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ok, my boyfriend really wants me to give him a lap dance. I really want too to. lol but there is one problem......I don't know how to give it to him! I'm even a dancer and i'm pretty good too. But i don't know the right moves or anything. And i dont' wanna look stupid or inexperianced. HELP!!!!




female = 15

why does he want a lap dance? just fuck him instead

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i am very self consious on how i look because i am not the prettiest girl but everyone tells me that i am cute. i dont like how i look and i want to loose some weight too. i can sometimes be very confident but at other times i am not. what can i do to stop being so self consious?

everyone is beautiful

and who cares about weight.. im skinny and i hate it

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15 female

i got my 1st GOOD hicky from my best friend (which is a girl) but we are really close...we were on the way to someones house w/ her and her boyfriend and she was showing me the hickys' that her boyfriend gave her and i was like hey i want a hicky!! and she gave me one...is that wrong for ur best friend to give u a hicky!!??

*I AM NO BI!*

you couldnt get a guy to give you a hickey instead of a girl?

hickeys are dirty looking anyway.. why would u want to have one?

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okay this is really dumb but all my friends say "this one time at band camp......" and then leave it at that! wut is that from? is that from like a movie? lol sorry im so dumb!
w/b sooon

yeah, that is a dumb question

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okay ive been friends with this guy for like 6 months, and he use to like me but now we are just friends cause i didnt like him at the time. but even when he says he doesnt like me that way nemore, he still hints it kinda alot. but now we actually call eachother our best friend. but the thing is ever since he got a gf, which was like a month ago, ive kinda started to like him, but hes like my best friend, he tells me EVERYTHING and i tell him EVERYTHING...ahhh what should I do??

youre probably only falling for him now because he has a girlfriend.

people always want what they cant have

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hey how do u like let a guy know u wanna getta know him better

say: i - would - like - to - get - to - know - you - better

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Alright tp start this off, i`m 14/female. For about a year or so, I`ve been so down and sad/angry all the time. I never smile anymore, or things that used to be a blast too me, is no fun anymore. I don`t like hanging out with any of my firends anymore. I just like being alone all the time. Well, a few months ago my mom and dad took me to a conselour because they were concerned about me and such. They just said I needed too be on anti-depressants. I didn`t start using them right away, just recently. Well, I`m cutting myself now. I know its really bad too do and I know how stupid I am for doing it, but It just feels so right when I do it. I really need too stop or talk to somebody about it. My mom asked me what these marks were on my arm, and i told her is was eraser burns ( because they leave scars ) and she hasn`t realy noticed that more and more keep appearing. What should I tell her? I want too tell her the truth. I know she will probably understand but she`ll get really upset ( sad ) because she hates seeing me like this and i`ll feel really bad. What should I say too her?

well, i know how you feel. id be a hypocrit if i said that you shouldnt self mutilate, but you need help. just by the fact that you want to tell your mother the truth, is a sign that you want help. just tell her whats going on and how you feel. she'll be upset at the fact that you may be doing things to hurt yourself, but on the other hand, she'll be impressed with the fact that you went to her with your problem and that you actually want help. ive been clinically depressed since i was 13, and believe me, it fuckin sucks crying and cutting my self all the time. im 18 now.. you dont want to keep going through it. besides you deserve to happy. everyone does

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i'm 19/m and i have a huge fear of regection. in fact i've only had two girl friends, and i'm still a virgin, any ideas on how to get over my fear?

well, how do you think youre going to get anywhere if all you fear is being rejected? you gotta do it man.. how else will you ever know if youd ever get anywhere. now doesnt that make sense?

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I am 13 years old. I just recently broke up with my girl friend. It sucks, but i'll live. the problem is I had sex with that girl, and everyone knows. I now for a fact that a girl i've had a crush on since 4th grade likes me, do u think the fact that I had sex will push her away from wanting to date me

what are you doing having sex at 13? like.. what can you actually satisfy at 13?

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Hi I am 16 f and i was raped and the guy who did it told me not to tell anyone.so i havent said a word to anyone until now but the thing is my bf wants me to have sex with him but im not ready cuz it was just recently that i was raped. should i tell someone what happend or just not say a thing and try having sex with my bf? I rate.

so just because he told you not to open your mouth and tell someone that he raped you, youre not? me being a victim of rape, i advise you to tell someone about it. and get help. because in the long run, being raped will definitely mess you up mentally.

and if you dont want to have sex with your boyfriend, then dont. if he gets upset, then fuck him

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