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how can i get a guy to fall for me and to ask me out
but the problem is ive been single for so long that i dont know how to get back in the game and another thing is once i know a guy likes me i stop liking them so how can i change that
i dont know what to do because im to scared to get back in the game you know ??
yeah that happens to me sometimes too. you cant really change who you like. but you can tell yourself to give him a chance. you never really know how something is going to work out. so if a guy likes you and you think there may be a chance that you like him back then go out with him! you can always break up with him later if you change your mind! and for your first question.. just flirt a lot and show guys that you're interested!
ok so i am going out with this guy but hes younger than me. but he looks like hes the same age and like 3 weeks ago he kissed me. and all i wanted to do was go out with him. now that we are going out, he doesnt really treat me like a girlfriend and he won't even hug me. i mean i dont like a guy to be all over me but i would like him to show some pda. and to make it worse, my ex-boyfriend who i was friends with wont look at me because he heard i got a boyfriend so soon after we broke up. and its hurting me. and i dont know what to do. please help...
maybe hes shy now because you guys are going out. try making the first move. hold his hand or something. hopefully he will catch on. talk to your ex and tell him that you still really want to be friends. apologize to him and maybe he just needs some time to get over you. let him have that time.
i'm turning 16 in december and i'm planning a sweet sixteen [or will be soon].
i don't really want a theme party, but i don't want something too simple. i want it to be memorable and not tacky.
my mom is renting a dance hall and there's gonna be a dj and stuff, but i have a few questions.
1. is it better to have a sit-down dinner or buffet?
2. is it kind of corny to have like the macarena and cha cha slide and other things like that to get people involved?
3. favors. i have no idea what to get. my mom said something filled with like candies but i don't know if i want to make my favor edible.
4. entrance ideas?
1. its better to have a buffet because then people will take the foods they want. and if people dont want any food (because sometimes people dont eat at these types of things) then you wont waste food by setting a plate for them.
2. no its not! theyre fun.
3. it would be cute to give away like a shirt/shorts or sweatpants/sweatshirt that says something cute on it like "i partied at ______'s sweet sixteen."
4. ask the dj. they usually have good ideas. maybe they can carry you in on a chair or something.
okay i got an email from my friend and it was a game. at the top ot said david copperfield. and it said to pick a card than to look in his eyes and when you look again it wasnt there... HOW DOES HE DO THAT?!??? ESPECIALLY OVER THE COMPUTER
please and thank you.
so confused!
none of the cards that were in the first set are in the second set. so no matter which card you pick, it wont be there the second time.
I have my period during a big dance! So like where do i put everything? I'm not wearing boots so i can't put it in there. I can't bring a purse because that would be tacky. SO WHERE DO I PUT IT?!
put it in your coat pocket =)
or just bring some change (like put it in your shoe or pocket or something) and buy one in the bathroom if you really need it.
but can any harm come from rolling up pieces of paper, lighting it at the end, and smoking it?
my friend and i have been doing it for a few days and i looked it up on the internet and found nothing and i really dont want to die from something stupid like that.
so pleaaaase tell me if something bad can come from that?
yes. you can get cancer.
i would suggest not doing it anymore..
(these are not in any order)
Guy #1- I've only known him for 1 year, sits next to me in one of my classes. We have some small talk. Absolutly gorgous! He's also a little shy
Guy #2- In my gym class, really nice but totally shy and not loud. My best friend likes him too. I've met him this year, never had a real convo with him.
guy #3- I've had a crush on him for 3 years. Gave him a nickname. He's really shy, but cute. very athletic. He knows I like him. I went out with his friend once. Never really had a convo with him.
help! I don't know what to do! I like all 3 of them but I don't know which guy would be better for me. thank's
guy #1: well since you talk to him a little this guy sounds like your best bet. try to make it a little more than small talk next time you talk to him and carry the convo further.
guy #2: i would stay away from this kid. your best friend likes him so you dont want to cause a fight or anything.
guy #3: well youve never really talked to him. so you dont really know him well enough to REALLY like him. i would go with guy #1.
it doesnt seem like you talk to any of these guys very much. i dont really understand how you can like any of them very much when you dont know them very well. i would go with guy #1 because you seem to talk to him the most:)
Can you get pregnant before you have your period? Is it normal to not ahave started when you are fourteen and weigh 95 pounds.
no you can't get pregnant before you have your period. but the sperm can stay in there for awhile and when you do get your period then you can become pregnant. yes its totally normal. you sound like you're really skinny for your age so you probably are just developing a little bit behind everyone else.
13/f.
this year we are having a formal dance and i fit in smalls in abercrombie kids and 0 pants, so there is not really too many cute dresses in my size unless i get it in a kids department with babyish flowers on it. i kinda fit in deb dresses but i was wondering what are some other stores with cute dresses that would fit me?
thanks in advance!
wet seal has cute more casual-ish dresses. macys has lots of cute dresses and they make them in a size 0. you could also see if there are any dress specialty shops in your area. like little botiques. it depends on where you live. hope i helped
How do you get over making the biggest mistake of your life when it's irreversible? And the regret is so hard to life with...and you're constantly thinking "what if?"
well it would help if you were a little more specific about what the regret was exactly. the only advice i can give you is:
look through the windshield, not the rearview mirror.
basically, you cant change the past so dont dwell on it. everyone has their "what ifs". you cant change them. your chance is gone. maybe that same chance will come again. who knows. just be happy with your choice because at the time it was what you wanted :)
Well we have been dating for almost a year [ march it will be ] . & I love him VERY much , with all my heart and he says the same . Although i dont see it how i want i guess its true . Anyways , today he totally passed the line with me ... He said i was 0BSESSED over him ! and i guess he calls me that because i care about him WAYYYYYYY lot , and do every single thing for him & show i care so much . But thats what i want to change , maybe i am to attacted ; i feel i put my EVERYTHING , heart and soul in this relationship and all he does is lift a pink , ya know ? I just want the feelings to be EVEN with us not me more than him . But just help me i want to SHOW that boy im not obsessed , no one can tell me that . I need to pull my self away from him a little bit .
maybe he meant it as a good thing. as in you would do anything for him and you love him so much and he is like the greatest thing in your life. he might have been joking too. i wouldnt take it so seriously. i felt like that with my last boyfriend too, about putting your heart and soul in your relationship and him only lifting a pinky. dont feel bad. guys are like that. im sure he loves you very much but he just doesnt show it the way that girls do. try to make a little less effort and then maybe he will make a little more effort to maintain the closeness of your relationship.
Hello, I'm sick of all the regular myspace surveys that keep circulating.
If any of you have any good ones, or would just like to give me some, that'd be great !
Thanks so much !
bzoink.com
theres millions of quizzes on there =)
ITS AMAZING
How do you know when you're in love?
you just know. its when you cant stand being without them. you love every second you spend with them. they are basically the best part of your life.
16/f
does anyone know where i can buy a sexy onepiece swimsuit. like the ones that look like a bikini in the back. i was wonderingif they'd be at like a store like forever 21 or something.
thank you! =]
theres tons of really cute ones at victorias secret! LIKE AMAZING ONES! go look on the site
www.victoriassecret.com
Psychologists have proved that the more you see a certain face, the more attractive it will become?
yeah. im taking AP psychology right now. the more you see a face the more familiar it becomes. people like familiarity. therefore, they are more attracted to people that are familiar to them. also, you might sometimes notice that the more you stare at a girls/guys face the cuter they start to look because you become more familiar and accustomed to their features.
i think i MIGHT like one of my teachers. there is only a 6-7 year difference.. i mean its weird but i don't know, is that totally wrong?
no its okay. lots of people like their teachers. you just have to know that no relationship can come of it because your teacher can get in SERIOUS, and i mean SERIOUS trouble. so just keep your crush on the down low.
There is this guy in my grade. And we don't have any classes together, but when he sees me he either smiles at me or just kind of like looks/stares at me, then looks away when I catch his eye. But he never seems to make a move besides smiling. is he shy (I doubt this because he is like one of the popular kids) or is he just a player or is he just like trying to confuse me? Thanks!
well. since you dont really know him.. im guessing he just thinks you're pretty or hot or whatever. try talking to him!
Hey! I have an iPod Touch and I was wondering if there was anyplace online or like how to get download movies for free? Thanks! :)
limewire. thats illegal. but anywhere that lets you download movies for free is illegal.
I am 15 and about 5'2/3 short for my age. I have been trying to loose weight for about 2 years now, but i never ever stick to eat. I always find myself binging when i get home from school. Its like a race between me and my friend, we are the same size. But shes lost so much weight and i really dont no what to do the obvious thing is to stop binging but its sosososo hard i get really hungry. I do exercise quite alot but it justs turns into muscle so i look even bigger. I need to loose weight fast for the summer especially!!
wow. same exact thing with me. like EXACT. im like pretty muscular. not like gross muscular, but i do gymnastics. so yeah. my weight turns into muscle too. just try to eat healthier foods. like a lot of fruits and vegetables and water will help fill you up! when you are about to binge think about how pretty you can look in the summer in a bikini if you dont eat that extra food!
okay so, there is this kid that I REALLY like. lets call him kevin. well I told only my three best friends about liking him and they are just like awwwww. but like I really don't think he likes me because whenever he is online he NEVER i/ms me and if we are talking he will sometimes just stop anwering me. but then I tell my friends I was like okay he doesn't like me he doesn't i/m me I should just give up and then my friend goes "well you like him a lot and you aren't iming him either cause you think you are being annoiny, maybe he is doing the same thing." and that got me thinking what if that is the case? so then without my permission my best friend claire texts him and goes "awww! do you like heather (me)?" and he was like "no why" and she goes "because you guys would be so cute together" and he was just like "haha" so then I was like okay guys he seriously doesn't like me I should just give up... then my friend comes in and says "well, if kevins best friend asked if you like kevin you would probably say no too because it would be awkward" and that got me thinking again what if that's the case??? so like now I don't know what to do! I really really like him but he's confusing me way too much. I mean like we hung out every single day with a bunch of people when we had a week off from school and he kept talking to me and teasing me and stuff. I just want him to talk to me online too. my friend said that I should ignore him in person and online cause it will make him want to talk to me. is that true? I just really badly need help I am so confused. thank you!
I HATE GUYS LIKE THIS! believe me. i know exactly how you feel. this was the same exact thing that happened with the last guy i liked. he would IM me sometimes, but he would take a long time to answer or stop answering or whatever. and i would be like wtf? because he would like flirt with me in person and then he actually like made a move on me later and i found out he liked me. so yeah this guy is either too shy to talk to you (he doesnt really know what to say, doesnt wanna mess up) or he just doesnt like talking to you online. its definetly more fun to talk in person.