about

hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]

advice

14/f...
A boy i thought was really cute asked me out yesterday, and he has a sweet six pack, but I dont know whats wrong. This is my first boyfriend, and so far we`ve only held hands, and before we did i didnt want him around me, but then it was a little better after we held hands, but when i woke up this morning i felt so queezy, like i didnt want to go out with him anymore.It`s so weird. I dont know if this is normal, I havent had my first kiss yet either, and this kid already tried to kiss me, after only one minute of going out. And I know that he goes fast, and i dont like that. Any advice?

tell him you want to slow down. and if he doesnt respect that.. then hes not the right guy for you.

[view]

Well, my boyfriend doesn't really know how to make out very well.
He shoves his tounge down my throat = [
So what can I tell him? In a nice way that I don't like that?


Another question. When I am making out, how can I make it more intense? I don't want to get sexual but what can I do to make it seem like I am very experienced?

just tell him to slow down a little. try to guide his tounge away from your throat haha. or be like "lets play a game. you copy everything i do." then do what you want him to do in a kiss. that way it wont hurt his feelings as much. but whatever you do.. dont lie to him and tell him you like kissing him.

and for your second question.. idk maybe start off by kissing his neck. put your arms around his neck. or put your hands up his shirt and touch his chest.

[view]

ok, I know I'm a horrible person.. but I need your help. so, I am 15, and I have a boyfriend. I've been his girlfriend for 2 weeks and one day.. since then, we've hung out ONCE, and he call me ONCE, we've never kissed, we don't hold hands, but we do hug. He's never called me pretty, or complemented me in any way like that. I almost feel like I'm just a friend.

Then there is this other boy, who I hang out with almost every weekend, and we've been hanging out at lunch, in the library. He calls me every night right before we go to bed. He calls me beautiful, and cute all the time. He just recently broke up with his girlfriend, and I think he wants me to break up with my boyfriend.

I feel like my actual boyfriend is less of one than the other boy. I don't like my boyfriend as much as before, and I do like the other one, and he likes me back. The problem is, I'm going to feel bad if I dump him. I am his first girlfriend, and it only has been about 2 weeks. I don't know what to do, stay with him or break up?
Please help thanks

if you dont really like your boyfriend all your doing is being unfair to him. just break up with him. its not that hard. just do it in a nice way. just tell him you would rather be friends.

[view]

Alright, I've searched online, and I am yet to find some answers.

I have to write a 5 paragraph essay about the successes and failures of the French Revolution.


Please help...I need a good grade..

Sorry. I know how much you hate homework questions. But if you're going to say something rude, then don't answer this.

look on wikipedia or type it into google.
it comes up with lots of good websites.

also: one failure is that so many innocent people were killed.

[view]

Does a guy's virginity mean as much as it does to a girl?

not really. i guess it depends on the guy though.
most guys just want to do it to be able to say "oh yeah ive had sex". girls mostly want to wait until theyre really in love with someone.

[view]

Okay, so theres this guy I like. He's a year older than me. Today we were hanging out in a group and he kept staring at me and every time he did, he smiled. My friend said he was about to ask me out, but im skeptical because she is jealous of me [haha not to sound stuck up]. Should I believe her, or just ask him myself??

well um if your friend is jealous of you then why would she lie about a guy wanting to ask you out? thats just making you look better than her. she probably isnt lying. maybe you should just ask him who he likes and see what happens from there.

[view]

13/f 8th grade.

sorry in advance for this being long.

in 6th grade i used to be best friends with this guy..lets call him "jeremy". jeremy is two years older than me..so when i was in 6th grade he was in 8th grade..we were best friends and we always used to talk..but then i liked him.i told my best friend to tell him i like him because i thought that we were such good friends that nothing would change. he was okay with it for awhile but then he kinda got annoyed at me and we stopped being friends. i was so upset! =( i never thought that we would be friends again.

when i got into 8th grade [[jeremy is in 10th grade now]] i met this really cute guy..lets call him "roger". ive liked roger ever since september but i never stopped having feelings for jeremy even tho we didnt go to the same school and we werent friends anymore. roger and i used to like each other but we never went out. we are always nice to each other and we tease each other all the time

the other day i had field day out on the track. [[field day is like when the 8th grade classes compete in sporting events with each other]].
field day was going pretty well so far.it was the best day ever! me and my friends,erica and alyson decided to walk down to the food stand and get some drinks. we saw across the parking lot the high schoolers getting out of school..so we kinda waited for like 5 minutes to see if anyone would walk over.

then i saw jeremy across the parking lot. he was walking over to the track. i started freaking out. i didnt know what to do. i was about to turn away cause i thought he hated me but then he said "hey! what are you doin here!?" in a teasing way. we talked for like 5 minutes and i was so happy =)
i realized that some day me and him would be friends again. me and erica started screaming and jumping up and down. [[shes known about my friendship w/ jeremy since 6th grade]]. we were so happy. i still smile thinking about him now.

but then today roger was being a total jerk to me. i walked into his class to get a text book and this girl nikki was like "kayla kayla kayla! hey wats up!" and then roger was like "kayla kayla kayla GO AWAY".and he was just being a b*tch.
he was giving me crap like all day and was just making fun of me.

so my questions are:why is roger being such a jerk for no reason now?[[and i dont think he knows about jeremy if that helps at all]]. and do you think i should stop liking him if hes being such an ass? should i wait for jeremy?

thanks.any advice is muchh appreciated =)

maybe one of your friends told him about jeremy. or he saw you talking to jeremy or about him. hes probably just jealous. especially since jeremy is in high school and roger might feel like jeremy is better than him. the only thing you can really do is just ask roger why hes being so mean to you all of the sudden. if he keeps being such an ass to you then just forget about him. hes not worth your time.

[view]

OK pleasseeee if you can find a site or a few sites that cover these subjects id be extremely happy.. i have a math project due on the work we did for the last term.. i beg you all please help me!!! we did:

Geometry
points
line segment
line
rays
angles

types of angles
staright angle obtuse
reflex

properties of angles
adjacent angles
vertically opposite angles
corresponding angles
alternate angles

Constructing Lines + Angles

-Elements of Geometry
-The Triangle
- Finding the missing Angle of a triangle

Vertically opposite angles
Supplementary Angles
Complementary Angles
Interior Angles

-The Circle
-Parts of a Circle

Consumer Arithmetic
Constructing angles :- 90 degrees 45 degress 22.5 degrees 15 degrees and 30 degrees and 60 degrees

(in Consumer Arithmetic)
Percentage Profit
Percentage Loss
Percentage Change

I AM SO SORRY THAT THIS IS LONG, BUT IF YOU FIND A SITE OR A FEW SITES THAT HAVE DIAGRAMS, PICTURES, AND HELPFUL INFORMATION IT WILL ALL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED :) THANK YOU SO MUCH!

type them into google.
that will help a lot..

and you could also look in your
math book because they probably
explain all that stuff in there.

[view]

Well I get a lot of discharge and it's really annoying! I don't wear a pantyliner because I have a good relationship with my mom and all, but not THAT kind of relationship, so I think it would be awkward to tell her that I need it. Also, does discharge have ANYTHING to do with your period and is it necessary to wear pantyliner? Thanks to all who answer the question!

um if you havent gotten your period yet that means it will probably come pretty soon.

[view]

Okay, I'm a 16/F, and I LOVE PICTURES!
I love them, pictures of my friends, my family
MYSELF! I just love pictures but I also love editing them. I need a free trail picture editor and I've looked all over google (left and right)
but I can't find any good ones so if anyone has any links to some great photo editors they use, that'd be HIGHLY appriciated. Also, I don't know if this will help or not, but I have Windows XP.

picasa

or

corel paint shop pro photo XI
(you can download a free trial and then when the trial is up just re-download it, thats what i do)

xoxo

[view]

my armpits are rly sensitive. are there any alternatives beside shaving that wont irritate them

you could use nair.

[view]

i'm one week away from being 16 and i have been dating my boyfriend for the past year and 2 months. we are both virgins, and wish to keep it that way. my parents have been fine with us dating, they have set rules, like: he can't be over when they're not home, and typical guidelines like that - as most parents do. but i don't drink, i don't smoke, i get good grades and my boyfriend and i don't have sex. i'd say i'm on the right track. however, my parents think that we're getting "too serious" and that i'm "too young" to be in a relationship lasting this long. they think i am wasting my time. i totally see their point of view, they're parents .. they're supposed to worry about that. but it's gotten to the point where they're almost telling me NOT to see him anymore. they are STRONGLY encouraging me to "play the field" and "date around" i know that i won't marry my boyfriend, but why would i break up with him if i love him. this isn't junior high love either. i promise you with everything in me that i love him with a maturity far beyond my years. i plan to ride this relationship out for as long as the Good Lord allows it, and i'm extremely upset that my parents aren't behind me. so my question is, what do i do? i'm torn between wanting to have my parents approval, and wanting to make my own decisions and live with whatever consequences may come as a result. please, ANY advice would be greatly appreciated.

it sounds like they just dont want you to have sex. honestly, if someone from my school was 16 and had been going out with a guy for 2 years i would just assume that theyve already had sex. idk what your parents think. they are probably trying to protect you so you dont get hurt. or they know you havent done anything like that with him yet and they dont want you to do it and then be upset when your relationship ends. they probably think if your relationship gets too serious you will be more hurt when it ends. but honestly, two years is a long time and really i dont see that much of a difference between breaking up after 2 years or breaking up after 3 years. maybe you should talk to them and ask them exactly why they think your relationship is getting too serious. are you like talking to him and hanging out with him too much? are you still hanging out with your friends? you can be in love with him and in a relationship with him but just dont let your relationship control your whole life.

[view]

hey. i just got a new fone and its a razer from verizon but i'm confused on a couple of things, and i don't feel like reading the book. lol. what is pix and flix??? i've like, never heard of eaither of those. so if anyone could tell me that would be great. thanx!!

pix --> pictures.

flix --> movies/videos

[view]

okay so people say that gay means you like the same sex and others say that it means you are happy what does it really mean?

it has two definitions..
one is homosexual
and the other is happy.
it depends on how whoevers saying it uses it

[view]

is it normal to masterbate with a vibrator alot?

uh sure. as long as youre not like obsessed with it.

[view]

How do you know if you can make out really well?

um ask the ppl youve made out with if they liked it or whatever.

[view]


If you are on your period can you still go swimming

yeah just wear a tampon.

[view]

Ok well I got my legs waxed and when I finished there was thsi painful looking red strip mark on a part of my leg.

It's like I got hit like REALLY badly! Really red and with darker red dots on it.

What should I do?

It's been 2 days, it looks better but not that much it pretty much looks the same.

Is it goign to stay liek that forever?!

haha okay youre not allergic to wax. its supposed to be red there after you get a wax. it will go away in a few days.

[view]

I'm tired of my boring voicemail recording. You know, the simple: "Hey this is so-and-so call me back later."

I want something clever and funny for my voicemail recording. If it helps, I'm a girl.

Any ideas?

you can say..

hello?

hold on a second.

okay whats up?

etc. and the ppl
will think they are really
talking to you

[view]

Hya i jus want to no..is it ment to hurt when you get fingered ? Thanks =)

no its supposed to feel good.
it might hurt the first few times though.

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker