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Age: 15
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Last Update: November 26, 2007
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Ok so i've had these i guess you'd say sleeping problems i dont sleep as much as i should and well when i sleep my mom and sister say that once in a while i scream in my sleep like i had a bad dream but the thing is that when i wake up i dont remember that happening and i dont remember having any dreams or nightmares or anything so yeha i was jsut wondering if anyone knows what this is or anything and possibly how i could stop this form happening (link)
To help with sleeping you need lots of protein. Also you can get melitonin (a vitamin) from basically any drug store. You're probably having bad dreams from lack of sleep. If you keep having them after you start sleeping more then you should see a doctor.


I'm 13/f. & I'm going through that time in my life where everything is changing.

The problem is, I sweat like crazy. I am going to a huge party this saturday which will have tons of dancing and tons of moving around ; which will only trigger it more. I mostly sweat underneath my arms.

So what I was wondering is what is a STRONG scented and STRONG STRONG STRONG product that practically eliminates my sweating.

I just want to have a good time and not have to worry about it.

Thanks! (link)
You should get certain dry. That'll help ALOT.
You can also put on other areas of your body to help with the sweating.


OK well, i wanna get into some more music, i really like rock, here are some of the bands and maybe a few of you could find some music i might like from my tastes:


****My Favourites****
Green Day
Evanescence


***Then the rest***
Sum41
Blink 182
Simple Plan (kinda)
The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus



So maybe you guys can help me with taking my tastes and finding something i will probably like??? thanks so much if u help me out! (link)
Mayday Parade
Bad News Bears
Peachcake
The Rocket Summer
Hit the Lights
Hollywood Undead
HelloGoodbye
OZMA
Scary Kids Scaring Kids
Last Nights Vice
Allison (they're spanish)
McFly (haha, they were in Just My Luck)
On the Last Day
Hey Leroy
The Music
Hot Hot Heat
Newsboys


I'm thinking about dying my hair black or some other color. I was wondering if ya'll thought i should or if i should go with another color here are some pics of me. (ya, i know some of them are a ...touch crazy lol) and ya my hair is blonde.

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=87885386&albumID=0&imageID=1748121274


http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=87885386&albumID=0&imageID=1808139103


http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=87885386&albumID=0&imageID=1808133979&MyToken=14134a90-6fdb-45e4-80f7-4a815b85b487


Thanks! (link)
Black ussaully isn't a very good color to dye your hair. It's a pain to strip out and its fades to dark brown very quickly. Something from a medium to dark brown would look cute on you.


ok this is going to sound weird.
but when i get my period, i get chunky bits along with the blood. hahah. well anyways, does anyone else get that? is it normal?

thanks (link)
It's normal. It's little clots or the lining coming out.


If I had a tampon in during the day, and kept it in while swimming, would I need to take it out? Or can I keep on going afterwards for another few hours until I need to take it out?
Do tampons fill with water when swimming? (link)
You should change your tampons every few hours to reduce chances of TSS. You shouldn't keep one in all day. Yes, tampons do fill up with water when you swim and if you don't change it afterwards the string will make your undies all wet.


for my new years resolution, i want to be a vegitarian (not eating meat/fish, ill still do dairy/eggs).


is there anything important (health wise..or any other wise) i need to know before i begin? (link)
You'll need to eat lots of protein! I suggest eating lots of eggs, cheese, and nuts.
Also if you ever miss the taste of meat you can get Boka stuff. (I'm not sure if that's spelled right) They make Boka burgers and ground beef, only its made from soy (completely vegiterian). It's like a veggie burger only yummier. You can buy their stuff at most grocery stores. Also Whole Foods is a great place to get vegiterian meals.


My friend is in LOVE with the band Relient K. And They are comming to cleveland, on may 7th. I want to get her tickets, but I don't know the age limit and if we would be able to go without a parent.
Someone tell me about teh cleveld HOB rules? (link)
I've never actaully been there but there are places like that where I live. They'll let you get tickets and let you in with out a parent, but you'll most likely have to pay a little extra since you won't be buying their drinks. It'll prolly be like $2-$5 extra.


fake lip rings? is there such a thing? where can i gt one? besides online? i dont want my mom to know. SHE'D FLIP (link)
You can get them at lots of places. Hottopic, Spencers, I got a few from Dollar Tree. They aren't too expensive either. hope I helped! ^_^


oh my gosh please help me I just cannot sleep hardly at all. it takes forever and ever to get to sleep. and i dont feel tired until when i go to get up the next day. please! help me (link)

-You have to make sure you're getting enough protien.
-You can take Melatonin, a vitamin that you can find at any drug store.
-You can take a bubble bath before you go to bed. I suggest the lavender vanilla aromatherapy stuff from Bath & Body Works, it really relaxes you.


Its my birthday in a week (yes happy birthday to me!) and my uncle always sends me a gift card. This year, he sent me 50 dollars to old navy. Great right? No! I hate old navy. So, I would like some help picking out some cute things! I shop at places like macys, hollister, ae, a&f, aero, and places like that. So thanks so much! (link)
You could buy some presents for your friends. Or get stuff for yourself... One thing that I'm a major fan of is the skinny jeans, they look great with heals. Old Navy is a great place to shop for undies and socks. They're sweaters and jackets are also good.


I have a crush on my best friend. I don't know if he has the same feelings about me. What should I do???!!! { Especially since our school doesn't allow boy\girl relationships as love! Help! Were both 13. I'm the girl he's the boy. (link)
Are any of your close girl friends also friends with him? You could ask them to do a little snooping about who he likes. Or you could just confront him about it. If he's really your best friend then he should understand. But don't make it sound like you like him too much. I hope I helped.


I dyed my hair last night & I hate the color though it came out too red! :[ The box said it was suppose to be a medium reddish brown. But instead my hair came out red. Well when i got home from school i showered and tried to wash out the dye and it didnt come out like i hoped it would. It's permanent too so its not like it will eventually come out. My mom said she WONT redye my hair because its too expensive and i dont know what to do. My hair is short with layers so i know it wont take as long to grow out. Anways i was wondering if anyone had an suggestions on what to do or how to get it out faster besides dying it. Thanks in advice. (link)
I've dyed my hair alot of times and it's gotten mesed up before too. I suggest you get Prell shampoo. It really fades the colors. As time goes on it will fade alot. Or you could go to Walmart and get this really cheap stuff that will strip the dye out of your hair. They also have plenty of very cheap dyes to choose.


13/f

does anyone know where to get cheap conair &revlon straighteners that work really good??? and can u please send me pictures of them so i know what your talking about? thanks in advance (link)
i have a nice conair straightner, i got it for only $13 at walmart. if you just go in there and look by all the hair stuff there's a large selection of cheap straighteners.


13/f
I have used Secret, Dove, Suave, Mitchum, and some men's deoderent but nothing works!! I sweat all over my clothes, but only on the underarm part, and it is embarrasing. I don't use deodarent at nite because I don't know what to use. Any advice would be SO greatly appreciated. (link)
certain-dri works a lil but if your sweating is that bad then talk to your doctor and get a perscribtion. whatever deorderant you get, put it on at night time before you go to bed and make sure that your arm pits are clean and completly dry before applying the anti-perspirant. oh, if your not just sweating under your arms, perscribtions can helps stop sweating other places too.


Sorry if this gets long... well for about 6 months now I've liked this guy, let's call him Joe. I had this party and he came, and my best friend (who knew I liked him) decided she did too. We have rules about these situations between us, and since I said it first I "get him" I guess. Well she talks about him like she knows him when she only met him once. Plus she acts like I don't like him anymore. Lastly, he likes me too. We MiGHT go out. Should I tell her? (link)
You should definatly talk to her about this situation. If she's really crazy about this guy than maybe backdown for a little until she's moved on. Just don't forget about your friendship with your friend, a loss of a great friendship is totally not worth it for a guy. You just really need to talk to her and tell her how you feel.


Ok, So im a guy and im wondering if girls like guys when the shave down there. Should We shave completly or trim it so its out of the way. Whats best? All answers are appreciated. (link)
It doesn't really matter which. I prefer guys to shave it all the way down there but that's just me. All that matters it that it's out of the way because it doesn't taste nice.


How do you go about getting tested for depression? What do they do?

Because I'm tired of being unhappy.. I have been feeling like this for years and I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE.

Do pills really help making you "happy" or is it just a waste of time?

I just want to be happy again..
I can't do anything I like anymore. I oversleep and I'm still tired.. All I want to do is lay down and I keep canceling plans with friends..

And my confidence is low.. I dont know anymore.. (link)
I suffer from depresion and what I do is see a therapist. At one of my first visits to him he asked if I ever cut myself and how I thought about life. I answered the questions thruthfully and he gave me a perscription. The medicine gives you a high, the intenceity of the high depends on the perscribtion you're given (I don't mean like a crazy high). I don't really know that much about the medicine, but I know that they are not a waste of time and they help. The thing that helps the most with depression is talking to your therapist and listening to his/her advice.


Hey, can you buy certain-dri in Australia? And where can I get it?? I've heard a lot about it and really wanna see if it works like every one says it does or if its just a falacy. thanks (link)
You can basically find it anywear than sells deoderant. Certaindri didn't really work for me and it made my armpits really itchy. If you think you sweat too much than you should talk to your doctor and s/he will give you a perscription.


yesterday morning when i woke up there were 2 pimples next to the right side of my mouth. i thought nothing of it because i thought they were gonna go away in the next 2 days maybe. well today when i got up there was ANOTHER pimple right above the other 2! i washed my face this morning with this blue Clerasil(sp) stuff that is my moms, but it didn't seem to go away. i need these pimples to go away by monday. please don't say proactiv or cover it up with makeup. i just need a quick cheap way to get these pimples off. (BTW- i wash my face 2 times a day with dove facial soap in the morning when i wake up and at night when i go to sleep) Thank you sooo much!! (link)
Don't pop it or try to scrape it off or something 'cause that'll just leave a scab which would be worse. What I do when I get pimples is dab a lil bit of tooth paste on it while I'm brushing my teeth to dry it all out, wash my face, and then put some acne lotion stuff on it. Don't use Neurogena, I suggest Clearasil Acne Treatment Cream or OXY Maximum Acne Treatment. For me the OXY brand works the best. Make sure you only put it on the area that needs to be treated, if you put it all over your face or anywhere near your eyes it makes your eyes swell up.




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