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Hi im 13 and i need help. I feel bad every time my techer says get into groups or get into parners. no one will ever be paners with me. I have alot of friends but none of them are in my group. i Have one friend in my group but she always volenteers to work alone.(we have an odd numder of kids)I end up being patners with geeks or freaks or babys. basily kids i dont want to be parners with.
Note: please dont say be yourself (i am/was.)
F/13
From:Dork girl (link)
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Hun, if your so close-minded as to not like people based on thier popularity ("I end up being patners with geeks or freaks or babys. basily kids i dont want to be parners with.") How can you expect other people to? Tell your frined that you want to work with her, ahe may think you'd rather work with the other people.
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Can anyone give me some fun websites to get quizzes and internet games from? I rate high for good sites. (link)
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there's a wonderful collection of sites on bored.com, and less commercial stuff on newgrounds.com (newgrounds has some squicky stuff though, so be careful!!)
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Ok,I didn't know what category to put this question under, but I guess that doesn't really matter right now. My life is falling apart.
My parents are getting a divorce, because my older half sister and nephew (they're in rehab) are planning on moving in with us (she'd take my car and my room) and my mom doesn't want her to. My Dad feels it's his duty as her father. They'd already been having problems, and my mother's set of parents (my last set of grandparents) are dying, and she'd been really depressed lately. My mom decided the best way to get over it is to leave and go to Washington. None of us know exactly where.
So now, in since my Dad is in Michigan a lot, for his job, it is up to me to run a whole house-hold (cooking, cleaning, shopping, EVERYTHING!) and go to school. I have 4 little brothers and sisters (ages; 11, 8, 6 and 5)... On top of this, I have a job at a hospital, and am picked up by my uncle every day at 6:30 so I can work for two hours. I also realize that I'm very depressed, and have been ever since my ex dumped me two years ago. I can't seem to get over him, and if I even try to date anyone else, I always find some reason to dump them.. please help me.. somehow.. I know it's long.. I'm so sorry.. (link)
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honey, you gotta find a bright side, and something you really LOVE to do in your spare time, if you still live with parents, try to get them to help out. I know this is tough, but there's a light at the end of the tunnel!!!
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as a 14 year old girl are you suppose to shave your pubes? (link)
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well, I don't think there's anything stopping you, unless you're involved in a freaky religious thing... But I really don't sugest it, unless there's a real reason to (other than you just have an impulse to) cuz when it starts growing back, it'll burn like hell and be really itchy.
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OK well, it's abit silly but I kissed my boyfriend for the first time a few days ago and was kinda' surprised when he went straight into frenching! It was my first time kissing properly so I was just expecting a lip kiss or whatever, but he kinda slipped his tongue in somehow... and I was like... ah no? I didn't really want to go that far + it kinda grossed me out! so I sort of pulled away... He said he was okay with waiting until I'm more comfortable kissing him, but I would just rather stick to lip kissing for now! How should I deal with this? I'm not sure how to phrase it right... It was his first time kissing aswell... any help muchly appreciated! (link)
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I think he said he'd wait, so like, what's the problem?
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wat works better neutragena rapid acne spot treatment (the 8 hour one) or clearasil ?
thanks 4 da help =] (link)
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Depends on what you want from your facewash, if you're looking for acne controll, I'd go for neutrogena, if you just want a gentle cleaner, use clearasil.
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I need someone who is a vet/and or can help me.
I have 3 sick kittens coming to my house that need treatment for these problems -
Upper respitory infection
fleas *
eye infection *
possible earmites
My mother can treat ones with * next to them since she is a vet tec. No animal hospitals are open at this time and the SPCA wont take them in since they are too much to handle/care for. I dont need sarcastic remarks this seoncd and if your any help at all, I will give you a 5. Thank you, meg (link)
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I'm afraid you'll have to wait untill a animal hospital is open and take them later, make an appointment.
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how does birth control work? should the guy still have a condom on if your on birth control? and how much does birth control cost? (link)
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er, I don't know much, but YES, the guy should DEFINATELY still use a condom, birth controll does not protect you from STDs, and birth controll isn't 100% effective either. I think it does something to the hormones in your body that allow you to prouduce eggs or something... I dunno.
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ok my period isnt completely regular..sometimes i would get it on the same day a month later..other times i would get it 5 days after i started it the previous month. (that was the case for this month) I have an important party in exactly a month and i reeeally dont want to be on my period then..i hear stress and weight loss can delay you..should i stress myself out over the upcomng finals and should i start to lose a lot of weight..and will this delay my period? (link)
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Um, yeah that's kinda hard, there are some birth controll pills that make you only have 4 periods a year, but if your a teen, your parents might become a little concerned.
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how do i get rid of stress. like a stress reliever. if it matters it is over boy troubles. Thx!!!! plz answer. (link)
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Do art or dancing or learn to play an instrument or join the local gym, or adopt a neopet (www.neopets.com) ect
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Well heres the thing..
Sex..
im completely ready but im scared that the condom will break and ill end up pregnant!
any advice on the subject??
thanks
i rate 5's (link)
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If you're scared, youre not really ready, are you? Try taking birth-controll pills along with using the condom, it won't protect you from STDs, but it will decrease the chance of you getting PG. but please, don't have sex unless you're really ready, you can never get your virginity back...
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Ok, when I was 8 both my parents died in a car crash. I've been in and out of foster homes ever since. Most of them were assholes and abusive and then the last family I was with, before this one, just took off in the middle of the night and left me there. I took care of myself for about 3 months before someone found finally found me. when they finally found me I weighed 65lbs. and they said I was lucky to be a live. Now I wish I had just died then. That was when I was 10. I spent 2 years recovering and then I was put in another home. I ran away from there because they were assholes who enjoyed watching people get hurt. I'm now 15 and I'm not sure of anything anymore. I can't get close to people. I'm afraid to keep living. I really just want to give up. I've had thoughts of suicide before but never like this. I feel like there is nothing left. The people I'm with now are just like all the rest and I can't do it anymore. I don't want to keep living like this. I don't want to keep living at all. But I'm scared to go through with it I'm so confused and afraid and screwed up I don't know to do about anything.
My question is does anyone know how I can make things better? I've tried drugs, drinking, cutting, burning anything to take away all the confusion and nothing helps. If anyone has any ideas of how I can make things please let me know I really need help. I don't know what to do anymore. All I can think of is suicide and I know that's wrong but I'm just lost right now. Please if anyone has any ideas of how i can make things better help me. (link)
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Cutting and drugs/alcholhol are never the answer!! Talk to the person putting you in these homes and see if they can find anything better. but most importantly, keep on living, find something you enjoy, like music or art or dancing, and use it as an outlet to deal with all this.
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ok i have a friend who has this b/f. HE and she have been going out for 5 months at the most and he has already popped the question... She doesnt' know what to do... She is barely graduationg this year and he is still a junior. She fills presherd and stuff and he has already been talking about having kids with her... she is scared and she even feels like not coming to school because hes here... what should she do? She doesn't want to hurt him though so please give good advice i rate high.....
thank you
some-1-whocares... (link)
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She needs to tell him that he's smothering her, and that they have their whole live ahed of them to worry about marrige and kids, and that they should just enjoy life now. If this doesn't work, she might need to dump him.
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I'm 14, and a girl. We just found out that my grandpa had cancer about a month and a half ago. We knew something was wrong but we weren't sure what. It was too bad when we found out so the medicine didn't do anyghing. Hes slowly getting worse and can die any day now. My whole family is devestated and sometimes i just can't take the feeling i get inside. =( My boyfriends grandma had an anurism and then 3 strokes, and now she's dying too, and it's going to happen the same way (go into a comma and stop breathing) and around the same time. We live in jersey but his grandmas in florida so he just went down there. I don't have him with me when i need him most and im just really upset. My cousin on my other side of the family doesn't care about anything that's happening to me, and he's hated me for the past 9 monthes because im going out with his friend! He won't even talk to me now, and he even has my step-sister on his side. I'm just really upset and i don't know what to do. Sometimes i just break down and cry which sort of helps, but is there anything else? Please help me, Im soo upset! Thank you (link)
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That really sucks, try to talk this out with your sister, tell your cousin to grow up (he's way wrong to hate you over your BF), keep up hope though, if everything's happening now, what could possibly happen later?
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i have a friend with benifits and he keeps saying he wants to go farther but wont tell how much farther.and he is always grounded so i never get to see him and i dont even go to his school.i dont really totally know what he is meaning by farther.we already do much of everything we tried sex once but we cant really get condoms so we decided that was not a good idea.any ideas on what he is meaning? (link)
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Possibly your official boyfriend?
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any on know how i can keep my shoulder length hair of my face (link)
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well, if it's sholder-length I'd suggest pulling it back, if you can't bear to do that, try a head band.
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I was bitten by a bug (I'm not quite sure exactly what kind, although I think it was a tick) a couple of nights ago, and my mom thinks that it is infected, and so she wants to take me to the doctor tomorrow to see if it is or not. My question is...
1) How does the doctor tell if it is infected or not?
and
2) What will they do if it is?
I'm kinda worried about it.
Thanks in advance! (link)
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I'm not sure how he knows, but if it's infected it probably will look different than normal helaing bug bites. If it is infected he'll probably either have you but an anti-bacterial ointment on it or give you pills.
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How do you know when you're in love?
What does it feel like?
What will the 2 people feel bout eachother? (link)
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love is an urban legend
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hi
i think i might have mild depression.
i have bn reading about it on the web and most of the symptons match up to wat im feeling so does this mean im depressed?
i just feel so lonely n isolated in my own little world and i cut my self sum times.. not so it bleeds though just enuf to make the pain disapear.
can some one please tell me wat to do because i dont want any one to know, especially my family because i dont exactly get on with them. my friends wont help either..
sorry its long.. i rate 5's (link)
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Ok. First step is to stop cutting. Because like other peole have said, you get "addicted" and it gets worse, like cutting to the point where it hurts but doesn't bleed it's going to be enough, and you'll sneak some razors, and you'll slowly start doing worse and worse cuts in larger quantities, and then you'll start burning your self, and it just get wose and worse. I've been down this road before, get out while you still can!!! and talk to your parents or other trusted adult about your feelings, or if you can't bring yourself to do that, try channeling all your inner torment into something more constructive, like writing or art or sports or music.
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im 15 and someone told me that my boyfriend -hes 15- looks at porn..is that normal? and like he said that my bf jacks off to it, too...is this normal or bad or what? and should i be offended that i cant make him feel good enough or somethin? (link)
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lol, this is perfectly normal, there's nothing wrong with it, just don't confront him (it's normal but a little embarrasing for people anyway)
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