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Okay so someone keeps prank calling me and i know they know me but they keep blocking their number. Is there any way i can find out who's number it is even though they used *67 or whatever...
thanks

Grab your phone book (I don't have one handy) anyways, look in the front where all the features are like *67, *69 and so on... You'll see one where you dial * something and you do it right after that person called and blocked there number. It's a recording and you say, they blocked there number at 1:24am and have done this 5 times (or whatever the case) and then you hang up. The phone company send them a letter (you'll never get to know who it is though) but the letter states if another complaint comes through again from them blocking there number and hanging up on ppl that there phone service will be disconnected. (It wont tell them that your the one that did it, so dont worry bout that)

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Is it possible to have a STD if your a virgin?

Sure can. You can have a STD if your mom had one and passed it on to you at birth and oral sex.

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my boyfriends coming over to watch movies sometime next week and i need suggestions. i want to watch a scary movie but i dont know how to act or anything when i get scared or stuff

Oh scarey movies are the best! Why? because we can be like, Oh My God! and hang all over em' for dear life lol. Everytime a scarey part comes across the screen, grab his arm or cuddle up to him and be like oh my god that's creepy lol Make him seem like "the man" ya know? men love that.

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What is the missionary position? What is doggy style? Just wondering...

Missionary position is the girl lays down on her back and the guy is on top.

Doggy Style is where the girl is on all 4's and the guy is behind her holding on to her hips.

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do boys mind if a girl is a little over wieght.. like a little bit of a pot belly?
and would it be a reason for them not to ask her out?

Different guys like different types of girls. Obviously there is men that find women attractive that arent a size 2 because I'm a size 16 and with the sexiest marine ever (haha)

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ok to start off i am about to run away.
well heres my story. i had this boyfriend who i loved soooooooo much. we went out for 3 months. but he started rushing things a little much so broke up with him. 5 times. and the final time before we broke up i started liking someone else. now this guy is liked by my two faced good friend!! woo! anyways and me n him really liked each other..so that night we went to the movies and what do you know my ex-boyfriend went too. but that night after me n the new guy talked to my friend and she was like w.e is good for you guys..he asked me out to my face. it was like prince charming. but my ex bf was crushed. i dont blame him. he still loves me soo much. and so me n the other boy went out for a while almost a month. he broke up with me today..hes like well i loved you and i still do and he just doenst make sense. and the two faced girl is making me feel like crap after she was like no no go out!! and she was all nice to me. now she has people thinking im some slut. which is so not me! he was on myspace and he made a buliten sayin oh i lost the perfect girl. wow huh? well its my summer vacation and my ex bf asked me out and like i still love him but i still havent gotten over the other and i don want more problems. any advice??? thank you soo much

Wow. What is up with new guy's myspace, I lost the perfect girl? Um he broke up with you? Guys are so weird. They say they will never understand us, but dag we will never understand them. At least when we do something, we'll tell you why we did it lol. So, Talk to the new guy and ask him what up with his myspace thing? Myabe your so called friend or someone else told him something to make him break up with you?? You need to know regardless. If you still have feelings for him and he still obviously has feelings for you then I would get to the bottom of that and quick. (Go ahead and give him a call... yall dated long enough that you deserve an answer to his actions today) If it turns out that there is no getting back together with him, then you have 2 choices. Go back out with ole' dude or just have time for yourself.

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I have an in home daycare and I have been caring for these two wonderful, beautiful boys who I love very much. One is 3 and the other is 14 months. Their parents have become good friends of ours, who we hang out with some weekends.

My problem is, that I feel taken advanage of and I don't know what to say or how to say it.

I charge them very minimally...$200 a week. Their hours of care are from 9:00-6:30. Lately, they have been getting dropped off at 8:40 and being picked up as late as 6:40, sometimes 7:00. In the beginning, if they were gonna be early or late I would know in advance. But now it's happening more and more often without notice. I really don't appreciate it. I have 4 other kids in my daycare and 1 of my own and my time is very precious. Especially in the AM when I am trying to get ready for the day.

Here's what really makes me mad...Their mother's work schedule changed and she had a CHOICE to work either M-F 10:30-7:00 with saturdays off or M-TH 9-6:00 and work saturdays. Normally, my daycare closes at 6:30- I don't want kids later than that! Without asking me, she CHOSE to work the M-F 10:30-7:00 shift so she could have saturdays off. She never even asked me if that was ok. That would mean that they wouldn't get picked up until 7:30 with travel time.

Now I am in a position. We are friends and I love those babies. But I really don't wanna have kids in my house from 7AM til 7:30PM, ya know?? What can I say? They really don't have any other friends or family to help them out and I am the only one who watches their kids.

Any advice?

Thanks!

I agree with younggrandma on this. You are being taken advantage of. Write up a letter all professional sounding and state the "new rules". Every child being dropped off before day-care opens or picked up after 6:30 p.m. when the day care closes will be charged a penalty fee. (Like $10.00 or something like that) I bet she'll get her shift changed then. Her only paying you 200.00 a week is a really good price considering Day-Care charges $125.00 a week, per child.

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i dont want to tell my doctor im sexualy active but i want birth control. i think im going to tell him my period has been going on for 15 days for the last times i had it and that i normally only get it for 5 days. or if i DO tell him i am sexualy active will he tell my mom or is it between me and him?

If you tell your Dr. that you want birthcontrol and that you are sexually active. He won't tell anyone. Here's why, All doctors are sworn to a Patient Privacy Privelege Act. Basically what it means if he violates that, he could lose his medical license and be sued by you. Yea no Dr. is going to risk that for nobody. But, however if you still dont want him to know, I wouldnt tell him you have been bleeding for 15 days, that's a serious medical problem that he'll have to run lab tests on (my friend actually went through that) What I would tell him is that my periods had been irregualar. 1 month you get it, 1 month you dont and that you want birth control to regulate it.

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im not trying to be ruid with you but you are really being ruid first of all im 15 years old and the reason why I probably wrote that wrong was because I did not realized it was spelled wrong so next time write backin a proper way

There was nothing in-proper about what I wrote you back the first time. You can't blame a person for thinking that. You spelled it PEANUS. What is a person supposed to think? It just made you look a little to young and I certainley dont want to be giving out sex advice to someone that appears to be an 11 year old. I didn't mean for it to sound rude, but I do wish when people ask me sex quesions that they give there age. I have a 12 year old sister and I sure wouldnt want someone giving her sex advice.

(Lol, love the question you put in my inbox, I may be those things you said but at least I know how to spell. By the way good luck with your man and his "peanus" problems)

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can sum1 help me with adding a picture to my advice column its not workin!!

you know where it says browse to upload the pic? Do that and when it gets put in the box copy it and paste it in the line above, (URL) and then delete it out the line below. poof your done.

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hi my boyfriend and me we try to have sex but hes peanus did not go all the way throught it just went half way what may be the cause of this?

First off, it's spelled "penis". So maybe your a little to young to know if you don't even know how to spell it. Gosh I wish ppl would include there age in there question! Anyways, ok the reason it didnt go all the way in was more than likely because you werent lubed up enough. Go buy some KY.

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whats the difference between thongs and g-strings

G~String: A small piece of material covers the front region. The rest is basically a bit of string or thin material that goes kinda up ya butt. (It's also referred to as butt floss lol cause other than it covering up your coochie, it dont do much else.)

Thong: It's skimy underwear but it still covers more than a G-string does. It still basically goes up ya butt but the fabric that goes there is thicker.

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this may be a little weird...but i was wondering, is it better to sleep with a bra or without one? thanks

I say without, becuase it's more comfortable.

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Ok so here's how it works, I babysit 3 kids, one is 11 year old girl, a 8 year old boy and another 5 year old girl. I constantly have my hands full. I watch my employers kids, I clean her hous, I do her dishes, and stay there all night, most of the time, she usually stays out and comes home the next day. How much should I charge her? Thanx for the advice in advance..

wow that is a handful. It really depends on the financial situation of the mother. I made $500.00 for 30 day's worth of work for 1 child.If she's a low-income mom, go easy on the pricing but still charge enough so that it's even worth your time. If she make a pretty decent living, You could charge like $20.00 a night. That puts you making $100.00 in a 5 day work week. It's all up to you. BUT charging 2.00 a hour like another person said is insane to me because for you, that is alot of work for such a cheap amount. It also depends on your age. If your under 18 I think the 20.00 a night is pretty reasonable if not cheap! but if your older or have CPR training I would charge more. and she'll pay it because you know it cost $125.00 a week for 1 child in day care! That's $1500.00 a month for all children. So at any rate you would charge, she's still gonna' come out on top. Not to mention the fact that your cleaning the house too.

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Does putting peanut butter on your signicicant other make sex more fun!?!?

lol I dunno, that all depends on you and how you like to get down. Usually when involving food with sex, people use whip cream, choclate syrup, strawberries, & champagne. ummmm have fun lol

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So I love my wife very much and want to show her a good time for her bday which is coming up soon. But im in the military and have a very low budget. what are some good ideas that can keep me and her out of the red but still be a nice romantic night?
PS i think u are hot

awwwww :) How sweet!! Let's see....
It's 4th of July, so she's got to want to see fireworks...besides that, here's some more ideas.

-Take her out to a nice resturant
-A walk on the beach at sunset
-Write her a poem :)
-July 4th morning watch the sunrise
-Go for a long drive somewhere
-Suprise her with breakfast in bed (anything & bacon lol)
-Get her a manicure from a salon
-Rent a hotel for the night

*Obviously, your not budgeted to do everything on the list, just pick out the ones you like and think you can afford, and do that for her. I'm sure no matter what it is, she'll love it because you took the time and effort to do it for her.*

By the way............ I love you too.

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you are SO clever!!! I've never thought of putting my arm on the arm rest in the car... now i just regret I havent done that last time!!... =)i'll most definitely keep you updated on this!! hopefully it will have a happy ending!! =)

Thanks LOTS!!!!!!!!!

yea girl you even got me excited lol do let know what happens! best of luck :)

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I'm going to a nail salon for the first time. I want to have tips put on, like the complete full acrylic nail, so my nails look longer, and have the french manicure look. I was wondering approximately how much will this cost? Do I have to include a tip also? Do I have to scheduale an appoitment?

Here, it cost $25.00 for what your wanting done and you can be a walk-in. Tips are optional. If they did a awesome job, tip em, if not then dont. Its not required.

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haha.... "are you giving me a special treatment?" that does sound pretty stupid... =/ haha... i believe he already asked me sumthing like... *so christine you ready for the date sunday night?!?*.... i didnt hear it that clearly... probably because i was surprised by what he said... but I will ask him whether he consider it a date again!! =D...

should i ask for a hug?... give him a hug?.... imply i want a hug?.... if so... how? ... I am so bad at these things.... although i've had boyfriends before... this time things seem so different... i've never been this crazy about a guy before... *blushes*

on the car ride over there, most men will drive with there left hand and put ther right hand on the arm rest. Put your arm up there to, just a little bit and see if he makes a go for it. You want him to come to you. Don't give him a hug or ask for one for that matter. Men love a chase, so you got to give him one. It's ok to meet him half way, like the arm rest thing, that's letting him know your game. Also, look at him a second longer, smile and talk! But, NOT ABOUT WORK.

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thank you SO much for replying, I am just wondering, when we do go eat dinner, should I ask any questions?... I wanna know if he is treating me specially... and hopefully confirm whtether or not he does like me or not... How should i ask the questions?

Thanks again!! you are VERY helpful!! =)

It's obvious that he is treating you with special attention. This isnt a work confrence at a resturant its him taking an employee out. I wouldn't directly ask any questions, it's a date, not a interrogation lol. Flirt with him, let him do the talking in this case, the more he talks the more you'll find out things. You can drop a line like, "So would you call this a date?" DONT say "Hey, are you giving me special treatment? aha I knew it! you wanna kisssss me" lmao ya get the point?

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