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I use to be on this site all the time. Got sick of reading the same exact questions and basically copying and pasting my answers because no one cared to read questions asked before them. So I left and haven't really been on here.Ps. I'm not perfect and my advice isn't always right. & sometimes I choose to make it sound like you will get hurt more than you actually will to prevent people from doing stupid things. Like if I get drunk what can happen? Well i might just say you can die.....stretching the truth but I think its better than having people go out and get drunk. Plus you can die but you would have to have alcohol poisoning.
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ok so i've started using tampons and sometimes they leak so i take it out but when i do it hurts like i havent left it in long enough.... i dont know what to do get bigger ones or what
pleez help!!!
hmm either you haven't left it in long enough or you have to relax while taking it out. For some girls if you get nervous and stuff it will close up and make it hard for you to take it out.
Ok, I have the opportunity to go to this really good highschool, where you can have 2 years of college finished when you graduate and it looks better on your college application and everything.The problem is,I know some people that go there and they said that htey were straight A students, and when they got there they started making C's and D's, and that it was ALOT of stress and they never get to do anything anymore.Everybody keeps telling me to go, that I can handle it, but I don't really want to, and I'm scared to. At my school now, everything is going good, and there's a guy that I really like, and I would never get to see him again if I went to that other school. I just have no idea what to do. I don't want to give up a great opportunity, but I don't want to go either. I have alrady prayed about it, but I'm still confused. Please help! And please, no rude answers, I'm stressed enough as it is. Thanks! I'll rate!
P.S. Sorry so long!!
But rude is more fun...ok well that’s hard. It all depends how much you are going to be willing to study. A lot of people who get A's don't need to study much because it comes easily. Since this school is so much harder you will need to put in a lot more hours on the books. Your social life will most likely be a thing of the past and you can just forget about this guy. I guess that’s all the negative. The positive is that it's better on a college app. If you’re willing to put in the hours now and have a better future then go for it. Basically make a list of pro's and con's. Or just do what your heart tells you. If you really don't want to don't but make sure you won't regret it later.
so, its schedule planning time in my High school. and this year ive taken classes in this program called Middle Years Program. Ive found my 4.0 grades last year imp[ossible in this program, its rigorous. i have a 3.0. its a 2 year program and i can drop out niext year, and take honors and AP classes instead, but i dono if i should. the pros of this program is that ill get a MYP certificate of completeion, i dono if that is important to any college. in addition to next year, id have to ocomplete a "personal project" which is a 6month long project. its tons of work. i need to get a job next year. i can barely do MYp now, i don if i should drop out because next year ill have to have a job, and do the personal project, and get reasonable grades in MYP. im working hard to rise my GPA but so far i find myself very swamped and confused. on top of ALL of this my mom most likely wants me to keep being in MYP, because she thinks i can handle it. but i cant and i want to get into penn state, and i cant with 3.0 grades. please give me advice, i dono what to do with myself.
How did you ever have a 4.0 if you can't spell for your life? There was this wonderful invention called a dictionary you should try it sometime oh and take which ever one is easier because I can't see you doing well with spelling like that.
Its really hard for me to ask but my dog just died this week n i got her for x-mas so u can say she was not a year old. so ya. and i am getting a new puppy on sunday. but do you have any ideas how to keep my mind off of her becasue it is really hard to.
aww i'm so sorry. the best way to keep your mind off if anything is to keep busy. to just be doing something all the time so your thinking about the other thing.
i have wuts called "flat nipples" i kno it has something to do with heredity but im adopted so i cant really talk about it to my mom or anything... can someone help me get more information on this?! thanks!
http://search.netscape.com/ns/search?fromPage=NSCPTop&query=flat%20nipple
i met this kid though my friend friday night we hung out i thought he was really hot and all that good stuff saturday night me and my friend got invited to this party she bet me 5 bucks that i would hook up with him. i did. we kissed a few times at the party he told me wow i wasnt expecting this to happen and then asked if i had a boyfriend i said no do you have a girlfriend he said technically yes but no i never see her because im not aloud to. later that night we went to his house and we all stayed the night there we kissed some more i really like this kid but he has a girlfriend what should i do?
he eather just wants you to get some or he really likes you. if he likes you then you have to tell him that you don't want to be the person he's cheating on his g/f with. basically he has to brake up with her. if you don't want to be the cause of them breaking up then don't do anything else with him. or wait until their relationship ends on it's own before moving in. (if he cheated on her, he can always cheat on you)
hey..ok i have a problem..i think i might like my best friend..but he has a g/f..and he might like me back. like he will call me just to talk and he makes me promise i wont watch a movie without him..you know basic stuff like that. last night we were watchin the grudge, well me, him, and his 3 cousins. and we were all on the bed. well he was sittin on my left and like i was gettin scared so me and him wrapped our legs around each other and he didnt say anything and he held my arm the whole movie. and me and him ALWAYS hang out. do you think he might like me?
the signals are all there so i guess he does. The thing is he has a g/f and you don't want to be the cause of them breaking up. Another thing is if you two are really good friends and if you go out and it doesn't work out then there is a big chance that you two won't be as close. So find if he likes you or not. Ask him yourself or ask a friend to ask him. See how his relationship with his g/f is going and what he wants out of you two being friends. If theres anything else just ask :)
Okay I failed a test in school with a 65, and to raise the grade, the teacher said we could take a retest. Problem is, we have to show a note to our parents saying we failed, and have them sign it. The re-test is tomorrow, and I still haven't showed my parents the note. WHAT do I do? Because..my parents kill me if I even get an 85. Help me. :(
sign the paper your self. ok heres what you do. find an old signature that your parents did. (with pencil) ok now take the paper and with a pencil go over it making it go onto the other paper. That sounds confusing but if you understude it then do it..haha
Omg..what do I do when I want to get my nose pierced and my parents aren't open up to it? Like..it's my dad I'm mostly worried about. He doesn't get it. He's just like "No..it looks ugly I dont want you to do that." But does he NOT understand that at any time I want I can take it out? It may leave a tiny mark but nothing major because my sister has had it done before and she hasn't like worn it in a year or more..and theres no mark unless you look really closely (which isnt bad at all)...
I mean Im gonna be 15 in March and I dont want it for my birthday..but like say if I wanted it for this coming christmas -- how can I maybe get them to consider it?? It's really hard though I'm warning you...
I was talking to my dad today and was like "So..what? you're not even gonna TRY to consider it as something I can do?" and he's like "as far as Im concerned its a no." and so Im like "THEN WHEN WILL YOU CONSIDER IT and really think about it??" and hes like "not now..I dont know."
But hes not gonna let me get it -- bottom line. I am not a spoiled person..and I am not a bad kid at all. I dont smoke anything, I dont do drugs or drink...the most I do is have an attitude or anger problems around the house and Im trying to work on that but I cant when they piss me off and my sister acts like another MOTHER to me (which I dont need right now)...
Should I make a list of what it WON'T do? Like what I mean is -- should I write down on a piece of paper stuff like "1. it wont be permanant...2. I can take it out anytime."...etc.
...and like.. just say all the bright sides about it? Because I really would make a list..I want it that bad and I dont want to wait until I move out because I dont want to get it when I'm older. I want peopel I knwo rto get used to me having it NOW before I get older..ya know?
I'm not doing it to fit in with anybody either..or just to be different than anyone else. I'm simply considering doing it because I want to be different then what I am now. I mean it's not like I'm getting a tattoo where it will be permanant..and it's not like people will point and LAUGH at me..I mean Im not gonna be the only one in the world with it done and if I ghave my ears pieced from liek when I was 7 then I dont understand why I cant have my nose pierced..even when Im 16
I told my dad "well 16 year olds can buy cars and pay bills for those cars but YOU wont let me get a nose piercing?" That kind of made him think..but he still said no.
But anyways..sorry for the longness of this question but if anyoen has been in teh same situation then please help. I really want this. I'd be so happy. =)
Thank You.
-me
if the man never gives in then you really can't do anything about it.
ok... i have this friend and this year we've been getting into soo many fights... we just had one like 2 days ago but we got ova it... then when i went to her house with a bunch of other people last night... she was acting all mad so i wasn't talking to her a lot and then she just left us alone in her house and went in her room and like her whole house was pitch black and we didn't know where the light switch was... then today she was like i am mad at you because you barely talked to me yesterday and i was like thats because you looked all mad... and i mean not a lot of people were talking to her in the first place and i am the only one who is getting the blame... and me and my friend have this inside joke that we are lovers (its a joke not for real) and she is like thats gross and i was like i don't care what you think me and anna think its funny... and i don't know if i should still be friends with her because this is like the 50th fight we've been in and yea... help pleaz... sry this is long... i'll rate 5's for everyone who answers thanks
Try talking to her and telling her that you are sick of all the stupid fights that you two keep having. If that doesn't get you anywhere then tell her that you can't take all the stupid fights anymore and unless she matures that your friendship is over
I seem to be the only one around me who is either single or just dwelling on the oh so popular topic of love. I know we arent ment to love anyone at this age, but two of my best friends constantly talk about maybe coming close to that feeling. I wish I could feel empathy for them... But truly I cannot. This is because I always get stuck with guys I dont really care about. I try waiting and staying single, so when the right guy comes along I can like him and become close to that guy. But I cannot have patience anymore! Please try and help...
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How do you bar-lace shoes? Please explain it in as much detail as possible! thanks a bunch!
well i know how but explaining it without showing you is pretty hard to do. maybe you should ask someone who has it done and can actually show you.
I'm in love with my best guy friend at school. I think he likes me cuz we talk a lot on aim. And the guy who sits next to him in math (thats our only period together) said out loud, "you like her, you know you do." We caught eyes and he looked away. I hope he was talking about me. One of my friends was bugging us two that we liked each other and fight like an old married couple. Is this fate, or just a crush? I'll rate high for good answers.
If hes your best friend and he talks to you a lot that doesn't mean anything expect that your friends and he trusts you. There could be something more there. Maybe ask his friend that said you know you like her who he was talking about.
What is the difference between a "padded" bra and a "cup" bra?
thanks.
-confused
and you can't go to a place like Victoria Secret dot com and see the diffrence or something? padded makes you look bigger, cup is the size you are. like an A cup or B cup and so on.
Hey all! Okay, well there is this boy who I work with. I went out with him for a long time..9 months..and then we broke up. I had felt too tied down and he had really been starting to annoy me. Well I was talking to him a few days ago and he wants to get back together. I really don't want to, but when I tried to tell him that, he didn't take no for an answer. He still thinks I wanna go out again regardless of what I say. What should I do??
"I (name here) do not like you (his name here)" "I will not now or ever go out with a dumb ass like you again" "Now leave me alone and move on"
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My boyfriend and I are sorta in a fight right now. It seems like we have kinda been losing interist in one another. I dont want to just give up on our relationship this quick though. So does anyone have any advice on how to keep a relationship going, or what i can say to him tonight on the phone so he isnt mad at me anymore. Please help!!!!
ummm your bored with each other so you have to make things more fun. things that you both should look forward to. here play some games or something yea there pretty stupid but your the one bored http://dating.about.com/gi/dynamic/offsite.htm?site=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.virtualkiss.com%2Fkissinggames%2F
haha on the phone umm just tell him you have some things he will like make his ass horny or something..haha
Ok well i met this guy when i was 13 and know im 15.we met each other at a resort.we talk all the time(internet and phone)the only problem is he lives in Iowa and i live in minnesota. August of 2004 he asked me out. i said yes of course.its really hard though.we live about 7 hours away so its hard for us to see each other, plus we both cant drive yet.I dont know what to do i really like him a lot, so should i stay with him and see what happens or should i dump him and forget all about him??? i'll rate you!thanks for your help.
move on! these are the years of yourlife that you should be dating and meeting new people. Someone who lives that far away will really not do it for you. Stay friends and if you get older and stuff maybe there will be hope as of now just move on find someone that you can actually see not just hear his voice. Long distance is always hard but at that age it's really not worth it.
Do any of you guys know a good picture site? Like where you can store your pictures and then show you'r friends? I already used picturetrail but now it wants be to go to preniem and i dont want to. So please help me find a good picture site! Thankyou!
try yahoo, or photobucket. You can always do a search and fine 1000 diffrent sites though.
How can i convince my mom to let me go over my boyfriends house? Im 14 and hes 16 i guess she somewhat doesnt approve of that. Its imbarresing for him to come here because I live in a small apartment and my mom would have to sit with us omg that would be so bad. I dont kow why but even if he was my age she still wouldnt let me go over a guys house.Does she not trust me?
she's just being a mom "overprotective". if she won't let you go to his house try to go with some friends so you all can just hang out. Let her get to know him better. Tell her about him and the nice stuff he does and just make her like him. That way she will trust him more. The two age thing does add to it and what a 14 wants out of a relationship is diffrent then what a 16 year old wants.
hello. i apologize if the english that i speak isnt as good. i have moved to USA from brazil one month ago.since i speak portuguese(the language used in brazil), german, spanish, italian, french, and english, sometimes i do not remember to speak in english. at my school it is hard to join with friends. if a person has knowledge on joining with groups of people it would be helping.
Join some clubs or join a sports team. You will meet people with the same interests as you.