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♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]

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Okay, so im going on a nd missions trip to central america for two weeks and i have no clue what to bring. see i have a list for what i need to bring, but im a little lost about like what kind of clothes and extra stuff. so if you could help me id really appriceate it, thanks!

First, google information about Central America and what place your going too. It should tell you what the temperatures are and stuff. Your mostly likely going to want to wear capris-shorts & t-shirts. Have fun! ♥

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I am a good person. I really am--yet I have so little. However, a person I know is conceited and they are just NOT NICE--yet they have EVERYTHING handed to them. Seriously, any car, any clothes, ANYTHING. How come good people get nothing good in return but RUDE PEOPLE get EVERYTHING. Why? I am treated like CRAP every single day and I'm always compared to this person..and i'm not even close.

I know how you feel. When people are handed things like that think of it as "money can`t buy love" i hate the fact people get things thrown at them and don`t appreciate it. I guess it`s life when good people get nothing in return. When people start comparing you to other people, yell at them. You are who you are and some people will love you for it. ♥

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okay its always been hard for me to share my feelings and especially now with my boyfriend.he went on a trip and drank alot and then said once he came home he would stop drinking..well last night (hes been back for a few days) he was like "i drank too much vodka"....it pissed me off that he lied but i didnt wanna tell him that cause i dont wanna sound like a drama queen. whenever i tell him he made me feel bad he says"if i make u feel so bad all the time then why are u with me"and whenever i say im in a good mood when he thinks im mad at him, he insists im mad at him. THEN he gets mad cause he says i dont tell him things! but when i do he gets mad! what should i do?

He`s a jerk. He obviously doesn`t have alot of respect for you to not drink. Try to set him straight, let him know how exactly you feel about things. If he`s still a jerk, leave him. ♥

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1) can you really contact the police if someone's hacked your msn? Or is it just an empty threat that people say in hope they'll get it back?
2) If you can, what will they do to find out who it is, can they really do that?
3) what will they do to the person who's guilty of the "crime"?

4)what would be a smart thing to send your hacker to scare him/her and get your account back??

no i don`t think the police can do anything about it. but if you google it im sure you`ll be able to find w/e you need to do. it has happend to me before but with aim. you can report the hacker if you know who it is and the website can try to get rid of them. i tried reporting the hacker and nothing ever happend. =/ you can try to report them but they will try to get rid of them. and for your 4th question- my hacker threatned to put some code in my computer to blow up/burn my harddrive. you can try to do that but they might be able to do that if it`s even possible. =/ i hope you can work it out. lemme know how things go. ♥

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OK so i have this freind mary and she has a younger brother johnny who is only one year younger.mary and johnny are really close and he's lik a brother to me and our other friends. So me, mary, and our other friend camila are best friends. One day back in january camila confided in me that she likes johnny. So camila and johnny started going out but tried to hide it from mary. That didn't work and mary was really pissed at first but got over it. So in the lik 6 1/2 months that they've been going out they've never actually gone out. They only see eachother at dances and don't even act like they're going out. So now johnny wants to go to the movies with camila and her friend except camila's frend is johnny's sister!!! So if mary goes it's rlly awkward and if camila doesnt invite her she'll feel bad. I told camila gently that she needs to break up with him but she doesnt want to. I need help!!

Mary`s just watching out for her younger brother. But she can`t control who he can date or if your friend can date him. If they really like eachother then they should tell Mary the truth. Tell Camila that she should just tell Johnny she wants it to be just the two of them. Hope things work out for them. ♥

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lately i have been getting small red dots all over my face, there not pimples because i dont get them on my face and i only get them on my forehead.. does anyone know what this is?

If you have bangs or hair covering your face, the grease from your hair will get in your pores and break out. Also because it`s summer you sweat and it`s probally heat rash. If it doesn`t go away after awhile go to a dermatologist. Hope this helps. ♥

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Ok when i was on a cruise there was this sickness and my mom got it and we were in the same room and now after about four months i have been feeling like im gonna be sick all the time and i don't know what to do.

You should really go to the doctors. Hope you feel better. ♥

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The back of my legs and my butt are big but nothing else? Does anyone know how to tone these areas fast?

Sitting up against a wall for along period of time (really helps those muscles.), running, jogging, walking, laying down on your side and lifting up in the air then rotate with the other leg, running up and downstairs. Hope this helps. :) ♥

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I'm a competative cheerleader, and I'm really bored. Hah, so I wanted to look at some websites of other gyms, and All-Star squads around the nation to pass the time. Could I get some links to yall`s gym's sites? kthnkx =]

Try googleing it? ♥

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ok so i heard that you can get into someones myspace without knowing there password, can someone tell me how cause someone went into mine and i didnt use my right email address and i NEED to get in! so please help

Um I really don`t think you can. They could have guessed your password or clicked the link that says forgot my password? and got on your email for it and found out the password. If you don`t know the email then you probally can`t get into it. Whatever email is signed up on the myspace homepage you originally sign in on will be that email. Hope this helps. Sorry. ♥

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I heard that after 3 years of going through your period, you stop growing. Is that true? I also want to know if there are any possibilities of still getting taller, because I'm a bit shorter than average height, but still want to become taller. What can I do to become more taller?

No that`s not true! You stop growing when your 18. Nothing can help, your body just grows as you get older. ♥

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what is the legal consent age for sex? some people say tis 16 and some say its 18. which one is it?

Probally 18 since your legal. ♥

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does my boyfriend love me?

Ask him. ♥

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Who sings it & what's the name of this song: (I only know SOME lyrics) jane says na na na na na na im done with sergio.. he treats me like a ragdoll..THNX!

Jane Says By: Janes Addiction ♥

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Who sings this song/ whats the name of it: her name was lola, she was a showgirl, with yellow feathers in her hair, and a dress cut down to there, and more.. i dunno .. anybody know?

Barry Manilow - Copacabana :) ♥

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I wanna become friends with some of the more popular kids at my school so I can go to some of their crazy parties. I can be really shy so I don`t know how I should go about doing it. If I leave a myspace comment on anything of theirs, I often don`t get anything back.

don`t push yourself right away towards, first ask them simple things like how they are doing. don`t use them for parties either cause that`s mean. if you become friends first they will like you back and hang out. ♥

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I'm 19 years old and I started dating a 25 year old man. When we had sex for the first time, he suddenly said he had to go to pee. When he came back he didn't feel like having sex anymore.
Is it really possible that a man can feel an urge to urinate while making love? I'm afraid it was just an exuse because something was not ok. Please help me.

Ask him and talk to him. He might have had to go pee really bad and maybe he didn`t go before. I don`t know what else to say, just try to talk to him he should tell you. ♥

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well ive been a christian since i was 7 but for the past year ive barely even prayed and i dont feel a connection with God..everytime i do pray i just ask for him to forgive my sins because im afraid if i died right now i'd go to hell..no matter what i do i cant seem to get it right and so lately ive just been putting it off but thats not right. how do i start to feel a connection to God again and stop feeling so empty spirutually?

I had that problem too and i`m starting to do it again. First start going to church. Read the bible. Listen to Christian Music. Find friends and family to talk with you and such. ♥

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well everyone always says guys love when girls have confidence and they get turned off by selfconcious girls..well im really selfconcious and i have confidence about my personality but not looks-wise and sometimes i accidentally complain about my looks to my boyfriend..or he ll catch me looking at my reflection in any kind of object that shows it..im afraid he might break up with me because guys want girls to have confidence and i think it bothers him alot! how do i stop being so selfconcious and show him that my confidence is growing?(if it does)

It does bother him because he loves you for who you are, not what you look like. Start wearing make up, get your nails done, get new clothes, ect. Once you start doing things that make you feel prettier or hotter you`ll seem more confident and it should work. Don`t change yourself too much because then he will no your only doing this for him and not yourself. ♥

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My girlfriend and I had sex for about 30 seconds, i had not been masturbating previously, and i did not ejaculate inside her. we were both virgins and we did not use protection, but she is worried that she may be pregnant, her discharge is a darker shade than usual.
Is she pregnant?

She most likely isn`t but she should go to a gyno because she might be having an infection causing her discharge to be a darker shade. If your still scared she might be pregnant, have her take a pregnancy test. Always use protection. ♥

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