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What are some things I can do to make a girl like me more... and also how do I tell a girl that I like her? I mean, I really want to tell her, but I'm too shy..
Please answer this question, I really need to know ASAP! (link)
aww def. flirt and hint that u mite like her or hint asking who she liktes. Try hanging out wit her and getting to know her better. If i were u i wud sorta inadvertantly tell her u like her cuz she may like u too, if a guy did tat to me, and if he was shy..id think it was so cute cuz i knew that he worked up the courage to tel me and id b flattered..Good luck :)


my son age 9 has had knee pain,where he can not straighten leg for 4 to 5 days.first it was down the front of his leg and muscle at back as well as his knee.now it is under his knee cap. he cant walk properly and it is constantly there.can anyone help me with what might be the cause.he says he hasnt banged it or hurt it.he does suffer from growing pains.should his knee still be hurting after 4 days where he cannot walk prop. (link)
Hmm, im sorry i really don't know what that culd be. Maybe it is a torn ligament or he just bruised his knee internally somehow..or he may hae somethign wrong with his knee caps. I don't think him having OCD has to do with him not being able to walk..Defiantely take him to a doctor to be on the safe side and get things checked out, tell them wat u typed to us..Hope things get worked out soon :)


does anyone have any good hairstyles i could use because im really tired of the regular pony tail,bun,or just leaving my hair down. I would like to wear my hair up tho so any ideas? also if it helps any my hair is dirty blonde!.Ive alreadi tryed scrunching my hair but it doesnt really look to good. Thanx! (link)
Messy bun, low pigtail braids, half pony tail, half bun, messy half bun, reg. messy bun. If ne of this sound appealing to u but ur not sure hwo to do any of them just drop one in the inbox and ill try and explain and help u. hope this helped:)


ok well i started liking a guy and he found out and he likes me too but i told him now that i just wanna be friends wut should i do tommrow? i think hes really pissed! please help! ill rate :( (link)
Tomrrow just confrton him and say look i realy sorry i just got overwhelmed and i didnt kno what to say so i sed i wanted to just be friends but ir eally do feel the same way about u as you feel about me and i hope u still feel that way. If u just dont feel the same way as him then say look im really sorry, but ur a great guy and a great friend perso and i think it mite b better if we stayed friends for a little while and im sory i dont hav the same feelings for u..hope this helps :)


does anyone know any cool hairstyles? i have blonde hair about up to my shoulders. any ideas? thanks :) (link)
http://beauty.about.com/od/shoulderlengthstyles/index_a.htm
they have a few ideas there for hairstyles for shoulder length hair, u click on each picture..a lot of them lookd cute! Hope this helps :)


Hey Yall wow i have a problem im caught in between to guys that are absuoly awesome i love and adore! i wish i could only be with both of them and i cant live without either both! there both perfect one i wish i could be with every seconod of mi life and the other is in mi midn heck i feel that way about both of them theiir absoulty great i dont kno whut to do soo please im askin yall if you can help then plz help b.c i cant live without either i LOVE THEM1 (link)
oh wow that is a really tough situatiion, ull just have to decide whoch one u have more in common wit and who u think ud get along wit better. Try going out on a few dates wit one guy and then the other and see which one u like better. If u go out wit one and it doesn't work out like u planned, then go for the other one.. that isnt much help, but i tried lol sry..hope everything works out the way u want :)


Why do they always delete my questions? They arent for any of the normal reasons like everyone asks them or grammar, or too long or anything.

If a chicken had lips could it whistle??

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Perhaps..and about ur questions maybe its the grammar or they just don't find it appropriate, contat a mod and find oout :)


i think that a guy i know is drop dead georgous but i dont have a chance with him what do you do?

*out of your league. (link)
Get to know him better and become good friends, he might be a real ass and then u wudnt wanna date him n e more, or he cud b really sweet and he cud end up goin out wit u. I don't think it matters much if someone is out of ur league or not, ppl r ppl and doesnt matter really their soccial status in the school, he's worth a shot :) Best of luck :-D


Aright well last Friday, before Halloween me and my friends had an idea of gettin ppl to dress in black and I made flyers and handed them out. And sum how one of the teachers found out about it cuz sumone said my name infront of the teacher and said that I made the flyers (wich I did) anyway she told the assistant principal that I did it and he came up to me and told me to give him the rest of the flyers. So I did and he starts given me all of this bullshit on how it's gang related when he has organized for us to wear red shirts, and there is sumthin else to. Aright there is this one gurl that she came into school and she was wearing a short short skirt that when ever she bends over her ass literally is showin, and the assistant principal saw her but he didn't say anything at all and she came in with a short black skirt and long knee hight boots lookin like a hooker and the assistant principal didn't say anything. So the part that really pisses me off is that we wore black lipstick and he said that it was not aloud when last year we wore black lipstick and he didn't say anything. So it pisses me off that we can't wear black lipstick and sum hoe can some in and look like a prostetute and come in with her ass showin. And they say that guys can't wear anypink wich is wrong, I mean guys should be able to wear anything they want. Please help cuz all of this is just wrong and they kno it!! (link)
wow your assistant principal sure has some twisted views on how ppl shud dress, esp if he think sthat person who dressed really provocatively shouldnt b punished, but that if u wear all black u need to b punished. He seems to b steerotyping everyone in your school. I think mayne u shud get ur poarents or some adults u trust to help you think of a view valid reasons for why the things he is doing are wrong. If you present to him why u think he is being innapropriate and like unreasonable he mite change his mind bc he mite see that he was wrong. Speak your mind to him and best of luck :)


Well you know in school how there are groups (preps, loners, etc) well im a new kid at this school and im in a group, but none of them are labeled, but i have known the people in the group before i went to this school. Now there ignoring me, and leaving me out of a lot of stuff and trying to get me pissed off, I'm also friends with some other people, and i told them how nice they are, and they said that their a bunch of sluts, and i shouldnt join their group. But my friends are leaving me out. Should i join a different group ( the slut group, even though i know their not sluts, my friends are just jealous.) Or just be left out, but still in my group that i am already in. If you have questions or if you're confused please leave me a not in my inbox or just ask for advice. I NEED AN ANSWER BEFORE ITS TOO LATE. (link)
hmm i got kind of confused in ur question, but i think i can help you. If this certain group of girls is ignoring you and not reating you nicely, then why bother and waste time with them? No matter their label if they are mean then they are mean and a label doesnt matter. I t hink that you should go with teh group of girls that u feel more comfortable with, they obciously like u if they want u to join their group or w.e so u shud chill wit them and see hw things go,


I want to get Windows XP and i was just wondering where i can get it? how much is the average cost? and is there anyone i can get it online? (link)
you cud buy it online and download..or u can go out to s store like comp Usa, or best buy or something adn buy it there. I think it might b around 30$ or so.


PLEASE HELP
i know i asked u this before but things got worse. this girl says she knows who has it but she wont tell me. i threateend 2 tell the office but she dont care, she said she wants 2 get kicked out of school. what should i do? (link)
O wow. i think u shuld tell the office anyway, and that u think that u know someone who may have athe information about who took your CD player. You shouldnt have to threaten ppl to get what u want, just go direcetlty to the office and tell them your situation, they'll b able to handle this girl because they are authory and she mite feel more pressure from them..hope u get ur cd pplayer back!


I went out with a boy for 2 years and i loved him alot. About a week ago he broke up with me bc he was scared of what he was going to do while he was away. Now im on a couple of websites and i met this kid whos really sweet and we have soo much in common and i am really starting to like him. now i have 2 questions, do you think it is too early to start going out with someone? and he leaves like an hour away from me .. what should i do?

please helppp (link)
hmm, first off, there is a possibility that this guy might not b who u think he is. He cud just be tryin to make u happy by saying he has a lot in common wit u and is really some other person but he cud b a reall cool giuy like u sed. As for starting a new relationship..i think that wenever u feel comfortable to start a new relationship is up to you and is a personal desicion, so if u feel like it is a good time to start a new relationship then go for it. :)


ok ive kissed before and all i mean i know how but when ever my boyfriend wanted to french i always got scared i wouldnt be good enough of a kisser for him ..how can i change that? (link)
Its okay to feel nervous, but how you kiss if you are good or not shouldn't make a difference to your boyfriend if he likes you for who you are and not how you kiss him. If it does affect him he isnt a good bf, just try and have fun wit it tho and see how things go wen u kisss him


All right, I have a friend Lizzie, and we are really close. She has a group of friends that I always knew didn't like me that much, and that never bothered me. but all of a sudden she's telling me that she can only hang out with me on the bus on Thursdays, and doesn't talk to me anymore. I know I should give up on her but she's my best friend!! Please tell me what to do. (link)
man that is really mean is lizzie! she shouldn't be doing that to you. She isn't strong enough to stand up for you to this group of friends because she wants to be a part of the group with them but she also wants to be your best friend. A good friend would stik up for you and maybe still hang out wit that other group. Tell her how you feel about it and that it's not nice of her at all to be doing this to you, if it keeps ypup id suggest finding a friend who treats you nicely and with resepct :)


Hey, my friend Emily is 14 and she just recently started to look up porn on the internet. I was thinking, this girl is 14! But, do you think it's normal for a girl in her young teens to look up adult images on the net? I need to know so I can tell her! Please help and I would really appreciate it! Thank you so much! - Serena (link)
hmm thats a tought one. I guess its her personal choice to want to look at porn n stuff, i personally think that is a little young, and that if she wanted to do that she shud wait a little while. But if she feels comfortable doing that and wants too i guess she cud..hope this helped


Where can I find some pictures of updo's to get some ideas for homecoming ? (link)
http://www.pageantrymagazine.com/a01promhairtips.html that site has some hairdos for like the prom, maybe that cud help wit homecoming too :)


I haven't heard from my boyfriend at all since friday. He hasn't called or texted or anything. I've texted him but he hasn't texted back and I called him yesterday but he didn't pick up. I know that he's gone away for the weekend but he would always have his phone on him. I'm getting worried. (link)
I wouldnt worry about it, there are many things that could have happened. either his fone died, or he has no serives where he is, or he may have forgotten his fone. Wherever he is, im sure he is thinking about you and misses u :) dont worry


lately i have been feeling depressed!!...HONESTLY! i have nothing to be upset about...its just i dont even know!!...im not sure why i feel this way, but i just feel all shity and lazy, and i just wanna sit there, or lay in bed and start crying without thinking of anything!! does anyone know what is wrong with me?! (link)
u mite have depression, but umite not. Sometimes ppl just get upset for unknown reasons. It will probably pass if u really don't have any idea of why u are upset. If it contines forawhile check it out at a doctor and maybe ucan get some meds..hope u feel bettter :)


hey, 2morro is halloween, and i was wondering, wat would b some things yu could do with a couple friends? we're in 8th gradeee. thx =) (link)
have a sleepover n rent scary movies, go out and trick ortear (obviously, lol) go out to like a scary place around ur neighborhood and tell ghost stories..have fun! :)




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