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So me and this kid have been on and off for about 10 monthes now. We recently started going out and over april vacation we had sex. It was both are first time. I was scared that i was going to regret it or that'd we break up and that it would break my heart, but he comforted me and told me that we love eachother and that were never going to break up. An excact week after we had sex he breaks up with me. I miss him more than ever and I'm so hurt that he would do that to me. But i know it time to move on. How do i get over him?
gosh i fear this as well... so i i know where youre coming from.. well first off... if he does love you, he wont jump into another relationship so quickly. and if he does and they break up, shows he's not over you, which is a good thing. so that means...dont jump into a brand new relationship trying to get over him... half the time it doesnt help.. and this will start a little jealousy game between you and your ex.. if you want to get over him i think it's up to you and time... focus on other things. it might ound corny... but focus on school. friends. the positive things in your life. and look at this as a learning experiance... good luck mama =]
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but what if it doesnt work?
to be honest... i think if you wanna make him like you, you should make the first moves... show him you're interested... and maybe he'll see what a great girl you are... nnot every girl will go for what she wants and confidence is sexy to a guy. worked for me lol
i thats the problem im to afraid to even talk to him.I'll smile at him and stuff but i'm just too afraid to talk to him.
april
0o0o...well in that case...smile =]... maybe gather some friends to help you thru it??? but remember... when guys see you with your girl frends all the time, it just makes them not want to go talk to you,,,,due to the teasing and whatnot..
Okay, My mate is fifteen and she went to a parety a few months ago and drank too much then slept with a guy from her class.
They were both virgin's before hand but she now recons she could have a sexually transmitted infection... Is that possible?
And also I think she should go to see a doctor for help but she's scared because she is under age for having sex.. Can they do anything like with the law or something if she asks for help? And also if she does have an S.T.I doesn't she have to tell the guy she slept with... how can she do that? help.. I'm worried about her, they can be serious sometimes right? x
first off... yes it is possible to have an std and be a virgin. take herpes for example... oral herpes... if you kiss someone with oral herpes and you have a cut in your mouth you can still contract it and thats not even having sex! as far as getting tested... idk where you guys are located =/ but i'm located in NY and whether you're a minor or not, they cannot do anything for getting tested and being positive for an std or hiv/aids.. on the contrary. they urge you to get tested. and i urge her to get teted as well... maybe you should try going with her? help her feel accompanied and cared for... as for the guy, well, it depends on your friend. is she kind enough to look out for others and tell him about this situation? good luck guys =] i hope this all turns out well in the end...
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ok my name is april and i am 15/f i have this one guy that i am really into and i would really like to get him to notice me.i mean we talk to each other but when i'm around him its hard for me to breathe and i dont know what to do.i really like him and i really need some help.he's a christian and he is a straight a student.but i need some help to get him to notice me.can u help me?please.
thanks
april
okay time for a serious answer hehe... if i were in this situation... i'd smile at him. =] smiles are the BEST way to grip a guy's attention. why? because he'll maybe start thinking "i wonder why she's smiling at me?"... and u also said you guys talk to eachother... well get to know him a little better. take deep breaths because i know you might get nervous.. but see what he's interested in... see if you guys have some stuff in common. and i'd def say ask him about church... get him to invite you or tell him you wanna go... if your his type im SURE he'll recognize he should give you a shot. good luck!!!!
flirty =]
i need help i dont have a very good grade in math and my dad used to be a math teacher and we fight about it every time i go to his house (my parents are divorced) and i just dont get it! could you help me on how to stay focused during class?! i dont sit by n e of my friends in that class so thats not the problem but im starting to make friends with the people around me i dont get in trouble for talking very much tho! just if you have any advice PLEASE any at all! help me!!
Thanks! =D
I think Most of us are bad when it comes to math hehe...first off your dad should be helping u at least because he's a math teacher...so... what i do is.. i take any notes the teacher writes on the board.. and organize it ...to see the steps clearly on how i got the answer... also talk to your math teacher...see if he/she offers maybe some afterschool tutoring... it doesnt necessarily have to be for HOURS... but ask him or her questions... last but not least.. if all else fails (which it should not), google!!! hehe i di it all the time... find sites that offer info on how to do certain things... good luck!!!!!
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Ok, well I don't have quite a gf yet but I just wanna know how things like one month anniversaries work and other stuff so I can teach my self to be a good bf for ehn i get a gf someday. So anyways what are one month anniversaries and how they work? Well that was my main question but I would also like to know other relationship stuff.
umm one month anniversary's are just when u make a month.. the same day yall started dating except one month later ... these can sometimes mean alot and girls love when a guy remembers because it shows you care... being in a relationship is based on trust... attraction.. you know? basically just be all that you can be.. im sure you will get it as soon as you have a girlfriend... you can also ASK her what she likes for guys to do in a relationship etc... most probably she'll say hugs and kisses... showing that you care for her... checking up to see if she;s okay... some girls like for you to be them gifts... especially on that one month anniversary... it all depends on the girl =] good luck!
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I kno the title sounds bad already.. but i met this guy he's the sweetest guy ever like he's perfect in every way and i think i fell in love with him. we had to stop seeing eachother because his ex girlfriend of 2 years came back to him so they tried again n it ended as soon as fast as it started and we recently started talking.. on the phone texting (he lives about an hour away) well now that his ex girlfriend's out of the picture and she's moving so she'll be farther away i think we were gonna try something again but now im worried he's got another girl behind my back.. i figured out they've been talkin on the phone.. hangin out.. he threw her a party.. and everything flirting obviously and idk what to do.. i dont want to confront him because then i seem "stalkerish" and "obsessed" which in reality im def. not like that. but i dont want to get hurt again. its been one of those we'll talk all day one day n he wont talk to me at all for the next 2.. and when he's not talkin to me im pretty sure he's talkin to her =/ please help i need advice!
hmm personal experiance im going on 17 and i went out with a guy who was 18 while i was 14... they tend to have manipulative ways...now... no offense if any1 takes offense to it but you have to realize it's kinda true. so i;d say BE CAREFUL dont lett him convince you into anything... etc... as far as this other girl... you know what.. dont chase guys... guys should be chasing after you. you dont deserve to be after some1 you feel me? i know it sounds selfish but its true. he should be chasing you as well.. if you're Zseriouis bout having a relationship with him, then do confront him.. but beware some states dont allow this kind of dating and can be considered Statutory rape. good luck =]
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I finally realized sumtin, I'm in love with my friend, I think abt her all da time, I like always being near her, jus to stare in those eyes makes me smile, so bad I jus wanna kiss those lips of hers, making her laugh is da best part if my day, da only problem is she dsnt feel da same for me, I've told her I liked her once before, but she told me she dsnt see her self wit a guy like me, she's gone thru bad relationships before and she dsnt trus guys as much, I jus really wanna show her not everyone is an asshole sum guys are still gd, sum like me, wut can I do? And thank u in advance
hmm...im guessin you're the same guy from bfore but thats none of my business. anywhoo i cant say much...to be honest...if she doesnt wanna be with you then you cant do much...im sure you're probably thinking bout those situations where th guy does anything and everything and th girl FINALLY falls in love with him...well...that doesnt always happen. jus appreciate her as a friend...because being persistent isnt sometimes always the best thing to do... good luck
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I have recently broke up with my boyfriend. However, I think it was wrong. I thought that I did love him the way he loved me, but now that we are not dating, I am realizing that I did care about him a lot. I don't know if he will understand and let me back into his life again in the same way as we had before. What do I do? Do I even have a chance of getting him back? Or is it over for good? Help me please
im going thru the same thing... my advice...talk to him.. if this is the first time it happened in the relationhip, talk to him before he does somethng stupid and goes looking for someone else due to his anger and hurt. plz, jus tell him. but be sure about what you feel, because then he'l just think you;re messing with his head. good luck mama
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how do you make a video on youtube?
of just pictures & music?
windows media maker. it should already be on your computer. ^_^ let me know how it goes
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Hey i have a question I have a boyfriend and i really like him and stuff!! But i get shy around him and don't talk to him i want to go up with friends! and talk! Now he said why i don't be hagging out with him and how i act like we don't go out how do i overcome my shyness and be confortable around him??? help
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Thanks lots :]
hello! =] well, everyone is shy when it comes to being with their boyfriend. how long have you been with him. trust me when i say, it takes time. when you rush into things, things can get akward.. but here are some tips to overcome your shyness..
- possibly tell him how you feel. if he gets mad, jus tell him, "im shy..im sorry...you know how i feel about you.. i care for you alot.. i jus gotta overcome my shyness"/ ( i hope he's the type to understand).
- make sure its not a one way street. where you're doing all the work. relationships are 50/50..
- make ure he's the type you wanna be with. not jus because he's a pretty guy or blah blah. he should be trying to make you feel comfortable, and not taking advantage of that ^_^
- communication is the key.. so do what eases you. if you have to laugh with him to be able to loosen up and talk, be funny. as long as you know ways to break the ice, you'll be fine.
- last but not least, let him help you. like i said in my first bullet, u gotta tell him whats going on if he doesnt notice. tell him how to help you. in order to make you more comfortable, do you want him to make you laugh? or maybe not touch you alot? etc etc..
being in a relationship is about making your partner happy. but you MUST put yourself first at times.. good luck and feel free to msg me ^_^ hope i helped!!
flirty =]
how to get on myspace when at school
try www.btunnel.com ^_^ go0d luck
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hi there,
I am currently doing a survey for my college and would like to ask this question on advicenators
Would you as a girl,confess to guy about your feelings first? or would you prefer for the guy to do it?
and why would you prefer the guy or yourself to say it first?
this is in context of assuming that you both are great friends,mutual friends or strangers,,you can reply based on any situation.thanks again!
hi :).
well, i as a girl personaly like the guy to say his feelings first.. no matter if we're friends or strangers etc... i do tell a guy i like him first if i feel comfortable enough and im sure that he's not a jerk. why would i want a guy to say it first? i wouldn't want to feel like im the only one feeling something. not all guys, but most guys tend to keep feelings inside them, and not show them... whereas if a guy REALLY likes a girl and shares hi feelings, im 100% sure i;d give him a striaght and clear answer... hope i helped!
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i have a boyfriend who i love soo much and he says he loves me too. he told me he was in love with me but i dont think hes mature enough to be in a serious relationship because he never makes time for me. i told him im moving though and it seems like we have been having problems since then. i guess he could possibly be distancing himself? idk but he has the wrong ideas about how to have a relationship anyway.
ok so my question is he keeps letting me down becauase i keep saying i want to talk and work this out and this has been going on since Saturday! and he hasnt made time. he keeps saying tom we will, tom. but nothing is happening. i was going to just break up with him but first off i dont know what i would do without him-he has been my best friend for 2 years and my bf for 3 months. but my mom says to wait another weakto see what he does and that i should just be casual and not keep getting upset and just act like everything is ok and find out who he really is and what he going to do about everything. i keep waiting for him to show me he cares like he said he would but he isnt. should i wait another weak and not get mad at him (my mom thinks being upset at him probably makes him not want to talk to him-i dont yell at him or anything but my mom says im a lot of drama) the thing is idk if i could go another weak because watching him let me down over and over is just tearing me up. my heart is breaking because i put so much into the relationship that he apparently doesnt. and he doesnt want to change things so he has more time for me because i know he has time but he says he gives me all the time he can. he always calls and then is like i have to go do hw after talking for a while. sometimes 15 minutes sometimes an hour. but he gets home and doesnt do hw until after dinner or does hw but watches tv first and during his hw. i mkae time for him but he doesnt for me. i love him and we had such a great relationship. i put so much of me into that and gave him my heart. now im afraid hes breaking it and dont know what to do.
Bottom line: should i stay with him for another week and act nice and see if he reaches my expectations or break up with him so i wont keep getting hurt more and more.
also how do you tell yourself to stop caring because my mom said nxt week to just say idc if he calls or not w/e then hes not for me. but i cant not take offense to him not calling or not showing me he cares. and im moving in 2 months!! i just wanted our relationship to go until then! he still wants to date but im done i cant do this anymore. please help me im desperate. and i will rate for your help
hello :) i agree is teen girls go through this alot.
if you;ve talked to him about how you feel, your concern over his probably 'distancing' himself, then give him some time to see if he changes. if he said he was gunna change and its been more than 2 or 3 weeks obviously he's not gunna change. im sorry, but i dont think u shud be crying for him, and putting in more than half the work when the guy shud be doing this. and as far as what your mom said...shes right! there are SO many gys out there, some better some worse. and if he's not willing to appreciate how much of a girlfriend he has then its time to kick him to the curb. not many girls will be doing this (chasing them and trying to keep the relatiomnship together) for so long.. you gave him an ultimatum??? if you didnt i suggest you do.. good luck and i REALLY hope you find a great guy, remember, its better to love sum1 for how they treat you than how they look...
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I am the shyest person in dis world, and because of it I've neva been able 2 ask a girl out,its easy 4 me to make friends wit dem but wen it cmes 2 askin dem out I get toung tied,I've recently broken up wit my first girlfriend, she said she didn't love me anymore witch herts like hell, to be honest I have a selfesteem problem, I feel dat no one likes me as more den a friend, dis is basically anotha prt to my otha problem I sent u (the feelings 4 a friend) soo many friends, and yet I feel so alone
this happens to the best of us... to be honest i suggest forget the girls for now. you were born alone and you will die by yourself i doubt sum1 will die right alongside with you at the same time... not to sound harsh jus reality. learn to love yourself. what are the good things? focus on positive things... and work on what you think is swcrewin u over. for example, if you think its weight, looks, etc u can work on em. might not look perfect but as long as you're comfortable with yourself its all that matters...
hi im a 17yr old frm da bx and i have dis friend who i really like, but she dsnt seem 2 feel da same abt me,ive allways been der 4 her wen she had a problem,everytime im near her she always seems 2 make me smile and wen im away frm her shes all i think abt, ive always hoped 4 a chance wit her, but i doubt she cud see herself wit a guy like me, wut shud i do?
hey thanks for askin in my inbox. well sweetie, if she's already told you she cant see herself with you then leave it alone but if she didnt say that then keep trying. to be honest girls dont like a guy they dont like to be persistent... g0od luck, bcause u will find sum1 soon if she's not willing to give u a chance.
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can a fat girl wear skinny jeans?
in my opinion yes! im chubby, meaning im not obese but im not skinyy. i own like 5 pairs of skinny jeans and i get SO many compliments...more than skiny girls do it jus depends what color and what you wear them with. anyone can wear anythinq, its a free country :P
Does anyone know where I can get an ear-ed hoodie? I've checked every store around here, and they don't have them. So any website I can order them off of?
well, i dont know if this is what you mean but if you mean hoodies with ears lol then this site has a couple
http://www.emilystrange.com/beware/buyorDIE.cfm?i=6134
hope i helped =]
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what are some sites for driving games??
[free]
http://drift.ijji.com/
great game. you have to make an account (free) and download the game onto ur comp. but its worth it :)