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I am looking for advice on a rape victim, keep the kid or not?
16 YEAR OLD GIRL.
Really, it's not the child's fault, they didn't ask to be killed because they were concieved wrong right?
But then again, having the kid will be a daily reminder, and ruin her future.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
ANY ADVICE?
Thank you for the time!
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I disagree with "Matt" because "God" paints a clear picture that even a fetus happens to be a life and to take that life would be murder. I think what are you going threw happens to be a hard thing to decide. I think it comes down to what you thinks best for you and the baby. I wish you the best of luck!!!!
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Umm i dont know how to put this but are maroon 5 racist because i was listening to 1 of their songs at my friends house and it sounded like they said the rude word for negro???
Please put my mind at rest because i really like them but would stop if they are...
The song goes sumthing like
the weather gets cold outside
and youve got nobody to love
ooo ooo
....not exact but if you recognise it???
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Hmmmmmmm i have listned to Maroon 5 for years now and i dont think there racist. I mean there alot better then most the rap music now days that call women worse things.
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i skipped a month
my last one was very end of august and into sept.
its still not here
i havent had sex
can u get pregnant if your boyfriends like sperm is on yours/or his hands??
i dont know if tahts a stupid question.
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It's possible to become pregnat without having sex. If you and your boyfriend do anything where his sperm gets on your underwear or near your vagina you still can become pregnant.
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My boyfriend and i have been going out since june but a couple of weeks ago i broke up with him bc i heard he was flirting with other girls but then we stated going back out like a week later and the night we started going out again i heard that this new kid...(who is really hot and the smartest kid in our grade and the best at all sports) likes me and i really like him but idk what i would do if me and my bf broke up again because i really do love him and idk what to do because all these guys start liking me this year and i have no idea what to do!! (link)
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I think it comes down to who means the most to you and treats you right. Once you figure that out you will know what you should do and who you should choose.
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okay sorry this is so long,
i met my best friend jess now 4 years ago. best friends since with only a few fights here and there over stupid things.everyone knows we fight then are best friends again. well 8months ago she found this kid and fell head over heals for him. he was a jerk to me and i started being one to him and i hated him and i told her that many times. well we started fighting more and more like once a week over things all leading back to her boyfriend and stuff. now its been almost a year and she has been changing more and more. she used to be the perfect best friend the one everyone dreams about. now she couldnt be worse. lets just say i have a 34 just about c cup and the friends she invites over are pervs and well they somehow started grabbing my boobs, it didnt really bother me for some reason but it bothered jess. the other night she had 8 guys over and all of them were on me i couldnt do anything it was 8-1 but she FLIPPED out. friday night there were a few people over and one of them wanted to play spin the bottle for whatever reason and (before everyone got there she got mad at her bf because he got grounded but was able to go over that night but he was with his friends so she was like oh im gonna flirt so much tonight and said it again when we got home) well she didnt play and was by herself so i was like jess come play! and she started screaming at me in front of everyone! well that was it she was pissed at me all ngiht. so last night she imed me and i had been ignoring her in school not that i see her much but i didnt even look at her whe i did. and we got into a major fight, she was saying im turning into the typical "freshman sluts" and that ive changed and my morals are messed up and that i care more about the guy next to me than my girlfriends (totally not true i could care less about the guy next to me) none of that was true at all! all that stuff is true to her like shes becoming the slut and cares about the guy next to her. not me, everythign she said about me was what i would say about her!! shes losing her good friends shes had for years like me and she doesnt realize it, ive tried talking to her but she doesnt believe me and other people have to and it ends up with us fighting. i dont know how to change her back since i cant talk to her. i just wasnt o have her and her bf break up and get things back to normal (link)
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I have been through issues like that and no matter what it never ends the way you want. These things happen to alot of friendships once people hit high school because people change and mature not always for the best. I mean it seem's she's letting high school and her boyfriend come between your friendship. If she's willing to let that happen to your friendship then it must not have ment that much to her and you are better without her in your life.
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how do i bring up to my family and friends that ive been lieing to them about not self-injurying anymore? (link)
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I think you should sit them down and tell them. There isnt a simple way to tell them that you are lying about self-injurying anymore. The best way to handle things would be get it over with and tell them so you can move forward. Best of Luck!!!
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15/f
god i hate living. it's been this way since i was 13- i have living. I can't stand it. I'm sick of waking up in the morning with nothing to look foreward to. Crying and eating is all i'm good for. Nothing brings me joy- absolutely nothing. I've tried everything- therapy, counseling, cutting... EVERYTHING.
nothing helps me.
i want to die so badly just to escape this living hell that we call life- but the problem is i can't bring myself to ever do it because i'm afraid of the freaking pain.
i don't have any friends or a boyfriend. no one knows me, if they did- they'd hate me.
i have depression/anxiety problems, ADD intattentive type, a metabolic disorder, and a social phobia. No one in real life knows this exept my therapist.
what should i do. im crying even as i write this. it's just gone on for too long. 2 freaking years. (link)
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I think you should turn to "God" with your problems. I didnt like how things were in life for awhile but i found "God" and started reading the Bible and you would be suprised how much better you feel once reading the words. I mean you will also be suprised to how things come together better in your life. Once you put your faith in "God" he will always listen to you and give you something to look forward to in life such as waking up to find new ways to have a relationship with him. I think you are going threw a little rough part in your life. Which most people have a rough time every once in awhile. So trust me put your faith in "God" and see what happens. I mean what do you have to lose?!?!? I wish you the best and hope you make the right choice and dont do anything stupid like hurt yourself because im sure it would hurt you family weather you believe it or not.
God Bless!!!!
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I have small breasts. and am pretty sure that they have matured as far as they will.. =/ and i was thinking of trying out some type of breast enhancement product. But not sure which may be best...
I tried looking through reviews and just trying to look for products, but there are just so many! Does anyone know that are actually good/work/ and or is the best????
...and if have some first hand experience which you would recomend and which to just avoid!
Thanks for the help! =) (link)
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I'm about 99% sure that no cream out makes breasts larger except breat inplants which have serious risks. Best of Luck!!!
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I was wondering what the average dick size is? (link)
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I'm not 110% sure on this but i believe the average size happens to be about 6 inches.
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I need help finding a dress or a casual outfit to wear to my cousin's wedding.
I would prefer buying it online over buying it at a store.
It's an October wedding in Minnesota, so it will be cold out... :S
Any ideas? (link)
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I think if you want to buy one online and get a great price you should checkout "Ebay". I'm sure you would find what you want on there. I hope you find what you want. :)
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okay. i wanna know if there a practice doll somewhere out there thats just like a baby it needs to be fed and needs attention alot just like a baby. i really need it so because of school. alot of people already got em but i dont know where to look can someone help? (link)
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I think "Ebay" might have what you are looking for since i think i have seen on on there. I hope this helps you.
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Is there a website i can go to to see when new cd releases are comming out? (link)
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Towerrecords.com
Target.com
Walmart.com
BestBuy.com
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Hi, I'm 17 and I have always had problems with understanding something example math. I'm in special ed and I'm not happy I want to be normal just like all the other regular students. Also every test I take usally I fail. Now I have to take a test for college like the sat I mean I dont know what to do it seems I was born wrong. But I mean I am levels behind how will I have a chance to succed in life. And I always wanted to be, please tell me what I can do if I goto college I'm going to fail and want succed at life. (link)
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I think you need to be more confident. It's like i explain to my girlfriend each time before she takes a test if you walk in there knowing you are gonna fail then you are sure to fail. If you want it bad enough, work hard, study, and walk in there being confident im sure your chances to succed will improve lots. I think anyone can succed if you work hard and want it bad enough. I hope i might have helped you out a little.
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What traits do guys look for in a girlfriend? Physical or mental/emotional, just curious. (link)
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I think the best happens to be a little of both. I mean you can't have a girlfriend who's Hot but when it comes to smarts she's Dumb. I think the best thing would be yourself.
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where can I get some really good myspace layouts? (link)
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5000layouts.com
Freeweblayouts.net
Myspacerocks.com
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Where can I go to make things such as:
http://i2.tinypic.com/63x1vue.png
http://i6.tinypic.com/5x408w1.jpg
http://i87.photobucket.com/albums/k152/magpie0118/graphics/other/bongobackup.jpg
and such.
THANKS.! (link)
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Hello,
I would checkout 5000layouts.com they seem to have almost everything you could want to add or make for your myspace.
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im 13
i feel like im in a rush to have sex
idk im always horny?
and i just wanna do it HAHA
should i do it yet?
is it too early?
am i weird? :|
and how am i supposted to do it when im pretty sure no one else my age is ready nor wants to.. and i dont have a boyfriend right now.
i've never even had a boyfriend before.. :(
i think guys my age are extremely immature
i've always wanted an older guy haha
and im pretty sure im ready too
i know all the risks and how to be protected and all..
what to do?
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I dont think you should have sex at 13 years old. I understand that your body's going threw changes and you want to "Hump" everything that moves but sex at 13 would be a huge mistake. I mean what happens if you were to get preganet?!?!? I'm mean condoms dont mean you wont get preganet. I dont think you want to become a mother at 13 or give up a important thing that you only have once.
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I'm 16, I'm also in love with my best friend(of five years)'s ex boyfriend. I love my best friend and I know she still has feelings for him, but I've liked him since I was 14 (when they were dating) and I don't really know when I started loving him. He's also professed his feelings to me...and he asked me out. I know he really likes me, if not loves me back. He always makes an effort to be around me, tells me I'm beautiful, he calls me at night before I go to bed, studies with me, he's always the first one to notice the littlest changes in either my appearence, or even my mood...
I really want to be with him, but I don't want to hurt her. Please don't tell me that guys will come and go, but friends will be forever. That will honestly not help the situation at all. I really, really love him, and I don't know what to do. I can tell I've already hurt him by not telling him yes or no yet, I don't want him to have to wait any longer for a response. I don't want to lose my best friend either, she's my family. (link)
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I think it comes down to which happens to be more important to you. I dont think you will be able to have both because im sure your friend wont take it to well that her best friend wants the man she still wants. I hope things workout for you with whatever choice you make.
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My boyfriends sixteenth birthday is coming up in a month. I already know he is getting a car,so getting places won't be a problem. Coincidentally his birthday is also Our 0ne year anniversary too. he is more of the music type, not really into sports.
what i had planned is:
1. making him a cake the night before.
2. that day, taking him out to a nice sushi restaurant for our one year/ his birthday.
3. now i just need to take care of a gift,
something meaningful. but yet something he will like.
any suggestions? (link)
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The idea's you have planned sound like a "Great" start. I think whatever gift you buy him should have alot of meaning something he will never forget. Did you ever think about writing him a song?!?!?
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Ohkay, So at the beginning of my freshman year, [i'm a sophmore now] i became really close with a boy in my biology class. he was my BEST FRIEND. around march, we started dating, because we were absolutly crazy about eachother. we're still dating now, but..he moved to minnesota. i didn't think doing a long distance realationship would be bad, since we were dating about five months before he left. but i just feel like i'm holding him back, from, dating other people, or meeting other people. hes absolutly sure that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. but the other night he told me that hes terrified of losing me, that hes afraid someone else will come along and make me feel the same way he does. i know thats not true at all. but should i still be with him? should i wait til we're older and able to be together, not just "dating together" but physically together, with eachother all the time?
i don't know, i've just really been thinking about it lately. hes the most important thing in my life, and don't doubt it when i say i love him. because i do. i thought i loved other guys before, but it was nothing like this is for me. its the best feeling in the world. i just want to know if i'm doing the right thing by staying with him.. (link)
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I think you should do what makes you "Happy". I think if you were holding him back he would have told you or talked about dating other people. If you want to be with him then be with him and things should fall into place. Best of Luck!!!
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