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I need help !!!!!!
Hey i have a question I have a boyfriend and i really like him and stuff!! But i get shy around him and don't talk to him i want to go up with friends! and talk! Now he said why i don't be hagging out with him and how i act like we don't go out how do i overcome my shyness and be confortable around him??? help
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Thanks lots :]
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hello! =] well, everyone is shy when it comes to being with their boyfriend. how long have you been with him. trust me when i say, it takes time. when you rush into things, things can get akward.. but here are some tips to overcome your shyness..
- possibly tell him how you feel. if he gets mad, jus tell him, "im shy..im sorry...you know how i feel about you.. i care for you alot.. i jus gotta overcome my shyness"/ ( i hope he's the type to understand).
- make sure its not a one way street. where you're doing all the work. relationships are 50/50..
- make ure he's the type you wanna be with. not jus because he's a pretty guy or blah blah. he should be trying to make you feel comfortable, and not taking advantage of that ^_^
- communication is the key.. so do what eases you. if you have to laugh with him to be able to loosen up and talk, be funny. as long as you know ways to break the ice, you'll be fine.
- last but not least, let him help you. like i said in my first bullet, u gotta tell him whats going on if he doesnt notice. tell him how to help you. in order to make you more comfortable, do you want him to make you laugh? or maybe not touch you alot? etc etc..
being in a relationship is about making your partner happy. but you MUST put yourself first at times.. good luck and feel free to msg me ^_^ hope i helped!!
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