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Im Caroline... I Just started this thing because two of my friends had it. If you want me to answer anything... hmmm. im here

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I'm petrified of the dentist and I have an appointment tomorrow. Im getting a tooth filled. Ive always been scared, but I always end up walking out saying that wasnt so bad. I realize that the only pain I will feel is the novacaine needle. Is there a way I can be less scared? I know the fear is worse than the actual procedure but Im still terrified.

Hmmmm.... trust me.. you will live! lol. i dont really have anything else to say. YOU WILL HAVE A BEAUTIFUL smile at the end. lol!

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ok i love giving advice and i was wondering if anyone knew another website like this where i can sign up to be a columnist and give advice on both websites?
thanks

hmmm. im not sure. go to google and go to ADVICE websites.

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Hey there ♥ well im not really into stereotypes but basically, my boyfriend is punk, along with his friends. and i am not really preppy or punk or anything, i am just me. but i am friends with his friends and his friends are in a punk band and my boyfriend said he really wants me to go, and so do his friends. the problem is i dont want to wear something stupid, or "slutty" looking and i dont want people to think " why is she here?" so what could i wear.. i have long platinum blonde hair with lots of pink and auburn in it. and i am 5'4 and average with slightly curvey body but the problem is i cant hide my boobs and i dont want people to automatically think im slutty=/... what could i wear or put on for makeup and how should i do the hair? thanksss

BE URSELF... its the best! trust me.

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I go to a day camp, and there is this really nice boy there. His name is Josh, and I like him alot! I dont know what to say though. Im not sure if like he has ever had a girlfriend before and maybe he wont like me back and will never talk to me again. Please tell me what I should do!


-Britt

ask him if he has a girlfriend. then get his screenname or phone number and talk to him...

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hi, this has been bugging me for ages. when i was 13 i got the chicken pox. i went to the hospital and was seen by a male doctor. he asked me to take my top off to have a better look at my spots. i had them on my arms and body. then he told me to take my cami-top off too so i'd be naked down to my waist. i cried but he insisted it had to be done. so i did and he touched my breasts...all this was to confirm i had chicken pox. thats not normal is it?

SICK... well you need to report him. i had problems and this male docter told me to take off my pants. i wouldnt i told him no.. so he said oka. BLAH BLAH BLAH... sooooo Hmmmm. i think we need to go on strike and tell that only STRAIGHT girls can be with girls and guys can be with guys. hmmm only if they arnt straight tho... this is a problem in the USA. i hope i helped.

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i have a boyfriend and i think he is stating to loose his feelings for me what should i do to get him to want me real badly and not sexually but emotionally help me please

Ask him what he wants. and be like... i love you thats all i can say. i hope it works. sometimes it works for me. sometimes it doesnt. but i have to run. no more to say! GOOD LUCK :)

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i met this AWSOME guy at the mall. i hav his sn and he has mine, but i cant get the courage to say hey to him. i thought i would just wait until he talked to me, but he hasnt yet and its been about 5 days. wat should i do? should i talk to him? wat should i say?

say hey.

THE END.

hope i helped

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I have my senior pictures on Friday, and my face is kinda broken out because I just ended my period. I really wana clear my face up before friday if I can. Any advice is appreciated!

get cover up... get some facial stuff VERY EXPENCIVE ones. and get a lot of sleep. BEAUTY REST! haha. hoped i helped

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I may be completely over-reacting, but I really need some advice on this;

I'm thirteen, and I started smoking a few months ago... at first it was only a fag or two when I was around friends, but now its almost like I need a few cigarettes to calm me down just so I can start studying... not just around my mates and stuff..

Problem is; I've started to get some pain in my chest, and I've let myself get into a panic by reading that section on a ciggie packet about health hazards over and over again...

and now I'm afraid I may be sick... like i said, I may be over reacting... but I'm panicky... I don't want to die, my parents are doctors!

I can't tell them, I'll get into so much trouble... and after they send me for a check up, and if the results turn up fine, then I'll want to smoke again- but they'll confiscate the pack from me... and I won't be able to... Honestly, I have so much going through my head right now, I CAN'T STOP SMOKING, BUT I CAN'T DIE EITHER??

What should I do?!

PS. Sorry for the lengthy question

Hmmmm. stop smoking. smoking sucks! i mean seriously... havent ur doctor parents told you how bad it is!!! i will never smoke. never try it. your WILL die from cancer... sorry for sayin that in a mean way, but DONT DO IT!

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Does anyone know any stores or places online where I can buy a giant tea cup. (Like the big tea cups they have at coffee houses) Thanks.

ummmmm at a coffee house... like you said! HAHA. idk.. weird question-Cw

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i want to dye some of my hair with this "Loreal Color Pulse", I need to know the price. has anyone ever used it? and does it work good? and i need the price of it at a local Walgreens Or CVS cuz i want to buy it but im not sure how much it is.thanks!!!!!!!!!!!

well i dont like taht stuff... but Erbal Essaince ROCKKSSS! i use it for my highlights and it only $7! I WAS LIKE WOAHHHH! >>i always highlighjt my hair with that

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My fiancee wants to have sex, and the bad thing is, IM SCARED OF SEX. I am almost positive my hymen is intact, because I don't masturbate, im a virgin,and I detest tampons. Any suggestions?? And since I know were getting married in August, don't tell me to wait, because he's talking about sex on our wedding night, and since I've already told him Im scared, he still wants it, wich I don't blame him, were both virgins, we both dont have diseases of any kind, and after all, IT IS OUR WEDDING NIGHT, so its not furnication (since were both Christians) so please help me, because I'm scared of the blood and the pain. Btw, is it true that when you pee after sex it hurts? My mother said it hurts the first couple times you have sex, and that you bleed, and it hurts, and it burns when you pee for weeks. Is any of this true? Plz help me.

NOW JUSS BE LIKE. I DONT WANT TO! IF YOU LOVE ME THEN YOU WILL WAIT TILL I FEEL RIGHT. if you want kids... sooner or later you will have to try it. or adopt! but i think its apart of life.

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my life is just screwed up right now with guys i fall to easily for them and then i just get hurt at the end how will you know when you have found the one? how could you trust guys when so many has hurt you in the past most of them try to sweet talk you but how do you know if what they are really saying is coming from their heart?
i need as much as advice you guys could give me ♥

awww. me 2! well im just waiting and its hard cus i love so many. but im tryin to stop myself. its working! i only like ONE guy.. but he is my best friend so it will never work. juss try to make urself stop!

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Ok so on Friday i am going to my freinds house for a "movie night" we're going to paly volleyball outside earlier and then later we're going to watch hide and seek. well no big deal. she invited 4 guys and 3 girls (shes the 4th girl). well its kinda like a paired off thing. she invited couples. except for me. she invited this guy. i kind of like him i guess. same with him. he told my freind he kind of likes me. well i dont know i thnk it's goign to br really weird. because all the other people are goign ot be with their girl/boyfreind and then there will be me and this guy. i like him and all but i dont know i think it will be weird.and im kind of worried that he's gonna like try something, because thats just the the kind of guy he is...so i guess i dont know what to do.
((14/f))

awww. juss call him and tell him how you feel and then umm... well see if he feels teh same.. HOPED THAT I HELPED !*CAROLINE*!

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I wish i had best friends but i dont. I want to be friends with certain people but i dont know how to fit into heir group.

awwww. well dont change urself. thats bad! i dont really have that problem because all my friends are so alike. hmmmm.. but ya know what? if u already have friends... still have them! juss try to make more and see whos the best one! THATS A BEST FRIEND. haha hoped i helped;)

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I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO.... i dont have a shirt to match my jeans! help.... what color looks best with jeans... FASHION IS EVERYTHING!

Hmmm. yellow/blue/green/ANY COLOR...juss like wear any cute shirt with a belt that matches. dont worry! U WILL LIVE:)

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Ok. There was this baby i was babysitting and a little kid. i put them to sleep and i was watchin TV. then i heard the baby cry. i ran upstairs and the little kid was ontop of the baby! i do not know hwat to do!! i dont want to tell the parents but the baby might be hurt. HELPP

well i agree... tell the parents. i mean thats sadddd. GET HELP.. tell teh parents and when you baby sit again.... get a camera and get proof. what was he doing with the baby and how old was he? I hope you stand up!

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One of my best friends has completely changed this year. She has started to cuss and everything. I really don't like the way she is acting. She is going to a different high school this year. I know she wants to fit in, but she is making all kinds of changes to fit in. It really is bugging me... I don't know how to tell her that she has changed though...How should I tell her, and not get her mad at me at the same time?

Hmmmm. well some people change in many different ways.. GOOD-BAD-JUSS WEIRD... im guessing your friend is the BAD way. haha. well what you really need to do first of all.. is write a LONGGG letter and dont tell who its from. tell in the letter all your feelings... remember... dont tell her who its from juss tell her your a friend that still cares for her and doesnt want her to change. (even tho she has been changing). if that doesnt work... then maybe call her up and just talk awhile with her.. see hows she doing. i hope it turns out all okay!

thanks for you questions *Cw

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I like this guy... but he is far away. i met him this summer. we fell inlove. but we couldnt do it because if the distance thing! what should i do? i dont want to loose him! please help

oh. im sorry. that happened to me this summer. i guess we are just friends now.. but anyways. ask him if he really love/likes you.. if he says yes then be like... then why does distance matter? i tried it with the guy i met this summer. it didnt work out. he still likes me in all its just distance. plus he is havin a hard time... well good luck and if you need anymore help im here.

_*CFW

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