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Hey guys im Michelle!! Some people think im annoying, some people think im crazy.. but who knows im just ME!! I bite my nails, i know its a habbit i have to stop. I love getting my nails done, its my obsession. My goal in life is to become famous, but who doesnt wanna be? Im mean to people if they're mean to me first, otherwise whats the reason to be mean to someone? I dont understand life.. although it can be fun sometimes. I love the color pink, and when i say that people automatically think im a girly girl. I love to dance and sing, although i dont see myself doing it when i get older..

advice

There is this guy that use to go to my school lets call him "S" and "S" was so nice to me and everthing and when i went out with this one guy lets call him "J" and broke up with "J", "J" started threatning me and stuff so "S" beat "J" up because "J" was threatning me so "S" got expelled for fighting and i really miss him and i want to go out with him but i havent seen him since he got expelled and "S" is in 8th and im in 7th and im 13 and i wont be able to see him until i get in 9th but all my friends have been trying to hook me up with alot of guys and the guys have asked me out and stuff but i say no because im really depressed and only want "S" but i cant have "S" until 2 years and i dont know if "S" will still like me so what should i do

Aww, "s" is so sweet and likes you alot, do you have his #? You can try calling him. Do you have his sn? Talk to him there and make plans. Ask his old friends for his sn and phone # if you dont have it!
♥ Michelle

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Alrighty, well I feel like a big goob doing this but I figure what's it going to hurt? Well, I like this guy. A LOT. I've liked him for a while now and we've been friends for pretty much since we first met. Anyway, we'll call him "FRED". He's in a band (which will clear some things up in a moment) and he's also 24… I'll be turning 18 in September… Major diff there? I know. But anyway, I wrote down a list of he likes me/he doesn't like me…. And I just wondering if any of you could possibly go through them and tell me what you think? Do you think he likes me? And if he does, what's his deal? Lol Well thanks much. Sorry if this doesn't make much sense.

Signs He Might Like Me
1. Knew I was feeling bad one night so he sent me my favorite song and told me he was being my granny for the night.
2. Told me his band wasn't going to be able to sing my favorite song at their concert because it wasn't really the 'place' for it. But he surprised me and played it anyway. He knew I was upset because they couldn't play it.
3. My friend said that he looks at me. At one of his concerts my friend said he kept walking by me, looking at me out of the corner of his eyes. And would watch me when my back was turned.
4. Sometimes I catch him looking at me.
5. Made me one of his friends on myspace but didn't make someone who he had known longer than me a friend. He also replied back to me when I left him a comment but not to any of the others that commented him.
6. He keeps the bracelets I throw up on stage at his concerts and wears them when I'm not at his shows.
7. He called my name at one of his shows to show me his puppy and when I gave him a hug, he later had an away message up that said, "All I wanna do is hold you in my arms forever. I feel so safe in your embrace. My mind is telling me that there's no way possible I could actually be feeling this way so soon but my heart overrides my mind."
8. Replies to all of my messages I leave on the bands message board but sometimes leaves others out.
9. Confides in me about his problems and his ex girlfriend and his problem with depression.
10. When he found out another girl was trying to throw bracelets on stage at their shows he left a message on the message board that said it was my thing and for the other girls not to start copying me.

Signs He Doesn't
1. Sometimes he acts completely aloof when I'm around, like he doesn't even know I'm there. He says it's because he's usually out of it in the mornings (at church) and at concerts he doesn't notice people too much because he's too 'excited'.
2. Once seemed to flirt openly with my friend while on stage. Not sure if he was flirting or just wanting to scare her because she was just standing there and he likes for people to be energetic during the shows.
3. The away message he had up after the concert could have been about someone else and not about me at all.
4. Chances are he just talks to me because he wants to be my friend
5. He probably only sent me the song so I would compliment him on his wonderful singing.

So what do you guys think? Yes, no, maybe? Pathetic, I know

Its not Pathetic, it is cute! He likes you but sometimes he might just be uding you. Tell him to back off when he is using you!
♥ Michelle

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i hav this friend..we havent really talked for a couple months but she got new friends and i stayed the same..i guess friends wise. i was on aim and she imed me for the first time in a while. she told me " i know you think im mad a tyou but im not" we started talking and and the next day she called and wanted me to come over to her house. its like were really good friends again... only this is my last year im really gonna see her since of moving schools. she acts like were friends again but its all a big secret. anyone who understands...wat do i do. .. i dont want to talk to her and say somthing ridiculious and ruin this " friendship" - has she really not changed?

Honestly i think this is all a big act and she might be using you. Just ignore her and tell her. If she asks you why tell her your buisy.
♥ Michelle

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abercrombie and fitch was the most popular store pretty much to shop at. now hollister is..its just like abercrombie practically but i guess u could say thier pants are cheaper..anyone who doesnt know..abercrombie pants are 70.00 and up while hollister is 40.00 .. anyways everyone is now wearing hollister and i havent gotten around to going yet. when i go to hollister i dont want to buy all this stuff and have people coming up to me saying i have that u copied me..and so on. should i care ..or should i just be up to date?

Eww, do you care whats 'popular' why cant you jast have your own style? I have my own style and everypne likes it because im unique. But if you are that desprate, shop at hollister.
♥ Michelle

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(17 yr old female)so theres this guy i really like. Hes my best friends cousin. She set him up with me one day over christmas break and we hooked up...well we just made out. His mom found out and got really mad and said that if he ever talked to me he would get grounded. Ive tried a couple of times since then to get togeather with him but it just never seems to work out. Hes and awesome guy and i know that he likes me alot. What should i do, should i keep at it or just forget about the whole thing?

Can you talk to him mom, or when he is with your best friend go with your friend and then you guys can hang out! Keep trying, there is a connection!
♥ Michelle

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my boyfriend and me have been together for 6 months...we love eachother alot...and are a really happy couple...but lately i dont know...hes been really weird...all his friends have turned on him and now their telling me hes cheating on me...i dont know if its because their just trying to get back at him and take me away from him or if its true..ive asked him and he promises me that he would never do that and stuff and i seriously cant picture him cheating on me..ever...what do i do?? i dont know who to believe anymore... :(

I would believe your boyfriend, afterall he loves you more. Your boyfriends friends are BACKSTABBERS!!
♥ MIchelle

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hey im 15 and my friend roxie and me got into this fight. we tried to work it out or at least i did and we havent talked for months now. weve been trying to build our friendship again but somehow i feel like im not good enough. she has all these friends now..well i used to be friends with some but i guess not anymore. im told im a shy person..i even admit to it. i hate hanging out with the same person i hang out with everyday. no one likes her and shes nothing like me..i guess you could say shes a geek but i dont want to ruin my whole year hanging arounf with her just cause i feel sorry for her. i want to be more popular. im average. if i was my friend might see me as a better friend since im more up to date..but im shy and not everyone likes me..wat do i do to become this..non shy person ..this popular person

I dont mean to be rude but is everything about popularity? I mean im 'popular' because i am a nice person and not a wanna be. I am just be and people like that about me. I dont act bourgua or above myself. I am socialable and if people cant except me for me then to bad. So my point in this is just be yourself and youll get further in like then being a 'popular' bum.
♥ MIchelle

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ok i moved from my old school about a year ago and i am still depressed becuz of what one of my friends did to me...she pressured my best friend into thinking she hated me. then both of them ditched me and turned everyone of my other friends on me by telling them that i said stuff i hadnt really said. I lost every one of my friends just becuz i made one friend mad and i am dead scared to make more friends so this doesnt happen again.how do i get over this?

Oh boy, all i can tell you is that those friends were backstabbers. Just be yourself and people will eventually see that you are you and will want to be your friend. Talk to people. Have convos with them.
♥ Michelle

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ok when ever someone asks me to do something i almost instantly forget it and they get get mad...what am i supposed to do?

That happens to me too! Well what i do it right when they tell me i do it, unless i am buisy.
♥ Michelle

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Alrighty...I'm sick of it! I don't know what to do...okay, I've only made out with a guy and I want to do other stuff because...I don't know lol I just do! I mean people think that I've been farther, I wouldn't say I'm considered a slut...but not a total prude you know? Well the problem is..I would want to do other stuff but I get like shy around they guy...I know you're probably going to tell me to relax when I am with them, but I am..it's just I'm shy about things when it comes to doing stuff! And you wouldn't think that, because I have a very outgoing personality!! Does anyone know what I can do to like break my little habit of being shy and scared of doing other stuff?? Thanks so much if you can!

Be yourself, and when the time is right it will just happen. I cant tell you what you dont want to hear so i wont tell you to be relaxed. But be yourself!
♥ MIchelle

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my breasts are 2 different sizes but you cant tell with my shirt on but when itz off u can

iz there something wrong with me


?

No, it is normal for all girls and boys.
♥ Michelle

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I've figured out that i am bi...but i am a christian..and i realize how wrong it is...and i hate myself for it...im trying to change myself.....but its hard for me to completely stop liking guys....but its so wrong...in the bible it says that doing stuff with another guy is an abomination..and they should be destroyed..that scares me..so i am trying to fight it off..i have a gf...and she's helping me thru it too...but my ? is...is it really wrong to be bi?..

no!! It is totally fine you can still like girls and you dont have to have a bf you can like guys but you dont have to do anything with them!
♥ MIchelle

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Has anyone seen the movie "the boogeyman" ? is it good? is it scary? thanks

IT WAS REALLY BAD DO NOT SEE IT I REPEAT DO NOT SEE IT!!!!!!
♥ Michelle

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i'v been going out with a girl for like a week so should i get her some thing for valentines and if i should then what?

YES!!!!!!!!! Do you know how hurt she would be if you didnt???? Get her a rose and chocolate!
♥ mIchelle

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If I Stick to a good diet, and exercise EVERYDAY for 30 mins, how much weight do you think I'll lose by April?

Around 15 lbs. + or -
&Hearts; Michelle
good luck
dont starve yourself!!!!!!!!

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theres this really annoying kid at school and he gets on my nerves soo bad..ive tried saying shut up but it doesnt work!please help!ino its not huge but its so annoying!

Give him dirrty looks, if he does it again tell the teacher!
&herats; Michelle

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What do you get a guy thats like obsessed with dirtbikes for valentines day? were going out but im shy around him and i dont think hes getting me anything but i want to get him something, so help please. nothing too cheesy.

Boxers with hearts
♥ Michelle

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13-m---like on a regular day, what kind of manners do girls notice the most or expect to see. guys dont care but thats not the group im aimed at. (just like when ur doing regualr things not like in front of ur g/f)

I would think reballious, nice, fun kind of guy!
♥ Michelle

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13-m What clothes should be worn on a regular day when ur trying to impress people.(im on a budget so no p diddy stuff.)

Abercrombie and hair spiked. I dont look for looks more of personality i look for.
♥ Michelle

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I am 14 and a female. There is a guy at school that I think is really cute. We both have history together and I will sometimes see him looking at me. I want to talk to him so bad, but I have never said anything to him before. What should I do?

Just say hey and talk to him about whatever you want to talk about. It might be random but maybe you guys can be friends!
&herat;s mIchelle

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