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i personally think that i can give good advice to people about a lot of stuff because i have been through a lot of shit, and it could be like some of the stuff that you have been through!!!



~*~Jessie~*~
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There's a girl in my Social Studies class who is really cool. [by that I don't mean "she's sooo popular I want to get to know her"; i mean she's just really cool...] I met her a month before school started when I started basketball. I'm the new girl too. Well, since she's in my class, that means I have an advantage and that I can talk to her. The thing is, she really intimidates me. I don't know why but I'm afraid that if I start talking to her she won't want to talk to me or anything, or she'll think i'm this huge loser. We have occasional small talk with each other but it doesn't really getr any farther than that. [Like, we talk about basketball for a second or I say her shoes are awesome..] I can't really talk to her about stuff like, erm, shopping or something because she's also a tomboy. I don't know WHY she intimidates me, but she does. I really want to get to know her and be a friend but I can't, because I'm not the best with socializing. [things like, We should go to the movies sometime or Hey, what's up and taking it from there never work for me. I can't ask them to the movies because I don't know her well enough to ask her that. And after what's up I'm just..black.] Please help. (link)
ok i think that you should go up to her and be like hey (her name) whats up what are you doin after school today...u wanna do something like go get pizza or somerthing and if you dont ahve money then just be like you want to go hang out after school.




~*~JeSSiE~*~


ok so i think i have problems... i mean i like going out with people but the relationship i am in now is freaking me out kinda... i think i love my bf of a month and a half... i kno it doesnt sound very long but we've gone out before... but anyways... i really think i love him... but i have this problem where i go out with a guy umtil i think that he really likes me and then i just kinda loose interest... thats kinda what is happening in this relationship... but i still kno i have feelings about him... like i feel like i love him... but im starting to lose interest... waht can i do to fix this... i dont want to stop loving him... especially since it would break his heart... HELP ME... im 14 and female!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
i know exactly what you are talkin bout and i have no idea what to tell u i think thhat you should just let fait tell you whats up because thats about all you can do unless you force yourself to stay with him!





~*~JeSSiE~*~


I am so sexually confused! One second I'm bi and another I'm
gay! I am 14yr.s old a freshmen, confused on what my sexuality is. People says I'm gay, but I still think girls are cute, but I would
rather go with a boy. So what am I!?! Need answers... (link)
i have a gay friend and he once thought that he was bi last summer and then a couple of weeks ago he told me that he was gay and that it was kind of hard to figure it out...if you think girls are cute that doesn't mean anything because i think that alot of girls are pretty and im not gay so i think you mightr be gay!!!




~*~JeSSiE~*~


I am 33 years old indian citizen now working in kuwait.I had a problem with the right leg and occationally with the left leg also.After resting/Sleeping I can not able to tough my right leg on the floor because too much paining on the heel. After some times walk the pain will be reduced/dissapperd.Please advice what will be the problem.What kind of medicine is needed for this.Pleaseeeee (link)
i think that oc(oxy cotton)they will make the pain go away maybe some hydrocoden...go to a doctor and tell him what your problem is and he will give you the right medication and you will be ok






~*~JeSSiE~*~


Hey, is there any way to get rid of a cold/sore throat quickly? like by the weekend? If there are any remedies or things anyone can think of to help me that'd b greatly appreciated! thanks so much (link)
well before i smokes menthol ciggarttes they used to clear my head when i took a hit of one you cold drink robotussin




im 13 yrs old and school just started....over the summer all my friends were goin shoppin but i had no money....whats a good job for me? please help im flat broke lol... :) (link)
you could mow peoples lawns or do chores around your house










hey i know it's a little early..but this is when i usually do my xmas shopping..

ok..by christmas, my b/f and i will have been together for 3 & 1/2 months & i have no idea what to get him. he's black, he's into rap & football and stuff like that..a typical guy..but i'm never good with coming up wit something to get a guy so any suggestions would be great :)

thanx (link)
find out who his favorite rappers are and buy him a cd or 2






~*~JeSSiE~*~


i went all the way how can i tell my mom (link)
it all depends on what kind of mom you have i have a really cool mom so i tolf her about a month after it happened and she was cool with it, i think that you shouldnt tell her for a while!!! be safe!!




~*~JeSSiE~*~


i think my bf is always trying to make me jealous like he is always telling me about oh this girl at my work tried to give me her # and like last night we were talking about what we want to get pierced and all of a sudden he tells me this story about before we met this one girl got he belly botton pierced because she though he might like it and how she would tell him he would look really hot if he got stuff periced should i just make up something like he might be doing to get him jealous too or just leave it alone and make him see that it doesnt get to me maybe he will stop. (link)
my boyfriend does the same thing i just say stuff to make him jealous to then he looks at me with these puppy eyes and lips and he says hes sorry and then hes done...for a while!







~*~JeSSiE~*~


KK, I am running for treasurer of my school and I havta make stickers. I can't think of any good lines to put on it (for example Vote Alexis for treasurer it makes cents). Please Help!! I'll rate!! thanx... xoxo (link)
i think that you should right...vote alexis, she'll handle your money with care...with a smiley face after it!!!




~*~JeSSiE~*~


can yall give me some tips on what i shouldnt do when im around a guy im dating or just friends with so they dont get mad or annoyed at me? thanks! (link)
dont try to act different if they dont like you for who u are then there not really a true friend or boy friend!





~*~JeSSiE~*~


hey!
this question isn't for me it's my friend, i need to know what to tell him.
ok..
my friend and his girlfriend were going out...all is happy. Well, then one of his ex-girlfriends gave him a note that said she wanted to go back out with him. well he hadn't talked to her in a while, and he started to talk to her again. so she assumed that meant they were going back out. well he's all caught up in it and he's not a cheater...he's really not.he hates when people do that. but now since he's gotten all caught up in it he doesn't know what to do. he really likes his original girlfriend, but this other girl thinks that they're going out and doesn't know about the other girl.

so what should i tell him?

sry it's kind of long and confusing... (link)
i think that you should tell him to talk to this other girl and tell her about his girlfrind before his girlfriend finds out then i think he should tell his girlfriend because you dont have a healhy relationship with someone unless you guys are honest



~*~JeSSiE~*~


hey
I just got my homecoming pictures back from wallgreens and the ones other people took of me and my friends are really dark because i 4got to remind people to use the flash. Can any place add light to pictures? Or no? If so where can i get it done. How much $? (link)
i think that you should try the mall..prob. expensive...if not then pretend your at homecoming and retake some pictures





~*~JeSSiE~*~


this morning i burnt my leg with my hair crimper. and it left a scar on my leg. there is like 2 dark lines on my legg, and im not sure how to get rid of it?!...is there any way i can?!...please help! (link)
i have a lot of scares on me from stuff... i used this scare cream from ekard and it worked but it was $20 for a bottle




~*~JeSSiE~*~


my g/f tld me 2day tht she felt different abt wen we made out n tht she didnt luv me as much as she used to..n thn i tld her how i felt n she said((no joke))o well i luv u but not as much as i used to...wat shuld i do? (link)
it all depends on how lon you two have been goin out...maybve you were a bad kisser or maybe it was at the wrong time i have been goin out with my b/f for 3 weeks he kissed me the 2nd day and we still have the same kind of relationship as we did...maybe you scared her maybe it was to sexual of a kiss ask her what she is think about the kiss ask her if your a bad kisser.!!




~*~JeSSiE~*~



Does pro activ really work? any body ever tryed it, how long did it take for you to have clear skin.? any dis-advantages? (link)
im not sure i have never tryed it, i think that it would work seeing that you have a 90 day garentte and if it doesnt work then you can send them an empty bottle back...and it has benzoyl peroxide in it and its more than 10% and that stuff really works!!!





~*~JeSSiE~*~


im a virgin, and i want to know does it HURT alot the first time when u have sex???? how does it feel??? (link)
it hurts real bad and you will prob bleed alot after your cherry is popped!!!its ok everyone has to go through it...well the girls so have sex have fun and have safe sex!!!


does anyone know the difference bewtween accutane and roaccutane (link)
there is no differance


hi i am going to a party this weekend and i want to no wut i shuld do with my hair nd makeup..i have blond hair its really curly with bluish green eye im a lil tan and i have a long torso with a nice body wut shuld i wera!!!! help pleae i want to be the center of the party ..lol!!xoxo help my style.. (link)
screw your makeup just go buy weed and alcohol and acid and coke and a whole bunch of other shit that will fuck you up and everyone will love you!!!


I was wondering, how you do the "smudged" eyeliner?

Thanks

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get a sponge like thing a softer sponge and and rub it over your eyeliner




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