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What do guys find attractive in a girl? Just a few common things, personality/looks, etc. I've had many people crush on me and I don't understand why. I'm not the most attractive girl and I'm not popular. I'm not the same as everyone but not all that different, if that makes sense. But many take one look at me and want to get to know me.. a while later they tell me they have a crush on me. Is shyness attractive? As well as being unique.. creative ..artsy type? It just feels weird that I can "pull someone in" after a few days of meeting them.. without flirting or anything. Does this happen to you?
Also, four of my friends like me. Two are my exs from years ago.. they think they have a chance and keep flirting. How can I make this stop? Another is my best friend and the other is just a friend. How can I let them down gently? I don't want to lead anyone on or give them any ideas. I don't want to say anything rude either. I'm already in a good relationship.
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Basically, if the guy is shallow, they really care about your body and face.
But the nicer guys who aren't very shallow see a decent looking girl then look into their personality.
Looks matter, but not as much as most people think.
The best way to let them down gently would to constantly flaunt that you have a boyfriend, they start flirting you mention what you did with your boyfriend that day or something along those lines.
Make it apparent that you are with someone and you don't plan on changing it anytime soon.
Hope this helped!
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