yeah, i did the same thing. i have at&t and i wanted a t mobile sidekick, so i got an unlocked one off of ebay and it worked. The only thing that sucked was i couldnt get on the internet, and download ringtones because i had at&t and it couldnt connect to their internet or anything.

When you get it, make sure it says it is compatiable with verizon :]

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I'm a 15 year old girl and I'm 5 feet 7 inches tall. What is the average weight for a girl my age and height?

http://www.weight-loss-surgery-or-weight-loss-program.com/bmi-index-calculator.html

that site will let you know where you should be :]

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Does anyone know where I can watch FULL episodes of Jon and Kate plus 8 online for free? (especially the more recent seasons).

Thanks so much!

you can try these websites!

http://mooviecenter.blogspot.com

http://www.tv-show-downloads-online.com

http://television.aol.com/show/jon-and-kate-plus-8/10145156/episodes

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so a couple people who go to this dance studio, are going to dance during the dallas cowboys halftime show, and they all said that the jonas brothers were going to be singing there.
my mom said she would get tickets if they were.
does anyone know for sure?

Yes it is true


http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/27164093/


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15f

hey so one of my best friends always seems unhappy. like when i see her in class or in the hallway she just looks really pissed / sad. so, naturally, i ask her what's wrong and she gets annoyed because it's just her natural expression. but sometimes, she tells me something that's bothering her. i don't want to constantly ask, "what's wrong?" cause i can see why that's annoying and yeah i'm not expecting her to be smiling 24/7 but how am i supposed to distinguish between when she's just neutral or when she's mad / sad? do you really think that's her natural expression... ? like she beams when she's laughing but otherwise she just looks pissed, and this is especially frustrating for me when i comment on something and she doesn't respond. i want her to know i'm there for her but in what ways can i ask, "what's wrong?" without explicitly asking that? i already use, "how are you?" ..

I have a friend that used to be like that. She suffers from depression. And i honestly didnt know what else to say because i saw that everytime i asked what was wrong, she would get even more pissed off and annoyed.

So, i started waiting for her to talk to me. I would know how her mood was by what she said to me. And then i just went on from there.

You could also think of something funny to say when you first see her, and see what happens from there :]


Good luck

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i tried to post these on a photo critique website, but noone responded. so i was hoping to get some feedback from you guys lol. im just starting out and these are some photos i took in my photography class at school..


http://s66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/?action=view¤t=DSC_0010_copy.jpg

http://s66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/?action=view¤t=DSC_0016.jpg

http://s66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/?action=view¤t=DSC_0017.jpg

http://s66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/?action=view¤t=DSC_0021.jpg

http://s66.photobucket.com/albums/h261/Briana1254/?action=view¤t=DSC_5084.jpg

i wont rate poorly if you dont like my pictures, i want honest opinions. thanks!=]

I really liked all of them except the first one, that one was a bit boring. But the rest were pretty neat. They came out extremely clear and look fantastic.

I really liked the second one best, im not sure what it is but it just screams art! :]

Good job

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what does Don’t Let Your Guard Down mean?

Dont let your guard down means, be aware.

Dont quit paying attention to the things around you, and dont fall for a guys words.

Basically, be careful what you do and who you let in your life and open up too :]

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