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Hi i'm 15/f. I know this sounds weird, but I never feel girly. I just wear like loose fitting t-shirts and jeans everyday, with my hair in a pony tail. I never wear anything different. I mean, I like girly shirts and cute outfits, but for some reason the way they fit I just can't stand how tight they are. Im not fat or anything they are just so uncomforable. Same with my hair, I just wear it in a ponytail everyday because wearing my hair down just annoys the LIFE out of me. I mean, I know I should just be myself, but do you know why these things bother me so much? What can I do to get used to them?
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you dont need to wear skin-tight clothes to be girly. and you especially dont need to wear your hair down! im a pure girly girl, and heres what i do. usually, i like my hair down because i like that its long, and it covers my chest which im self concious about when i wear tight shirts. and when im in class, writing or somthing, i put it up into pig-tails or a ponytail or sumthing. and it still looks girly. you could maybe try wearing your hair with a headband, maybe it wouldent anno you so much? to get used to tight shirts, you could wear a tight shirt UNDER your baggy one, so that you feel like your wearing a tight shirt but your really not. then, once your used to that, wear a tight shirt with a babby sweatshirt, so that its basicall the same as with a baggy t-shirt over, exept use a zip-up sweatshirt so that you can leave it opened. but you dont need to wear your clothes so tight. i should be an extra small but i wear all my stuff in mediums because otherwise its too short. so yeah, just wear shirts that arent OVERSIZED, but they dont need to be skin-tight.
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I know how you feel. It can definatly be difficult sometimes. But, you have to realize that the more cute and good you look, the more confident you'll be in yourself. Start slowly. Maybe once a week wear a tight outfit with your hair down. When you start getting used to it, gradually start adding on more and more days until your completely fine. Hope i helped =]
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its probably bothering you so much because you see most other girls are wearing girly cute outfits that are so tight and uncomfortable. its natural to want to fit in, and you're probably feeling like maybe i should be dressing like them. my advice... just wear whatever makes you happy and comfortable. and you can find girly things that are loose too, like those long tunic type shirts.. or wear a mini dress with leggings, or even jeans.
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I used to wear only comfortable clothes. I couldn't stand anything that didn't feel like it wasn't even there. The way I got over it was to just start wearing things that weren't quite as comfortable. It's insanely annoying for a while, but you do get used to it. So basically, you'll just have to sacrifice being comfortable for a few weeks and after that you're golden. There's not much else you can do and really, it's not that painful. Good luck! :)
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you should try and cut your hair and get a whole new wordrobe that should help any questions and e mail me
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