My name is Dustin. I'm a pretty jazzy guy. I usually just help my friends with their troubles. But when I'm bored I come here and help countless people. If I helped you, thank me. I appreciate being valued.
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Member Since: June 20, 2005
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Last Update: August 14, 2007
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okay im freaking out about freshman year.
all my friends are going to different schools.
i have like one really good friend thats going
to my school. so how do i make new friends in a
weird enviroment...or atleast ensure that i wont
be not liked??
i cant imagine what its going to be like going
to school with older looking people....
it just seems scary. (link)
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You'll be fine, you'll make a lot of new friends in high school. Just be yourself and if that doesn't work, find one person and infiltrate their group ahah.
I barely know any of my middle school friends now and I'm a senior. Most of my best friends were from other schools.
Now they're just from my highschool. :P
You'll get used to it and have fun!
Hope this helped!
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Im fourteen the boy i like is fifteen.
I already know a lot about me and we manage to keep converstations going, but i need to kinda spice them up a bit? Any suggestions?
i want to start inside jokes.
and have just a have fun crazy converstation with him.
were getting really good friends.
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Just talk to him every chance you get.
Make jokes and give him a cute name!
Hope you get him!
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So ,maybe about a week or less ago I had unprotected sex,not all of the sperm went in me but some did get in me.
I don't get my period regularly at all,so it comes randomly throughout the year.
So I can't tell if I miss my period or not since I dont get it every month.
My boobs are feeling tender a little bit and ive had some bloating,but sometimes when I stress out and worry I feel things that aren't even there.
Im very young,and I just need to know how I can tell im pregnant besides missing my period because that isnt accurate for me.
Also,how long should I wait to take a pregnancy test for it to be accurate but as soon as possible?
Thanks so much ! (link)
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I think a week into the pregnancy would be an accurate reading.
You may be experiencing pregnant feelings because you think you might be pregnant.
Take the test and get yourself some birth control.
Hope this helped!
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What do guys find attractive in a girl? Just a few common things, personality/looks, etc. I've had many people crush on me and I don't understand why. I'm not the most attractive girl and I'm not popular. I'm not the same as everyone but not all that different, if that makes sense. But many take one look at me and want to get to know me.. a while later they tell me they have a crush on me. Is shyness attractive? As well as being unique.. creative ..artsy type? It just feels weird that I can "pull someone in" after a few days of meeting them.. without flirting or anything. Does this happen to you?
Also, four of my friends like me. Two are my exs from years ago.. they think they have a chance and keep flirting. How can I make this stop? Another is my best friend and the other is just a friend. How can I let them down gently? I don't want to lead anyone on or give them any ideas. I don't want to say anything rude either. I'm already in a good relationship. (link)
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Basically, if the guy is shallow, they really care about your body and face.
But the nicer guys who aren't very shallow see a decent looking girl then look into their personality.
Looks matter, but not as much as most people think.
The best way to let them down gently would to constantly flaunt that you have a boyfriend, they start flirting you mention what you did with your boyfriend that day or something along those lines.
Make it apparent that you are with someone and you don't plan on changing it anytime soon.
Hope this helped!
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I'm considering working part-time at a mall after school. Do you, or anyone you know, work at a mall? What is it like?
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It's a nice place to work if you're sociable.
I'm sure you'll see a lot of people you know from school there.
I'd love to work at the mall, it's a nice place to be and always quite cool.
Good luck!
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Okay.. ive been sneaking out at night, don't give me the you never should blahh blahh blahh because I already did it I don't need to be hearing the same thing everyone else it.
Okay well when I sneak out I go to Erics house, were not going out we just make-out.. this week his parents were out've town and he wanted to go a lille farther and I told him no.
Well that was like wensday.. I went there thruday and he stuck his hand up my skirt and I flipped out on his telling him if I wasn't ready last night I wont be the next one.. well friday(tonight)was over too and everybody kept looking at me like I was on something and then my friend Kim whispered to me saying I shouldntve come becuase everyone knows I had sexx with Eric the other night. Im like what!!! I stood right up off the couch and was like wtf is that Eric I told you I wasn't ready so you just tell everyone I had sex with you! And I slapped him.. everyone was baffeled and I told everyon what a lieing sack of shit he was. Im walking out when he grabbed my arm(which still hurts) and he started screaming at me saying stuff like I shouldnt lie and that im a slut and if I knew any better to go to his room right now I started crying because hes sqeezing my arm really tight screaming in my face and Matt and David started shuving him around saying he shouldnt ever touch a girl never like that and David walked me home. He said he thought Eric was all full of it and apoligized for his rudeness.Well I hugged him and went inside. Well i was on AIM like 5 hours ago and Eric starting Iming my telling me that he was sorry and when I started yelling so did he. He started threatening me so I sent David the conversation and like an hour later Matt told me David went back to his house and beat the living shit outa him.. so when I talked to him he said it wasnt right what he was saying so I was like so u beat him up?? and he was like yupp. So we started talking and we brought up going out (which were not *at the moment*) and he said that if we ever did go out that he wouldn't go that fast and if he did even kiss me he wouldn't bragg. and Im like ur just my bigg protector!! and im now like in love with him!! So I wanna ask himout and were going Mini-golfing Sundayy and I wanna ask him out then HOW and ahh Im soo happy and pissed becuase ive been answering people questions about never having sex with that pig and everything so how should I do it? And i hurd a lil bitt ago that Eric might show up to 'get back at David' ahh what do I doo?? (link)
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Seems like you should wait on how you feel about him.
You may be feeling really obligated and attached to him considering he protected you, but you should keep seeing him and getting to know him to be sure you really like him.
And considering he said that he wouldn't be fast like David, he'll understand why you wanna take it slow.
I hope it works out, I liked the story, it's very interesting!
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so i told this guy that i like him, and i really do. so mcuh, he has no idea. andhe was like "i cant tell you the same thing, you seem really unsure of things a lot" just stuff along those lines...and i mean, hes right, i am unsure of things and what not, but, im not withhim. for the first time, ifeel sure of everything and im just waiting for him. and. i dont know what to do, because now i feel weird, and i cried for a bit.
15/f
oh yeah, the boy, hes been my best friend, for 8 years and i feel ive screwed that up as well by telling him i like him. (link)
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Just tell him all of this.
Make sure he knows you don't want to lose his friendship, convince him that you really do like him.
Make him sure that you're sure.
Hope it works out, good luck!
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is there any way to gain weight in the butt and thighs? (link)
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I don't think there's a way to tell the fat where to go on your body.
But generally, fat in the buttucks and thighs stays longer than the fat everywhere else.
So if you gain weight then lose weight, they may remain larger.
Hope this helped!
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I thought i had 2 huge pimples on my chin, but like under the skin. anyways, i started to reasearch it and found out they are actually cysts. tey hurt pretty bad and are causing me discomfort. i've heard of putting neosporin on them but that hasn't helped. any ideas? (link)
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Wait them out, I have them all the time, I just ignore them until they go away.
You can try popping them with a sterile needle, but that's never advised
Hope they go away quickly!
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about 4 years ago, i met my best friend, and weve been friends ever since. well right around the time i met her, i started going through a lot of hard stuff, started being overwhelmed with depression, just alot of stuff was going on. the thing is, i never really told her about any of it, or told anybody at all. i feel bad bc she always tells me everything, i feel like im not being fair to her. i always make up lies to tell her so i wont have to talk about whats wrong. do you think im not being fair to her? if so, how can i feel more comfortable about talking to her about it all? (link)
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If you don't feel that you need to talk to her about it, don't.
But if she asks you if you're okay and you aren't, just tell her you aren't.
She's your best friend, she deserves to know if she wants to.
Hope it goes well!
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how can i lews a few pounds before school starts? (link)
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Losing weight in a healthy matter quickly is difficult.
Just be on a good diet and do lots of exercise, do not fast (stop eating) or excessive exercise!
Diet pills are also a no-no.
Hope you lose those few pounds!
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School's starting soon, and I have insomnia.
On top of that, I screwed up my sleep schedule so that I can't fall asleep until at least three in the morning, and I can't seem to fix it.
Any suggestions? (link)
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I'm going to have the same problem.
I start on Wednesday and I go to sleep at 7AM.
Basically, I've been sleeping all through when I would normally be in school.
What I've found to work is to not go to sleep the day before the day before school.
Try hard to keep yourself up to when you would normally want to go to sleep on a schoolnight and fall asleep easy considering you'll be exhausted from not having slept in over 24 hours.
Good luck on fixing your sleeping pattern!
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I'm about thirty pounds overweight (yeah, I'm working on that), and I don't look the best.
But, I like to think I have a good personality, I know I have a pretty good sense of humor, and I must be smart-ish, at least, because I've been in Pre-IB for two years.
So, do you guys have any tips on scoring a nice, funny, cute guy? (link)
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Just keep looking, be outgoing and talkative and they will come to you!
I hope you find someone you want.
Hope I helped!
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please do not say "There's no such thing as a myspace tracker" because I had one and it worked perfectly it was called 'Spyspace' it logged EVERYONE with pictures
if there's any savvy computer people out there please help me find one that works out good enough to AT LEAST have the persons myspace name, pic, or link to the persons myspace. any of those would work for me
thank you so much
(5s for any help) (link)
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MySpace patched MySpace trackers.
MySpace trackers would gather the IP addresses of all people who loaded said page and then it would use the MySpace database to see who's connected through that IP address. MySpace no longer lets that happen, it's a violation of privacy.
I don't think there are any MySpace trackers that give names and pictures anymore, I'm sorry.
Hope this helped!
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what are some things that i can say to my boyfriend to really get him turned on? what's the sexiest things for a girl to say to a guy? i want examples, not just explanations. (link)
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Guys like sexual things, touch him, or promising touching him will get him turned on.
Talk about how you're his and how he can do most anything to you. If he's dominant he'll enjoy that very much.
If he's not dominant tell him about what you'd do to him.
I hope you turn him on!
Hope I helped!
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I think i have poison ivy on my legs. it's just on the side of my calves right now, and i put some hydricortisone cream on it but it's kind of burning. is there any home remedies to get rid of poison ivy? (link)
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Take a shower in the hottest water you can stand, for as long as you can stand - this should ease the itch for 8 hours.
Jewelweed is widely thought to help the rash.
Mash the weed and apply to the rash.
Spray with a deodorant containing aluminum, which most do.
That's all I can find for now.
I hope it goes away quickly!
Hope this helps!
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ummm ok well i just downloaded limewire (the free one) soo i could get songs on my ipod!! but after i downloaded the songs i tryed to put them on and it doesnt work!! like i can see them in my shared files when im on my itunes thing online but i tried like everything and they wont download to my ipod any1 no why?? and how i can get them on..!!!! (link)
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They may not be a supported file format for the iPod (they could possibly be licensed)
Try putting the files in a different location (not your Shared files for Limewire)
If that doesn't work, they may not be the right format for iPod.
I hope you sort it out. Hope I helped!
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15/f & i love singing
ok well i'm making my friend a little video for her birthday
i was considering singing her a little one minute song like about how nice it is to have a friend like her
but honestly... would that just be weird?
please let me know and give me your honest opinions! (link)
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I'd think it was adorable, but make a joke out of it, it might be awkward if you're completely serious about it.
That's a really sweet idea though, I hope it goes well.
Good luck!
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I'm a magnet for mishaps when it comes to locking lips, tongue hockey just isn't my sport, you see.
I've only been in two prior relationships from the one that is just starting up and neither turned out too well.
Boy one, we'll call him Chad. Yes Chad. Well, Chad, seemed like a nice enough guy. He was a jock and he seemed really into me from the first time we met. I guess that’s why I found him attractive enough to give a chance. I mean, I wasn't really all that into him. He was immature and not very bright, but up till that point no one had shown interest in me and I wasn't going to throw this opportunity away. Beggars can't be choosers right? And I know that sounds absurd but its high school and I felt obligated to give in to the egotistical need to be titled "someone’s girlfriend." So I decided to date the kid. And at first he was really nice, sweet even, and I found myself growing founder of him. Then he asked for just the two of us to go see a movie. Of course I accepted. What I didn't realize was he was going to attack me at the cinema. It was horrible. He kissed me, and it was nice, I suppose. He wasn't well practiced so it was kinda sloppy and I wasn't really feeling it...so I spoke up. Told him I'd rather he not. That we'd only seen each other twice before and this was my first relationship. But instead of stopping he went back in and this time thrust his tongue into my mouth. I tried to pull away but he climbed on top of me pinning me down and ravishing my mouth. He was larger than I so I wrestled beneath him for a bit before I got the idea that saved me from further violation...I wiggled till I had pulled my legs up and some how managed to kick him in the chest and off of me. After that I never thought I’d want to kiss a boy ever ever ever again. He took my first kiss, and then ruined the entire experience. He stole it. One of those memories that are suppose to be awkward but happy.
About nine months later I found myself being pursued by an older boy. Not much older just a little over one year, but still. He had a car, and he played guitar. How was I supposed to resist. So I gave in, forgot my fear, and decided to give him the opportunity to change the fact that I was scared out of my mind of kissing someone. Well. He didn’t make a move. And he didn’t make a move. And yet again, and again, he didn’t make a move so I finally got up the courage one night when he was saying goodbye to me on my doorstep to just do it. I leaned in, making my intentions completely known, and right before our lips touched he grabbed my shoulders and pushed me away. Saying “I just can’t.” And leaving me standing there tears already streaming down my face. Yes, against all belief that a girl can’t “be shoved” it happened. I’m the one girl in history to be shoved. Lets just say soon after this experience I broke it off. He had hurt me just too badly. Wounded my ego, and my heart.
Now I’m entering a relationship with the most amazing man I’ve ever met. I’ve never felt this way about someone. Its more than an intense liking, I’m not “in love” with him. I’m not even sure if I know what “in love” means exactly…I just know what it looks like to an outsider, and I have faith that when it happens to me I’ll know in my gut…I may not be “in love” with him, but I sure as hell love him. I love him so much. And I’m just afraid of messing this up when it comes to this kiss. What if I blow it? What if I freak out? I need advice. A comforting word. Anything that could possibly help. I just…need help. Please. Please. Please.
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Just take it slow. Kissing isn't important if you really like him. You may even consider talking to him about it.
If he knows how hard it is for you, he'll probably go easy on you.
Find out if he wants to kiss you and if you want to kiss him, create the mood and he should be able to lean in.
I'm guessing he's more mature than the other guys if you like him this much.
Just take your time, he should think you're worth the wait.
Good luck, hope this helped!
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ok so me and my gf have been dating for awhile now
and i mean weve felt each other up and stuff
but i havent figured her yet and i mean i had the chance too but i didnt knw wat to do
any tips?
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When you feel up on eachother, start to ease your way down to her crotch and just kinda move your hand around there until it seems like she wants you inside her pants.
And once she gives you the silent okay, go for it.
Have fun, and good luck!
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