I am 17, A senior in high school. I enjoy helping people a lot so if you want to know anything please ask.
Gender: Female
Location: Oregon
Occupation: Unemployed
Age: 17
Member Since: December 4, 2011
Answers: 52
Last Update: May 24, 2015
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I need jeans for work and I honestly can't find them anywhere..No back pocket designs, jeggings/super skinny jeans, dark with no fading or rips or designs, and either size 0 or 1 with Long not regular length. That is overly specific for a pair of jeans but it is for work. Any stores that have that or jeans close enough to that would be greatly appreciated, I have been searching everywhere with no luck. Thankyouu! (link)
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Depends on the location, I would recommend Wet Seal
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Can u mix vodka with only mountain dew or do you need smirnoff pineapple? (link)
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Orange juice is a good mix for vodka, and so is regular and spicy V8 juice.I usually only use soda as a chaser, and not mix it together. Unless it is a flavored drink like Smirnoff pineapple you shouldn't mix with that. I personally discovered recently that i like whipped vodka better than regular, and I chase it with Orange soda, so its kind of like a creamcycle.
hope that helped:P
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and they're both single?
But I'm afraid to get in any relationship, I don't even see how that could work. This is the last year of high school so nothing would even count, as everyone will go their separate ways. And even though I sense that he likes me idk for sure and I find my own feelings to be embarrassing, because in my mind I just want to be friends, but I can't help how I feel, I can't help but feel the attraction. I also wouldn't want a relationship because of how others would react to it, for various reasons. And that whole romance world is totally foreign for me, as I've never even kissed a guy, much less been in a relationship. how do I make sense of this situation? like now we're just friends but it's sort of awkward because there's some sexual tension and we're just two relatively shy, awkward people in general, but will it always be this way, even with our feelings? we don't see each other outside of school, though. once again, the whole socially awkwardness. it's really embarrassing for me just to type this, btw, and if anyone ever asked me IRL if I liked him, I'd lie, lol (link)
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I was actually shocked to read this question, because I have quite the similar situation..
I saw a video on YouTube awhile ago and it was a survey type thing asking if guy's and girl's can really be "just friends" all the guys said no and all the girls said yes. By the end of the video it was concluded that apparently no, guy's and girl's cannot be just friends because at some point in the friendship one of them will usually end up liking the other, which in that case they are no longer 'just friends' because one of them has feelings beyond that and wants more than that, and is stuck in the friend zone. So not that that is the same situation, I was just hoping that would help answer your question in some way.
If you guys are both single and attracted to eachother i'd say youd probably have a good realationship considering that you both say you're shy and slightly awkward. If you're friends then it wouldnt matter how experienced you are with guys, and it doesnt matter what other people think. its just important that you're happy.
otherwise, yes you should and can still be friends even though you are attracted to eachother.
considering im in a similar situation you can message me or ask me anything else regarding this and id be happy to help if i can.
I hope this helped. (:
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I know this sounds stupid, because it is. One of my friends who is a girl is persisting in a quest to straighten my hair. I don't really care, I just feel like I would look weird. Should I just give in and let her do it so she can have the satisfaction of knowing whether or not she's right about how I'd look? Again, I don't really care. So, no hurries with this one. (link)
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I would say let her, expecially if you don't care. She probably thinks you'll look good with it straight which is why she wants to try. So if you do look weird, you can both just laugh. And if you look good, then she'll think you look good which is a good thing (:
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I feel fat and i want to lose weight. Any Ideas? i wanna be skinny (link)
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I first want to start out saying that a lot of people nowadays are thinking they are fat when they are really not. Considering that i dont know how old you are or wheather you're a male or female i cant really tell you how much your average weight should be, but you can check that out online if you're interested.
The best way to loose weight is to pretty much just watch what you eat, and eat healthier. Exercise helps ofcourse, as little as 30 minutes a day would make a big difference but eating healthy is the biggest part.
Good luck!(:
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Female/16
My boyfriend (also 16) teases me tonnes, to him it's hilarious - anything that winds me up is hilarious to him - but to me, it's irritating and well, I cannot stand it anymore.
We've been together a few months and were seeing eachother for about six months pier to going out officially.
For example, when getting intimate and say I move him on top of myself, he says 'Alright, Claire!' - Claire is a friend of mine, she tends to sleep around and in his eyes is not attractive at all, he also hates her - this really, really irritates me, for obvious reasons, and I just really wish he'd stop it. As for one it completely ruins the mood and it's almost like he's thinking of someone else (even though I know he doesn't like her.)
I've tried telling him to stop, but he wont as he thinks it's really funny.
How can I help to stop this? Any help will be much appreciated and sorry for it being fairly long.
Thank you. (link)
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He probably doesn't realize that this hurts your feelings a bit, and actually bothers you. Just try and tell him that you don't like that he's joking around like that with you, not only because it comes off as degrating to you (because the way i take it he pretty much considers your friend a 'whore' and is joking around calling you the same, just for that) so if he doesn't like the attention your giving him, then he doesn't deserve it.
You also have to realize that he probably isn't serious about it, which doesn't change the fact that it bothers you or not, but I have a guy friend that says "jeez..slut" when i show quite a bit of my chest, or when i wear a shorter shirt, or have holes in my pants. lol I know he's kidding though, but if it bothered me he wouldn't realize that and would continue to do it because he thinks its funny.
I hope i helped somewhat. You can ask me anything else if you have more questions..(:
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Ok so well this guy I have been crushing on asked me out!! Sure that was a surprise since it was at a fire drill... Haha and ok that happened thursday afternoon, and friday he was by my side almost all day ;). But then he asked for my number(ok dont ask why I didnt have it before)Then I gave him it, but noticed I had the wrong ending and I told him I messed up and gave him the new one(his friend knew and said oh look wrong number I see not a good sign)But once I get home I noticed I screwed up one the middle part too!!!!! Ugh and hes probably trying to reach me the whole weekend :(Well I cant tell him till monday and I feel horriable. He most likely is getting advice from his friend who says"dude she doesnt even like you,if she gave you a false number" SOOO HELP ME WHAT DO I DO and no none of my friends have his number
~~CRISIS ANGIE~~ (link)
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Your overthinking the whole situation, just calm down. all you can do is wait until monday and tell him the right number, apologize for getting it wrong. If he likes you hes not gonna care.
Good luck!(:
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i am 14 and my bf is almost 14. we have not tlked in bout a week. i feel like he is trying to avoid me. wat do i do?? any body have any advice?? (link)
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Try anytime you can during school, in between classes, during lunch, before school, after school, anytime. If he's your boyfriend it's worth it.
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Can anyone tell me the name of this outfit and where I can get one like it from?
http://aff.ysi.bz/assets/91/285/l_p0013228591.jpg
http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-gGVvsbmUDdE/TaLx22k7iLI/AAAAAAAAABs/DuxLgYSIu5s/s1600/Back_Corset_High_waist__shorts_-_RM_45.jpg
http://images1.chictopia.com/photos/ad3lle/5105246365/white-zara-shirt-black-shorts_400.jpg
http://chicisimo.com/files/2010/04/shirt-blouses-shorts.png
http://www.beyourownbrand.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/button-front-mini-shorts-trinidad-e1313737549247.jpg
Where can I get an outfit like these from and what is the outfit called?
http://www.me-myselfandi.co.uk/mmi/74-184-large/black-saw-u-high-waist-skirt.jpg (link)
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Depending on where you live,
just go on google, and search "high waisted shorts" or "vintage high waisted shorts" Some options of where to buy them should come up, but like i said it depends on where you live.
good luck (:
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Its this boy name Alberto, me and him became close over a couple months & over the summer of 2011 . He was the only i SORTA expressed to on how i felt or what was going on with my life besides my first love (link)
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I've had a situation pretty similar to this, almost exact in fact. And sometimes guys do lead girls one, and overly flirt with them even though they're just friends. I know your upset with him, but maybe he was busy that night you texted him, although he was on facebook maybe that was just for a second and then he got off and was doing other things, so you shouldn't really be mad at him for that. and if you are, you can text him back and say "im not mad, i just really wanted to talk to you that night i texted you" if he's nice enough he'll understand and apologize and everything will be fine again.
If he asked if you were mad he must understand what he did.
good luck! (:
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Hi. So I'm 16/f and been been single for a while which is good and how I want it for a little while. My best friend is 19/m and I love him to pieces.
A little while I was talking dirty with him for a bit of a laugh and I may have done some stuff with him for a bit fun. Nothing I haven't done before.. I'm 99% sure he's not a virgin himself, but I am. I'm not sure if he's got the hint that I am or not... Well I want to sleep with him but I'm not sure if it'll make it awkward that I'm a virgin (it's not awk about the other stuff). And also do you think I should come out and tell him bluntly? I know he wants to but I'm not sure if he'd change his mind if he knew (that is if he didn't already know!).
He's my bestfriend first and foremost though and I'd never do anything I thought would affect that, so don't say anything about that... Haha thank yooooou! (link)
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If your going to have sex with someone (expecially your best friend) You should be able to talk about sex with them. And if he's your best friend he should already know you're a virgin, or if he doesn't he should respect that when he finds out. That shouldn't effect his decision of wanting to sleep with you or not, so if you really want to sleep with him ask him, if hes a virgin, if you want to know. maybe ask him about his sexual past if hes had one, tell him your a virgin, and ask him if he'd sleep with you. most guys wouldn't mind. lol good luck (:
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Hi I'm 16/f and I work with this guy who is one of my closest friends ever and one of the only people I trust. There's nothing I wouldn't do for him and he knows me better than most people, including my family.
Right well anyway a few days ago I was over his house and we kind of got with each other, which isn't a bad thing because we both we equally into it. As far as I'm concerned, if it never happens again I don't really care and if it does then it was a bit of fun. The only thing that I won't be happy with is if he makes it different between us as friends, cause I know for me it hasn't changed anything. In fact if anything it's made me more comfortable with him.
Anyway, I saw him yesterday and he didn't say a word to me... I've text him a few times and he replies short replies and just let's the convo die. This isn't unlike him normally, and he gets a bit depressed, but I don't know whether I should text him again? I miss not talking to him, we used to talk every day without fail, or am I just overreacting? I saw him this morning and everything was fine in person..
I'm not awkward about what happened at all, and I'm pretty much open to any way this could go in the future (though I'm a bit skeptical about a relationship, and I don't want to lose him as my friend). I'm just worried he'll be awkward about it. He's 19.
Any ideas what I should do? I miss talking to him :(
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The best thing to do, in my opinion would be to ask him to talk, and sit down with him in person and ask him how he feels about the whole situation, if it made him uncomfortable, or if he wants to be more than friends or what. I don't exactly know what you mean by "got with each other" so i dont know the full extent of the situation but usually that is a mutual decision so it shouldn't end up bad as it may be. Just try not to act awkward at all, ever. Even if he doesn't talk to you, and you usually talk to him first or even sometimes, keep doing that because you don't want to act any different or awkwardly because he can automatically assume that you feel awkward about the situation when maybe he doesn't. Hope i helped somewhat, good luck. Feel free to message me if you need more help
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hi
im james
i wanna ask u something tht im very much attracted towards my elder cousin sis so is it ok to have fun with her is incest sex is right or not ? plz reply me fast thanks.
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I'm sorry, but could you clarify it's your older cousin's sister? Correct?
If this is your blood cousin, and that is her blood sister, then yes you guy's would be related so yes it would in some way be a kind of incest.
But, if it's just through marriage then I have heard of people being with their cousin's (or cousin's sister in this case) and that would not be incest.
Hope this helped(:
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Name:lauren
Age:12
Where:Australia
I put on a tampon just to try it on then I took it off.by the way I have got my pirods but I wasn't due then.then I have been felling dizzy and week for the past 4 days.then I typed up on the computer(can tampond kill you)they said yes you should not use them
Then I got sceard.could I die? (link)
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You are only suppose to wear a tampon for 8 hours maximum when you are on your period. If you weren't on your period, and you just put it in and took it out your symptoms are not caused by the tampon.
But yes, if you leave a tampon in for too long when you are on your period you can obtain toxic shock syndrome which can kill you.
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17/f
When my boyfriend and I first had sex he tried to eat me out but I wouldn't let him cause I was scared. Now I keep hearing its so good I want him to try it but idk how to tell him I want it done. What should I do or say to him to get to do it or want to do it? (link)
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If you don't want to say anything, chances are if you give him a blow job he will most likely return the favor.
If that doesn't work, just tell him. He shouldn't mind if he tried before.
Good luck (:
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Is it slutty to send pictures of you in your underwear and bra to guys? I'm not fully naked so it has to be classy, right? What do guys think of girls who send them pictures? And is it cheating if the guy is in a relationship but I'm sending him pictures still? (link)
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Although this has already been answered, and I did not read the below answers I thought I would add in my opinion anyways. I do not think that makes you a slut, but you are giving guys what they want in a not so good way. Which could be a negative for you although most girls like the attention of "oh your so hot" "you have such a nice body" blah blah. But, what most people don't know is that is not allowed. And it isn't very smart for yourself. Once you send a picture of yourself like that, weather it's on facebook, email, texting or whatever else you can never get that back and it stays there forever. Most guy's don't think much of it from personal experience but if he's getting pictures of you, think of how many other girls he's getting or has gotten them from. That might change your mind. And yes, that would be cheating.
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Hi there so I am 18/F
So I have a lot of guy friends and a few girl friends, most of which are short, except my best friend who is 6", I however am 5"9 and I feel soooo tall, I look at my girl friends who are 5"5 or 5"6 and they get a lot of guys, I get guys and everything, but for some reason I look at my girl friends and I feel freakishly tall and weird, I am skinny, I eat a lot but I don't gain weight, I weigh about 130, I just don't understand why I feel so ugly around my friends, is there anything wrong with being this tall, I feel so insecure when I go out with them. Why is it that tall girls aren't as pretty as short girls? (link)
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I am 17/F and I am also skinny, and also do not gain weight when i eat. But I weigh 110. I'm 5'8 and I would actually like to be 5'10. Being tall is a good thing, and has nothing to do with your beauty or how many guys you get or any of that. You aren't freakishly tall or weird for that. Enjoy the height because on the plus size you probably have long legs, which a lot of girls would die for, and you could be model (: Don't think of yourself as bad because your tall or for any other matter. Your beautiful just the way you are. (:
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so yestarday i was at my bf house were both 14.my bra strap was showing so he started playing with it.to give him some pleasure i took of my shirt and i was wearing a tanktop so he layed on top of me and gave me a hicckiy,i grabed his dick and he wisperd to me tht he liked it and then some how he unhooked my bra and took it off but me still wearing my tanktop.
So both of us were like half naked when his parents walked in.we were both so imbaresed.i went home since then we havent talked he sent me a text saying good night and a heart.
should i be worried or is this normal(because he is a really she/also we have been dating for 4 months)? (link)
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You are both kind of young for this kind of activity, but stuff like that happens and sometimes people do get caught. I don't really understand what your asking you should be worried about and or what is normal. But sounds to me like nothings wrong with you and him, if he texted you after it, but his parents may not let you guys see eachother if they walked in on it. I wouldn't worry about it though.
Hope i helped somehow.
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Hi guys, this question is just one that im wondering about. I made a deal with my mom about me getting a new piercing. I can get my tongue or my belly button. i'm not sure which one to get. Neither of them are to seduce people, i just really like them both. But which one should i get? i just want to see what people have to say about it. thank youu! (link)
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Bellybutton (:
I've had mine for a long time and i love it.
You have a lot more risks with getting your tongue pierced and it's a lot less pain like they said. (:
Probably cheaper too.
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Hii my name is stefana i havent really been on in a while but i just have one question... does it hurt when you have sex for the first time? And will you bleed out of ur vagina???
I hope you can answer my question but u have had no trouble in the past so see ya!!! Bye baby!!! (link)
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Most likely yes, it will hurt the first time, but not too bad if the guy is careful. And most girls will bleed because you will break your hymen.
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