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Hi im here to help and i know really good websites for help too so ask me a question or if you want it more private i have a advice line set-up that you can just im me on its compleatly anonymos so dont worry and im me on this sceen name! :) or e-mail
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ok i have my period at the end og aug...
but 2 weeks ago i had sex ... but with out a condum... but i know for a fact that he pulled it out an cummed .. an he told me he didnt cum ... an i felt the cumm by my leg when he was cumming ... but im still concerned but if our there others signs before u skip your period like my boobs dont hurt i didnt feel like shit ..
im braking out in zits maybe im about to start my period im really kinda scared
Okay you should really talk to a doctor if you cant talk to a parent there are free clinics every where to help try them and stay relaxed you can skip a period if your stressed to so the most important thing is to stay calm and if you dont want to go to a clinic you can just take a pregnacy test they work good and early in pregnacy so you will know! good luck and i hope that this helps! :)
lately my left nipple has been really irritating and itchy. i don't know why and i don't want to ask my parents about it because its really embaressing. so since i don't know you, i'm going to ask for your advice because i really am too embaressed to ask anybody. please help me and please don't make fun of me. i'm a girl.
okay there are clinics that are free and personal that you can go to for help about this also there s a great website where you can e-mail a doctor that specialy for girls abouut this subjuct to check this site out just e-mail me my e-mails on my colum! hope that helps.:)
If you're super skinny but A sized bra... would guys still go for that? I know it's personality that counts...but do they like it (you can't always have both, be skinny and have a huge ass/boobs)
Well im not sure cuz im not a guy but that really shouldent matter cuz if the guy really likes you than it should be for who you are but i guess different guys go for different things so think youll be fine! and i know from my guy friends that guys dont like gigantic boobs either! :)
ok well this guy is not talking to me but he always says he loves me and sometimes he willl talk to me but not that much and he used to want to go out with me until i went out with this guy i mean he was tellling me i had to wait then he told me to wait more so i went out with the one guy and now idk if he stilll likes me
signed fed up and misrable
Wow lol confusing you should just ask him how he feels about you that way it takes the confusion out of everything! and youll know for sure how he feels!
how is someone sexually abused? i mean i dont understand.how do people abuse someone sexually? what do they do? my friend told me about someone that was and i was just wondering!
* I RATE *
Its like being raped or mulested. having sex without wanting to or being forced to let someone touch u. hope that helps! :)
this year im taking two high school courses (algebra 1 and intergrated pyhics and chemistry) along with advance placement classes. but my problem is that the teachers have loaded us with homework each night and its only the fourth day of school. i have stayed up until 11:00 every night doing homework and i get off of school at 2:25.
can someone give me some tips on how to finish my homework faster...so i can get some sleep.
BTW: im 13/f and i rate high enless its a smartass answer...
signed-
Sleep Deprived
Whenever you have free time just start doing h/w and eventually you will get caught up do it before class after class after tests or quizzes just whenever. thats what i did last year when i was falling behind and eventually i got back on track! :)
My friend and I use to be real close we would be together every weekend and then one year she like ignored me and now we are friends but she acts so different when shes around other people she'll be sorta mean to me its really hurting my feelings what should i do??
signed miss being bffs
talk to her tell her how you feel and that what she's doing hurts you. if she dosent understand ask her how she would feel if you acted that way to her. if she dosent stop acting this way its time to find a new best friend because this is not how real friends are sopose to act! :) hope this helps
ok this is werid ... i was watching meet the fockers ... an like gregs mom sayed to his sooned to be wife that her boobs our bigger an she can smell that shes pregnet?? can you really smell somthing if your pregnet..
lol no this was a joke she was just refering to the fact that her femimin instics alow her to know if another female close to her is pregnate lol.
hey this is Jackie 13 years old
there is this boy Ryan, who is my neightbor and I've know him all his life.. we've been friends since before i could talk! We've ALWAYS been best friends!! we even went out when we were 10 years old.. we tell eachother everything and we always help fix ANY problems..
well that's how things used to be. in the past few weeks he's called me a SLUT for going out with a guy i just met.. and he actually meant it.. he wasn;t kidding, usually he asks me about stuff and NEVER judges me, but this time he did! and he likes my twin sis now, which i'm perffectall y ok with because i no that we're jsut friends but she doesn't like him so.. he's been upset sometimes when she gets a new boyfriend and he used to talk to me about it but in the last few weekes he's been telling me nothing's wrong when i KNOW theres something wrong comon i m his BFF i can tell.. and he's been keeping his distance.
why would he act this way is there anything i can do to fix it? PLEASE HELP I RATE WELL!!!
This is really hard to go through but ive been through it. try to talk about this with him let him know that your sorry about your sister and comfert him. he is probly under a lot of stress and he's probly also feeling a little scared because things are changing between you tell him how you feel about the guy your dating and ask him why he feels that way about it. if your as close as i think you are you will get the right answers! :)
how are you supposed to respond to guys when they open up to you and tell you something personal... like that their dad has cancer, they are still in love with their ex, or their parents are getting divorced? i know how to comfort my friends that are girls, but guys, i dont know what to say... i'd really appreciate any ideas.
Look guys respond the same way girls will when you comfert them. guys just take longer to warm up and be open if you have guys opening up to you thats great! just try to comfert them the same way you would for your friends that are girls. try to keep the guys mind of of thier problems and just be there to listen to them if their telling you this stuff then they want you to be a listener and to comfert them the same way you would anyone else. guys have the same feelings girls do they just express them in different ways. hope this helpes you :)
i at times have sores on my virgina ,most of the times its a couple days before my period and they disappear after that.they dont itch or burn.is it just a sign to show that am about to have my period.
This isent really normal. and its definatly not a sign about your period. if you are sexually active it could be herpes or something similar. i think you should see an adult or a doctor its important to know whats going on. if your uncomfertable about going to a doctor or a parent there is a really great websight that deals with stuff like this if you want the adress just e-mail me (Chatitupforhelp@aol.com) ill give it to you and thers a doctor on the site that you can e-mail and ask about this stuff. but my first advice is to see a doctor this could be some kind of std or it could just be a hormonal in balence but its better to know!
BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY! hope that this helps you. :)
ok well its been like to weeks sense ive had ex an we didnt use a condum an im afraid that im pregnnet im not going to get a pregnecie test because i have reasons why, but i know the syptoms but , could you not know your pregnat for like 3 weeks i mean when i go to the bath room i have white stuff on my underware an idk my friend told me thats because im pregnat an idk i just need help .. i know i shouldnt have had sex im a really goodi girl so dont judge my parents are into polotics , an if they found out that i was they would shio me off to bording school or somthing even worse so please help me??
That white stuff dosent mean your pregnat and you should try to stay calm until your next period but dont get paronoid most girls will skip their periods if their under a lot of stress so to really know at your next period you need to stay calm and relaxed and under controled but if you are pregnate you definatly have to see a doctor but you dont have to go to your own if your worried about privacy there are free clinics that can help. you should check if there are any in your area. and just to make sure you should take a pregnacy test and if your worried about your family finding out about the test all you have to do is take it a close friends house. seriously though try to remember there is help out there and to stay calm. also this isent compleatly your fault it takes two to get someone pregnate and have sex. i hope this helps you :)
How do I show or tell my boyfriend how much I love him?
this is simple. you dont want to crowed him or make him feel suffercated but you still want him to know you care.start to do more things with him but not to much give him his own space and breathing room dont act like you like him too much he might get scared or feel like your crowding him giving him breathing room and acting like ur close friends should be enough to show him that you love him without him feeling like he's losing himself. :)
ok so its only 6 days into school and i have so much hmwk! its horrible im already stressing out will it be like this all year? i want to do a sport also but i dont want to risk failing to play
female/freshman
try to manage your time use study halls and free periods to work on the homework and use a notebook or an agenda to keep everything organized. if you are going to start a sport use the sports schedual and manage your homework around that. if your still having trouble doing this simply talk to your counselor or school phychiatrist their really good resourses to help with homework schedual and sports schedualing help.
Okay, my brother moved to North Carolina with his gf and his friend [for school] And I met his friend's brother. He's a couple of years older than me. He was visiting them in North Carolina the same time I was and we slept on the couch together and watched tv almost everynight. I think i like him, but I wanna know if he likes me too. He's kinda shy though, so I don't know how to exactly like bring it up and talk about it. It kinda gets me nervous. I have his screen name though, and next year we're going to go to the same school. What should I do to approach him with this?
*I rate high
i would tell him how you feel and just be honest i know that this seems hard but if your friends he'll understand and give you an honest answer back. Its not as hard as you think life is full of risks and youll never know his true feelings if you never ask him. he might be your soul-mate so dont be afraid to take a chance.