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One of my guy friends embarresed me a lot by accident . He made something different sound like i think about sex 24/7 . What should i do when pple ask me about it / tease me ?
Thanks ...

Well,u should tell them that they don't know what they are talking about, that its ur life and when they ask u tell them the truth(if u want to)and when they tease u,defend urself.Try to talk with ur friend about what he said and how it affected u,maybe he will help u out retracting what he said.

Chill,if people still tease u,ignore them
They will eventually stop if they see it has no effect on u

Good Luck

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There's this guy that I'ved like for about a year or so now and he's told me that he's liked me to. We've hung out outside of school a lot and everything went great. I really love who I am when I'm with him. He's such an amazing person and I love spending time with him. The only problem is that lately he's been distancing himself from me because he's afraid to get hurt. When he told me that I seemed to distance myself from him so I didn't fall even harder just incase it didn't work out. I still have really strong feelings for him and we talk all the time, I'm just not sure on what I should do. I've told him how I feel. I think I really love him. Should I lay it all out on the table and tell him everything I think about him and the way he makes me feel or should I just give him his space until he figures out what he's feeling?

If u give him space he might go even farther from u,I mean if hes afraid of getting hurt and if u dont tell him all what u feel and think he might start feeling insecura and it would be worst.
Dont be afraid of opening up he seems like areally sweet guy,tell him the truth,and most important,tell him not to be scared,that u love him,and that u wouldnt want to hurt him.Give him confidence and after u open up give him time.

Wish u the best of the lucks.

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o0k well you see i like this guy, that well my friends dont approve of. they say he's such a kid and he's immature and stuff. my friends go for the older, hot, guys with nice cars, this guy that i like well, his name is osama. funny huh? its actually kinda creepy, lol but well a while back, we're freshman, in the begginning of the year, he and my friend joe were in a fight, it was about a month ago and osama punched joe and things have been really shaky between them. but now i see him around and we make eye contact and i think i like him, i think about him a lot. my friends think im crazy and its 'just a 'phase' ' and stuff so yeah i dont know how to tell joe. osama doesnt even know who i am, our school is realy big. he's not cute or anything and i've never really talked tohim, but there's just something mysterious about him that gets me. but yesterday i told my friend if she knows him and she said yeah and i told her to find out if he has a gf and i told her i think hes pretty cute, and well today she told me she told him, and now today he went around asking everyone if they know me. he only knows my name. so hes trying to find me out, and i dont know what to do. i mean my friend joe, its gonna be tough on him and so what do i do about the whole situation? should i just come up to him sometime next time i see him and talk to him or should i forget about him or what? please help!?! ill rate you, thanks.

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I forgot something important,lol,sorry for making u read so much.

I forgot to tell u that u have ur own taste and u have ll the right to go for a different type of boys,ur type,not ur friends type,Besides that makes u unique.Think about this,urlooking for someone of ur taste not the tastes of ur friends.
Therefor,its ur taste,ur rights,ur way ,ur boy,ur problem.have a nice day!!

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Ok, i was at sonic and a really hot girl brought the food out to me. Ive never seen her before in my life, but i got the nerve to ask he for her number. and she actually gave it to me. Ok now im stumped. What do i do? Should i call her n ask her out, or what? help plz.

Yes,call her,if u like her and u would like to get to know her better ask her out.Relax and have fun,if she gave u the number is because of something!!**Big Smile**

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Well.. i'm dating this kid named Eric and I really like Eric, hes like a really good friend of mine. We started dating on Tuesday, and now I just don't like him as a boyfriend anymore. Everytime I date a guy I can't seem to like them more then 2 days, Is there something wrong with me?? Is this normal? Should I keep dating Eric.. or do you think I actually don't like him?? *

Okay,there could be 2 possibly reasons of why this is happening to u.
1.u dont seem to like anyone more than 2 days because subconciously u already like someone and u dont want to meet anyone else.
or
2.U just dont seem to find ur type and u take 2 days to notice the boy ur going out with is not ur match

What to do:
Sit down and think what do u like about Eric and what dont like about him,Think why did u stopped dating him,is it because u felt uncomfortable dating a goodfriend,is it something he did,or is it that u found out he isnt the right one.

The decision is up to u,just think of what I wrote maybe ,just maybe the answer to ur problem is down there,If theres anything else u want to ask,dont doubt looking for me,ill try to do my best.


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i like this boy name tory shirley very cute, sweet he's not mean, he doesn't look at you no different if you weren't like him. he likes me also but he told my friend he was with somone, and its really nothing he could do. and its like every time i see him i feel both of our sprits pull together. i know he likes me and i like him. why can't i have him. Can i have him?

Well the answer of why can't u have him is easy:he is with someone.

Recommendation:Talk to him,tell him how u feel,and ask him what he feels.Then ask him,if he likes u,why doesnt he leaves the person hes with.

Wait for his answer and because I dont know what he says I cant help u further,but If theres no way he is going to leave that someone,forget about it,he not worthy even if hes prince charmin

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Ok, here is my situaton. I am a 14/f and in 9th grade. Well, i take a foods (cooking) class and there is this guy AJ who is in my group. Well the other day Garth, also in my group, asked me who I was going to the X-mas dance with and I said no one and that I wasnt even sure I was going. Well, AJ, an 11th grader said he was doing the same thing. He then asked me if i wanted to go with him. He said he would pay for it (It is $35 to go as a couple)and he would pick me up. He also said that he wouldnt ditch me for someone else at the dance b/c I was his date. Well, AJ is a really nice guy but he isnt the most attractive guy if you know what I mean. Also, he is really immature...he acts like a lil kid a lot. Anyway, he said he didnt want to go as boyfriend/girlfriend. Just so he'd have a date. So now, I dont know if he wants go with me b/c he wants to or because he wants a date. I don't know what to do! I dont know if i should tell him yes or try and find another date. My friend Kayla said she was going to ask her friend Bunion if he would go with me. But she said that if he didnt want to go then to go with AJ and then ditch him at the dance just so he can pay and so i'll have a ride. I don't want to do that but maybe i should? I dont know. I dont want to hurt him but i want to go. I told her i wasnt going to go if i didnt have a date b/c I didnt want to pay $20 to go by myself.

Should I go with AJ or find another date? Im confused about what to do! Please help

HEC

It would be very rude and inhumane to use a guy.
Look deep inside of u,u have to really think this:Do I really want to go with him?
You may even do alist of the pros and cons of going out with him to the dance.Think of how u feel and what u want,just try not to hurt anyone in the way,u have to choose what to do,to go with a nice guy,not so handsome,immature,that will pay u the ticket and will give u a ride or to go by urself,or even with the person ur friend is trying to hook u up with.

But,theres a way.Go with him,with one condition:That going together wont stop each other from dancing or being with other people,no ditching.

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hey my best friend is acting weird and i think she ie jelous that i am hangin out with one of my old friends b/c he old group of friends are bein mean to he and ignore her now and i try to talk to both but my b/f is never their when something happens so wen me and my other friend are talk about it i think she feals left out b/c she dosn't no wuts goin on wut should i do???

well,ask her how she feels and tell her that you dont mean to let her out,I just that when u something happens she is not there and ur old friends are the ones who helps u.I think she will try to be there,therefore she wouldnt be jelous.

p.s if it dosnt work,dont choose between friends,try to talk with both and let the situation clear.

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I have a crush on a teacher of mine and I can't get over him. What should I do?

Take a deep breath,is not the end of the world.
I recommend u to think of the reasons of why do u like him.Dont try to stop liking him,it may get worst.No one can control what person to like,its more of the heart's job.Give it time,dont do anything stupid,being real,its not possible,try not to get hurt,with time u will not forget him,but u will get over it.Enjoy having a crush even if its impossible,try to see all the positive sides,and let the time pass...

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Ok, well my good friend has a boyfriend, I've known her since I was 6 and her and her bf go on the bus. And it turns out that now I have feelings for this boy and it doesn't go away, and I'm starting to get jelous when he kisses her and things. Am I a bad friend, what should I do?

It is normal to like someone,ur not being a bad friend.U know ur friend more than I do,okay u know her and I dont.Ask urself this:

How will she react if she finds out?

My personal opinion:It is better if u tell her what u feel,than she finding out from rumors,from another person,or worst,if she notice that u r jelous.

A good friendship is based on communication and honesty.
See what ur friend has to say about it,she may:
1.Stop doing things in front of u.
2.Understand u
3.Yell at u
and let be real,in some cases break a friendship,but,if she does that,she is the bad firend.It is up to u,its ur decision and no one can tell u what to do.I wish u the best of luck

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