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Im a jazz dancer and i love dancing! i also love singing. Im the youngest out of my 4 older brothers and i live in indiana. I want to be a performer when i am older and i also want to be a journalist. Feel free to AIM me because i *LOVE* to chat on it! Im also good at giving advice too. =]
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Alright, so I know this girl, i've known her about a year and a half and we have dated once before for like 3 months. It was quiet long distance and we really didn't do anything. We got into a stupid fight about stupid thing's and stopped talking for about 7 months. Well, about 2 months ago I started talking to her again because I wanted to get to know her again and be cool since she will be going to the same high school as me this year as apposed to last year. So instantly we started talking on the phone and now we talk till like 3 am almost every night. I see her a bit more now and we spent the fourth with each other and now im like seriously falling for her, she is everything I could ever want. BUT, I don't really thinks she feels the same and she never tells me how she feels. She just says, I don't want a boyfriend during the summer. What should I do and how does it sound from a female point of veiw.
just give her hints all summer that you like her. and then when summers over ask her out on a date and just tell her how you feel.
well i am 13 and STILL havent gotten my period and well... i have tons of discharge and cramps like ALMOST EVERYDAY! could i be gettin my period soon? please help
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My good friend is having a pool party tomorrow and she invited many people to go. One of the people going is her boyfriend. I don't think I have ever hated anyone more than I hate her boyfriend. He treats me like shit, he treats HER like shit and they honestly make me sick when I see them together. I originally wasn't going to go because of the fact that he was going to be there, but then my friend Cara convinced me to go as well as my boyfriend. I made the decision not to go because I don't want to start anything with them. I know everyone is going to be there to have a good time, and I want to have fun but I CANNOT have fun if he is near me. I can't even begin to describe how much I loathe her boyfriend. I sort of feel bad that I'm not going but I know I'm making the right choice in staying home because I don't want to ruine it for anyone else just because I'm going to be misterable. But my question is, do you think I should go anyway? She really wanted me to go but I seriously will not be able to keep my anger inside if I see them together.
no, your right. when she asks why u didnt go tell her because that she and her boyfriend are stupid.
ok well.. my boyfriend [of about 1 and a half years] birthday is comin up in july. and i hve NO clue what to do for him.. like where to go/what to get him.. that sorta thing.. last year for my birthday we met at a pizza place then went to the movies and he gave me a really pretty necklace w. matching earrings.. i want it to be special u know.. even tho we hve been together for 1 and a half years we werent "together" for his birthday last year.. someone please help me! and i want all the details.. please.. thanks in advance!
rent a couple of movies and go to his house and watch them..ask him what he wants..maybe get him a cd or something.
ok i went to this dance with my guy friend. first off when we were dancing he started grinding wiht me and then with slow dancing we were dancing really my face was right against his. also when we were grinding there was a point where he kind of backed off. why was that do you think?? and do you think he likes me?? Should i tell him i like him??
tell him how u feel.. he probly backed off bcuz he was surprised.
my x-b/f tried to make me sneek out of the house to go over to his friends (to watch porn) w/ him and his hommie . he made the commentthat anything he say or he got his hommie would see and get. i alreaddy broke up w/ this boi but im scarred that he might try to rape me. what should i do?
dont go! and tell some one about it.
i want to learn self defence but my parents don't want me in a class yet. i really need help because 1 time i was attacked about 2 yrs ago and i barely fought off the attacker who stole my purse(100$) what are cool/easy/basic moves that i could master quickly, please im paranoid that i will need these moves to defend myself thanx (i rate high)
go to the library and get books on self defence. or go to block buster or something and see if they have self defence movies that teach u self defence.
ok so i am 16 female and i was going to meet up with this boy tomorrow he has never met me and i have never met him i promised him last week thing is i have spots on my head now.I can't meet him with spots i mean its like 4 spots on my forehead.i have never had spots before.What shall i do chicken out and tell him i will meet him next week.i mean its better than him seeing me with spots..... or anyway i can get rid of them by tomorrow.
put ALOT of clearisil on them all tonight and tomorrow morning..then go get some foundation and cover up to put on them.
I'm 15 and going into 10th grade but the guy I like is 19 and going to be a sophmore in college. We've been hanging out alot and he said he liked me too...but my mom is way against it. she says he's too old and she 'knows what older guys want out of younger girls' but its not like that at all. How do I get her to see that he's not jus trying to get some?
open up to ur mom..tell her how you feel. and remember it is illigal for a minor to date some one over 18. so be careful!
TOTAL BLUSh! I have blue vains going all down my CHEST and on my breasts they're so embarrasing i cant wear a nice bikini or a low top. How can I make them look not as noticable all my fat goes to my but not any where else really! Im only young so plastic surgery aint' a option any help? Ta x
go to the doctor..he will give u medicine for it.
My 7th grade class is going on a school trip to Lake Compounce in Conneticut. It is on June 16th and (this may sound weird but...) I want to GO with someone (as in a DATE) I am not sure what to do. Should I drop hints, or ask? Ask one of ym guy friends and tell them I want to go as friends? Or tell them it is a date? Please help!
Also although we usually have a dress code we can wear w/e we want (I am going to wear a bikini under my clothes) but I am not sure what to wear. I want to dresss attractively, but not sluty.
I WILL RATE 5'S FOR ALL ANSWERS!
(As long as it is not retarded)
THANKS!
drop hints...if he doesnt get it then ask him 3 days before the trip..wear a skirt and a cute top over your bikini and REMEMBER dont act like a slut. because then you will lose miost of your friends. and people will lose respect for you.
My Chest and Back area had been braking out this summer realy bad. My Hair is realy oily and i think that is why. Anyways...
Last Night I bought Clean&Clear (Daily Cleansing Pads). I used it and this morning its dry but still showing bad and i see lil dots so that means more acne! Has anyone ever used this or known/know someone who has? How long does it take? It says Daily Cleansing Pads but does anyone do it more than once? HELP IM GOING TO THE BEACH IN A COUPLE DAYS AND I DONT WANT TO LOOK LIKE A *F*R*E*A*K*!!!!
-13/f-
Signed,---
---Freak
it takes time yo. but it WILL work..trust me =]
ok i am 15/f pleez help event tho this is going to be a long one! and my stupid sister is so different from me...personality wise...she is so mean to everyone that she knows...im not, she doesnt care about peoples feelings or how they feel...i do, she has no feelings whatsoever like whenever i go to school i say "bye i love you," and she doesnt say anything back! i mean my mom is a single parent and she raised us both the same way...so how did i turn out to be so nice and have her be so evil? well anyway, yesterday i was online and my sister was just on for like 2.5 hours and i got up to try on some new makeup that i found online, then i saw her on the computer and i told her that she better not get on because i wasnt done yet. so she said,"i just wanna put these pics on here" so i let her and when i wanted to go back on she had like 3 websites up and a crapload of people on that she was talking to. so i told her to get off and that she was just on for hours. and she said ok but kept on with what she was doing. so i screamed"GET OFF!" and she jumped. so i left because i was so mad and by the time i got back, i could read her IM to her friend and it went like this: sister:im scared, her friend:well give her a twinkie and tell her to be good...well i am the kind of person that really is not happy with their weight and for them to be so mean like that really hurt my feelings so i yelled at her started busting out crying and SHE DIDNT EVEN FEEL BAD!!! she just told me that i think im so important that i think everyone talks about me. i was like whatever. so my question is(sorry for being so long) why r we so different and ive also been having some thoughts about crash dieting bc nothing else works? should i i only weigh around 135 and im 5foot 7inches and im 15.
just start excersing..cuss out your sister and tell her to leave you alone FOREVER. and treat her like she treats you. trust me she WONT like it. and it WILL work.
hey i just have a question... my boyfriend watches pron and he tells me about it does that me taht is wants to be with other girls and isnt happy with what i am givin him or is it jsut a guy thing?
pLEASE HELP
guy thing.
I feel so idk any more. Every boy i been with has used me for sex but they never got it so they dumped me. I ment this really sweet boy and at his party last weekend we fucked. Were not going out but we tell each other we love one another. I care bout him so much. His house cought on firer and i feel really bad. I care about him so much and i dont think he noes. This last week ive been trying to be with him as much as i can cause he moving this weekend really far. Im gonna miss him and ive been crying so much. Im so scared i might do something that i dont wanna do. What should i do?
tell him exactly how you feel. then see what he says. theres really nothing you can do about the moving thing.
13/f
okay .. well i'm going out with this really great guy, but before he asked me out we were like REALLY tight friends .. and right now i dont feel like we're getting anywhere and we might not last for much longer. but the thing is he really loves me, and i really do love him too but i wanna break up with him, so if we get in a fight we won't lose our friendship too. he's an awesome guy .. but i like someone else too, and i'll never have a chance with him if i'm tied ((spelling .. ?)) down with my current boyfriend. i KN0W THiZ iZ L0NG BUT PLEASE HELP ME!
u r going to loose him no matter what. so do whatever you want to.
Hey!
Ok, my 2 best friends, we'll call them 'Bailey' and 'Hailey'. We haven't done anything together over this summer, and I just called Bailey yesterday and said we should try to do something. Bailey automatically said yeah, Hailey can come too. Now, I know for a fact Bailey and Hailey have already hung out this summer. What can I do to just hang out with one of them at a time?
Thanks!
tell them that u just want to spend some time bailey only. for bonding and stuff.
I have never smoked and this is my first time smokeing. I smoked 3 full ciggs. Can that make you sick or will I be okay???
it CAN make you sick. duh!
My friend Felicia just invited me over her house in like 30 minutes..the problem is, I don't want to go. I just don't feel like going...What excuse could I possibly use? I can't say my parents are making me go somewhere because they're both at work. I can't say I'm hanging out with friends because all my friends are out of town. Please help!
just tell her the truth. or if she calls dont answer the phone.
im 16 years old and 8 months pregnant..my boyfriend ..which is the father and is 19..wont have anything to do with me..he wont even touch me anymore yea he comes over every now and then but he doesnt stay long..it breaks my heart because i love him so much..he says he loves me but it definately doesnt feel like it..what can i do?
tell him how you feel. ask him why he is so stand-of-ish.