Hey guys! i love giving advice to my friends and i thought that this woulod help me even more. well ill tell you a little about myself im 14 have gone through tough relationships love cheer and love hanging out wiht friends...shopping....swimming...going on dates...and partys
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Age: 14
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my friend is anorexic and i need to persuade her to tell and adult, before i do. what should i say?
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well this is probably a very sensitive subject but i am thinking that you should talk to her and say "you know i am your friend and friends care about each other and if caring means to solve your anorexia problem you should do that if you dont it could end up in something really bad like death. so i always want to have you around so please tell someone it doesnt have to be a parent or a teacher but just someone that can help." i hope i helped, *Kelley*
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K see me and this guy just started dating and all for like 3days now and hasen't called me yet i gave him my number. But see i want him to go with me to this fourth of july thing with me what should i do to get in contact with him??? (link)
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ok well maybe this guy forgot and maybe he has a busy scedual call him first make the first move what could happen?
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im 14/f and ive never really had a true relationship. i think its because people just see me as the nice girl. plus, im not the prettiest thing in the world. what should i do to get guys to notice me?
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hi nice girl! well i have a few tips for you i had answered to another user, 1. try and get a makeover it wil make a owrld of difference. also try to tone up a little bit. and not ot be the nice girl find someone else to go out wiht and then peole wont see you as that
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how old are most people when they start masturbating? I know this is a weird question and I don't want to [masturbate], but I'm just curious. (link)
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umm i think around there teens early teens. thats a really weird question thought lol. *Kelley*
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two things 1--
i met this kid last year, dan. i loved him every sicne i met him. he was in a 1 and a half year relasinship with a girl named gina, he broke up with her in march (the beginging) noticed he liked me. gina was over dan,went out with a kid named dom. then april me and dan went out. but we broke up because he missed gina, nd i was starting to like another guy. then me and dan were good friends and then we would get in fights everyother day. in the end of june. and my his finals ended last week. he was gonna ask me back out but i started to like someone else. but now i noticed i love dan soo much. and no one else. but now he works late. i go to summer school. so now he is gonna ask me back out in augest. i really love him, but i dont no if i can wait that long i already waited about a year.
2-me and him are good friends but we fight everyother day, but he puts on his away message//profile "i love gina" but then when were friends again he tells me its to get me jealse. (it works lol) but sometimes i think he still likes gina. but he tells me he doesnt, but every 3 weeks he'll tell me he noticed he liked her again. i dont no what to belive any more. should i belive him?
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ok one if he is going to miss another girl that much its not even worth going out wiht him. i think that you should just do whatever your heart tells you. its always right. *Kelley*
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about for how long do henna tattoo's stay on for ? anything besides not taking a shower that mite make them stay on longer ? thnx mucho (link)
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ok well a henna stays on for aobut a week. just dont scrub at it or anything that wil make it go away faster. but just maybe in the shower put a water proof bandaid over it. hope i helped *Kelley*
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I found out that someone that my brother knows smokes ciggarettes and i think im just going to stay out of it but i want a second opinion!
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ok well i would say talk to your brother and ask him about smoking and stuff. just dont let your brother start. if it get serious where your brother comes home smelling like smoke talk to your parents. hope i helped. *Kelley*
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i got wallpaper from this site called www.screensavers.com i was wondering there is any possible way to delete wallpaper because the wallpaper i got from the site i don't want anymore so is there anyway to delete wallpaper off your computer? and if there is could you tell me the process or steps in order to get it off your computer thanks ~ sunshine1232 (link)
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ya hey well first you right click and then click properties and then click wall paper and then delete what ever one you want. hope i helped *Kelley*
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ok there is this guy I like and I need to know what all of yall think....I really like him and I think he likes me to...We are on 2 totally different popularity levels for example I am known as the coaches little sister and he is the hot gorgous football, basketball,and baseball playrer, ......What would ppl think?........(O know I shouldn't care but i want to know).....Tell me the truth what would you think?......He is older than me but it's all good cause i go for the older guys anyway.....He drives and ofcourse I don't .......I'm a little chubby and he is really skinny and has a great stomache....oh and i can't forget the muscles....What should I do? (link)
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i think you should give it a chance what do you have to lose? and if your worried about the whole hes skinny and your not try working out and toning up it always helps! crunches crunches crunches! so i say that instead of making yourself the coaches little sister step out of the shadow a little bit and you said he might like you too so give it a try who know what will happen?
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Okay , this girl moved from another part of the town to the part i live in around last year . I was quite popular in school. I became friends with her because i thought she was sweet and friendly. But since last month ( or maybe even before that ,who knows?) she started backstabbing me , but still acted nice and sweet and oh-so-innocent in front of me .I have been busy for some time because of some commitments i have , so i didn't realise this until last week . None of my old friends talk to me as much as before , and now even when i sms my best guy friend , he'll talk about her smsing him at the same time .And it seems as though all of them like her more than they like me , and my best guy friend ( former ? ) he'll say stuff like :" oh , me and her and ___ and ___ and ___ are real close man " Without even including ME ! And if he wants to go somewhere he'll say :"if she goes , i'll go . " It turns out she's been saying stuff behind my back , and now , SHE'S where i used to be , with MY friends , and MY popularity .Even my crush seems to sorta like her , and pay attention to her like how he used to do with me . WHAT SHOULD I DO ? (link)
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omg this is so freaky because the same exact situiation happened to me. its very confusing and its a hard point but what happened for me is that i said something to her and she mellowed out it really sucks having to go through this its a horrible feelign inside. my advice to try to find a new group of friends to hang out with and let your others cool down a little bit and as for your guy friend i think you should have a one on one convo with him and talk it over like o i really feel like so and so is sorta taking my place and i dont feel wanted anymore i feel like i dont have friends....ect....what i did to get out of the situation was join the cheer team its a competitive one where you can make new friends and its awesome because you can just get away from school life so thats my advice if you dont like cheerleading then try a different sport that your so called friends are in o ya i just thought of somehting find out what that girls said about you and tell me because if she said something totally unbelieveable like you made out with a girl or whatever something like that just denyi it and go on and if its something like o you said that so and so is ugly or whatever tell that person that you supposivly said it about that you would never say that about thenm and if they knew you then they would know that you would never say that sorta of thing. i really hope it works out for you and my advice works wirte me back about this i really owuld like to know more x's and o's *Kelley*
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ive got all these fruit flies. i think they've nested somewhere in my room! wat can i do?!? how can i get rid of them?!?!? (link)
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ok i say call an exterminater hopei helped *Kelley*
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I am a 13/f and never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me and once he was starring at me so I turend around to look and he quikly turend around.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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Well i think that you you already know the answer but ill give you some things i think. the same thing happened to me and we eneded up together it was in 6th grade i thinky ou should really take your chance on this life is alll aobut risks and this will be one of them. you wil have a great time. dating is a whirlwind of happiness sadness and sometimes very confusing but it will all be worth it in the end. follow your heart and make the right decision in the end. it will all be worthwhile. *Kelley*
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My younger sister is 11 and she weighs 130 pounds. I'm not sure if this is right, cause she looks pretty slim but is heavy. She asked me to ask you guys this since she is too young to join. By the way, I'm 13 and I'm 88 pounds. (link)
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ok well i have the same build as you...but i think that is very unhealthy for a 11 year old i vert much recomend you and your parents go and talk to a doctor. i hope i helped *Kelley*
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I can be pretty shy. When it comes to guys and sometimes even making new friends. I am going into a new school now, and I just want to be able to have as many friends as possible. And I don't want to be standing there seeing all of these girls talking to guys just because they look confident and walk a certain way. Do you think that makes a big difference? Being confident in yourself and showing it? Or am i just hopeless? Let me know. How can I fix this?
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hey..ok one word confidence. you need to be confident in your self. if you show them that your not afraid to make friends then they will be your friend. a famous quote goes...to make a friend, be a friend. and also...if you want a boyfriend then try your hardest. show him that you can be a good girlfriend and also if you really want to make a splash then ask your parents about throwing a boy girl party and then get to know people. hope i helped *Kelley*
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my father has alway been picking on me ever since i was small.. he denys he hits me. but aftr he does he says ssorry. i mean.. if he`s really that sorry why`d he do it. My friend is coming down from the states into canada for 2 weeks. She knows about him and stuff. just hopefully he doesnt do anyhting stupid. i ant her to have a good time here. any advise on how i can just calm down and think positive. i took walks. but im still paranoid. maybe this is just a fear right? o well thanks anywayz (link)
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ok well this is a hard one i am thinking if you want this abuse to stop you have to tell someone. i know you love your dad but that is horrible. when your friend comes to your house just hangout with her and keep your mind focused on her.
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well im gonna be cheering this year, i've only cheered once in 6th grade. but the squad im about to enter they do stunts and jumps, my question is how can i get better in the jumping ? i have until august, i wanna be good at the jumping because this is a competitive squad ! ♥ (link)
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Hey keep working onyour stretches!! if you get more flexxible yor jumps will improve so much! if you dont have time to stretch just stretch while watching tv or something taht doesnt involve alot of movement. also practicing being tight in front of your mirrior this will also help for stunting because if you area flyer you have to always be tight. i hope i helped. *Kelley* p.s. if anyone has any cheer questions you can always come to me i am a very active cheerleader 4 tiems a week for about 2 years for competive allstar and school
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I was a competative cheerleader for 5 years, but I was forced to quit in January 'cus my coach dropped me in tumbling and I broke my knee. Well, I just made my middle school squad and our camp is at the gym I used to cheer at and the coach that dropped me is coaching my squad the routine. The coach is real jerk and is constantly mean to me since we quit when he dropped me. How do I get thru the week with him goin out of his way to make me miserable? *Ill rate* (link)
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Hey i am a competitive cheerleader with a tough coach like yours the only way to avoid getting on his bad side is not to accociate with him at all only if he asks you a question or something but try your best at the camp and dont slack off cause if you dont want him to be mean then follow my advice hope i helped *Kelley*
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I'm babysitting 2 kids every Tuesday. One of them is 7 (Girl), and the other is 4(boy). Do you have any ideas on what we could do? Or any ideas on how to make dinnertime more fun? Like, what could I make?
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o ok well i also babysitt and what i do is make make and cheese but put food coloring in the noddole and water and it turns them differentcolors its so fun and then for desert we make ants on a log which is little prezel stick and one side is coated with peanut butter (creamier the better)and then put chocolate chips on it it was a big hit for the little girl i babysitt hope i helped *Kelley*
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I'm sixteen, yet I still haven't developed my breasts yet! I know everyone says this, but I really don't want some answer like, "Be happy with who you are." Does anyone know ANYTHING.. at ALL. to make them bigger? Any foods to eat or anything? Please help.... No surgery. All natural. XOX
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ok well this one is kinda strange too. but soon enough youll grow i guess. well if you want talk to your doctor about getting some pills. that willhelp. hope i helped *Kelley*
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how do i tell if i'm a good kisser.............................................................if ne one knows how to tell please do (link)
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umm this one is sorta strange well if you want to know go kiss a guy and have them tell you *Kelley*
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