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did i do the right thing or just let it go ????
im a girl and im 16. okay so i like this guy and he likes me. but theres nothing going on between us as of right now because we both dont want a relationship. so as of right now were just really good friends. hes been asking me for a kiss for a while and i just finlly kissed him yesterday. but it was my first real real kiss and i dont know if it was good. he knows that it was my first kiss. but i wasnt his and i keep thinking that it sucked and i dont know what to do. but he did keep kissing me that night, well until we picked some people up and after we all hung out and dropped those people back off he still wouldnt kiss me and when we dropped him off he didnt eben give me a goodbye kiss either.i could really use some advice on what to do because im kind of confused. and on top of that he was texting in the car and he was texting another girl that goes to our school should i be worried about that?? and should i text him or wait for him to text me.and so far he hasnt texted me all day. how can i make things better between us??
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Its one of two things. 1: he is afraid you don't like him, that HE kissed you bad, and doesn't know how to act, confused as to what your relaionship is now, OR, he is in the catagory of the guy who when after he gets what he wants, he moves on.
I would assume #1 first. Yes, text him. You always did before, so act the same. If he text back in a normal fashion too, tell him you would like to see him. If he agrees, meet with him and BE HONEST and communicate. Alot of things get misinterpeated because we are afraid to just communicate.
If he doesn't answer the text, or won't talk to you, then you have to act as if YOU DON"T CARE. Guys want what they cant have. Act like he can't have you.
It was rude to text a girl in the car with you there, but it could be that is what he always did and the kiss came as a surprise and he just did what he always does.
So because we don't know, you have to try and talk with him and be honest....
If he acts like an ass.... Please know it has nothing to do with you, or the kiss. A man who adores you will kiss the ground you walk on, stay in touch with you, and text you non stop... Keep your confidance and self worth and you WILL find that drop dead gorgeous guy who adores you.
Good luck
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I think if he hasnt texted you yet either he doesnt have time or he was just toying with your feelings so if he doesnt text you in a day or two then forget him and move on and dont even bother talking to him again because he obviousily not very interested and doesnt seem to care so ya do whats best for you because you dont need a guy like him around to hurt you. Good Luck :D
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