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its hard for me to tell my bf if im mad, etc.
okay its always been hard for me to share my feelings and especially now with my boyfriend.he went on a trip and drank alot and then said once he came home he would stop drinking..well last night (hes been back for a few days) he was like "i drank too much vodka"....it pissed me off that he lied but i didnt wanna tell him that cause i dont wanna sound like a drama queen. whenever i tell him he made me feel bad he says"if i make u feel so bad all the time then why are u with me"and whenever i say im in a good mood when he thinks im mad at him, he insists im mad at him. THEN he gets mad cause he says i dont tell him things! but when i do he gets mad! what should i do?
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you cant really change men. it just makes them mad. so, you can either live with drinking or you cant. if you cant you have to leave him. if you can then dont nag him about it. oh, and try to share your feelings with him at a moment when he's sober.
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If you can explain this cycle to us then you should explain it to him tell him what you just told me
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He`s a jerk. He obviously doesn`t have alot of respect for you to not drink. Try to set him straight, let him know how exactly you feel about things. If he`s still a jerk, leave him. ♥
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