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my name is sarah. or doodle. i'm 16 and now a junior at SMHS. HATE IT! i play slowpitch and fastpitch softball. im verrrry sarcastic. you'll never know if i'm being serious or not. i'd have to say i've been through a lot, but you might not think so. try me, i could surprise you =)

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ok well i like this kid and i want to be his secret admirer(sp)because i know where his locker is and everything so i want to send nots and give clues to who i am an i was thinking of staarting monday(V-day) is that a good idea??

please dont delete this it means a lot to me

yeah you should start on v-day..but start like doin it early in the day and then by the end of the day like make him find out who it is...
~*Sarah*~

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i'm like a tomboy. And i have my first boyfreind. But the thing is that he is shorter then me and i get picked on about that. But he is really sweet.

dont worry about what everyone else says. if you really like him and hes sweet then thats all that should matter. not everyone elses opinions.
~*Sarah*~

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I've had a really, really sore throat for the past 3 weeks, which was the last time I made out with someone. This kid was saying it sounded like when his friend had mono and that I should check it out, because I have some of the other symptoms of it as well [fatigue,headache,body aches,abdominal pain],but I wasn't sure if that's true because it has been three weeks.
Does anyone know if mono is a possibility?

yeah...mono is a possibility. or it could be other throat sicknesses..such as strep throat or the flu. i would go to your doctor and get it checked out.
~*Sarah*~

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Is it bad to be on the computer for a long time. Is it bad to do that? Thanks!

yeah it is bad but it depends on how long you are on there...your eye site could become weaker and you could get carpul tunnel (sp?) something to do with your hands they become like weaker and you cant move them..somthing like that
~*Sarah*~

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I saw someone ask a question about an itchy pubic area and someone answered with it could be `crabs`. Im scared i might have it!! what is it and how do you know if you have it?? what happens if you DO have it? Please help!! Where does it come from and stuff?

crabs is an STD so unless you have been having sex, you dont have it. crabs is little bugs that get down there. if you have then i guess they would give you an ointment to rub on it andthey should go away in a few days/weeks.
~*Sarah*~

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Could i maybe perform in a theater. I would like to. I love to perform. Should i try?

if you want to then go for it. its a personal choice and if you give yourself enough motivation you can do it.
~*Sarah*~

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does anyone know any really good shampoo and/or conditioner that works well and is good for oily hair?

Thanks!

i use dove sometimes and it works alright. also, head and shoulders for oily hair works also!
~*Sarah*~

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everytime i open itunes, a little thing pops up asking me if i want to update it to a newer version of itunes. does anyone know if there is a difference when you update it, and is it worth it?

i dont have itunes but im pretty sure the upgrade would be better. and there probably is a difference. maybe not major differences but minor ones.
~*Sarah*~

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Okay...I'm 15/f and I'm going to the Sweetheart Dance at my school on Saturday and I'm bringing my bf (he goes to a different school)...would it be wrong if I dance with other guys (friends) at the dance too?

i think it would be wrong. but maybe you can talk to him about it before you guys get there. ask him if he would get mad if you did. but if he doesnt know anyone at your school, then would you want him to be sitting by hisself while you are dancing with some friends?
~*Sarah*~

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ok so i like really like this guy but hes got a gf, ive liked him for almost a year now and i dont know if i should give up on him or not. me and him are pretty close friendship wise but it looks like him and his gf are gonna be together for a long time.

should i give up or should i just wait it out?

i think you should just give it up. if you think he is gonna be with her for a while then i dont think you want to stick around and cause troubles between them. or, you could still have your feelings for him but leave you options to other guys open. hope i helped!
~*Sarah*~

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Are diet pills safe for me to take if I am only 16 years old? And is their quick results? Thanks!

no, i dont think they will be good for you.i would just stick to a diet and exercise a lot. and, if a diet pill gave you quick results, it could be damaging your body.
~*Sarah*~

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Does anyone know of some cool places to buy reallly cute bathing suits?

aeropostale and pacsun have the cutest bathing suits even tho i dont wear one!
~*Sarah*~

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I'm asking this question for my friend who is twelve. Here's what she told me to say. "My friend doesn't go to church and doesn't understand how important religion is. I really want her to come to my church but she always has some excuse why she can't. What should I do?"

tell your friend that just because religion is important in her family, doesnt mean it would be important in her friends. maybe her family doesnt believe in going to church or anything like that. not everyone does. but yes, i do believe in god so dont get me wrong.
~*Sarah*~

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ok i have a bunch of friends that are just friends but i love them to death and i would do ne thing for them b/c they are my friends. some of them are girls and i wanted to get them sumthin so they would know i care for them. what should i get for a girl that i like a lot as a friend? like what do girls like to get from their guy friends?

chocolates, a bracelet, and a big card are some things you should get here. but nothing too serious! and make sure its not any low-fat chocolates or any healthy kind!
~*Sarah*~

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ok here is the thing... i have really curly hair its really crazy/wild stuff. my hair looks like that girl from the spice girls with the curly hair. any ways i cant put it down or it will look like clowns hair and i wanna get it straighten but i dunno. i got it straightened once but it lasted for like 2 days and sisnt work very well. does any one know a good way to get wild hair straightened, Thanks

why dont you buy your own straightener and use it? or doesnt john frieda have some straightening stuff you can put in you hair? sorry if im not much help...
~*Sarah*~

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Hey does anyone know a real easy to get rid of pimples fast without popping them please help.

toothpaste might work...clearasil ice wash works...or if you dont want to use face cleanser like that, but neutrogena cleansing pads..they work good too.
~*Sarah*~

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I never get to talk to my bf since we been going out. It seems kinda weird cause all my friends talk constantly on the phone with thier bfs and i dont.

why dont you call him or talk to him on aim? maybe go to his house and talk to him.
~*Sarah*~

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My girlfriend & I dated for 3 years and she was the love of my life. Well, I decided to take a job that I couldn't refuse in Michigan. I wanted her to move up there w/ me, but she said she couldn't leave her home in TX. The long-distance thing was too tough, so we mutually broke up on good terms. She then started dating someone new who she was "miserable" with. After over a year of staying in touch w/ her, I moved back home. A short time later, she ended up breaking up w/ the other guy b/c she wasn't happy. Well, we started slowly seeing each other again and things were great, but she wanted to "take things slow and not jump back into a relationship" since she just got out of a bad one. So, not trying to force her into a relationship, we just hung out and did everything that a normal 'boyfriend/girlfriend couple' would do. Well, after a few months of dating each other (and me thinking that we were gonna get back together), she met and started dating a new guy! I WAS CRUSHED!!! Here was a girl who was my best friend, someone I thought I was going to marry, & the love of my life........and now she wants to date this other guy out of the clear blue?!?!?! I was devistated. She's still together with this guy.
Now, it's months later. We still talk (fairly often) via email and sometimes on the phone (I NEVER call her...she only calls me), but I'm still not over her. I truly loved her w/ all of my heart. Part of me hates her for ripping my heart out and the other part of me still loves her very deeply and wants her back. Someone told me "if it's meant to be, then she'll come back to me one day". I just don't know what to do and I need help..... Any advice?

tell her your feelings for her...even though ya'll did things a normal couple would do, maybe she didnt think you still liked her after a while. but the most important thing is that you tell her EXACTLY how you feel, maybe she feels that same way about you!
~*Sarah*~

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how can you find out who rated you and how much they rated you and their reasons for it? thanks!!

on your advie column find view feedback, click on it, then it will show like your ratings and if whoever rated you left a comment it will be under there rating.
~*Sarah*~

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i have two questions ...

1) there is a nextel phone called the the i265 out.. does anyone know what store i can buy this at or if it's even available to buy ?

2) i was looking at the boost mobile site today, and i saw a phone i really liked (i285). how much would it cost me to get the phone, and all the pre-paid crap inbetween ? i'll rate high! thank you

1) im not sure about this one...i couldnt find the phone on nextel.com or i couldnt find it on any search engine

2) it said if you order that phone from their website, it is 99.99...talkin on your phone: $0.25/min, $0.15/min during BoostTM Time 9 PM - 7 AM weekdays and all day on the weekends...text messaging: $0.10 per message to send and free of charge to receive...voice mail: $0.25 / per minute to retrieve messages...

hope i helped!!
~*Sarah*~

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