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My name is Hailey. I love giving advice to people ! Because it makes me feel wanted in this world, and that people trust me and my oppionions. And im not exactly the best speller. So sorry if I spell things wrong. Spelling isn't my strong point. I will try my best to give you advice your happy with. I will always be 100% truthful ! No matter what it's about. You can drop one in my inbox at anytime ! & I will answer as soon as possible ! I appreciate anyone who has me as a favorite columnist. And it makes me feel really special like I give good advice. & Id really appreciate it if you rated me so I know how my advice was !
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okay so this is really important!
im not used to guys liking me
im 16 and never been on a date or kissed or anything
so this guy on myspace that lives about 20 minutes away from me added me and he didnt talk to me for like a month but he did about 40 minuts ago and we were talking and now he wants to go to a movie with me. i think hes cute, but i dont know him so im not sure if i like him. and hes 5'6 and im 5'9 and im not height shallow i just like the idea of dating a guy whos my hight but i think thats the least of my worries. my parents would freak if they thought that i was gonna go hang w/ a guy i dont know. my best friends said that they wouldnt let me go alone, just incase something happens, i dont think hes a dirty old man, but you can never be too careful. i dont want to say no and him think im not interested b/c i am, im just scared b/c things like this dont happen to girls like me. i really want some advice on this, i have no idea what to do. sorry this was so long but im like freaking out here!
Honestly..your right you never know if hes some old man or not. Your friends are right DONT GO ALONE!!!! Ask one to come with you.
But first I would talk to him about this, tell him how you feel. Tell him you dont feel comfortable going alone to meet him. Tell him how you feel and if he gets mad or anything then honestly..maybe hes not who he says he is.
test this. tell him. and if he understands, when you go to meet him bring a friend or two, it will most likely make you feel better while this is going on.
hope i helped !!!
okay well I need very good advice on this quesitons so please try to understand my situation. Okay, well my pretty good friend is going out with this guy. I use to like him when I was around 9 but now I'm 14 & he's 15.. Well, they have been going out for about 2-3 weeks now. Well, me & him started talking through aim and stuff & I ened up telling him how I crushed on him before. A day later he tells me he "thinks" he likes me. So we talked,talked,talked blah & blah. Then he called me once & we stared talking for a long time & we finally got to know each other & figured out we have A LOT in common. & we were talking like a "couple" even though they are going out. But don't think I'm a man stealer or anything. He told me wayyyy before he even liked me that he was thinking of breaking up with her but doesnt know how. He tells me how she's like freaky taking about how she did "stuff" before & we all know thats a lie.I mean she's my friend & all but she's also been known to be a fakie. Anyways he's at some thing or whatever in Kentucy or whatever. & since his "girlfriend" is my friend she's been telling me how she really really misses him & how he's not calling while all this time me & him have been talking to like 3 in the morning & texting the whole day. This has been going on for about a week now. So I Guess what I need advice on is your opinion about the situation. Also, I dont know what I'm going through becasue i never felt like this before. He's been very nice to me telling me he loves me & stuff[ I know you cant love someone that soon but its out thing if you know what I mean]. So I'm wondering what is this I'm feeling becasue I'm like checking my phone every damn second to see if he called or if i acidentally missed the call or something. Uhh i'm so confused. He's like you know we could make such a cute couple & I really want to go out with you after I slowly settle things down with "her". Bit I told him is it right to do this to her becasue It's a chick thing & she's my friend would she hate me?I really need advice & help on what you think this phase is. He calls me his babe & how he just wants me by his side & such adorible stuff. Please don't tell me how would you feel if you were her becasue first I'm not her & he feels different about me then he does with her. So please please people give me advice on what to do and what I'm feeling. & should I go out with him?
Your not going to like this. But if I was your friend I would HATE you for going out with someone I had feelings for. Best frineds arent suppose to do this. Like I *WAS* friends with this girl, well she went out with the guy I liked so bascially she stole him from me in a way. Were not friends anymore. And honestly I cant get over her stealing him. If your friend really likes him, I wouldnt do it. I wouldnt go out with him. I know it will be hard to not go out with him. But on the other hand maybe your friend wouldnt really mind as much. But if you really want to go out wit him, and you would risk it..I would wait awhile to do anything and make it offical. Wait it out. See how she feels. Example: IM her call her which ever you want to do and say somehting like "If your frined ever went out with him would you be mad?" Ask her how she'd feel if you went out with him. Ask her how she'd feel if you had any sort of feelings for him if she would be mad. Just keep in mind she can be lying about saying she doesnt care when deep down she really does.
I know this is probabaly not what you wanted to hear. But I tried my best to explain to you both point of views.
If you need anything else or if you need me to explain something. just leave one in my inbox.
Hope this helped !!
f/16- I'm really into a bohemian- autumn-winter look.. But I'm not sure how to put clothes together.. to achieve that look.
Here's a picture of me.
[http://i16.tinypic.com/67xowmb.jpg]
I was told to find what my "season" was so I could figure out what colors look best on me.
I don't know how to describe my skin tone. It's not pale nor tan. I have dark brown eyes. Dark brown hair.
I'm so confused. Help? I would also like links [clothing websites] or pictures to help. I was thinking of getting pictures of an outfit and going out to search for similar items.. Does that sound weird?
I really want to have a style instead of looking like a little girl. I'm going to be a junior, yet people assume I'm still in middle school or whatever.
Well it all depends on what kind of style do you like most.
Do you like skirts, jeans, nice shirts etc. Do you like the stores abercrombie & hollister? Here are some shirts/shorts/pants that would go nice togther:
http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10101&catalogId=10851&productId=348941&langId=-1&categoryId=12156&parentCategoryId=12103&colorSequence=02
(i think the gray one would look nice)
http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10101_10851_288495_-1_12160_12103
(pants)
http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10101_10851_345788_-1_13112_12103
(kaprees)
now that would look cute, you can always wear kaprees or brumuda shorts (sorry for my spelling) but personally I think a dark blue jean or a black jean would look nice with that gray top.
Now layering shirts is always cute, as long as you use the right colors.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_347655_-1_12597_12552
for an example this shirt.
the blue you would wear an orange tank/cami underneath
the gray you would wear a dark blue but if you have that color green it would look nice but i think the blue would look better.
the tanish you would wear a greenish or again the dark blue whichever you think would look better
now the maroon orange or yellow would look nice. there both equally nice
get where im going ?? when layering and it has a picture or something try and get a shirt underneath it like a color that is on the shirt if that makes any sense to you.
with those shirts you can jus wear kinda jeans it doesnt matter.
Layering works out with everything if you ask me. In my case I layer with almost anything. It looks cute and matchy.
as for shoes if you wear old navy flip flops they have every color then you can match with anything. Or get flats. those seem to be in. Or if you wear shoes they have certain shoes to match.
If you need any more help then I will gladly help when I can. Just drop one in my inbox.
I hope this helped !!!!
i'm 15 and have a boyfriend of a year and 2 months. i love my boyfriend but i also love it when other guys look at me. like, i have no intention of thinking of them in romantic ways, or even knowing the person, i just like being looked at. is that wrong?
No, this is one thing that is not wrong at all. It's not like your going "wow hes hott" blah blah now thats kind of wrong. You just like to be noticed, and have guys think your good looking. It makes you feel better about your self when guys do, im sure every girl thinks that way.
It's completely fine dont worry about it!! ♥
how do you play spin the bottle and seven munutes in heaven?
Spin the Bottle : When you guys all gather around and spin some sorta bottle. And whoever the bottle lands on you guys got to kiss.
Seven Minutes In Heaven : Is when two people get picked & you go in a closet & make out for 7 minutes
Hope I helped
i live in ontario, canada (toronto) can anybody tell me where i can get season one of the series 'The Hills'?
i tried in music world.. where else should i look?
;l
I don't think its out on DVD yet. Otherwise it would have been said on MTV and on other channels.
But if it did come out try target or stores like that.
Hope I helped
i am from australia, im 16. my name is alice.
well, i met this boy a couple of months ago. he works with me.
i went to work one day < i wasnt working > just syaing hi, and he was there and i hadnt normally seen him there before because he works in the day and i work weekend and arfternoons.. i introduced my self and we started hanging out in the arfternoons when i would go there after school. and then i fell for him. a couple weeks later he moved out of home and moved in with a couple of his friends. and he decided to go back to school for a year to finish year 12, ( i am only in year 10 ) so he stopped working for a bit and we kind of lost touch because he didnt have much money so he couldnt call me or anything. that was about 2 montsh ago.. then i saw him again recently because its holidays,, we hung out and had lunch and just caught up. he has these gorgeous blue eyes that i cant stop staring at, and blonde hair. he's the sweetest guy i have ever met and i really love him. we started workign again toegther recently and we flirt alot. things like tickling me all the time! and calling me cute names. but i dont know whether he just wants to me friends with me or he likes me mroe than a friend. i really want to find out before we go back to school beacuse chances are, we will loose touch again. someone please help me out i just dont know how to tell him how i feel. i cant stop thinking aboout him. when i'm with him i feel happy and secure, but when im not with him i miss him so bad and cant stop thinking about him. please could someone help me out here?
Alice.
Tell him how you feel, be completely honest with him. Ask him if he likes you in that way because hes calling you all those cute names and tickles you all the time. As for telling him just go up to him and sit him down saying we need to talk. Then say something like "Well ive gotten to know you and im starting to really like you and I was woundering how do you feel about me ? Since were always flirting and your always giving me these cute names."
Hope I helped
my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half and i think he is getting sick of me. he is very controlling and he isnt the greatest .. i have had more than one occasion where someone has told me he has cheated on me. i believe him when he says its not true. he doesnt like that i have guy friends so i dont have any but he has tons of friends who are girls and it doesnt even phase him that it upsets me. he has lots of girls numbers including one of the girls who told me they hookedup. another girl who was trying to get with him calls alot. he says he loves me but he treats me like shit. im a good girlfriend i do everything for him i love him. but still even if he messes up i get yelled at if i confront him .. everything is my fault even if i catch him lying he gets mad if i was snooping and says i need to give him his privacy and that i have no right to check his stuff. he says i need to trust him more but how can i when he has hurt me so much in the past and how am i supposed to trust him if i catch him lying all the time. he calls me names like slut when he gets mad and he calls me crazy. and he apologizes when we stop fighting and he doesnt seem to understand its not right. ive forgiven him many many times and he just doesnt seem to take me seriously. he doesnt think i will dump him he thinks hes irraplacable (lol) but hes not. he treats me like just some chick .. im not some chick after a year and a half. he should be treating me like a princess not like a maid. please help
If this boyfriend of yours is treating you like a maid instead of a princess he doesnt respect you. I think you should break up with him cause your right you do deserve to be treated like a princess every girl does. No girl deserves to get used and pushed aside.You cant love a person and treat them like total shit if you get what I mean. But if you decide not to dump him, you really should tell him what you wrote here, and how you feel about him and all those girls. And say how its so hard to trust him cause hes hurt you so much in the past. You need to tell him this and dont let it bottle up inside until you finally burst. But even if you do decide to break up with him. I suggest you tell him this and get it off your chest. He'll realize what he lost when its gone.
Hope this helped
My boyfriend and I hang out three times a week. Wednesday & Friday - after school & on Sunday. He doesn`t go to my school, so those are the only times I get to see him!
Since I`m on Christmas vacation, I REALLY want to hang out with him. Because, I`m home alone, and yeah.. it`s way too boring for me to handle.
His brother came in for Christmas, and he`s staying for two weeks. He`s been here now for, four days. Tomorrow is Friday & it`s our day to hang out. I asked him if just ME & HIM could do something. (I hung out with him and his brother on Wednesday & I was COMPLETELY BORED OUT OF MY MIND! I felt so uncomfortable!) Like, I asked if we could drive to a different town & you know, just like chill. =]
Am I being way too selfish? I just don`t want to sit around all day & watch tv with his brother, it`s the worst thing ever. Is it bad that I don`t want to hang out with his 27 year old, older brother?
I`m 17 & he`s 20.
Thank you, mucho!!!!
Thats not selfish. It's called wanting to spend time with your boyfriend. I totally understand that you want to hang out with your boyfriend. But you should talk to him about it. And say something like "I know you want to hang out with your brother & I respect that, but since I barely get to hang out with you when schools going on I want to hang out with you more cause its vacation. & I feel that sitting around all day watching tv with you & your brother is just boring, & I want to get out & hang out with you" He should understand. Make up some sorta deal thing. Like you can hang out with him during the day & he can spend time with his brother at night. Or the other way around. All im trying to say is talk to him. & Your not being selfish.
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I need to upload a picture and I don't know how, Can you help me? Thanks
On this site ? You go to "Profile Settings" under the Welcome then your user name. its right under Edit Answers. & then they have the form thing to upload your picture hope i helped ♥
ok earlier i saw this question posted by someone:
Ok soo I have really frizzy, poufy hair that I hate, so I recently bought a Chi. I really like my hair straight, but the only problem is that my Chi makes my hair really, really flat. It pretty much just sucks the volume out of my hair. I was just wondering if anyone knew how I can get my hair straight but keep some volume?
Thanksss =]
what is the chi thing they are talking about?
Chi is a hair straighter. one of the best brands out there. I use one of those & it works very well. & I totally have that kinda hair. But if you need a straightner I suggest that.
I have AOL and would like to CLEAR the My History dropdown. I have tried History Sweep and it does not work. Does anything work?
Well at the top where it syas "FILE EDiT MAIL COMMUNITY" ETC click the one that says Edit then click toolbar history. It clears all your history on the drop down hope I helped
what happen to 7th heaven?? i heard that the 10th season would be the last but then i was told there would be a 11th but i read online that makenzie who plays ruthie decided not to do the 11th season so im really confused. please help!
I LOVE THAT SHOW lol.
& Yes there will be an 11th season. I looked it up on wb11.com heres the site if you wanna look
http://cw11.trb.com/entertainment/network/stv-7thheaven-pkg,0,5499707.special?coll=wpix-home-nav&fif
Its at the bottom. If you dont wanna look heres what it says
7th Heaven will return for an 11th season this fall! What storylines are you excited to see continue? Which characters are you most looking forward to seeing? Discuss 7th Heaven here!
where do you get a code to hide your top 8, but it still says view your friends? website or the actual code would be nice.
I was just looking for that last night to ! heres the code
table table td.text table td.text table table tbody td table, span.btext {display: none !important}
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I need a new haircut. Mines bad.. real bad. My hair`s super duper thin, and it medium length. I don`t like super short hair, but I would like to loose some of the length I have. I have side bangs, and most of my (what use to be) layers are almost grown out now. Any suggestions on what to do ? Pictures would be a great help, or a way I could explain it too the hair stylist.
Here's a picture of my hair, sorry about the face - haha - http://i26.photobucket.com/albums/c137/BEAUTiFULxMEx/001.jpg
thanks alot ♥
Okay I think your hair would look awesome with a side bang like Kristen Cavalleri from Laguna Beach !! If your not familiar with her heres a picture :
http://landonhowell.com/wp-content/kristen.gif
http://www2.dallasdancemusic.com/photos/data/500/435kristen.jpg
your hair would look amazing like hers !!
But if you dont want side bangs then you could always get angles. like jus cut the front a little shorter then the back
& Also you can google yahoo whatever you use picture of like actress's hair styles you like on tv !
& A good idea would be to print out the picture of what you want the stylist to do.
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i have this like little myspace virus and it sends these things to people that i don't even know and it's like better than myspace 0! better than myspace 1! better than myspace 2! and so on and i have no idea how it got on there does anyone know how to fix that?
That happened to me to once. They kept posting some stupid bulltin such as "GET FREE RINGTONES" or "OLD NAVY IS THE BEST" all you have to do is change your password & they wont be sending things to others. If you dont know how to change your password follow this
- first go to your homepage. you know the place they bring you to when you sign in such as where you can view & post bullitins
- then click on "ACCOUNT SETTINGS" at the top of your home page where it says "HELLO __" whatever your display name is. & Its right under "EDIT PROFILE"
- Then after you click acount setting theres a little thing that says change password. click on that & then change your password
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I work with this girl Kelly. She is really pretty and I want to ask her out. I just met her today. What should I do? Should I ask her out? Should I get her number first? Is there an option number 3? I have no idea how it works. I don't even know if its appropriate to ask her out yet. I have no clue what I'm doing. Please help me!!!!! I'd like your advice but also post succeses that you have had, and girls post how you would like a guy to approach this situation.
16/m
Personally I think you should get to know Kelly before asking a her for her number & asking her out expecially. Maybe you could ask her for a screen name if you guys both have one. Because its easier sometimes to talk online then on the phone. Because the phone can be quite boring at times expecially if you dont know the person well enough to keep a conversation going. So ask her for her screen name after like a week so your not moving to fast. Because personally I dont like it when it goes to fast because sometimes guys just wanna get in a girls pants (not that im saying you just wanna get in her pants). So get to know her before you doing any asking out. A girl would rather have a guy get to know her & listen to her. Listening & being there for her if she ever needs to talk is one of the best ways to win a girls heart. Also if you wanna give her hints into saying you like her compliment her. Tell her shes pretty. Tell her you love her eyes smile etc. Hope I helped
hi im looking for a song from the film a cinderella story with chad micheal murry n hillary duff in. its the song thats played when she goes into the dance, when hillary duff is going down the stairs. thanx
Its called "Best Day Of My Life" by Jesse McCartney. & This is the site for the lyrics : http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/jessemccartney/bestdayofmylife.html ; Hope I helped
ok so i had glasses for 3 years now and i REALLY want to get contacts. i went to the eye person and then he tried to put the contact in my eye but i didnt let him. this was a while ago. people tell me it takes hours for them to put them in.
idk if i still want them cause i hate that feeling of putting them in your eye and idk if its worth it.
is it ??? help me
Ok so if you really wanna get rid of glasses then you should do it. Try out the contacts. & It doesnt take hours to put in. You just have to get use to it. The first time it may take over an hour or so but after you get use to them you'll be able to put them in like that. Okay well if you get them heres some tips because I have them.
- before you put them in clean them & when you take them out clean them .. it prevents germs & they last longer (if you get the disposable)
- you cant wear contacts for like 5 days then leave them for 2 days sitting in the soultion .. because next time you put them in .. it'll really hurt & your eyes will turn red.
- dont fall asleep in them. because if you do your eyes will turn red & hurt with them in. & Also at first it doesnt but the next time you put them in it will. But after you fall asleep you cant wear them for a few days.
It looks like alotta work but its not really alot. Its just you have to clean them alot. Because you cant put something dirty in your eyes. So it gets annoying sometimes. But let me tell you CONTACTS ARE TOTALLY WORTH iT ! Hope I helped
I loved the pictures of this breed, very adorable! Can you tell me how much to expect to pay and if these dogs are difficult to find? Thankyou again!
Okay I dont remember where we got my dog. Maybe I think at puppy depot?? Maybe, not 100% sure so i'll look it up when i get a chance to or just search it on google if you wanna do it yourself. But my family paid about $800 for it. It wasnt as expensive as most dogs are. hope I helped