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Boyfriend problem .
Well we have been dating for almost a year [ march it will be ] . & I love him VERY much , with all my heart and he says the same . Although i dont see it how i want i guess its true . Anyways , today he totally passed the line with me ... He said i was 0BSESSED over him ! and i guess he calls me that because i care about him WAYYYYYYY lot , and do every single thing for him & show i care so much . But thats what i want to change , maybe i am to attacted ; i feel i put my EVERYTHING , heart and soul in this relationship and all he does is lift a pink , ya know ? I just want the feelings to be EVEN with us not me more than him . But just help me i want to SHOW that boy im not obsessed , no one can tell me that . I need to pull my self away from him a little bit .
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Some guys don't like clingy girls, as they feel they have a greater responsibilty! If you know what I mean. So, just don't call him as often, if you do, text him once and if he doesn't reply... be patient! If you text him without waiting, and continue texting him, it does give the impression that you are insecure and clingy/obsessed.
I know you care about him and want to hekp him with everything and just treat him absolutely perfectly, but you also have to give him some space. Remember he is a person too, he has feelings and sometimes, he probably does want to be alone, or have sometime to himself, you know?!
My advice is, just take it easy... If he thinks you're obsessed with him then, talk to him about it, ask him what makes him think that and work it out TOGETHER!! Relationships fail due to lack of communication... so speak out, hun!
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I can't believe your situation! I am going through the EXACT same thing right now.
You need to remember that caring is never a bad thing, but he also needs to do things for himself. Tell him your feelings and ask him how to change it. The only person that can really tell you how to change your relationship is the person you are in the relationship with!
Good luck...It will be hard...make sure he knows you are trying and show it!!
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maybe he meant it as a good thing. as in you would do anything for him and you love him so much and he is like the greatest thing in your life. he might have been joking too. i wouldnt take it so seriously. i felt like that with my last boyfriend too, about putting your heart and soul in your relationship and him only lifting a pinky. dont feel bad. guys are like that. im sure he loves you very much but he just doesnt show it the way that girls do. try to make a little less effort and then maybe he will make a little more effort to maintain the closeness of your relationship. <33
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