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i did my flute for 30 full minutes... i practiced everything imaginable and the deal is that if i do 30 mins of flute i get 15 mins online... i thought i was making my dad happy by actually practicing for 30 mins so when i came home i was told him and he was like well get off line and go running! and i was like no i just practiced and he was like im disconnecting IM because you don't do anything else! whatever i do isn't enough for him!!!!!! never!!!!!!!! ever!!!!!!!!!!! nd my dad has to read my stupid conversations online... i have no privacy!!!!!!! i can't take it anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im ccrying right in front this stupid computer!! i absolutely positivly hate everything! there is no talking to him so thats not an option.. no one can talk to him... please help... i rate 5's
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tell your dad how u feel, let him know wat he is doing.
tell him u practice if he doesnt listen tell him you r serious.
you could tell sum1 else wat your dad is doing.
hope i helped!!
`~*Dani*~`
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Talk to your dad about this. Maybe you can agree on a deal, like if you get a certain amount of hours on the computer and then a certain amont of time that you have to practice flute.
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Do this, call him an ass face as he watches you matter of fact i want you to forward this message to him.
Dear asshole dad,
Your scum, you give noone privacy and sound like your boring as hell. Cant you let a kid have some fun? Obviously you had no fun when you were a child therefor dont understand the meaning. You are a piece of crap shined and cleaned from head to toe. A walking talking nuicense. Let someone have fun, instead of being bored, dont break promises you look like even more off an idiot like that.
There you go, show this too him.
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Omg, My dad is JUST like that! Heres the thing, sometimes you just gotta...you know, get off of the computer. Hang out with your friends outside, play some basketball or any other sport you play, watch a movie, anything besides the computer. Try to limit your time and stuff, and it'll make your dad happy. Trust me, I know exactly how you feel. Except, I dont play the flute, I play the viola ;] anyway, I hope I helped.
xoxo Nikki Anne xoxo
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Well, if you can't talk to him in person, then you definitely need to write him a letter. In this letter, explain to him that you always do what you are told and you don't deserve to be punished by having your dad invading your privacy by reading your IMs. Also, tell him that you deserve to have more online time, since you practice your flute for 30 minutes and that is a long time. You need to explain that you need your privacy and that your dad shouldn't make you cry, just because he is reading your IMs. Once you've finished your letter, put it where he can find it like in his car, on his seat, or on your parent's bed. My friend was in the same situation as you are in and she did this. When her dad found the note, he actually knew that what he was doing was wrong and he changed for the better. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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WOW...it sounds like he cares about you a lot. maybe he didnt do oh so well in school and he screwed up his life? I'm not sure I'm not you. He probably doesn't want you to fail and get left back or something, I know my parents are the same. I'll come home go on-line for a few then watch TV and go on right before they come home and they see me on. Thinking I've been on for 2 hours when I was doing homework, watching TV, talking on the phone or outside with friends and etc. You may get the point I'm saying? I'm always getting kicked off to go do something as well..and that doesnt sound fair your practice your butt off for 30 minutes and your get 15 minutes on-line you should get 30 minutes/30 minutes not 30 minutes/15 minutes...that isnt fair. Talk to him and tell him how you feel.
Good Luck
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That totally sucks. Your Dad probably cares a lot about you and wants to have the satisfaction of being a good dad by telling you what to do and stuff. This is what you should do, write a really long letter explaining everything to him though, put it like somewheres he can find it and go to a friends house that day when you do that so that he reads it while your not there. Also if he doesnt cool off after that schedule a meeting between you and your dad with the school counselor.
~Brina~
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well i hope you can read this... if your not disconnected already. lol. but why dont you talk to your dad and tell him that you go on aim to talk to your friends and that your did what he said (practicing the flute)OR if he disconnects aim you can go on aim express, you dont have to download it at all you can get it off the aol website or go on google and search aim express... good luck
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My best friends dad is just th same! She told me that all you have to do is to inore him but act like your lisening. Or you could be like dad if i run every week and (something else ex. clean room) will I be able able to have im back and i will (if you dont want to this then you dont have to) only saty on for 3-5 hours a day (you choose more or less). Hope I Helped
x0x morgan
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