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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle

"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."

I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.

advice

well it was the last day of my period. n me n my boyfriend had sex. the condom broke, im on birth control - the patch - but i've only been on it for two weeks. shoud i worry about being pregnant?

the girl below me is wrong. yes, it is possible that you could be pregnant. even if you were in the middle of your period, and had sex, you could still be pregnant. it doesn't matter, its still possible. and the birth control isn't always 100% protective. nothing is. the only way not to become pregnant is not become sexually active.

ha. my health teacher gave us that same speech every single day. so i know what i'm talking about.

the chances of you becoming pregnant, is rare, really rare. but its still possible. but, i wouldn't worry about it much, if i were you..

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I am going to camp in a few days and we have times where we have to dress up. I was wanting like a skirt and simple shirt. Does abercrombie have this type of thing? Also any other stores that have like khaki mini skirts or simple shirts. Or anything really, just something dressy. But not a dress. I dont shop at abercrombie much so I dont want like the logo on the front really big or anything. thnx

hahha no not abercrombie. abercrombie is veryyy casual clothing. its not dressy at all. (:

but.. these stores have cute dressy clothing..
-forever 21.
-urban outfitters
-american eagle
-aeropostale
-delias [maybeee]
-limited too [i dont know how old you are..but..]
-macys

places like that basically.

and why not a dress? like a summer dress. those are realy in right noww.

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Hello, Do you know of any cool t-shirts that I could buy online, like a logo t-shirt or some band t-shirts or anything. i just need some cool shirts for school. Thanks!

If you go to myspace.com, and then go to music, and type in a band, and then go to there offical site, they most likely will have there own store, with tshirts. Hot topic also has band tshirts.

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i recently bought these pair of abercrombie denim shorts...

http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_317551_-1_12250_12203

and i washed them today for the first time.
when i washed them i washed by instruction which was the following...

machine wash cold
inside out with like colors
don't bleach
tumble dry low

which i did. but when they came out.
the buttom ripped part got all freyed
and has many long strings in bunches that kinda
resemble yarn. and they just look trashy and ugly now.

i was wondering if i did something wrong
or what i cna do to make them look better.
or if this has happened to anyone else and
their solution. thank you so much.!!

i have those. my mistake was i didnt put it on the gentle cycle or something. honeslty though, when you buy anything from abercrombie like that, its gonna do that. (: abercrombies clothes is really cheap material. i love abercrombie with all my heart, but its true.

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can anyone give me any of there stories on how they found out they were pregnant and what made them take a pregnancy test in the first place i mean what were the symptoms before you actually knew you were pregnant before you even thought about it before you tested to see if you were pregnant
well thanks for the advice

I've never been pregnant, but i've heard stories from friends and family type thing.

-throwing up in the moring
-missing there period
-just took the pregnancy test because they were worried.
-just not overall feeling well.

i hope that helpedd. (:

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you said that i could have your neopets account. lol. can i have the username and password please?

heh.

uhmm. lol i kinda forgot my password, because yano it just automatically logs me in, like right away, and since i havent been on it for awhile, i forgot my passwod, soo, mm ill just put a trade up, and itll say like, for person on advicenators. k ? abercrombiieekiid

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http://i151.photobucket.com/albums/s134/omgoshxitsxmeg/homie.jpg
yeah.
well.
theres me.
i would love to have some blue up in there.
but.
being the controlling school.
they dont allow crazy color.
so thinking about the random blonde streaks.
chunks.
tips.
ya know.
just wondering yalls opinion.
thanks in advance.
:]]

i wouldnt get blue. or like nothing crazy.

its not halloween just yet.

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do you think I should get my lip pierced, heres what I look like with a fake one in.

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=638mbeh

you look fine with or without it.
you look better then most people do with them.

but, i think it will distract from your other looks, like your eyes or something. because people will just be staring at your lip ring, and nothing else.

so i'm gonn have to say, dont get one. but if you really wanna get one, then itd look fine, it just would distract people from your other looks.

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hey i saw somewhere that you said youll give the neopets account that would be good
my sisters obssessed i havent played it for like four years, but i gave her my account
anyways if you would give me shed be sooo happy

yeah. i know a whole bunch of people are asking me. lol so yeah, uhm ask her what items she wants, i dont have any paintbrushes, or anytihng. but ill give her like 25,000 and some cool items, if she wantss. just send her lil thing to my inbox again, and yupp.

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OK so my birthday is coming soon, 14. I have a cell phone already and I want a new one but I dont want the company I have but im in a contract and dont like any of the phones there. I dont know what to ask for my b-day. What else is there to get. I dont want a ipod and cant get a pet. Please help, I need ideas.

ha i hate when people say money, like who the hell wants money, on there bday? it takes the whole element of surprise out of it. atleast i think so. well im really girlie, so i really would like a new chanel or coach purse. like badly. and im hoping ill get one. do you have a digital camera? you didnt mention if you had one or not, so yeah. do you need any new clothes? like maybe for some up coming events? like where i live, were gonna have a carnival soon, and i know id like a few new outfits for that. what about a laptop maybe? or redoing your room. what about a new tv in your room? what are your hobbies or what do you like to do? get something that contains that. what about jewerly? like nice expensive jewrly. oooh! what about new perfume, like juicy couture. burberry. or new make up. or some really nice expensive lip gloss. yano the kind thats like 25 dollars. what about one of those cool slide things? those big blow up ones that are like 7 ft high. we had one of those, therel ike 300 dollars, but there awesomee. or what about a trampoline?

haha i looked around my room, and saw all of that stuff, well except the pool thing. and the trampoline. lol


uhm, i dont know like, if you have a price range or anything. but yeah, if you want like lower cheaper stuff, ask me for some other things. (:

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so, I'm a newbie on Neopets. And i was wondering a few things:

1. Can you MAKE food on there, instead of buying it. Please tell me how, if so.

2. Is there a way to plant stuff, and grow it. And if so, tell me how.


thankies!

nopeee. and you can do all that on webkinz. and, if you wantt, you can have my neopets account, i dont play it anymore, and i think i have like 100,000, and then probably another 150,000 on it.

its a big waste of time though.

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im turning 15 this August and im debating what to do. i think i kinda wanna just do a simple little party with just a few people. im a girl and live in Newton Falls, Ohio if it helps. any ideas?

ha samee. but i'm turning 15 on july 20th, and i live in ohio, but not there. ive never heard of there, actually. anyways, yeah i decided to hae a small little party this year, because obviously since ill be 16 next year, i wanna have a major hugee party. what im doing is, me my friend, her boyfriend, my boyfriend, and a few other girls, were all just going up to shintos [this amazing japanese restraunt, where they make it infront of you. (: ] and like then back to my house, to watch movies, & go swimming in my pool and im gonna have a little cake, and then there giving me presents, and such. soo, it should be fun. and its simple.

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My 8 year old brother just rescued 2 teeny tiny baby rabbits from our neighbors dog, Cocoa. They would possibly live, but we dont know what to feed them...ANY tips on what to do in this situation would be appreciated. Thank you SO much.

Are they wild rabbits? Call animal control. They most likely won't eat anything you give them. Its there natural instinct, or something. Thats what my dad told me, when I wanted to keep one that i found as a pet. lol So, yeah call animal control

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is coffee bad for your brain? i heard that it can shorten your memory span. :/

I love coffee, but its extremely bad for your health. I never heard that one, but I don't know I know it stunts your growth, and makes your teeth bad, its just not good for you. The person at the wayyy bottom is an idiot. -__- don't listen to her. She can't even spell 'die' right.

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which one helps more to get rid of a belly fat? running on a treadmill or other exercises, such as working out the muscles?

I like walking better. Plus, walking loses more calories then running. (: If you drink alot of water and everything, and walk, and maybe a few sit ups and such, you'd do super.

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okay so i gave this guy a hand job and we were both naked on his bed. and he fingered me but he didn't touch himself before it or anything(atleast i'm pretty sure) and when he cummed he didn't get it on me or anything. but my period is five days late, could i be pregnant? and if you think im not is there any reason my period is late? cause now im starting to freak out ive never wanted my period to come more than my entire life:(
thanks for your help :)

If he didn't actually go inside of you, then no. Thats what my health teacher told us, like 24/7. that if he doesn't go inside of you, then nope its not possible. and if your younger, then its normal for your period to be late. but i don't know how old you are, so i'm not sure.

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there was a cute little kitten that was obviously abdonded because the perosn left it food and water in front of my house
the kitten stays in bush and won't come out i want to catch and put it in a shelther but i cant catch it
help??

call your local animal control. they'll get him.

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i'm 15/female

i'm scared incase my friends think i'm a lesbian,..i'm not u am straight,..but i just have a funny feeling they all think i am and because of this when i talk to them i always make sure i look at their eyes incase like i look them up and down,...but i can't remember why i started thinking this cos before i never bothered at all but now its like when ever i'm near them i'm scared to look at anywhere other than their eyes incase they think i'm a lesbian

why am i like this
i no i'm not a lesbian i love boys wayy to much

i'm just confused

My one friend went through this. But we were all like 13 then. I remember all of my friends used to all talk about it. And its not that she was either. I mean, I don't know, obviously when we were 13, we were extremely immature. and she was the only one in our group who didn't have a boyfriend. and we were all little skinny short girls, and she was like tall and everything. well, now shes like laughing in all those girls faces, because now she has a boyfriend whos popular and everything. but, basically though, i think your friends are kinda immature, if there doing that, because obviously my friend were. just ask them. be like "is something going on between us? i feel like somethings wrong" and if they say no, then just try to overlook it.

Do you ever tell them who you like? Thats why they all started thinking my friend was a dyke, because she never talked about that stuff. so you could be like to them.. hey guess who i like now. or when your at the mall or something, you could be like oh my gosh, look hes cute.

i hope everything works out. (:

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i left one of the burners on the top of my stove on low for about an hour to an hour and a half. about how much gas would that have used? and about how much will it cost? i live in Rhode Island, if that makes a difference.

thanks!

Don't worry, thats hardly nothing, because most food, well atleast dinners, take that long to make, if you were to do it on a stove. and i'm not sure how much it will cost, because it probably differs and i don't wanna give you like the wrong price. but, i do know, it won't be a dramaticly higher price. trust me, i do it all the time. (:

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Ok so i need answers here! Me and my boyfriend were dry humping and i was wearing a skirt and his penis was out. I was kinda giving him a lap dance and my underwear was wet from what im thinking was myself. Im not sure if he came or not but what are the chances im pregnant? he fingered me before too but b4 there was any contact with his penis and im kinda hurting now cause i think he went deep. PLEASE HELP!And tell me can the sperm (if he even came) travel through my underwear and into me? Could i be pregnant and what can i do? Thanks in advance

Nope your not pregnant. Once the sperm hits the air, it dies. (:

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