I have recently broke up with my boyfriend. However, I think it was wrong. I thought that I did love him the way he loved me, but now that we are not dating, I am realizing that I did care about him a lot. I don't know if he will understand and let me back into his life again in the same way as we had before. What do I do? Do I even have a chance of getting him back? Or is it over for good? Help me please
wish1234 answered Sunday April 20 2008, 4:58 pm: i understand what your going threw. i went threw the same thing. i broke up with my boyfriend. then i wanted him back. my advice is to sit down with your boyfriend and talk to him, tell him how you feel, tell him your sorry, and have a nice talk with him. hopefuly you two will work out in the end, always remeber never throw something away you care about. i hope i helped :] [ wish1234's advice column | Ask wish1234 A Question ]
stella07 answered Sunday April 20 2008, 1:09 pm: the saying 'you dont know what you had until its gone' is so true isnt it?
we all make mistakes. and im glad that you realized that you had made one, and that your wanting to fix it.
the only thing i can tell you is to get together with him and talk about it. tell him how sorry you are and that this decision wasnt what you really wanted. try to ask for his forgivness and if he really does care about you, he WILL forgive you.
it looks like your not ready to let him go, so you need to do everything to make sure that doesnt happen.
when you really care about someone, never ever let them get away.
cloudy_conscience answered Sunday April 20 2008, 12:30 pm: The best thing for you to do is talk to him about it. Let him know that you made a mistake and that you now know how much he really means to you. He may be really hurt by the fact that you broke up with him though, so he may not respond right away of ever. If he can't handle it at first then you should just give him some space and you may have to think about the fact that he may never be able to get over it and you may not get him back. Sorry to be blunt. I really hope you do because it stinks to lose someone you love.
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