Yo, wazzup. My name is Matt, I am no longer single, but i shall talk to any one taht still wants to, anyways, I have experienced many things and i am quite knowledgable. I do not judge any one, if you ask me for advice i shall simply give it to you.
Ive taken a look at the categories they have, im pretty good with all of them, minus the stuff that would have to do with adults, so even though my fav category isnt wat your asking doesnt mean i wont answere.
So i guess if ya gots a Problem, jus tell me bout it and ill do the best i can! :-)
P.S. in the pic im the white kid, greg is like my best friend.
E-mail: Anubis989_4life@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: NC
Occupation: unemployed
Age: 17
AIM: ANubis989forlife
Member Since: June 17, 2004
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is ya email addy at hot mail. bye the way im single to hint hint (link)
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ya im e-mail is hotmail, by the way if you got aol instant messenger my S/N is "Anubis989forlife" im on almost all the time
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Ok im like alaways masturbatingwith my self! yes im a girl! no bf either what do I do?
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well, exactly how often?
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im a virgin, and i want to know does it HURT alot the first time when u have sex???? how does it feel??? (link)
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well as starnge as this may sound, it also depends on how large ur male counterpart is. as a virgin ur vagina is tighter than its ever gonna be. but every one is different. it shouldnt hurt too bad. if the guy is longer than 8 inch then yes it will start to hurt, but shorter it will be more pleasurable then it will hurt.
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alright well i've got this boyfriend and like i like him a lot! And we havnt had sex or anything but he wants to and what not. But my fear is that hes had sex with 5 different people... Thats nothing i'm interested in ya know! I'm still a virgin and like I'm not sure if i want to lose it to my boyfriend. See i'm scared to have sex with him because i'm scared of getting any STD or whatever. But like he claims he doesnt have any, because recently he got out of the hospital because he got into a major accident and he was in there for like 7 months, and they test you for all that and stuff and he says he hasnt had sex since hes been out of the hospital. Should i wait and see if hes the right person or what should i do!?! HELP ME! (link)
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wait and see if hes the right person
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yeah well.. i really like this kid an we are sposta play spin the bottle an 7 minz of heven an the problem is i dunno how to make-out/ french an im scurd cuz i dont want him to think imma loser cuz i dunno how to.. can someone help??
14/f/ny-verry confused
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well, basically tell him that uve never done it b for. he should understand, and if he doesnt understand and makes fun of you then hes not worth it.
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what do i do when i feel like everytime i get down or upset or depressed sometimes for no reason that i wanna kill myself.. or hurt myself... what can i do for help? my friends help by keeping me from actually doing it but im tired of feeling like i should do it.. i use to cut but my friends stoped me from doing that... what should i do? (link)
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well you sound right bout like my ex gf karen, to stop urself from "feeling" liek doing these things is kinda hard. best thing you can do or that helps me is listen to music that isnt depressing. like something fast, heavy, hard, and up beat.
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well every day after school an on fridayz i go to my friends house... an there are a bunch of guyz who are always grabin on me an stuff... well they really really like me an they always wana make out with me but i never made out b4 so im not sure what to do... we always play like spin the cell phone or bottle they always got tap kiss wit me cuz i refuse to makeout cuz im scared to an i really have no clue wut to do! an then when we play man hunt they always want like head or want to fuk me an im just really confused cuz yeah some of them are hott but i dont wana ruin my rep. at school or my parents to find out they never new i had a b/f or kissd yet.. im just REALLY REALLY confused... can someone plz help me?? :-/
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ok these guys seem to just want to get into ur pants. so i dont suggest you do anything with them at all. tellt hem that you dont want to do the things and if they keep on tell em to fuck off. you nned to try and find a bf, not one of those guyz either. some one new. but never just have sex with ppl like they want.
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well i met this guy after soccer practice and we hugn out after and we spend spring break together. he was really sweet and we ended up hooking up. on our first month. of knowing each other (i'm 14 hes 16 freshman sophmore) neways.. well after a while we ende up going out. but he was homeschooled then so we didnt see much of each other but we still did.. i broke up wtih him after a week.. but stillhad feelings'.. we both did.. and the bad thingg is that we always ende u seeying each other. and it was awkward. we hooked up a few times after we broke up. and hes' spend the night at my house afew times and we hang out a lot now. and talk on the phone. i'm so confused idk wat i should do. i've known him for like 6 motnhs now. and i think i should find someone new. but when i do.. all i can think of is him.. we both havent hooked up with anyone else except each other..sunce we've known each other.. idk .. waht todo.. (link)
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well hell, if both you guys still ike eachother then get back together. but if you want to forget him, then yes you should find some one new. but i dont suggest you find some one new.
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ok look me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 6 months and we are in a deep relationship and we are both in love wit each other(by the way im 14 es 16) but he said he wants 2 spend the rest of his life wit me and so do i and i believe him cuz he tells his siter everything and she tells e wat he said and he wats 2 have sex but he said if i dont want 2 he will wait but i kindof do want 2 should i or not? (link)
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go for it, but use a condom and dont make it be known to every one that you guys are gonna have sex. i dont think hes is just saying all this to get in ur pants either cos 6 months is a good while for a guy to wait for sex if that is all hes after. dont do it all the time either. sex is actually a sort of healthy enterprise. just dont do it excesively.
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i cant ask boyz out in ma school i go to a all gals school (link)
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hhmmm, well if you can try goin out intot he public like to the mall or something, get out more and meet ppl. or you can try long distance dating but that is really risky.
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i really want a bf does ne 1 have ne advice on how i can get 1 (link)
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well, try goin out and meeting ppl. talk to ppl that you never really talked to b for. and do try and go out of school. dont just talk to ppl in ur school.
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my bro is so annoyin he trys to act gd in front of his mates by calling me names. he read my diary in front of his mates. wot can i do (link)
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not be his bro anymore. if hes gonna treat you like shit then dont be around him any more. you dont need to deal with some one like that.
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i really need sum money i wanna babysit coz i love kids ne no how i can go about it (link)
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well, if you REALLY wanted to do it you could borrow some money and stick an ad in the newspaper, but if you cant do that just try an talk to ppl that have kids. dont come on stronlgy though they might get the wrong impression.
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when u loose ur viginity i hear blood comes out? well is it really that much ? or is it somthing u can just ignore?
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well, when me and one of my gf's ahd sex for the first time she was a virgin. blood does come out. but not alot. nothing really to worry about but dont ignore it either.
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are girls suppose to shave their vaginas?? (link)
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lol well you dont have to shave it, ive herd some where that sometimes you need to keep it trimed but not completely shaved. if ur still unclr about wat to do, ask a doctor.
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alright well i had this one friend in the beginnin of our school year n we like considered eachother best friends and stuff. but we grew apart or whatever and she told people she didnt like me because someone told her stuff that wasnt true. i mean we used to have a good friendship and all she was such a great girl but its weird being around her now because we talk and stuff but not like friends do. but we have mutual friends so we gotta get along, but i kinda miss laughing with her and our inside jokes.. got any advice???
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try talking to her in private about, find out wat the hell happened. tell her to not belive stupid ppls rumours. its always a bad thing to loos a good friendship.
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hey im a 16 male from cali and i really like this girl. she likes me too and shes 16 as well and i want to ask her out but im not positive if i should because she just got out of a relationship. so im wondering what i should say to her. i dont want to make her ex mad cause hes cool and hes still obsessed with her. i really want to give this a shot with her i just dont know what to say to her any ideas? (link)
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give it time, and talk to her ex about it. if does like you, she isnt gonna just stop out of no where.
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i just had sex with my dad and i'm afraid that he got me pregnent..what the hell do i do! i'm so scared. is it possible for my dad to get me pregnent (link)
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uhuh. wow. ok um well if ur over 12 then yes it is very possible. i dont know if you willingly had sex with him. but if he forced you, turn him in, that child malesting. that would put him in prison for a while
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im gonna be a freshman next year and im really afraid im not gonna fit in. see i have plenty of friends now but i worked pretty hard to get and keep them. im... different to say the least and a lot of people dont get me and now it feels like i have to start all over again to find friends. and frankly, im not sure how. im kinda anti-social in a way... i dont like people on a whole lol cause they're stupid... but i do like meeting new people and i would really like to make some new friends (link)
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just about every one like you and me had and have to start over. i was an outkast. i had like 2 friends. when i went into the 9nth grade it sucked at first cos all the "popular" preppy ppl always made fun of me. but i stuck with the friends i had and i eventually made more friends. now i basically know every one in my school and every one knows me, including the preppy ppl. but i havent changed at all in my personality.
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okay well...my mom and dad got a divorce a few years ago..so i have to go back and forth like..one week i'll be with my mom and the next i'll be with my dad..but i cant stand my dad and his new girlfriend..personally i think he deserves better than her but what do i know i'm only 14...okay well..how do i tell my dad that i dont want to go over there anymore because he changed and i dont like his girlfriend? (link)
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its a tough situation. the best thing you can do is at least try and compramise with him so that when you do have to go over there it isnt really that bad. considering ur only 14 i dont think that the law is able to let you choose who to stay with. so i think ur gonna end up haveing to go over to his place no matter what
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