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hi,i was jus wondering how do you become a high male supermodel thanks (link)
Hey im a part time modle,
and i mean the 1st couple of stepes to becoming a modle of any gender you have to practice your walks. Like draw a long line with chalk on the sidewalk and walk on it with out going off of it.
Then you have to watch what you eat . Watch what you wear and then go to an agencey and see if the will higher you.
Hope i helped! comment me back on my advice if you like it.
Love,
Bubble2Gum


13/f and my friend is 13/f

My friend, alex, lost her virginity last week. I got really mad at her. I don't know what to do. She moved to Indiana too. I don't feel like being her friend anymore because she lost her virigity at 13. First, she started smoking, then she gave bjs, now she's lost her virginity. I feel so weird. All my other friends are virgins. I really don't like my friend anymore. She used to be nice, happy, and cool, but now shes... gross, rude and... Virginityless... Not a word, but ok. I wish my friend could've been smarter. What do I do?! Plz help! (link)
Okay this is a great question, You are very smart to not be like her i mean there is no excuse for her stupidity! I mean you cant really do anything about it right now, but for the record you shouldn't ignore her because when she relizes what she did and how it was totaly wrong she will need you so dont ignore her. But sooner or later she'll thank you and only you for caring about her.
But i hope it all turns out ok.
love always,
Bubble2Gum


i dont feel like i am pretty or anything bcuz no guys like tell me i am to my face and like no one does besides like my friends and i think they dont mean it.
www.myspace.com/i_like_to_rawr_00
is my myspace,please tell me the truth like i dont feel pretty what so ever,and is there anyway how i can change my feeling on that?
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Okay well i looked at your page , And you are very pretty! So dont let anyone tell you other wise.You are a very pretty girl and you deserve to feel like one so to change YOUR feeling on your self you have to tell your self that you are pretty and if people dont think so well hell thats there problem not yours but for the record you are. And for the whole guys not telling you to your face, Im just gussing that they are scared but anyways your pretty very pretty.
Love always,
Bubble2Gum.
P.s. if you like my advice comment me back.


my boobs are really small and far apart, so id otn have cleavage. even if i wear really low shirts?

how do i get cleavage?! (link)
Okay well this might sound really weird but if you get ducktape and put one part of the peacce you have on one of your boobs then pull it over tell you think it looks like clevage and then put the other half downon your other boob. Then put a bra on that should do it i hope i helped!
love,
Bubble2Gum



okay so im a 16/f and i think i like my best friend that i've known since i was 4. and we use to play soccer together and we went to elementry and middle school together. lol and we might hangout soon at the mall. but im not sure what to say to him or if i should tell him that i like him. what should i do? help!!! (link)
Well it's magerly possible that he likes you to. So im guessing that if your up to it , i would tell him at the mall that you like him. I mean literaly im guessing you a very atractive girl and that he really likes you for how long you have known him. But remember that if he doesn't feel da same way it ok, there are plenty of men out there who would love you. But chances are this guy friend of yours will end up more then a friend.
Hope all goes well love always,
Bubble2Gum


my friends grandfather died this morning. hes really hurt. but i dont know what to say to him. im scared ill say something wrong. what should i tell him? (link)
That is a good question.. I mean that is really sad when a loved one die's i mean it is not fair at all but what you have to remember is that who ever dies is not in pain anymore that the have moved on and can fu fill their dream's in anyway and at any cost. But what i would sudgest is to tell your friend what i have just told you. It will help i promise any you have to remember that when a loved one does die you will never really loose them you just loose the body but never the spirt. They will always be in your heart! Comment me back if this helps okay?
love always,
Bubble2Gum


Ok...i am a 17/f. Me and my boyfriend had sex the day I got off of my period. first of all is that a really high time to get pregnant?? :o(...My cycle is every 28 days and it is for 6 or 7 days. Well...when we had sex he put the condem on and it was dark...so he put it on the wrong way...then he just switched sides. Is it possible for me to be pregnant?? :(...He says he did not cum...and that he was dry....but i know cum can live for like 48 hours so if he ejaculated at an earlier time it could stillbe on there!! PLEASE SOOOOOMMMEEEONEEE HELPPP MEEE!!!!
Thanks!!! (link)
Okay girly ,
You'r young , and should not be having sex yet, protected or not I mean dont get me wrong im not trying to controle you but its true. Yes it is still possible for you to get pregnet if there was cum or if he exagalated. Okay?
Plus the condom can brake. Its known to happen.
Hope this helps.
Love,
Bubble2Gum


recently my best friend had her first kiss,
and told me it was kinda awkward because she didn't really know what to do.
I've never been kissed yet, and I started thinking about it, ahhh what are you supposed to do?
I'm sorry if this sounds incredibley stupid..
is it a natural thing? Something you just learn to do with practice? (link)
Hey there girly i just want you to know i felt the same way when my 1st kiss came. And yes it does come natuarly like you just go in for it and it happens likt you'll know what to do , everyone is diferent but the thing is the guy is just as nervus as you so dont worry just know when the time comes it'll happen. so dont worry comment me back if you like my advice m'k??
love always,
Bubble2gum


15/f. For 7 months I was with my girlfriend. About 2 months ago we broke up & I was heartbroken, it's taken me a while to get over this, but I am finally ready to move on.

My best guy friend has always been there for me, and now he tells me that he likes me a lot. Now I am a lesbian, but I have feelings for him. I'm willing to try it out, but he is really experienced as in sexually. I've done pretty much nothing but make out with guys.

Do you think it's a good idea for me to be with him? Could I still be a lesbian and be attracted to a guy? (link)
Hey there girly, i know how you feel i went threw the same thing last year. I was only a lesbian But now im a Bisexual. I mean eather way its perfectly normal i think you should just experiment with bolth gendger's and wich ever one you like go for it im up for what ever you want to do, Id say just be honest with him and tell him you are not so much experieanced in sex. And im more then postive it will be ok.
lot's of love,
Bubble gum!
P.s if you want to tell me how everything goes comment me back ok??


i got my first ever period yesterday and it was a 'regular' flow i guess, and when i went to bed last night i put on a pad just incase and when i checked this morning there was no blood. is this normal to only have your period for 1 day? (link)
Hey hunny,
i just want to tell you that a period lasts for 4 to 5 days. and during the night (while your sleeping) it stops and then comes back so yeah comment me back kkz
Luvz & Hugz


This is from: I don’t know why

So what is your answer to I don’t know why?

(I forgot to put that when she said: “I’m fine with it, not saying I feel the same way because I don’t know what gender I like yet”
So she never felt the same way, but I feel like that’s a lie…or maybe its in my mind?)

can you answer this question too: Sally is a touchy person and I don’t know if its me but what do you think these mean: sometimes she walks close to me when we walk, leans on my shoulder, once she garb my arm and held it like a hug and hold my hand.
This is before I told her how I felt about her.
My other friends don’t do that they only tease me and push me around, she does that too I do that back too but the other stuff like leaning on me…that’s a little different.
What do you think?
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Well so your doing okay and im glad you came to me for this advice okay. Sooo that hole arm thing well im guessing she is trying to get ur attention so be happy!!n and the whole friend thing well they just dont get the situasion so just let them do it and dont let em get to you so agin let me know how it goes okay BU-bey


I have feelings for her for 6 years! she is my best friend and I'm a girl who might be Bi. i think about her 24/7 and i sometimes dream about her but not in a sexual way. i only dream about her of our friend ship but sometimes i dream us cuddling. I just dont understand how i can stop thinking about her?!
(lets call her sally)
i told sally about my feelings to her and about myself she never new about. she said she was fine with it but she is not sure what gender she likes. i understood that cause im in the same shoes she is in too. i wasnt wanting her to say she likes me too because we been friends for 8 years and i dont want to worren our frined ship.

but i dont want to see her with someone elus or give them the attention more than me. i love that she always gave me the attention. but i dont know? i wrote her a message to her email saying that i'll never forget about her and i will always love her. its soooo hard i want to forget about her of me liking her but i cant cause we are still friends and we always hangout. its so confusing!? (link)
Hey girly how are ya hangin in??? You know you did the right thing telling her how you feel and all. And that's probly the best thing you could have done. And i am sooo proud of you but this whol Bi thing its okay you have nothing to be ashamed of im a Bi and im getting along okay i mean i have a boyfriend and i girlfriend. so you know its a good thing you tolled her how you felt mabey deep down she feels the same way but anyway comment me back on how your doin oky ?? Bu-bey and i hope i helped!!
Love always your Bi friend,
Bubble2Gum


ok well (14/f) well i have the bestest friend and we hang out in a whole group with other close friends.ok well she smoked pot a fewtimes and wants me to do it with her...believe it ornot butithink i want to try.. please dont think anything bad of me or be harsh cuz thats not what im looking for..but i wanna know if i should try it? me and my bestie do everything together and i dont know what to do.. 2 of my oother close friends are mad cuz they found out that i may wanna try it.. i dont know y they are getthing mad at me but they are ok with my bestie doing it..can you answer both questions please?
thanks alot
TL4PL (link)
Okay girly you know that if the cops find out you could get arrested!! And its really really bad for you i have a friend that does pot and she is really sick because of it plus when she gets better she is going to Juvie. so honestly i would say dont do it. I mean this is all up to you eather do it(die) or dont do it and have a great rest or ur life. but yes comment me back on how it went
Love. Bubble2Gum


ok. most of the girls in my class shave(i think) i want to to. i think i need it now. well, my mom and grandma keep saying don't do it you will get stubs and it will look terrible. you are too young. WEll i triend it a couple of times and i think i know how to do it. should i? my mom only buys the cheap blades and no cream... should i use reg. cream after? if i chose to shave now, what should i do! HELP!
i have one more.... periods. I don't have mine yet, and it seems i should of gotton it a while ago. what should i do with that also? thanks! (link)
Well 1st off if you decide to shave now you should wet your legs then apply soap. and be gental when applyen the blade on skin!
and about your period i have started mine and lets get one thing across it can hurt but dont worry you'll be ready.But anyways i hope i helped comment me back
Love always,
Bubble2Gum


me and this lad were getting on really well at school and i thought he liked me, well i was pretty certain. then one day i got on the bus to town with my friend and he got on the bus with his ex girlfriend and completely blanked me, it really hurt me, i text me friend who knows him saying if anything was happening between them and she text back saying he goes to her for sex and drugs and its nothing serious
i dont want to talk to him about it because i dont know if he did or does like me
we talk now, but its a bit awkward since i saw him with her
i dont know what to do (link)
hey i think your right that is veary rude of him to do. But you shoukd go to him and tell him that you saw him with her and that it made you feel really bad. And to go to her for sex and drugs is just wrong. And you should also tell him that you are worried about him (about the drug thing). But i hope i helped comment me telling how it goes.
Love always,
Bubble2Gum


Hi, im a 16, almost 17 m, and i figured i can get the best advice from a girl. I a problem actually hooking up with girls at a party. Now, i can talk to a girl the whole night by the end of the night she can be totally into me, but it seems i dont know what to do/say to get the ball rolling. I am pretty good-looking, so i dont think thats the problem, just i cant seem to figure out the right thing to do say to get a girl to go and hook up with me. and even when i am alone, i can never gather the words to say/actions to do. please help. IM pretty much asking a what would you like a guy to say/do kinda thing. (link)
Okay you are very smart to come to a girl for this kind of advice. So lets get started. Say you were going to ask me out. What would i wanna hear? Well i would wanna be complamented and such. Like i would wanna be called beautiful or pretty ext.... And when you ask this girl out while your at a party say somthing like this" Okay we have had a great time tonight And i was wondering if you would be willing to go on a date with me? and she is most likely to feel the same way and say yes. and when she does say yes you give her a biiiig hug and a kiss. and walk and or take her home. Hope that i helped wright me back with the details okay.
Love Yours Truley,
Bubble2Gum


where can i touch a girl to turn her on??
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Okay well considering i am a girl. Im pretty sure i can help so what i can say is all girls are different but you shoulg finger her and kiss her all over but not like a really wet kiss that can get real gross real fast. so you could touch her back her chest he legs cheeks ext.... and so on. but i reallt hope i helped.
Love


Well, i have this friend, and well everytime i am myself she gets mad at me for acting the way i do, im not mean im just crazy (thats my personality) and so i feel like i have to be somone else when im around her in order to be her friend. Now she is mad at me again, is it worth trying to work things out AGAIN or should i just noot be her friend anymore, because i have a bunch of other friends that like me for me.
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Hey well honestly you just need to ditch her!!! She cant accept you the way you are. and im like you crazy! and if she cant accept you for you then she aint worth it so ditch her okay.
hope it all works out okay and let me know what happens.
XoXo,
Bubble 2 Gum


ive been to the doctor probably 4 or 5 times (the last time i went was on friday) becuase i had like a viral infection, got reinfected or whatever and blah blah blah. but, i need to go again i think but idk if my parents will take me. i bled after sex abouttt 8 months ago i think. then, about a week ago i bled again but it was weird. i bled, thought it stopped but didnt and i put a tampon in because i figured i had my period. that day and the day after it was really light, then the next 3 days it was really heavy. on friday it stopped and i had sex yesterday and i bled. it stopped but everytime we had sex again yesterday i bled again. i came home and i went to the bathroom and noticed dry blood in my underwear, wiped and their was blood on the toilet paper. so i went to bed with a pad and theres like a quarter sized blood spot on it. what do you think is wrong? my parents dont know we have sex, and they cant know. absolutely cann nott know. so, could i get away with saying, hey mom i think i need to go to the doctor because i keep bleeding inbetween my periods? but ive noticed ive only bled when we had rough sex and it felt like he was too deep. could that just be the problem and am i okay then? and no, its not my hymen breaking, ive been having sex with him for a year now, and oh yeah im 15 years old. (link)
Okay well this happend to my friend about a year ago and she's 12 now. But i think the reason its happining is because he went in to deep or becuase ur like really young and this could possibly be why but you should go to the doctor and get this straightend out. if ur parents cant take you mabey a friend could or a friend's parent. think about it.
hope i helped and good luck!!!
bu-bey


well ok this girl hit my friend roland and i asked her why she did tht and she started cussing me out and ic alled her a bitch and then she threatened to punch me in my face and later on she and 2 of her friends followed me into the bathroom and that girl almost hit me but someone pulled her back.. and i told the principle but he said that my other priciple will talk to me on monday. and im scared i might get on trouble on monday for calling that girl a bitch. what should i do? and will i get in trouble? (link)
Okay honestly you probly will get in trouble for swearing but you were just doing it to get even. And she will get in more trouble then you for atempting to hit you and for hitting your friend so dont worry. You wont get in to deep i promise hope i helped and good luck and sorry if i din't help but i hope i did.




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