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Q: where can you buy a 3 barrell curling iron?? and roughly how much money?! and do they work??

Sometimes they have them at walmart, but if not then you could buy them at a salon, and their about 25 dollars.

Q: does anybody know how to make destroyed jeans?! how?? plz help me...thank you so much!

If you want them to be faded, then you wet them, dillute bleach with water, and then splash it wherever you want it to be faded - then take a razor and scratch it wherever you want it . not hard just light and it`ll make pairs just like at hollister. =)

Q: Is there something you need to put on your hair before you straighten it or curl it?

When your hair is wet, you mix syram + mouse, && put it in your hair, and blowdry your hair with that in it, and then straigten it - that combination prevents damage to your hair =)

Q: Okay I really don't like my new hair cut. I think it's too short personally. does any one know any products to speed the procces of growing it?? please help!

signed,
too short hair!

They have shampoo at Sally's [ local ] or at any botique, and it speeds up hair growth, buyt when you put it in you have to massage your scalp.

Q: I have pinch straight hair and not thin or thick. Whenever I try scrunching my hair it never works. Do you know anything I could do to make it work?? THANKS

I would try using a diffuser. My friend has really thin hair and that scrunches her hair. You buy it and put it on the end of your hairdryer and its like 5 bucks.

Q: hey. i love your advice column. i am not asking for advice, but, i am starting a LiveJournal and i need help finding/making a layout for it. i was wondering if you could help. do you know any useful sites to help me along?

Aw thanks, I do know a livejournal layout site that you can go to. Go to http://www.createblog.com/skins/index.php?type_id=2 and search through those .. Im not exactly sure how to put it in, I only deal with myspace & xanga, but Im my sn when you find one that you want, and Ill sign up for a LJ and try and help you out -- my sn's GLAM BARBi x

Q: hi. im 13/M and i am in 8th grade. last year like a little into 7th grade, i dont know what happened. it's emberassing for me to say, but, my nipples got big. i was extremely confused. i don't know what it is. i am going into 8th grade now and it isn't gone. Maybe it is sometihng that is only happening to me probably because im going through puberty right now. but im scared it might be a disease or something. i had the worst summer. i was always invited to go swimming and things but i am scared to take off my shirt. it makes me really insecure about myself. i get worried it might be a bad illness. please help me, i don't know what to do =( i don't want to feel insecure around everyone =(

i will rate 5's

From my understanding, boys nipples grow in size when they develop and go through puberty. If your whole body is growing, [ getting taller, penis size, facial hair, body hair, voice deepening ] things of that sort, then it would be just a normal form of puberty. If thats the only thing growing, then wait a little bit, everything will even out. If your really self conscience about it, I would say go to the doctors or maybe look some things up online. As far as I know its normal.

Q: Hello. What do people mean, when they say "Im Rick James Bitch!"

lol. Aw. Theres a TV show called the dave chapell show. He did a comedy routine and in it he was making fun of someone named Rick James, and he had turned it into a joke saying "Im rick james bitch" Basically, all the people that say that are immitating what they saw on tv, causing it to be a trendy little statement =)

Q: ok i would first like to comment on yur answer given to the question "does my boyfriend love me even tho its been four months and he hasnt said it, blah blah blah" in yur answer you said the other guys that said it with in a month didnt mean it and u cant fall inlove with some one in a month, total bullshit you can fall inlove with someone inless then a month, like forreal if yur gonna have an advice column give true answers and not answers that you feel are true.

and second i would like to comment on the guy who asked the question bout havin unprotected sex u said well if you've had it beofre what different does it make or like what ever, he said he never had it before, so yur answer was like totally useless.

psssh.

See doll. The BEAUTY of an advice column, is the fact that its based around OPINIONS. If you think that you could have answered that question better then I think you should get yourself an advice column if you dont already have one, and start to answer things yourself, but I dont think you can do that, because you dont even know simple fact one. Opinions are neither true nor false. Opinions are ones believes about a certain situation. So dont come on here critisizing the way that I answer my questions, thanks. & As for the other one, I misread that, people make mistakes, Im not perfect, so thanks for pointing out something I already knew =) & thanks for your OPINION. ;o)

Q: Hi I am a 17 year old boy and my girlfriend wants to have unprotected sex
with me, but i'm not sure i want to have unprotected sex.

We have had protected sex before. Please Help me?.

Well, if you have done it before unprotected, why not now ? Its not safe, yes, but if you both love and trust each other and know that neither of you is sleeping around then your not at risk for any STD's & if she's on the pill, then I'd say go for it.

Q: eek. okays.this isnt like a joke er anything. i really am embarassed bi it. sorry if its weird. but okay. so i guess my horemons are kinda eeek? like i get lil hairs kinda on my nippels. is that lyk totally weird? well i shave dem sometymez, and today i kinda nicked my nip a little, and it was bleeding. it lyk didnt hurt er nuffin, i didnt even notice, and it lyk stopped now, i just kincked it a lil i ghuess, but should it be ohkay? and lyk i shave " down there" i guess what everone callz it, and lyk, today i shaved and it totally lyk started bleeding real bad, like lil red bumps of blood, could it be lyk cause i just shaved a couple days ago? i put cream on and stuff, and alopt, bit it like stung and just totally started bleedin. it stopped now, but its like all red, and not smooth. still lyke lil nubs, cuz i stopped like when it totally started bleeding wich was right away. and also i play wata polo, so i shave my bikini alot, and i have this one like real dark red bumb right on lyk my bikini line and its like rad kinda, and the other day like white kinda puss was commin out a lil. but its lyk a real big ugly red bumb, and i wuz wondering if you lyk new hot to maybe get rid of it.

also, i dont really have dat sensitive of skin. so eeek =/

worry about it being so long, please help =/

Its totally normal to get hair on your nipples when your going through puberty, their really fine though and not that noticeable so I really dont think you should shave them, but once you do it once it grows in darker, its a really sensitive spot so be careful when shaving. As for the bleeding part I dont think its that big of an issue really, your not going to bleed to death or anything just take extreme precautions when you shave in that area. About the "down there" part of this question, you also have to be really careful, although Im sure that you already know that. Just make sure to keep using alot of shaving cream [ never dry shave down there it causes irritation and it`ll itch and be extremely uncomfortable ], and go with the hair, not against it, beucase thats maybe whats causing the red bumps. I dont know, It has never happened to me before but I have read about it happening to some teens, so dont be worried theres nothing wrong with you lol. Just be careful in those areas like I said, and dont be rough .. just take your time when shaving so you dont bleed or scratch anything. Other than saying that I suppose thats the best I can do.

Q: i have limewire and i think it screwed my computer up.. my computer doesnt work that well AT ALL .. so do you think limewire is makeing my computer mess up? should i delete it? or if its not limewire.. what is it

Yup. Limewire has a bunch of viruses and spyware hiddin in it, it took me a while to figure it out. I had to keep redoing my computer because I thought I had downloaded them from something else. Delete limewire and download adaware, so you can remove the spyware from your computer =) If that still doesnt work then you might have to reinstall XP.

Q: hOw dEw YoU mAkE cHoCoLaTe ChIp cOoKiEs i WaNt tEw MaKe tHeM fOr mAh BoYfRiEnD

K - you`ll need

1 cup butter flavored shortening
3/4 cup white sugar
3/4 cup brown sugar
2 eggs
2 teaspoons Mexican vanilla extract
2 1/4 cups all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 teaspoon salt
2 cups milk chocolate chips

Then you - Preheat oven to 350 degrees && Grease cookie sheets.
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then In a large bowl, cream together the butter flavored shortening, brown sugar and white sugar until light and fluffy. Add the eggs one at a time, beating well with each addition, then stir in the vanilla .Combine the flour, baking soda and salt; gradually stir into the creamed mixture. Finally, fold in the chocolate chips. Drop by rounded spoonfuls onto the prepared cookie sheets.

After you mixed all that - Bake for 8 to 10 minutes in the oven, until light brown.

let the cookies cool on baking sheet for 5 minutes - before scooping them off and putting them onto a plate

Q: whats your favorite song??

this question is so we can all learn new and different songs just for the fun of it.

how to deal - frankie j
outta control - 50 cent
mistakes we knew we were making - straylight run
scars - papa roach
cool - gwen stefani
bonanza - akon
car underwater - armor for sleep
hopeless love - daphne loves derby
like you - bow wow & ciara
bad habit - destinys child
mississippi girl - faith hill
wake me up when sept ends .- green day
wake up - hilary duff
the ocean - mae
shake it off - mariah carey
back then - mike jones
your body - pretty ricky
shine on - ryan cabrera
welcome to detroit city - em & tricky

those are some of my fav'sz out now haha =)

Q: Okay, I just downloaded this thing called "Apple Sauce" and I changed my AIM font color & everything, but now I don't know how to open it back up, and I even think I may want to delete it !!! Help.

++++I RATE 5'S FOR ALL HELP!++++

Re download it + save it to your desktop + then oipen it that way . you have to make sure that you download it to your desktop cause when you download it from a website it places it in any random folder - so yeah make sure you add it to the DESKTOP. and you should be fine.

Q: I'm 25 and have lived in my own apartment for three years, but I recently met a girl my age who has a house and a spare bedroom and wants a housemate to help with payments, so I'm going to move in with her. She's really cool and we hang out and have gotten to be friends. Here's my question: a few people (my parents, mostly) have told me that any time you're going to live with someone new you should have a set of ground rules that you both work on and agree to... like, what hours it's okay to play loud music, who's going to do dishes when, stuff like that. I told them the idea is silly because we're friends and she's going to think I'm weird and uptight if I propose something like this. If my music is too loud, she can tell me, you know?

So what do you think... should we just go with whatever for a while, or work out an agreement? What sort of stuff should we put on this list of rules if we do it?

I would say go with whatever. Just do whatever you would normally do and see how that works out. Also tell her if anything is bugging her then ask her to let you know, so you can fix that and try and make things as easy living with each other as possible.

Q: ok so i start soccer practice tomorrwo.but it says something about scrimmages being scheduled.what are scrimmages in soccer.

Scrimmages are fake games. My brothers have them in football and I had them w hen I was in softball. Its just a practice game against another team, so you get the feel of what its like being in a real game, just anothjer form of practice.

Q: Me and my b\f have been going out for almost 4 months. With all of my exes they usually say I love you within the first month or so. Is it a sign that he doesn't love me if he hasn'tr said it...if not what are some signs that he does love e.

Well, the other guys that said it within a month dont mean it because you cant love someone within a month, love takes time to prosper and grow. If your current boyfriend hasnt said it it doesnt necessarily mean that he doesnt love you, maybe he cherishes that word and wants it to be special when he says it, or if he does love you maybe hes afraid to say it.

Q: sometimes at night, i get lyk real horney and lyke really in da mood. and i have my own computer, and i go and lyk look ay porn and stuff. im a 13 year old gurl. i lyk cant buy a dildo, or a viabrator, and i don tlike to finger miself cause i think its kinda icky. but lyk what can i do? and is it weird for me to lyk, have these feelings? and lyke, look up porn?

Well, I dont think its wierd for you to have those feelings, because everyone gets curious every now and then, but honestly I dont see the point in looking up porn and looking at it if your not going to masturbate. You eventually have to get over the ickyness because sometimes you cant have a guy there to satisfy you, and when your older and want to be able to tell them what feels good, you have to experiment and try things with yourself, so you are able to let them know what you like, or else their not going to know. You probably dont have to worry about that till your a little bit older though, so in the meantime if you want to get over your hornyness your going to have to overcome the "ickyness" of masturbation. Sorry if that sounds gross or anything but I really dont know what else to tell you.