I go by Ahnee, to some. and you.
I live in Orange County CA, and it's not as great as it seems. it's just as shady as everywhere else but we're polite enough to keep it behind closed doors. Great.
I'm in highschool.
I have an opinion on just about EVERYTHING, but won't give it to you unless you ask.
I talk to people.
Sometimes i can just be a brutally honest bitch, don't ask me a question you don't want a real answer to. I refuse to coat my thoughts in sugar
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Location: OC
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I have been with my boyfriend, Derek for about, 8 months now. In the beginning, I was truly happy with him. We would spend time together every single weekend. Then, I started missing hanging out with my friends. So, I started hanging out with my friends with Derek there too. It was good until I started getting annoyed at the fact that Derek was so clingy and how we hung out every single weekend. I love him very much but he seems to not give me space. I've talked to him about it but it doesn't seem to get through his head. I want to break up with him but yet, I don't. I have these weird feelings right now and I don't know what to do. Half of me says I want to be single and the other half KNOWS I cannot live without him. HELP! :( (link)
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well you can live without him but part of you probably still wants him around. you really just need some time. you know how people say "if you don't leave i can't miss you"? he doesn't have to leave forever but just make the visits a little farther apart, it'll do both of you a lot of good. you'll realize what you're missing when he's not there.
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Are there any types of necklaces for best friends, like the ones with a heart that is in half and one has best and the other has friends? well are there any for 3 best friends? (link)
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me and my friends used to have necklaces like that, one said "best" one said "friends" and the other said "forever". they didnt fit together like the hearts but they were still cute heh
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I'm 16/f. I'm a virgin. I'm not plannin to have sex til I'm married. I'm just curious how do you get STD/AID?. I know for you to be able to get those diseases if you're havin sex wit a person that's already have it. But WUT IF I don't have it and my bf doesn't have it.. we have sex.. wut would the risk of me and him gettin STD/AID?? can you get STD/AID from havin sex w/o a condom?? or you can only get it if you have sex wit the person wit STD/AID.
PLEASEE HELPPP MEE!!!. (link)
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You can only get an STD if you have any sexual relation with another person who has an STD. (And you don't necessarily have to be having full sexual intercourse to get one. Herpes can be given from kissing. and remember, Oral sex IS sex). Although some can't be detected right away (like HPV, it can hide in males for months) if a sexually active person gets tested on a regular basis they should be fine. If you and your bofriend were to have sex and you both know for sure you don't have anything then no, it won't just magically appear. And by the way, AIDS is a form of an STD, it can only be given from someone who already has AIDS (either sexually or somehow getting their blood in yours, say you were both bleeding and had open wounds and had them together so you were bleeding into eachother, but that's not likely to happen anyway).
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So, my boyfriend and I recently started having sex on New Years Eve. We've done it twice, and
both times it was painful (obviouslly).
He told me to use hand lotion and rub it all over the condom to make it less painful. I was wondering, would this really work? (link)
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Just stick with KY Jelly or some other real lubricant. There are a lot of weird things in hand lotion that could irritate your vaginal area. Since you've just lost your virginity, it might be slightly painful until even the 5th time, but after that if it still hurts you should see a doctor/gyno. Make sure you're lubricated enough (either naturally or with the KY) before he tries to have sex with you or it will make it that much more painful.
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Okay.
15/f.
For the past year ive had thi s strange Obsession with weight.
I must weigh myself like 8 or more times a day.
And if i dont like what i see....
I wont eat for like the day or the next day sometimes.
Im not fat. At all.
Im pretty popualr.
I have a Gorgeous boyfriend!!!
And im not like stick skinny.
Im just not happy.
And I just hate this weight issue.
and i dont know what it is.
its not anorexia.
Or belemia.
I just have an issue.
what the hell do i do??? (link)
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Well it sounds like you may have BDD (Body Dismorphic Disorder), but since you say you don't think you're fat that may not be it. You could also have OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder), everyone thinks it's people who just have to touch things a thousand times but it manifests itself in a lot of ways. I'd go to a health website and look up these disorders to see if they fit you. Know that most of these things do escalate themselves into anorexia and bulima. I'd suggest talking to a doctor about it, the confidentiality agreement does come into play with that.
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I like this guy, Jake.
My birthday was this past Friday, and I invited Jake to my party. He said that he could come.
On Weds. or Thurs., he IMs me and says that he can't come. I figured that he got in trouble or something legit had actually come up.
I just found out that he decided not to come so that he could go to Six Flags with a girl that would soon become his girlfriend.
I'm kind of bothered by this, but I'm not sure if I should talk to him about it or not.
If you were in my situtaion, what would you do?
PLEASE TYPE CORRECTLY!! (link)
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Well if this girl he went out with will become his girlfriend, i would move on. I may confirm the story with him, bring it up casually, but I don't really see a point in giving him a whole bunch of shit for it.
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you kno those myspace surveys people post in bullentins? well you kno how theres the girly ones? does anyone kno of any sites where theres boy surveys? (link)
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i usually go to www.bzoink.com and look through the surveys, they have a lot
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how do you make out? haha (link)
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www.myjellybean.com Dating/Flirting/Kissing
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Before sex, im going to start to take off his pants and stuff and get him hard and then im going to stop and change the subject completely for a few minutes.
Just to make him want me more, is that a good idea? Or what?
I need some help
thank you (link)
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I really don't suggest it. Most guys hate teases actually. sure a little teasing is fine but to get him all hard and then completely change the subjest will most likely just frustrate him and might even be a total mood killer.
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I am 14 years old, and I have never made out before. I always just wanted to wait until the moment is right. You`re probably thinking I`m really ugly or something, but I`m actually really pretty (not to sound conceited). Anyway, whenever a guy would lean in to make out with me before, I would always push him away or turn my head. Well, now I have a boyfriend and I really want to make out with him. So my question is, how? Does anyone have any tips to give me on how to make out?
Thank you VERY much! (link)
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i know everyone says "go with the flow, it'll come naturally" and youre like "uh...that doesn't help". but seriously its true. it might be awkward the first few seconds, but just follow what he's doing. most of the time he'll be doing what he'd want you to do to him anyway. But honestly, it will come really naturally. Don't put too much saliva into it ha, just dont overthink it, the only way you'll mess it up is by overthinking it and being nervous.
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okay.
I'm a lesbian, so obviously my girlfriend doesn't have a penis. well, last night we were messing around and she started to finger me. It was getting pretty intense and I started bleeding, pretty bad.
I know that when a girl has sex for the first time she bleeds, but could it happen from being fingered?
It might be gross, and I'm sorry. haha.
But I'm just curious..
Thankyou for your help. (link)
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yes your hymen was probably broken, next time tell her to ease up a bit and see what happens
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17/f
how do you give hand?
[These are serious questions...]
- do you really put your hand around it and go up and down?
- Fast or slow?
When getting fingered...
- What if you smell? Will the guy notice it?
- Do they prefer shaved or not?
- Will my whole pants be off?
.. I am very confused... (link)
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well ill give you what i know
if you're giving him a hand job, yes just put your hand around the shaft of his penis and feel the muscle up and down, you could start out slow and go faster, whatever the guy likes. some guys like you to play with the head of their penis too.
Some guys also get off on the smell of a girl's pussy (as long as it's not a weird smell, like if you have something wrong down there). It's all about preference of the guy with the shaved thing, some guys like a full bush while other guys like it completely shaved (although i know more guys who like it shaved than not). You don't have to take your pants off, its just easier if you do. i don't most of the time.
Just go with the flow hun, don't overthink things and it should all be fine.
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I hate going to school.It just honestly doesn't work for me.Besides that,I think that I'd be better off on my own.
What are some ways for me to continue getting a credible education without actually going to a school every day? (link)
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well if you're in high school you can do independant study, it's pretty much like homeschooling but more on your own (like, without a parent teaching you lessons and stuff), they usually just give you a packet and tell you to finish it by the end of the month. you'll have to do some reasearch on independant study places around your area, but that's what im doing part time (i take 2 classes in a regular high school) there are tons of custom things like that you can do, you just have to look around.
P.S. a lot of kids that graduated from ind. study/homeschooling programs in my area went on to go to Columbia, Yale and even Harvard
(excuse the longness)
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iam 34 years old i have to kides after 6 years from the last pregnancy i decid to have another baby . i had my last period at october 25 i made a pregnant test at dec 8 and iam pregnant at dec14 i had bledding for 3 dayes and the doctor told mye i lost my pregnancy , but until now dec30 i didnot got my period and iam not pregnant , so what is wrong with me . iam too old to have my period again? or that is normal after what happen?
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i doubt you won't have it ever again but it should be expected after what has recently happened. but to be honest with you dear, you should go to a doctor. this site is more filled with "does he like me?" and "im 13. is not getting my period yet weird?". These people are hardly doctors heh
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The band + 44. Is it bascially a new Blink 182 cause it has 2 of the same people? I loved there music but i had never seen who they are and today i looked and Travis Barker and Mark Hoppus were in it. (link)
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yes they used Mark Hoppus and Travis barker, and i think one guy is from the Transplants (the other band Travis Barker is/was in) and some other guy who was also in another well known band. Tom Delonge went on to be in Angels and Airwaves. Although they can sound the same sometime, they aren't trying to re-create Blink 182. That's pretty much done.
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OMG PLEASEE HELPP.
i visited some sites
[personal]
and yeahh i dont want my parents to see it of my brother or whatever when they go on the computer. they are kind of "innapropriate" if you know what i mean. i know you can delete the history and stuff, and that used to work, but if i clik on the address bar, the sites are still theree! someone please help ASAP ! i have windows XP, and im usint INTERNET EXPLORER [i have DSL but i dont use that internet browser]
and yeahh im female, 16 years old, if anyone cared?
THANKSS =) (link)
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all i know of is flooding it. like, say you went to a website that started with F then you go to a lot of random websites that start with F so they're the first thing you see in the address bar instead of whatever you don't want them to see.
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im 13 and i havnt gotten my period yet is that bad? (link)
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no worries dear, girls get it at different times. i know a girl who got it at 9 and another who didnt get it 'till she was almost 16. and i agree, don't be in any hurry, it's not that amazing and is basically just another thing to worry about.
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14/F
okay, so there was a guy who used to go to school with me a few years ago, but then he moved to san francisco. i don't know anything else other than his first and last name. i don't even know if he still lives there. i want to get back in touch with him becuase we were really good friends. I just don't know what to do. can u help please?!?!? (link)
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Ok so the deal is that i had this boyfriend that i truly loved and we broke up,and he is a liar and its really not worth going back with him.The point is that i still love him.I have another guy who is really nice and wants to get to know me,even though it has been 5 months since my ex and i broke up i still have feelings for him and im afraid that jumping in another relationship is bad.I feel that i might end up hurting this new guy or maybe im just afraid of getting hurt again but im also afraid of letting a good guy go...Should i take the risk and give this new guy a chance because he is really nice and does make me feel something,or should i just be single for a while more until i dont have any more feelings for my ex? (link)
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wait hun, wait. trust me. if you even have a doubt as to whether you're ready or not DON'T get into another relationship. I made that mistake and it won't be good if you're not completely over the other guy. Keep this new guy around as a friend, get close to him that way first. If he's worth keeping around, he'll stay as a friend without a problem.
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all my life I have been judged by so many people. Im a nice person. I dont like being mean to people unless their mean to ME... I alway thought I looked pretty when I looked in a mirror, but sadly, nobody agrees with me. Everyone thinks im ugly! This ass named CJ is spending the night at our house and its only because he's on vacation from California and we have known him since kindergarden.... I was a stupid retarded little girl in Elementry school... I didnt know any better. I was always chasing guys for fun.... and now that we are in High School, I thought I had changed so much from then, but CJ said I havnt changed at all, and just now, I was upstairs watching tv, and Colton started a fight with me about how a chopper was a motercycle and not a helecopter (it can be both) but they his little friend joined in the fight and THEN the little bitch told me to shut up because I was annoying! it all started when the little booger wanted to play my brother's PS2, and I was watching tv, and these little twerps wouldnt stop making fun of me, and THEN my brother's little friend told said "Brittany told me your a dork" (he said it to me before, but when I asked Brittany, she said it wasnt true because she dosnt tell her brother ANYTHING) and im starting to think that everything everyone is saying is true.... I dont know why everyone is so mean..... I have dreams, but there crushed under the feet of my stupid brother, and CJ, and my sister Hollan, and EVERYONE! Hollan wont stop taking my stuff that little brat! Im a triplet, and my sisters have always been telling me "Thats why WE have boyfriends" and I havent gone out much, but my first bf was a fony... He asked his friend to ask my SISTER, Cher out..... but he accidently asked ME out instead, and I said YES! WHat was I thinking???? Well im really in a bad mood right now because today was also the day my dad made me do the dishes and he's not even getting the two little boys into trouble! its just me! Just because Im the older kid, dosnt mean that he shouldnt care about ME.
My family is soooooooo horibble... Me and my brother and sisters fight all the time, sometimes my mom even crys about it. But my sisters are bad people... They sneak out and stuff like that, and it makes me mad because they think their nold enough to have sex and all that (but I dont know if they have done it yet) but their the kind of people that think they get every boy they want... and the truth is.... they do... they get all the boys, and Im stuck inside.... Just today, I came outside and Hollan's all like "Go the fuck away! No one wants you here" and I just came out there to hang out with her friend Ali....
Everyone treats me like SHIT! I even bought my sister HOllan a $40 jacket at American Eagle Outfitters.... AND SHE'S STILL AN ASS!!!!!
(im not trying to brag) but Im a nice person! I dont like to be mean! I dont like to make people cry! But no matter how nice I am to people, they are always mean to me! THey call me names like dork, nerd, geek, and my sister even calles me a prude! It really makes me mad...
I remember I got in a huge fist fight with my sister Hollan on the front Lawn, and Monae and Ali and ANika were all watching and they didnt bother to do anything! I have been picked on my whole life and im too nice to do anything about it! I mean I usually dont fight back because I know I'll lose.... I always lose.....
I dont know what to think of myself now..... (link)
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i hate to say it but maybe the only way to solve this is be a bitch right back. it worked for me, and even though i went a little overboard after a while it made everyone realize i wasn't a door mat which is what you're making yourself out to be. and i don't know how 2 of 3 triplets can be hot and not 1 but...whatever.
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