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im a girl and im 16. okay so i like this guy and he likes me. but theres nothing going on between us as of right now because we both dont want a relationship. so as of right now were just really good friends. hes been asking me for a kiss for a while and i just finlly kissed him yesterday. but it was my first real real kiss and i dont know if it was good. he knows that it was my first kiss. but i wasnt his and i keep thinking that it sucked and i dont know what to do. but he did keep kissing me that night, well until we picked some people up and after we all hung out and dropped those people back off he still wouldnt kiss me and when we dropped him off he didnt eben give me a goodbye kiss either.i could really use some advice on what to do because im kind of confused. and on top of that he was texting in the car and he was texting another girl that goes to our school should i be worried about that?? and should i text him or wait for him to text me.and so far he hasnt texted me all day. how can i make things better between us?? (link)
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I think if he hasnt texted you yet either he doesnt have time or he was just toying with your feelings so if he doesnt text you in a day or two then forget him and move on and dont even bother talking to him again because he obviousily not very interested and doesnt seem to care so ya do whats best for you because you dont need a guy like him around to hurt you. Good Luck :D
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im a girl and im 16. okay so i like this guy and he likes me. but theres nothing going on between us as of right now because we both dont want a relationship. hes been asking me for a kiss for a while and i just finlly kissed him yesterday. but it was my first real real kiss and i dont know if it was good. he knows that it was my first kiss. but i wasnt his and i keep thinking that it sucked and i dont know what to do. but he did keep kissing me that night, well until we picked some people up and after we all hung out and dropped those people back off he still wouldnt kiss me and when we dropped him off he didnt eben give me a goodbye kiss either.i could really use some advice on what to do because im kind of confused. and on top of that he was texting in the car and he was texting another girl that goes to our school should i be worried about that?? and should i text him or wait for him to text me. (link)
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I think if hes kissing you yet texting other girls while with you he obviously not very into you or being very honest with you. I think hes one of those guys who will toy with your feelings so i dont think you should text him wait for him to text you and give him one more chance but if he doesnt stop acting like an idiot then just leave him.
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i have been single for to long and i dont no who to like (link)
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You cant just like someone because your single and lonley you have to actually have feelings for this person so just wait until a guy you actually have feelings for comes around. Dating someone just because your single means a short term thing which will only last a few weeks a month or two tops so ya just wait around someone right for you will come.
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what is the best way to excersise and why?? (link)
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Running, doing crunches, sit ups and simples exercises like this will be the best way to exercise because it works out the entire body and tones it down.
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What should I name my fish? (link)
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Beta
Bubbles
Cookie
Cream-Puff
Huey
Jet
Lea
Lily
Pippi
Watson
Zach
Angel
Bonnie
Brooke
Bubbles
Jade
Pepi
Opie
Queenie
Sapphire
Sly
Wanda
Babs
Blueberry
Cleo
Dorito
Gilly
Goldy
Isis
Lupe
Sawyer
Tootsie
Zeta
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me and my boyfriend are doing so good but the thing is that he wanna be a singer but his manger keep coming on to him and she always tell me that she going to take him from me but idk what to do she got him dunk and then she had sex with him idk what to do (link)
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You need to talk to your bf and tell him that shes trying to take him away from you and if he loves you the least bit he will tell her to get lost and if he doesnt then obviously not the right guy for you and you then need to move on i know it will be hard but you have to do whats right for you.
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ok so there is this kid Ethan that i like but i dont no how to talk to him or flirt with him can you give me any advice. (link)
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Well talking to guys can be hard if your the shy type or really like him a lot the best advice i can give you is just go up to him introduce yourself and be friendly or have a friend introduce you to eachother and then just ask if he would like to hang out. I know it seems hard to just go up to a guy and talk to him but it really the easiest and best way to go about it rather then secretly crush on him forever. Good Luck :D
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hello my name is britany and i like a kid who i know likes me but two days ago my best frined asked him out i don't think he likes her all that much but wat should i do because she knows i like him and last time he hit on me i didn't like him soooo i told him that and now she asked him out uh-oh
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I think maybe you should talk to this guy and ask him how he feels and who he wants to really be with or talk to your friend and tell her how you feel if she is truly your best friend she will move on and let you be with him. Obviously before you ask her to lay off ask the guy who he really likes and if he does like her then you need to move on because its really up to the guy at this point. Good Luck:D
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Oh wow. I had a weird dream! Where I invited my crush to my party and everything went great. At the end of my party my crush came up to me and sayed "Great party, hey I know it was only girls there and then me but I came because I care about you" then he huged me and knowing me we fell (which is not suprising because I get really clumsy around him)!!!! Isn't that weird? What do you think it means? Do I love him? (link)
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I think you have feelings for him and want him to ask you out which is very normal for any girl who is having a crush these dreams happen to i think any girl who likes someone i think the best thing to do is talk to this guy and ask him if he wants to hang out or just talk to him and wait until he asks you out but i suggest you asking him if he doesnt ask you that way you'll know if he likes you or not. Good Luck:D
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so i USED TO BE a realllllly bad cutter, im not anymore just to make that clear but the scars all down my wrist and arm are terrible enough to where i cant wear short sleeves, is there anything i can do to make them go away ? or at least get better... (link)
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They will take a while to totally heal but you can cover them with concealer probably just try it out.
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What are some easy to prepare and not hard to find vegtables. I pack my lunch for school so need to keep them fresh for a four or five hours too. (link)
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Carrots, celery, and cucumbers you can cut them in stick form and eat them when your hungry at school and they will stay fresh for a long time too so you wont have to worry about them smelling or getting all gross either.
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Hi guys! So, since wednesday I have been experiencing a series of similar dreams. They have all been drastically different, but revolved around the two same things--a guy I have never met and a strange forest.
The first of the series was set in the Victorian era. He was poor while I lived wealthy. I would escape to this forest to get away from my suitor. In the forest I met this guy--gorgeous. He had black hair and brilliantly green eyes. Those were the first thing I captured about him.
The next night, my dream took place in Rome, Italy. I lived in a small cottage style home and he was the new guy in town. Every day we would run off into a similar forest.
Basically, every night would be about him and me finding a way to be together in those woods. The part that gets me is that each time we go in for our first kiss, I wake up in a cold sweat. I don't know what to make out of it. The guy in my dreams seems so familiar, like I've known him for my entire life, even longer, but I know I've never met him before. Does anyone have any advice on this? Any similar experiences? (link)
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I have never had a similar experience but i think it means your going too meet someone special maybe in a forest setting or maybe not but it seems like you will definetly meet someone that you will end up loving.
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18-female. This guy, is driving me crazy because of how he is acting!:( he's actually one of my good friends, same age and his name is nick. About 6 mo ago nick broke up with his girlfriend of almost 3 years. Well now to be short, he's basically THE biggest player i've ever met. before and when he was with his girlfriend he was never like that, and thats why we were so close. He's always tried getting with me, but just this past month or so I've realized he's someone totally different than who I knew 3 years ago. He's changed right before my eyes. He was "talking" to me, this other girl, still his ex, and now I hear about ANOTHER girl. I haven't done anything sexual with him, I know better. I'm thinking of just staying good friends with him and no relationship stuff because as a friend, he treats me really good. But then my guy friend, who is nicks good friend was like nick is going to be pissed when he finds out you're talking to brad (A guy I WAS talking to..) but I'm not talking to him anymore thats a different story. I was like why would nick be pissed?? I honestly don't care anymore. It seems like Nick still cares about me but I can't take his game playing anymore. I deserve better than that, but I just can't get over the kid :( I want to confront him about everything and say how he has changed, and he doesn't treat girls right and that I can barely look at him the same way so he knows I KNOW about all the girls (he thinks im dumb and I know nothing..ha!) He's a great friend to me, just wouldn't be a good boyfriend. I'm just so confused...my guy friend who looks out for me makes it seem like he cares about me and would be all jealous if I was talking to another guy, but why would he be? He's talking to enough girls already..
What to do?? Yeah you're all thinking "what an idiot she is!" but me and nick have known each other for like 5 yrs now, I'm not just going to throw a friendship down the drain like that..But I don't want to get in a fight with him If I bring up that I know about all the girls, and I'm better than that. (link)
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I think you should break up with him and not even be friends with him because this guy is obviously playing you and to be just friends with him is going to be impossible because eventually hes going to get you to take him bak as your bf becuase thats what guys who are players do. I know you dont want to throw your 5 years of friendship but would you rather he break your heart i honestly think you should just end it with him it will save you a lot of heart ache but then again its your life and your entitled to do what you think is best so good luck :D
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I recently had diarrhea and cramps. Is this a sign of my first period or is it normal to have? I'm really worried about it. (link)
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cramps is usually a sign of a period coming but not diarrhea just wait a few days and if your period doesnt come and you still have cramps and diarrhea then you should go see a doctor. :D
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I was just wondering, I'm a plus size. I always wanted nice clothes. Lately I've been thinking about maybe trying maturity wear (Although I'm not pregnant) The question is...Would it show my stomach? I know it's for woman who are pregnant but can you still wear them if you are not pregnant without your stomach showing? Can people tell if it's maturity wear? I just like some of the clothes they have. Rather than shopping at places like Walmart.
Thanks
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You can definitely wear maturnity clothes if you want and your just going to have to try stuff on to see if they show your stomach but i think a lot of maturnity clothes are made to enphasize the stomach area to show that your pregnant but some dont your just going to have to try stuff on to see what you like. Also i just wanted to add that theres other places other than walmart such as reitmans, suzy shier, zellers, and a lot of other places in your local mall just look around im sure you can find some nice things that arent in the maturnity section. :D
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My lovebird laid several eggs for the first time in December, and none of them hatched. Then again in February, she laid six eggs, and three of them have hatched since the beginning of March. She stays in the next box all day- the male bird feeds her, and she regurgitates food for the chicks. She has been in that box for a long time, and hardly leaves to get food. She sits on the chicks all day. But I see that she looks weak, and my dad keeps telling me it's normal, since she is sitting on the chicks all day, hardly leaves the box, and doesn't eat a lot on her own. He also says it's hormonal. Is my dad completely right, or should I be worried? she does take care of the chicks (along with the male bird), but she just looks like she has no energy. (link)
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Maybe you should get a vet to come check it out and see if everything is okay your dad might be right but its always better to know for sure so just ask a vet or have the vet come to your house or if possible take it to the vet. Either way get the vet to check her out or get some books or do some research on the internet im sure you'll get what your looking for. Good luck :D
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Ok so today I was talking to my mom and decided to leave her room. So I do well the door wouldn't close right so I slamed the door shut. My dad come and starts yelling at me and comes in my room and tells me to stop being an asshole!!! Do you think thats's very fatherly? What kind of jacked up father calles their only daughter and asshole!! I'm really mad at him! What should I do? (link)
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A lot of parents when there mad say things that they dont really mean im sure that you dad just said it by accident but if he calls you this all the time maybe you should just talk to him about his attitude and if you cant do that then just ignore it make it seem like you dont care and just go to your room play some music and just relax parent will always get on kids nerves there really nothing you can do its just a part of life with them but if you just keep yourself relaxed and dont let things get to you as often then you should be okay. Hope i helped :D
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Okay. I'm trying to get a certificate so i'll be able to get more babysitting jobs. But i dont know where to get the certifacte at. i think i get it at YMCA but im not sure. so could someone write back...please. and thanks (link)
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You can get it from the YMCA most likely and some libraries also but your going to have to check the sites for both or call in to double check to make sure.
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okay my cousin is having her baby in a week or two and we still dont know what to name it. We are not sure if its a boy or girl but we all think its a boy. What are good names for a boy? She loves the letter D. And N or J for a girl. Guys please help we cant think of anything! (link)
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For a boy
Daniel
Daman
Darcy
Darnell
Darren
Dan
Darwin
Derek
Dave
Dean
Devon
Damian
Dakota
For more just go to google and search baby boy names starting with D
Now for girls names that start with N
Nicole
Nadia
Nicolette
Nicki
Nancy
Nina
Natalie
Naomi
Nessa
And for J
Jessica
Jesse
Jennifer
Jacayln
Jackie
Jamie
Jane
Jill
Jenile
Jenna
Jasmine
Jordon
June
Justine
Judith
Well this is all i can think of i hope i helped.
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what can cause swelling in the legs and ankles and sometimes hands? i've got severe swelling in my legs and ankles and i've had it for a few weeks it's so bad that i can touch my leg with my finger and it dents in and leaves the mark of my finger for about five minutes. so i walk around with and it looks like i've got a big hole in my leg where my finger was. i don't really have any other symptoms well except sore ankles and legs from carrying around the extra weight. (link)
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I really think you should go to the doctor and get checked out because i dont think your really going to get the right medical advice here just because nobody on here is a qualified doctor. But what i can suggest is maybe putting some ice and heat on it to see if that makes a difference maybe its an allergic reaction or something.
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