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lol. lets see. im 13. almost 14. i love to dance!!!!! im adorable, loveable, a SWEETHeART, a CUTIE-PIE.
ive had boyfriends, fights, anorexic friends, suicidal friends, annoying brothers, messed up computers, failed school, and handled it all HORIABLY!!!
but ive learned from my mistakes.
and now i can advise you NOT to mess up the same way that I DID!! lol
xoxoxoxo
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13/f. I was in the popular preppy group but now I am in the gothic. I think I am still bffs with my friend in the popular group. If I ask her anything around that or that she says oh ya why wouldn’t we be I love you or bffs still. We used to be bffs but then it was off and on because we didn’t do the same sports. So I got tired of thinking if tomorrow wed be bffs or not. my gothic friends are always there for me and im very rough and they are to so i can just be myself and also they dont theyd never tell a parent if someone hurts them. my old preppy friends would always just sit there and laugh at stuff that made no sense and if someone hurts them they go tell it drove me fuckin crazy. they never understood what i went through or my music or me cussing. my new gothic friends I love them and they and he are the only ones that understand me. i miss the preppy popular people i dono why? i was never as close with them. ive always liked black but never wore that much because it was 'not perky' i never was perky thay tried to change me. i miss them. but i love being with my gothic friends their my bffs. im myself around them and alot happier and everything. but my parents dont like them. and is trying to keep me away im tired of sneaking and she nos and shes always saying what wrong with my friends!!! im just like them so whats the matter. were not the extreme gothic kids. we go to a fucked up catholic school no peircings or tattoos or hair coloring. theyre always checking US its driving me fucking crazy. think if you were all for expression and you could never express urself at all or even say gothic at school. their always watching us were always doing something wrong. ive always been the quiet shy girl but now im breakin out. whats wrong with me?
which group should i go with?
whats wrong with my school?
is it illegal for no expression just for us?
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stick with your gothic friends!! they seem like real, true,, friends!! they will always be there for you. i know the other group sounds apealing, but anywhere that dosent let you be yourself is just not right. your smart, you know which group lets you be yourself. tell your mom that you are a big girl, you have good judgement and know how to pick friends. tell her that you havent done anything to prove that you dont know how to pick friends. tell your mom that these girls allow you to be yourself. i wish you the best of luck.
xo
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How do I get my own forum? (link)
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i think you mean a forum on advicenators right?
the link is
http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutme.php?userboard_id=
and you need to put your ID number at the end. do you know what your ID number is? no, i didnt either. so wht you need to do is go to your column, and click the ask a question button, and then your ID number will be at the end. for example, my ID # is 41067
so if you paste http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutme.php?userboard_id= and my ID number 2gether you get
http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutme.php?userboard_id=41067
and so that would be my forum.
good luck!! if this is confusing, lemme know, and ill try to explain it better!!xoox
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Hey I have a problem. I am a CHRISTIAN and BAPTIST and there is this boy I really like he's cute, nice, kind, funny, understands me, and he doesn't just judge me on my outward aperance atleast it seems that way. Well, I really like this guy but, he's not a CHRISTIAN!!! And, I've tried to let go of him beleive me but, it's not that easy!!!I told him I din't like him anymore but, then I would cry cry cry and cry. Every love song semmed to remind me of him and I couldn't bear to see him at school. I asked GOD why are you doing this to me help me stay strong did I ,no!!! I gave in and I am madly inlove with him again. And, when I say madly man I mean it!!! He's always there for me. I don't know what to do i can't witness to him beacuse if i did he would only become a CHRISTIAN for me not because he wants to or understands that he needs to. I've PRAYED to GOD and asked HIM for HELP. And, I know i need to be PATIENT. But, i feel that evenwhen GOD says let go of him i refuse not to and won't.In just need advice on how to let go of him or is there a way to make both god and this guy happy. I doubt it but and help would well help!!! Sorry if this is confusing or to long. Just someone try to gove me the best advice possible I won't judge you!!! Thanks. And GOD BLESS ya'll!!! (link)
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i dont think that god would mind if you dated this boy. your 14. its not like your marrying him! your just dating him. i think it would be okay!
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Okay I have an ex boyfriend that won't get the hint that I am in a loving relationship., well today he decided to call me and was mad because I might be pregnant. Well anyways he told me that he still wants to be friends and everything he just didn't want me to tell him about me and my boyfriend. Which it's hard to do, because I love him so much. But what really upsets me is that we were supposed to be friends, when he just told me tonight he doesn't care what I do, but that he still loves and misses me and wished he could have me back, what am I supposed to do? Keep being friends with him, or tell him where to get off at???? (link)
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sweetie, you need to be straight up with him. dont keep being friends with him. you dont need him in your life. you have your boyfriend! just dont answer his calls, block him on IM, completely remove him from your life. he needs to move on.
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Alright, here is my problem, i am a 'tomboy' and i wanted to change my clothing style. I think that i would have some potential to actually look like a pretty 'preppy chick', but thats just my opinion, the thing is, i never put any time into it, and i was thinkin, maybe if i tried, i could see how it goes.
I have an issue though, i dont know what types of clothes to get, my friend suggested Hollister and i was going to take that into consideration. I just wanted to know, types of shirts, (i know the double layer is quite popular at my school), pants, skirts, shoes, everything! So, if you have any suggestions about ANYTHING being more of a girly girl without changing my personality and just my style of clothing, that would be great =). Thanks. (link)
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sources: http://www.nzgirl.co.nz
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070225170815AAKjH8u
GIRLY GIRL MAKE-UP STARTS HERE:
Tickled Pink
No other colour in existence screams girly girl more than pretty pink. Contrary to popular belief this pale colour is one of the most versatile hues in make-up. The naturally warm undertones replicate the warmth found in many skin colours, a fact which make-up artists have known for years. They often use light pink powders over the entire face to bring life back to dull, tired skin. This super flattering shade is also great for use around the eyes. Use it to compliment brown eyes and accent green and blue eyes. Hollywood starlets like Reese Witherspoon are often spotted in pink hues. You too can get her look with a sweep of pink blush over the apples of the cheeks and a light brush of pale pink eye-shadow over the eyelids, finished off with a swipe of peachy pink lip-gloss.
Pale Princess
Pale tones - from pearl-like whites to sorbet pinks and lush light lilacs - are versatile, flattering and grown-up girly at its best. Pale tones are perfect for those of us who don't have perfect skin, as the light reflecting quality of pale make-up is well known to smooth out skin tone, hide dark circles and patchiness and highlight eyes, lips and cheeks without highlighting fine lines and wrinkles or pore size. Pale makeup also offers a great way to replicate fashion trends because it’s easy to apply and almost impossible to get wrong. We love this look from the latest Chanel runway show - it's super glam and totally girly.
Glossy Gal
Anything glossy is perfect for those of us trying to achieve a younger girly look whilst still looking gorgeous and grown up. A gloss or shimmering foundation will reflect light, giving the illusion of softer younger skin. Try gloss bronzer and blush to add sheen and sexiness to the face and body. A gloss eye colour will open up and widen eyes. However, the most popular place to wear gloss is on the lips - try any colour from girly pink to sexy plum or ravishing red. Lip gloss fills in lips, giving them a plump, young and fresh look. It's worn by a bevy of stars, including Jessica Simpson who has her own range of lip glosses under the name 'Desert Beauty'.
1. Basics: Start with sultry smooth skin by using a light exfoliating face wash to cleanse away dead skin. Choose a product with pore cleanser and a low irritant formula to make sure you get the best out of your skin. We like NIVEA Visage Young Wash 'n' Refine Daily Wash Scrub.
2. Even it: Even out skin tone using a lightweight tinted moisturiser to give just the right amount of coverage without making you look “made up”. Remember to choose an oil free formula to make sure you're not undoing all your good skincare work. We love NIVEA Visage Young Be Beautiful Tinted Moisturiser.
3. Highlight: Choose lip glosses, eye-liners and mascaras in natural tones. Use minimally to bring focus to one area of your face in order to keep the look simple and fresh. For a neutral gloss look this summer, try NIVEA Lip Care Caregloss & Shine Tinted.
the best jeans ever are at Hollister.
Pencil skirts, heels, dresses, earrings, bracelets.......Shop around.
In Style has a book/magazine out right now that helps you see how to pull pieces together. It's $12.99 and totally worth it.
Wear jewelery and makeup and pretty clothes.
Hang out with girls, read magazines, fix up your hair, wear cute clothes from like Aritzia and American Eagle or just fitted clothes, wear cute shoes, wear earrings, get your nails done, and ask your mum or friends for help. =]
yu cud start wearing girly clothes such as skirts, polo shirts, purses, heels, make up, PINK, and jewerly
well yu can do this : straighten ur hair everyday:
do yur make up GOOD!!!
nail polish!!1
cute sun glasses
and to top it off a CUTE PURSE!!!!!
you just have to like know what to wear. get magazines look at stuff like that [seventeen is good].
wear pretty clothes..something that you are not used to, and try make up....but do not do all of this at once, slowly bring it on.
accessorize, wear heels, and do your hair. Also, take time to dress girly and take time with your makeup and nails Source(s):
maybe wear your hair curly somtimes.
dress sort of like how Avril Levine does now. she had a complete transformation. but i liked the old her. the thing you need to remeber is, with every gain theres sacrefice. your sacrificing your comfort, and your sense of style.
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Hi i'm 15/f. I know this sounds weird, but I never feel girly. I just wear like loose fitting t-shirts and jeans everyday, with my hair in a pony tail. I never wear anything different. I mean, I like girly shirts and cute outfits, but for some reason the way they fit I just can't stand how tight they are. Im not fat or anything they are just so uncomforable. Same with my hair, I just wear it in a ponytail everyday because wearing my hair down just annoys the LIFE out of me. I mean, I know I should just be myself, but do you know why these things bother me so much? What can I do to get used to them? (link)
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you dont need to wear skin-tight clothes to be girly. and you especially dont need to wear your hair down! im a pure girly girl, and heres what i do. usually, i like my hair down because i like that its long, and it covers my chest which im self concious about when i wear tight shirts. and when im in class, writing or somthing, i put it up into pig-tails or a ponytail or sumthing. and it still looks girly. you could maybe try wearing your hair with a headband, maybe it wouldent anno you so much? to get used to tight shirts, you could wear a tight shirt UNDER your baggy one, so that you feel like your wearing a tight shirt but your really not. then, once your used to that, wear a tight shirt with a babby sweatshirt, so that its basicall the same as with a baggy t-shirt over, exept use a zip-up sweatshirt so that you can leave it opened. but you dont need to wear your clothes so tight. i should be an extra small but i wear all my stuff in mediums because otherwise its too short. so yeah, just wear shirts that arent OVERSIZED, but they dont need to be skin-tight.
xo
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in the gossip girls series, if i buy any one of the books will i have any idea what is going on? is it the kind of book where you have to start from the beginning and read all of them? (link)
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i read them out of order, and i understood what was going on 100%. you dont really need to read them in order. it helps, but you dont need to.
xo
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Okay I know this is a really stupid question but if you don't like it then don't bother answering it.
So I'm turning 16 in a couple of months. I've never had a surprise party before and I've always wanted one. Idk, I just think it'd be cool to come home one day and randomly have a bunch of people there for my brithday. Now I've thrown surprise parties for my friends before, and (here comes the stupid question) I'd really like a surprise party... how can I, like, tell my friends I want a surprise party without actually saying that I do? I'd gladly throw one of them a surprise party, and this year I'd really like a surprise party myself, but I don't think that they know that.
So how can I casually mention that I want a surprise party without actually telling them I want one? Or should I actually tell them I want one? I'm confused. Hahaha. Thanks for answering this question. (link)
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Just tell them about the suprise aprtys that youve planned and say that you think it wood rock to have sumbody to throw ya one. a lot of my friends have asked for surprise partys, and we throw them partys. its like, they know were having aparty for them but they dont know when. its fun! lol just have fun with it.
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ok so my bfs dog has to be like put to sleep and hes pretty upset like i mean i would be to i love my dog and i woul dbe devastated if i had to do that to my dog so shoul di maybe leave him alone for a while or should i try to talk 2 him about it?? help meeeeeeeeeeee (link)
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tell him that if he wants to talk, your there for him. tell him that you understand how difficult it is, and that if he needs a sholder to cry on, then your there. hell probably want to talk to you more then anybody about it, so you should be supportave.
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okay so ive had a boyfriend for 7 months now..and lately every little thing he did was starting to annoy me, so i knew it was time for a break...he still really loves and cares about me though. He's 15 and i just turned 17 and he won't be 16 till April...so that kinda turned me off a bit too. the thing is is that i really like 2 other guys.. both of them used to like me...but once i started going out with my now ex, one of them, "bob" started going out with another girl. and the other one, "Blake" has a kid and lives two hours away...
okay Blake....
the night before i broke up with my bf Blake came to see me... he told me that his girlfriend broke up with him 2 days ago... and he kept making suddle moves on me the whole night, but i didn't lean in for a kiss because i STILL had a bf... it's been a week since he came to see me and he hasn't called or texted.. but i really like him..... some of my friends think he used me just for a rebound, some of my other friends think that it was just a coinsedence and that hes just really busy. I personally don't understand why he would drive 2 hours just to rebound, when he couldve found another girl closer...
now Bob...
bob used to like me...but he didn't tell me until i asked him if he did... and i had just started going out with another guy. I liked bob too....now bob's being a jerk and we're both REALLY mean to eachother... but you can tell that we hate being mean eachother if that makes any sense at all....
i like them both... but i dont know what to do...
i guess:
1) do you think its okay to text a guy if he doesn't text you back or would you sound to desperate and should u just wait for him to text you?
2) how do you ask a guy if he likes you without asking that direct question?
3) what are some things i could say to bob that hint around at me liking him but don't sound slutty cuz he does have a gf?
4) Was Blake just using me for a rebound?
thanks.
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1) do you think its okay to text a guy if he doesn't text you back or would you sound to desperate and should u just wait for him to text you?
NO, ITS NOT DESPERATE. MAYBE THEYRE NOT BY THEIR PHONE OR SOMTHING. THEYL BE FLATTERED, IT DOSENT SOUND OBSESSIVE OR DESPERATE, YOU CAN TEXT HIM FIRST.
2) how do you ask a guy if he likes you without asking that direct question?
ASK HIM, DO YOU LIKE ANYBODY? OR LIKE, ASK HIM IF HE WANTS TO PLAY WHO DO YOU RATHER WHERE YOU NAME PEOPLE AND HE SAYS WHO HE WOULD RATHER DATE, KISS, ETC. OR, ASK HIM WHAT HIS TOP FIVE IS. TOP FIVE IS THE 5 PEOPLE HE LIKES THE MOST.
4) Was Blake just using me for a rebound?
NO! BLAKE WOULD NOT DRIVE 2 HOURS JUST FOR AREBOUND. HES PROBABLY LOST HIS PHONE, OR, HES HAD A LOT OF HOMEWORK OR A BASKETBALL TOURNAMENT ORSOMTHING. DONT STRESS ABOUT IT. YOUR NOT HIS REBOUND. HE PROBABLY REALLY LIKES YOU. JUST INVITE HIM OVER AGAIN AND LET HIM MAKE HIS MOVE.
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no, i do not wear make-up. how do you wear it?
eyeshadow, eyeliner, etc.
can you help me find websites please, i'm desperate! (link)
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Start off with nautral colors. dont rush into red lip-stick just yet!
A BEAUTIFUL FACE STARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL SKIN. No matter how beautiful your Makeup looks , blemished skin detracts from it attracting unwanted attention to your skin. Using a Skin Care Kit ( CLEANSER, TONER , MOISTURIZER and a MASQUE ) created for your skin type will help you attain and maintain beautiful healthy glowing skin.
Below are 5 Steps to applying Makeup. For the best possible results you should apply your Makeup after you have have used a CLEANSER, TONER and MOISTURIZER. A Masque should be used at least once weekly for deep cleaning.
STEP 1 : FOUNDATION : After CLEANSING, TONING and MOISTURIZING your face a pply a small amount of foundation to the tip of your index finger, dot on forehead, nose, cheeks and chin then blend in an upward and outward motion without leaving a line. Be sure to apply foundation over your eyelids and blend without leaving a line. Glance in the mirror to ensure there's no line. You can use a concealer to cover imperfections such as blemishes and dark spots. You can use our NATU-CLEAR to clear up your skin.
STEP 2 : TRANSLUCENT POWDER : Using a Powder Brush apply Translucent Powder in a downward motion for a smooth finish. Translucent Powder helps eye makeup and blush to go on smoother and blend better. It also keeps your face looking fresh and your Makeup will last longer.
STEP 3 EYE MAKEUP : Starting at your lash line, apply your Base Color (A) first, then apply your crease color in the crease area (B). Apply your Highlight Color in the highlight color area, (C) below the brow bone. Finally, blend the colors with a cotton ball or your fingertip to remove any obvious line. If the colors are too bright tone them down with a little Translucent Powder then apply your Mascara, and dust your entire face downward with Translucent Powder. See our Eye Makeup Link below.
STEP 4 BLUSH : Your Blush should go on the apples of your cheeks to radiate when you smile. It should go no closer to your nose, but directly beneath the iris of your eye; below nostril-level and into your temple hairline. A good Blush Brush that's tapered for precise placement, is a must.
then, put on some clear lip gloss and your good to go!!
you might also want to try eyeliner. try a pencil eyeliner, its easier to put on. get a brown one.
Use your finger to hold the end of your eye upward. This creates a flatter surface to apply the liner.
Apply a thin line close to the lashes on the eyelid. (DON'T draw a curve or anything weird.) A straight line is all you need. This line needs to stop right at the end of your eyes. To create a more dramatic look you can draw a little more over the length of your eyes.
you must remember to apply the liner as close to your eye lash as possible. Leaving a gap can make you look like you have double eyes. To do this the type of eye liner you pick is the key. Thin and pointy pencil eye liners are best to help you draw a thin line over your eye lid.
the eyes are the window to the soul
make sure that your eyes look good!!
if you use the right make-up, they will SPARKLE!
Sources: http://www.beautysensation.com/BSMakeuptips.htm
http://www.cherryculture.com/cosmetics/makeup/tips-and-trends
http://www.cherryculture.com/cosmetics/makeup/eyes
http://www.sequentialtart.com/article.php?id=384
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is it wrong? i don't know, i cant tell family, they wont understand. and friends know. I'm just afraid, and I'm confused
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i know its a bit after you asked this question, and i hope that your not still confused. but, i am guesing that i can still answer, because im guessing that your still bi.
you dont need to tell your parents if you dont want to. you are your own person! you might want to tell them once you are more secure about it though.
you might want to check this out...
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070320111628AAPEIY0
its about telling your parents if you havent done so already.
but please dont stress. you are 100% completel normal.
xoxoxo!!!
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what are some fun sexual games i can play with my boyfriend. not like having sex or anything.. (link)
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http://www.lovingyou.com/content/sex/content.php?ART=bedroomboredom
http://gifts1.lovingyou.com/results/category_search_result.php?SearchCatID=89
http://chocolatefantasies.com/adultgamesdice.htm
http://honeymoons.about.com/cs/toppicks/tp/Couples_Games.htm
http://www.romanticgifts.com/1000sexgames.html
or like, pass an ice cube back and forth with ur mouth. or a candy or sumthing.
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Should I kiss on the first date? (link)
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i think if you know the person from before, and youve been friends or you have liked them for a long time. if you just met them like a week ago or somthing, id give a kiss on the cheek or somthing.
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