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Hello there! My name is Carli. I actually joined this site about two years ago, but on a different name. I've always loved giving advice, and I've always helped my friends with stuff. And I can probably answer any question you throw at me. I try my absolute best to answer every question I come by. =D



E-mail: taintedvanityx@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Alabama
Occupation: School.
Age: 15
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Member Since: November 19, 2007
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does anyone know the name of the song that goes,
" be bad be bad, OH! be bad be bad " (link)
it sounds like

Tegan and Sara - "want to be bad".


That's the only song I can think of.=D


ok so i have non this guy for a lil bit and i really like him. and we have gone to the movies and he has held my hand and he has given me a piggy back rid and all kinds of things i have sat on him to. ok so i want to ask him out now!but every time i call i get his answering thing so i left a message and no call back? and i herd he likes me from my best guy friend who goes to the guy i lies school but he also says hes been talking to his ex gf and to me thats not good at all.
so i want him to go to the movies with me and my friends bc they all have dates but me!!!!
so what do i do???how do i ask him out how do i know that he likes me!? (link)
Well, you'll never know until you ask him out. And if he says no, then...screw him. his lost.



is jaking of good for you this is not a joke i need to now who ever answers this thanks. (link)
It's not good or bad for you...

But it's something that is probably better for you to do.

But either way, it won't hurt you if you don't.


ok first of all im in this house school thing its where you get homeschooled at someone eles house and i hate it i can do my work at home what is the point of coming here i dont see a point the only brake you get is a 15 minute lunch and school is for 8 hours and its the same work that you can do at home so why go to a house school its stupid thanks to anyone who cares to answer this question please dont think im an idiot (link)
I'm guessing it's because of speacial teachers that they have there. I'm really not sure. but my friend has to do the same thing. But it's taught by nuns. lol.


I'm 15-f and if I have to hear about another person's relationship problem in my school I'm going to explode. I understand that high school is the time to "test the waters", but people would rather talk about who they screwed last night then keep private matters PRIVATE. It's different when a couple's life get's spread by rumor, but it's getting annoying how in EVERY class there is always a couple talking about 'What they want to do to each other.' I'm not exaggerating either. How am I gonna survive High school when I can't even hear the teacher over someone's moaning and giggling infront of me?

FP (link)
To be honest, the best thing you can do...is ignore them. I know it's hard. but you have to find a way to tune them out.

-or-


After class(even though you feel like a 'squeal,rat' tell the teacher when everyone else is gone. Tell her that kids in the class are talking and you can't concentrate on the learning.

hope i helped!!


what if i already practiced walking but i dont feel nothing ihavent lost anything i want to now how much to run a day please help me i want to loose 50 pounds as quikly as possible im not weak i lift weights and play soccer but still i have some fat problems so please answer my question "HOW MMUCH SHOULD I RUN A DAY TO LOOSE 50POUNDS AS QUIKLY AS POSSIBLE"? (link)
Well, there is more to losing weight, then just running. Make sure you're eating healthy.

And actually, walking is better for you than running. It burns up more calories, for the amount of energy you use.


My female chihuahua is around 5 months old now, Lucy, she is gorgeous by the way. Well, I was wondering when small dogs like her usually go into heat. I have two other male chihuahuas and I don't want any accidents. I plan to pay for a stud since my males are bigger than her.
Thanks, I'd like to know soon please.
ABL (link)
For small dogs like her, it's best to get them...
"Professionally Breeded", because a lot of the time the heads of the pups will get stuck, and might cause your dad plus the pups to die. =//


in the movie jump in what is the song that plays when the kung foo flyer start jumping i really like it and also what is the song that plays when the dutch dragens start playing i really like both of those songs thanks in advance i really apreciate it (link)
I'm not too sure about which song it is, but here is a list of songs from the movei:

1. "It's On" - NLT
2. "It's My Turn Now" - Keke Palmer
3. "Push It to the Limit" - Corbin Bleu
4. "Vertical" - T-Squad
5. "Where Do I Go From Here" - Sebastian Mego
6. "Jump to the Rhythm" - Jordan Pruitt
7. "Jumpin’" - Keke Palmer
8. "Go (Jump! Mix)" - Jupiter Rising
9. "I’m Ready" - Drew Seeley
10. "Gotta Lotta" - Prima J
11. "Live It Up" - Jeannie Ortega
12. "Jump" - Lil’ Josh
13. "Let It Go" - Kyle


i am askin advise for my friend she has been married for 4

yrs and she has always been nervous around her mother in

law.her mil is manipulating,controlling,negative,stubborn,nit

picky & more.her mil has an illness and she moved in so her

daughter in law could take care of her also because she

couldnt afford to live where she was and she didnt get along

with her neibors.her dil was nervous around her already, and

thought she would try to help her even though she would be

physically drained from anxiety being around her.she meant

well she hoped they would get closer,but her mil started

taking over.the mil trish has a detached bedroom but always

was in the house.the dil amy put a serveilance camera up so

she knew when she was inside her mil took the camera out and

she hasnt seen it for two yrs.the dil locked herself in her

room and parked at the end of the street so he mil trish

didnt know when she was home.trish the mil would talk to her

through the door mostly putting her down that she didnt have

a job or didnt clean the house much.she didnt have a job

because she had social anxiety and didnt clean the house

because she avoided her mil.dil tried to write notes saying

that she would like to plan a time to have the house to her

self so she could clean.but the mil just said the dil is just

trying to get her way.and that she shouldnt boss her

around.the mil is so nit picky she didnt want her to use the

wash mashine she said she didnt shake the pet hair & dirt off

the clothes and unbalanced the loads which she did shake them

and didnt unbalance hardly at all.her mil would get upset if

there were dishes left in the sink or kitchen.she treated her

son like royalty and said he worked to hard to do any inside

housework.he does have a physically demanding job but i dont

think there is anything wrong with him helping.she seems like

a stepford wife monster.she is always saying how everything

needs to be cleaned or done.the poor dil got a portable stove

and cooked in her room.she had a fridge in there but her mil

wanted it and she got it.so she eats things that have been

out for too long that its definitly questionable to eat.her

hubby has a temper and broke the door frame when he came to

the room because she would lock the door when he would go

out.so now she cant be home when her hubby isnt around

because her mil is coming in to bother her.so she has been

hiding out in a cold trailer at home.she is scared to turn

the heater on incase her mil hears it and scared to cook in

case she smells the food.she barely walks around in it

because it squeaks, so all she does is sleep covered up to

stay warm.she has no running water and is going to the

bathroom in bags and throws them away somewhere because her

mil goes through the trash to make sure no one threw

recycleables away or to snoop.she has admitted to snooping

through her paperwork to find out more about her since the

dil doesnt talk to her.she wants to get a job but has no

energy she is overweight and so stressed and has social

anxiety.i think she is used to sleeping and not moving so it

makes her tired easy.but she said she was like this since her

mil moved in.she did work before but she couldnt afford the

social anxiety meds and was laid off because her client had

to go to a covelecsent hospital.one time her mil figured out

the window didnt lock so she climed in her dil room because

she knew she was home and ignoring her.the mil got her bosses

phone number and called her and became friends with her and

told her that the dil was lazy and didnt do anything.and who

knows what else so she was fired for a week but her boss

realized she was a good worker and rehired her.the only

reason they have her there is because they are relying on her

rent because the dil lost her job,they have so much stress

and the mil comes in their room when they are gone and cleans

it and takes things out sometimes wont give it back,and she

wont listen to them.she is always right or justifies

everything like she has a right to do what she does.she one

time put her hands around her dil neck and said i could kill

you right now b**ch.the dils mom changed her number because

the mil was leaving rude messages.the dil and her hubby have

no money and are so stressed and have no energy to move

hardly they want to sell their house but need to piant and

clean it.they are relying on rent from the mil since dil lost

her job.so they plan on moving and getting away from the

mil.is there anything that can help now.what do u think of

all this.the dil wont stand up to the mil she had tried and

it doesnt help.and she is scared to get a job and even to see

a councelor.and she has no money.would a doctor see her once

or a few times and perscrbe her meds?she doesnt have a

regular doc.her crazy life would make a good book or

movie.and its all true. (link)
Yeah, for sure any doctor would give her something for this.


next month is v-day i want to make something SPEACIAL for my long time relationship boyfriend, get any idea? i want make him something that he will never forgot and touch his heart forever, we been together 8 month which is my first time long time relationship. he been so good to me. pls help me. (link)
Make him a transformer cake! You can never go wrong with a transformer cake!


I want to speak to my girlfriend for about 15 minutes per day. Usually i will call her fairly early on in the night about 5pm. We have been going out about 6 months now. The problems only really arise when she is busy and says she will call me back later, usually in ten minutes to half an hour. When she doesnt call me back, i call her again, she will then usually say she is busy doing something else and will once again say that she will call me back in ten minutes to half an hour. Then she doesnt call so i call again, this happens a few times in the night until i get upset she doesnt want to talk to me, and she gets angry that i am calling her so often. Then we have a massive argument where she says im too clingy and i say she doesnt really care about me. We only really get to see each other once a week because she lives quite far away. She says she loves me and i say i love her, but she never really seems to want to talk to me unless she is bored. I'm really struggling for what to do because it is upsetting me a lot but i love her and dont want to break up with her. Any help would be much appreciated. thanks. (link)
She is going to think you're too clingy. From now on, let her call you more often, then you call her. =D


so i was being impulsive and well, i went on this website and wasnt exactly well behaived. should i forgive myself and move on or what? because pictures of me are on the web and i dont know what to do.

thanks. (link)
1. Yes forgive yourself.
2. Don't tell anyone else about it.
3. Forget you even done it.


so im 16 and my diet used to be very bad. lots of junkfood and soda. recently however i started eating very healthy. I have fruit for breakfast, lots of veggies for lunch and dinner, i get protein in my diet too. i completely cut out soda and only drink water, its been great. except that ever since ive been on this healthy diet i CANT poop. ive been so bloated and constipated. i dont know why. i dont think its normal at all. i mean i get everything they say you should. i have fruit throughout the day and get a lot of fiber. why is this happening!? (link)
The reason for it is, is you've adjusted your diet so drastically, that your body is still trying to conform to it. Give it a few weeks, and if it doesn't get any better. You might wanna go to a doctor.

Orrrrr.....try a laxative.


Alright, I'm a bit depressed where I live now and I've tried to tell my parents about it but I didn't really tell them HOW upset I was because I don't want to worry them.

Anyway, I thought of going back to my birth country (I'm in Spain now, I'm from England) to finish school next year. If it goes to plan, I'll be moving out a few months after my 17th birthday (I'll have 2 years left of school, not 1)

So the idea is to get a little studio apartment or share a flat near a public school and live alone while I finish school (by the way, living alone in the UK is legal as long as you're 16).
My parents would be paying the rent but I'd get a part-time job and work as much as I could to pay for food and help out as much as I can.

I only recently talked to them about going to boarding school but they said they couldn't afford it (it's 25k+ a year..the rent on a studio is nothing compared to this) so my plan is to leave it for about a month so they don't think I just thought of this in the heat of the moment.
I want to gather as much information as I can and be fully prepared when I tell them about it.

I'm close to my parents so I want to make sure they know I'm not trying to get away with them, I'm just really down and it's effecting my life hugely. Has anyone got any advice on how I can convince them, anything I could do or say? Just..advice in general as I'm really crapping myself about the whole situation. (link)
Just tell your parents, that where you're living now, just isn't working for you, and be sure to tell them that it's nothing to do with them.

Just keep expressing that you aren't trying to get away from them/


hey. well, i'm going to start loosing weight. i've been eating healthy for about a month now, but i just haven't had the time to work out. well, yesterday my mom signed us up for a membership at the YMCA. So i'll start working out now. but i really want some cute clothes to work out in. nothing really tight, something comftorable and cheep, but cute. and also, i've seen on tv shows before that when people loose weight, they have a lot of left over skin so the have to get a tummy tuck or somethin to remove the extra skin. does that really happen? cause i don't want that to happen to me. i want to look thinner, but not with the skin from when i loose weight. please help!! (link)
Well, with the baggy skin, it usually only happens to older people, that lose the elasticity in their skin, and their skin becomes more like..denim than elastic.=D


my problem is tht i use to write very often in my journal and now its been long i have written. im over my *writers block* but i never have the enrgy or the stamina to sit and write. i did arnd 2 weeks ago and felt much better i want to do it again but where do i get my energy from. (link)
You just need to find something that motivates you.


I want to know how to take really good pictures with a shitty ass camra..
Ideas? (link)
Angle it.

And get good photoshop?


13/M

hi... ive been going out with this girl for about a year now and i love her alot. we get wild sometimes but not to wild. the furthest we have gone is that she gave me a hand job. but after she did i got a little worried and i didn't feel right. i thought i might be a little to young for these things.

am i to young?
are we going to far for only 13 years old? (link)
You aren't going 'too far'...just only go as far as you feel comfortable.


And don't do anything you might regret.


Okay, i know people will probably say things like oh but its healthy, or everyone does it. or something like that. Well anyways, i can literally get myself to orgasm ANY time i want. like it will only take about 10 seconds, and wherever i am i can do it. I don't even really have to think about anything either. Or use some weird vibrator or massager, it will just go when i say to. It feels good, but you know; am i overdoing it? i do this at least 2-4 times a day. is that bad? It might be a little normal maybe, but i don't know. It seems a little weird to me.

thanks. (link)
It's not normal, but it's not completely abnormal.



Try to cut down just a little bit. Because when you orgasm, it loosens and relaxs your muscles. And overall, might make you lazier, or take away energy from you.



And btw, I wish i had your skill. =P


i hear that if you have a windows vista computer, you can't use programs such as limewire, ares, bearshare, etc. (basically anything that downloads music in that way.) true or false? (link)
False. I have vista. And I have used both limewire, and frostwire.



Andd, my friend uses bearshare, and she has vista as well. =D

Now, sometimes...vista will reject a few programs, but make sure all firewalls are off, or allowing the program.




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