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Q: ok im 13/f and ive never done anything bad but last night me and my boyfriend did a lot of stuff..it felt really gooa at the time but today i dont feel good..is something wrong with me?
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Aws theres nothing wrong with you at all. It was your first time. Alot of people felt the same on there first time. I kinda felt guilt. Not that i did anything just for the fact right before i did i was telling my mom how my dad needs to let go alittle and that ill always be his little girl and how she needs to trust me more. I tell my mom everything though. Youll feel fine though after awhile. Hope you feel better!!
Love,
Ashley
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Q: Last night I slept over one of my best friend Maries house and we were just talking and stuff, but then we didnt even ask we just started to do sexual stuff and saying dirty stuff, kind of, like half laughing it off. Im a girl. And so we fingered eachother and rubbed eachothers boobs. It felt really good. But, I wanted a guy to be there with us more than anything. Im confused. What was last night? Am I a lesbian? Or bi? Or straight ?? Im confused. And is last night normal for 14 year old girls to do?
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Ok well if you like your friend like that but still want a boy your BI. And there is nothing wrong with that at all!! Dont be ashamed of it. Most BI people would love to have a friend to do things like that with. I dont no what other people think but i think its ok to be 14. Everything will be ok. It might even just be a fase sence your only 14. Hope i helped you out alittle!!
Love,
Ashley
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Q: my boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me even tho he know im in a relationship with his close friend. the other day we were at this party and he pulled me up to this room and he raped me. he grabbed me and touched my body. im really scared and he hurt me. i feel strange. i couldnt do anything hes a football player and he held me down and i couldnt stop him. he shove something in my mouth so i couldnt scream. wut do i do?? i cant tell my boyfriend or he will kick the living shit out of him.the guy said if i tell anyone he will do it again. i know i can get some reasonable advice here.
HELP
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Hun i no its hard but you gotta tell your boyfriend. He really needs to no. Alot of rapers say that. I've never been raped but a family member of mine has. She was raped from the age 9-15 almost. She was afraid to tell anyone cause he said he would do it again and again and might kill her. When she told it stopped. He might just be saying that so you dont tell and if you tell then he'll get in trouble and wont be able to do it again. Atleast tell your mom or something hun he could do this to others!! Over 1000 girls get raped a day and barely any of them tell a soul. Just talk to someone about it before he does it again!!
*-* Ashley *-*
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Q: okay so my vaginal opening isn't big enough to put in a tampon. i've tried so many times, i got my period 2 1/2 years ago...i'm 16 and i cannot insert a tampon, i can see the whole but its like as big as like the bottom of a pen..what should i do? i'm thinking about going to a gynecoligist but omg i hate the doctor. i'll rate high.
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You really shouldn't use a tampon before you have sex. See when you have sex the dick will strech the skin(pop the cherry too) and it will become loose. Then you'll be able to us a tampon. Some people do use them before they have sex though but maybe you should wait sence its so small. Hope i helped.
*-*Ashley*-*
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Q: To give a bit of background information, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and are madly in love with eachother. I gave him my heart.. as well as my virginity and he did the same. But the past few weeks, I've been doubting our relationship. I'll be having dreams of being with ex boyfriends or just other guys, particularly this one guy named Luis. He's a very good friend of mine and a total flirt around me. For a second I thought I had feelings for him and I actually concidered breaking off my over one year relationship with the love of my life for this guy, Luis.I realized it was stupid to end something that is SO good for something that is only going to last a few months IF that much. I called my boyfriend and I was barely crying and, I should've known he would be able to tell I was because as soon as I said hi he said "What's wrong why were you crying?" (He knows the sound of my voice when I'm happy or sad and everything in between like the back of his hand). I told him what happened and I kept saying "Baby, I'm so sorry I don't want to lose you." He told me everything would be okay, but now when I talk to him he seems so distant? If that would be a word to describe it. He's in Maine right now, and I'm back home in New Jersey so I can just like go over and see him right now. I don't know what to do, he just isn't acting the same now, I didn't do ANYTHING with Luis, I'd never do that to my boyfriend. What do I do? I don't want to hurt my boyfriend anymore, I feel so guilty for even having those thoughts. Can anyone please help?
I'm 17 he's 18.
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Aw thats really sad. I'm sure when he comes back everything will be ok. He might just be scared to loose the bestest thing in his life. For him to no everything about you even your voices and that he really cares and you dont wanna give that up!! Sound to me your soul mates. When you talk to him tell him you would never do anything with luis cause you love him so much. And for the feelings thing for luis i would try to keep them out of your head. Some times being friends is the best when it comes to that. If you dont wanna have feeling for him just think about this cause if you dated him and then broke up you probley wouldnt have that great friend of yours there any more. I no how you feel its hard. My bestest friend asked me out and i used to like him but i told him no cause i no if we broke up things would never be the same. And he was just great to talk to about my boyfriends. Good Luck With Your BoyFriend!!! And never let him go he seems like one of the bestest boys out there. Oh yeah if you have any more question or you just need to talk ask some more!! Cause i no how it feels to loose your virginity to someone you care about and all that stuff hun. Hope i Helped.
♥Ashley♥
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Q: okay so me n my girlfriend have been going out for a while and shes moving faster than i want to weve done everything but sex...i dont want to be one of the young tenn fathers even if we use a condom it could still break... if you could answer this i would really appriciate it
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Sit her down for a talk. And just tell her how you feel about going so fast and you would really like it if you slowed down. Tell her that its not her fault your just nurves and your not ready to go much farther at this point in time but later you will be. If she truely has feelings for you she'll under stand were your coming from and care about how you feel and will agree on slowing down for you. Hope i helped you out cause you sound like a nice guy cause most guys wanna go the whole way... I'm sure she'll be more then glad to slow down for you!!!
♥Ashley♥
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Q: Ok well the other day i was at a party and this girl i had just met started coming on to me and when she wanted to have oral sex i backed out but i think i regret itt
im seeing her next weekend what should i do
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Well if you like her go for it. I hope you got her number so you can get to no her alittle bit before you do that though. And i no i regret not doing a few things so if you regret not doing it last time then maybe you should do it this time cause your probley gonna feel the same way again if you dont.
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: what's pop a cherry mean?
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Girls have a tight peice of skin inside them. When a girl and guy have sex the dick streches(pops) the skin makes it looser. It hurts when a girls cherry is poped by the way!!!
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: omfg...my mom will not let me wear what i want...shes very religious and i just wanna express my self.i know where 2 draw the line so how can i get her 2 letme wear wut i want...i just wanna b myself
e mail ur answer:zmgr89@yahoo.com
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Thanks for asking me something. But Ok sorry hun i dont feel like emailing you right now. If i get time later ill email it but if you read my column heres my answer.
One day just walk down stairs with something on and if she hells about it talk to her about it tell her how you feel. You no let her no your not her and you dont wanna be here right now in life but she is a great person to look up to her. Or try it at a slow pace. Change your look alight at a time. Step by step. Hope i helped alittle. And if you have any more question on this or anything eles feel free to ask im up for anything..
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: I am 13 and i will call the two boys that i fancy 1 and 2. 1 is a real stunner, blond spikey hair, blue eyes a, six pack, and he's my age, but he doesn't like me as more than a friend i don't think although it seems like he's flirting with my sometimes. 2 is 18, dark brown, spikey hair, blue eyes and he's REALLY sweet, but everyone keeps saying he's too old for me, and he doesn't fancy me anyway. What should i do because i really like both of these lads and i don't know which one of them to fancy and whether i should ask one of them out or not so please deal with this question as soon as possible. I will rate you high. Thanks
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Well the looks dont matter so theres no need to put that. And i think you should talk to both of the boys about your feelings for them. You'll never no what they feel unless if you talk to them. After you talk to both then choice. The best one will stand out and your heart will no which ones your match. And if none of them are that just means theres someone even better out there for you soul mate. Good Luck!! And never give up on any love before you give it a chance. That'll help you out. Let me no how things go.
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: last night i had sex for the third time. he didnt use a condom and im not sure if he came in me. i was due for my period anyways and now i have it. my friend said that i could be pregnant. and im really scared. i cant talk to my mom about that kinda of stuff either. how can i tell or what should i do? please help me.
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Well your lucky this time your not pregnant. Not being saft about sex is not good. Never not use a condom when having sex unless if your trying to have a kid. You might not be pregnant but you could get some kind of STD. I'm sure your safe but for now on if you dont have a condom with you two dont have sex. You'll just have to wait.
*-*Always be safe about that stuff*-*
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: wut does it mean to "eat a girl out" ?
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Well its when you lick, Suck on her peach. You can put your tongue inside her. It pleasures the girl. Like boys like head, and girls like to be eatin out.
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: what is the quickest/fastest way to get rid of a pimple?
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Dont pop it. If you poop it three more will come back and that one you poped will scar. Toothpaste works. Ir use proxide on it a few times a day. Wash your face alot. But dont dry it out. By something from a store for them. But when you by something from a store like face wash its gonna bring the pimples out of your skin then they'll go away. Hope i helped
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: I have black Features in my face [[eyelashes,eyebrows]] My hair is very light and my eybrows are JET BLACK.. i want to know is it possible for me to dye my eye brows brown? [[so it will blend in with my hair more,they are kind of bushy..not really though.]] 13/f
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Yeah you can die them. They got stuff out there just for them or you could just use alittle bit of hair die.
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: What r some of the signs of a yeast infection? thanks
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Well there will be white stuff. Lots of iching. It burns like crazy!! You can get pills for this or a cream. Hope i helped!
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: I need pointers.... Umm
How to finger a girl...
How to give oral sex to a girls...
Where is a good spot to make my woman cum.... hard?
She can't cum from sucking on her boobs can you??
Thanks
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Well i answered the fingering question before so i just copied and pasted it here for you. Hope thats ok!!?
Well you could get like started by rubbing her belly sofly. Whisper in her ear you love her. Slowly un do her paints stay calm. Look her in the eyes. If she says stop then stop if she dont then keep going. Pull her paints down to her lower thigh. Tell her not to be scared and youll try to be slow and not to hurt her. Tell her if she wants you to stop just say it and you will. Let her no its ok to moan you wont mind. Kinda rub her inside of her leg first then pull her thong or whatever on down. Slowly rub her. Watch her face try to see what shes feeling. Push alittle harder after awhile. This slowly put her fingers in her. Now kinda like move them around wingle them. If you can try to put two fingers in her. Make her moan dont be scared to push in there. Now your fingers are gonna get alittle messy but the messier the better. Maybe like turn her on if shes like kinki by letting her see you lick your fingers off. Dont worry it wont hurt you. When your all done just just tell her you love her again and help her pull her paints up, Now your all done and you just fingered a girl. Let me no if i helped. And for anymore questions just ask!!!
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
Oh and that person who said girls dont cum is wrong we so do cum!!
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Q: I like this guy and we've made out a couple times. Now im thinking of going further and jack him off and finger me..im just so selfconscious about my hair..i can try to trim it but theres just a lot of hair..and forget shaving..i get these red bumps no matter if i use lotion and stuff...so what should i do? trim? just not do anything? he would probably be turned off if i didnt do something about my hair right. : / be honest all you guys if you answer
thanks
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Get Nair!its great. Thats what i use it takes it all off. Theres no red bumps(oh i hated them) You put it on for 5-10min then wash off. Bam all the hairs gone. LOL its like magic. And yeah lots of boys to me are turned off when it comes to hairy peaches. But if he loves/cares about you he wont care.
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: is anyone else extremley bored?
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I'm bored as hell and i just got home.
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: Ok, I'm 100% Serious about this, this is to all the girls... do chicks prefer guys who are
A> Not shaven or trimmed downstairs
B> Shaven Mostly with lil hair remaning
C> Trimmed to a shortish level but not shaven
D> Shaven And trimmed with little hair remaning
E> Completely Shaven
Thanks for your answers ladies >.>
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Well to me if the girl loves you she shouldnt care. But if your willing to do that cause i no it would hurt to shave it all off so i would pick D *-*Hope i helped*-*
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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Q: I kind of itch, and ache in my vaginal area. I dont know what it is. I dont think its an STD because Ive been checked and I havent slept with anyone else, and neither has he. Theres no odor or anything else coming from it, it just itches a lot. Can anyone tell me what this might be?
Thanks a lot
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It could be a yeast infection. They make you itch.
Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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bio
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^At the Glo Show
(from left to right)
Lisa
Sam
Ashley(me)
Hey!! How you all doing today? Well im ok i guess people. My names Ashley im 15. I go to the dumbest school ever Shenango!! I love to hang with my friends, partying, listening to music, riding my horses, talking on the phone, watching lifetime. Ohs i have black hair brown eyes 5'1 and a 1/2 cant forget that 1/5 115lbs(im fat i no) dont tell danielle i said that she'll kick my ass!!lol oh yeah im BI!!! I'm a freindly person and i love to meet new people and try new things. I'm a smart girl too but i have no commion sence!!Well i dont no what eles to say but ask my some great qestions plz im here to help when it comes to anything. Every one says im a great peron to talk to about problems. Well i love all of you Poop butts!!
*:.rate me !
.:*[a]ddiction: Boys
*:.[b]irthday: March 1
.:*[c]olor: light babi blue
*:.[d]ream: To have a great life someday(Nikki live with me)
.:*[e]yes: lots colors
*:.[f]riends: too many to name!
.:*[g]rade average: B+ ? lol
*:.[h]air color: Black with some red
.:*[i]nterests: Partying % hanging with friend
*:.[j]ob: barn cleaner
.:*[k]razy: KRAZY AINT EVEN THE WORD FOR ME!!
*:.[l]ocation: in a sucky place called New Castle
.:*[m]usic: Punk, Rap, Metal, Rock
*:.[n]ame: Skeeter
.:*[o]bsession: SEX
*:.[p]lace: Computer room
.:*[q]uotes: love quotes
*:.[r]ace: um..Indian
.:*[s]pecial talents: I can lick my boob
*:.[t]ell something about you: I love my girlsss
.:*[u]nbelievably embarressing moment: too many to name!!
*:.[v]ery best thing about me: My sexi body(Lisa you no you want this)
.:*[w]orst thing about me: I cry over everything
*:.[x]tremly daring stunts: I can hide boys
.:*[y]ummy food: Fruit
*:.[z]odiac sign: if only i new how to spell it LOL
.:*[1]love
*:.[2]Friends
.:*[3]Party
*:.[4]Drinking
.:*[5]Sex
*:.[6]Sexi boys
.:*[7]God(what god??)
*:.[8]peroids
.:*[9]Hair
Video code provided by HotCodez.com
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Info
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: PA Age: 15 AIM: Member Since: May 3, 2005 Answers: 94 Last Update: August 28, 2005 Visitors: 9150
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