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i did my flute for 30 full minutes... i practiced everything imaginable and the deal is that if i do 30 mins of flute i get 15 mins online... i thought i was making my dad happy by actually practicing for 30 mins so when i came home i was told him and he was like well get off line and go running! and i was like no i just practiced and he was like im disconnecting IM because you don't do anything else! whatever i do isn't enough for him!!!!!! never!!!!!!!! ever!!!!!!!!!!! nd my dad has to read my stupid conversations online... i have no privacy!!!!!!! i can't take it anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im ccrying right in front this stupid computer!! i absolutely positivly hate everything! there is no talking to him so thats not an option.. no one can talk to him... please help... i rate 5's

WOW...it sounds like he cares about you a lot. maybe he didnt do oh so well in school and he screwed up his life? I'm not sure I'm not you. He probably doesn't want you to fail and get left back or something, I know my parents are the same. I'll come home go on-line for a few then watch TV and go on right before they come home and they see me on. Thinking I've been on for 2 hours when I was doing homework, watching TV, talking on the phone or outside with friends and etc. You may get the point I'm saying? I'm always getting kicked off to go do something as well..and that doesnt sound fair your practice your butt off for 30 minutes and your get 15 minutes on-line you should get 30 minutes/30 minutes not 30 minutes/15 minutes...that isnt fair. Talk to him and tell him how you feel.

Good Luck

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okay, I just got a new sn AIM, I didnt redownload it or anything, just a new sn and for some reason on my buddy list on the left, it shows a column with links i can click on such as " Radio" " My photos" "greetings" "IM Robots" "Video IM" is there a way to get rid of this? because on my other buddly list it doesnt do this... if you want me to send you a picture of what it looks like just e-mail me on here andill give you my SN, thanks :) * I rate 5's*

The reason why this is happening on your new screen then your old one is because your old one wasn't made after you upgraded.

Just go to setup and close useful tools


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how do you know if someones telling the truth, or living a completly different life then they lead you to belive??

they move their eyes a lot and take a long time to respond.

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Okay.. one of my best friends is going out with this one guy who has an identical twin. We always thought it would be cool if i went out with my friend's boyfriend's twin.. so we were hanging out one day and started to make-out and whenever i opened my eyes or think about it, it seemed like i was kissing her boyfriend because they are identical.. its really wierd..lol..what should i do!?

try to talk yourself into thinking its the twin. maybe try and find out whats different from them. such like mary kate and ashley there identical but one writes with her left hand and the other writes with her right hand. maybe there is a mark or something or a scar u can figure out the difference.

just keep looking and good luck

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When I'm turning and acclerating I hear this clunk sound from the engine and the rpm's drop(low) and it takes me forever to get into second gear. After second my car acts normal. This only happens on wet/snowy roads. What's the problem?

I agree with xO.Carrie. It could mean the wheel and axle are frozen and or stiff so it makes it harder to turn. I`m not sure though because i`m not a mechanic but i suggest you get it checked out.

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When I sit down I have this dot thing on my leg like a dimple kind of. What is it and why is it there how do i get it off?

um...ask your doctor or an adult? im not sure sorry

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tomorrow i take gym with 10th graders, im in 9th. and its going to suck!! we have uniforms so i HAVE to wear shorts, and i hate my body im just overweight and i know im going to get picked on and people are going to think that i suck at all sports. what should i do if they get o0n my case?

inorge them! im in 9th grade and im mixed in with 10th grade girls as well...and now that im in volleyball in gym were mixed in co-ed with the 9th and 10th grade boys as well...so yeahh it does suck you just have to pretend there not there!!

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ok i am 14 and i get my truck in a year...how much money is the down payment on a dodge ram quad cab?

oh I was gonna say, how the heck are you going to by a truck at 14?! Well depends of your dealer I think. Look up the number in the phone book and call them up and see what they say. Not sure sorry.

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when someone calls you on your cell phone and it says "ID restricted" is there any way to find out who it is? cause sometimes i get prank calls. Like if you called the operator would they tell you.

Call your telephone company and you can find out. My friend does it me all the time he'll prank call and he'll block his number when he does it and I don't even bother answering the phone since I know it's him though I don't have caller ID.

Some people just don't have any lives in this world and they decided to harass people its just plain pathetic!

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does any one know where to buy the vanessa carlton tickets? i cant find them any where.. and she is coming in a month! please help!

www.ticketmaster.com should have them if not try her site, thats what i did for Green Day.

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i'm looking for an individual colomist to ask a question does anyone recomend a colomist or two?

depends what are your looking to ask them?
I'm pretty good on questions, even hard ones. Why not just ask me. I'll try and help the best I can.

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i used 2 always see matthew in school and hes always stare at me and smile. then i met him and he was friends with my boyfriend and whenever my boyfriend would go to the bathroom matthew would say mike if i was you i wouldnt get up your girls kind of cute i wanna sit with her..so it was sort of weird.. all the time in school he always says hi to me and yesterday i was in lunch and hes in the same one but i was walkin out of the caf to go to the bathroom and he was walkin in and like hugged my hips with like one hand and was like hey beautiful where are u going.. then later i was walkin by and he said hey and i said hi and kept walking and he was like how come you always walk away from me? so i stayed and he was like call me tonight if you want to hangout.. do u think he lykes me

sounds much like it

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you told me maybe you should ask him but ..i already did and he said that he trys but he doesnt? i have no idea what to do. and he tells me all this personal stuff and tells me only me and his last crush nows about it. i dont kno what this means and since u seem to have the same problem i wanted to see what you have to say thankS!!

ehh, you seem like your my twin or a clone of me lol. one of my guy friends used to do the same, like for example his dad had brain cancer and he only told a few people such like me, since he knew I would be there to help him and all. Then my other guy friend tells me stuff that either only one person knows or I just know such like who he likes and stuff, and that he writes poetry and all which only I know that he does.

I know when it comes to being on-line everyone is more open then in person.

I also know its hard to trust many people these days. May he feels like he can trust you or something not like many people he knows.

I'm not sure if I gave you the answer you wanted, but I gave my best shot

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Okay well usually at night at like 12:30 or 1 in the morning on fridays or saturdays i walk to see my boyfriend cause thats like the only way i get to see him..cause he's not really suppose to be any females.. but like i been doing this for 7 months.. and last night i got caught by the cops for curfew i was salty as hell... and my mom didnt really care that i went out that late but she thought i was driving round with friends not walkin the streets but i guess if i was her i'd be mad too cause i live in a bad neighborhood.. but anyways like i said thats the only way i'd get to see my boyfriend and i wanted to be with him really bad last night cause my birthday and valentines day is on monday and i wont see him there... so i keep worryin to like what if we dont see eachother? he said he wouldnt break up with me.. but im like a big worrier.. so i need advice on what you think do you think i should chance it tonight and try and see him.. i mean i know no guy is worth goin to jail for or anything.. but i jus wanna be with him more then anybody.. and i've had problems at home and like i can only talk to him and i feel like i need to..and i like talkin to him in person instead cause he comforts me more then talkin on the phone..Much luv i rate high and sorry so long

Your right, I'm glad your understand that no guy is worth getting put in jail for. See if you can meet at the mall or a resturant or a nearby park. To talk to him. I don't get why he would break up with you because you were taking a high risk at the first place to be walking in the middle of the night on the weekends in a bad neighborhood all alone, though he didn't do it to see you.

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Happy 2 days early Birthday!

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This kid in my school asked me to this party and I turned him down because i knew no one would dance. I want to know if he still likes me but i'm scared to ask. What do i do??

Why did you turn him down? So what you don't have to dance its a great way to get to know him. Ask him if he still wants to go and say Your sorry and that you'll go with him. It gives you both a chance to find out what the other person is like.

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ive been talking to this kid on the comp and hes been sending me mixed signals. i go to school and he doenst talk 2 me but as soon as i sign on there is his s/n saying hey to me.One time he even decided that i should call him. i talk to him everyday on the comp but never at school! what should i do?! iam so lost PLEASE HELP I RATE!

I agree with xxSammiWammi. It sounds like he really likes you, but he's too shy to talk to you at school. If you like him its YOUR job to chat it up with him since he's shy. Alot of guys feel uncomfortable talking with girls they like in person so they rely on the internet to talk because its much easier. Ask him why he never talks to you in school, maybe he'll even tell you he IS shy!

I have the same problem actually. I know its so confusing. Most guys are monkey butts!! lol

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alright i am a 13 year old male and i am friends with this one girl. She already has a boyfriend but he goes to a different skool and she doesn't really get to talk to him. And i like the girl sooo much... What should i do ask her out??

I say go for it, nothing can happen inless someone says something first.

Good Luck

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i got a new haircut..yikes!! and i HATE it..i was just wondering, does anybody know the average length your hair grows per month??

thanx..

I'm not sure my friends hair grew like 5 inches in a year or whatever. I'll look into it for you, because I'm curious as well as you are.

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please help me. my ex-boyfriend, who i just broke up with yesterday, is now all of a sudden going out with my best friend!! i have no idea what to do, any advice?

talk to your BFF, a BFF shouldn't go out with her BFF's ex BF! if not that she isn't a true friend. Best friends become before Boy Friends! If not they aren't a true friend. Friends (and friends feelings) should come 1st before any guy, it's the wrongs to betray a friend and go out with her ex.

I'm sorry you got hurt like this.

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i have a best friend and my best friend likes this guy but i like him 2 but she dosent no i do. what do i do? if i like him and he likes me i dont no if she would be mad.

whats comes first or what's important a best friend or a boy friend?

(i just relized as if u say what comes 1st if u noticed best comes before boy in the alaphebet as if thats some kind of clue)

if you where a good best friend you would know what to do, and that you wouldn't need to ask someone


-sry i know thats a lil sucky on answering i tried my best-

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