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I have two friends, a girl and a guy. I have a crush on my guy friend....but my girl friend is in the way. I mean, she already has a BOYFRIEND...but it's as if her boyfriend is our guy friend. I also think that he likes her, because he's always hugging her and being nice to her, while both of them leave me out and make me feel bad. And when they talk, I can't get into the conversation, because I have no connection to what they are talking about. HELP!
i dont answer dumb questions!
i'm in middle school and we have the popular cheerleaders. Everyone tells me how thin and beautiful i am. And the popular girls aren't that pretty, but all the boys love them. I'm not a cheerleader but i think i'm just as good as those girls. why don't the boys notice me?
mayb...they...dont...like...you? just a guess.
i met this guy the otehr nioght and we totally clicked. we're really into each other. only one problem i look older than i am so he though i was 19 and he looks younger than he is so i thought he was 18. turns out i'm 15 and hes 23. hes really cute and nice and funny and i know people are thinking omg hes a prev but the thing is i never fall for anyone. i havent met a erson in ages whose even made me look twice but i keep having all these dreams about him and i get butterflies everytime i think of him. it feels like this is the one time i could be happy and i feel like the only thing about me thats acutially 15 is my age the rest of me is older. what do i do?
omg really! i dont care!
in 8th grade, ive been feeling so depressed. i just feel like everyone is against me. i feel so disgusted w/myself. everyone says that im so skinny and athletic and my family says im beautiful, even though i dont think so. i started cutting a little while ago. its nothing to be proud of, thats 4 sure. i just feel like everything is wrong with me. wut am i supposed 2 do?
signed
*deeply troubled*
everything IS wrong with yu!
well, i REALLY like this guy. and the other day without tellin me my best friend was talkin to him and asked him how he felt about me. well, she told me that he thought of me as just a friend. i was really upset, and my cousin is tellin me to just get over him and find another guy. but the thing is, i dont want to like another guy. hey, i may never get a chance with this guy, but its still ok to have a crush on him, right? or is my cousin right and i need to find another dude, perferably one i stand a chance with? thanks guys..yall rock.
eat a burger.
^^^ i ment burger, not booger, moron.
my dad is a basketball coach for a high school team. he is also my basketball coach. im 13/F. anyways, he is always forcing me into sports. i think i found a sport that i really love, but he wants me 2 be involved in atleast 2 at a time. thats not fair bcuz i want to practice volleyball and improve in it instead of basketball. ive tried to get out of it. even my mom is tryin to get my out of basketball but he just wont let me out. what do i do?
signed
*deeply troubled*
yu dad hates yu. sry.
well i was going out with this guy for 7 or 8 months and we really loved each other but he started high school and he cheated on me over the summer and a week ago i went to the mall with his best friend and we went to the movies and started holding hands and his friend said he loves me already and i like his friend.. so i broke up with my boyfriend and his friend asked me out and now my boyfriend (ex) is soo upset and he cries over me and he doesn't know that me and his friend are going out.... should i stick with my first love or his friend?
eat a pumpkin.
There's this girl who sometimes hangs out with me at school.The only thing she does is brag, like really randomly and its sooo annoying! She just says random things about how big her house is, how well she can dance, and blah blah blah and i hate it. I'm plain out sick of it and everybody is, and next time she brags to me i wanna say something that will shut her up...like a good comeback. I'm not like being mean, but seriously she's annoying everyone and i just wanna say something witty to shut her up. any ideas?
puke on her. then yu get a bad rep!
How do you know when your in love?
yu wouldnt kno!
ok well me and this guy are really close friends. i asked him who he liked and hes like no one actually. so im like ok. and then he said to me one night on the internet, promise that we wont fall for eachother again. and im like ok. but i feel like im getting vibes or w/e that he likes me. cuz we were playing bball(one on one) adn he touched my butt a couple of times.(on purpose? who knows) and then hes like u should go to my tourney. and i hope u go and all. so i went. and he kept "eyeing me" like every so often he would just quickly look at me.
so my question is..and i just imagining things..or do u think he likes me but he doesnt want to say..or something
o one more thing when i asked him who he likes he said something like...well i dont want to make a big deal about it, cuz i no its nothing...
signed,
really confused
who seriously cares???
Ok, theres this guy who is my friend and who has been hanging around me but like in a wierd way. He gives me "happy embarassed" looks and likes to sit by me at lunch. My friend told me she thought he liked me, but he denied it. Do you there is any possible way that he really does like me. I really need to figure this out. Please help.
PS. He also flirts with me alot alot alot!!!!
he hates yu, shh!
For the past few monthes i have gone through a lot. Family problems, friend problems, school problems...etc etc etc. All i have really wanted is someone to hold me and be there for me (to put it plainly i really want a bf) Just so he can be there for me to tell me its ok. Friends are great to have and all but i want someone to hold me when i need them. My problem is i can't seem to get guys to like me. My friends say i am really pretty and i have everything it takes to get a guy. But for some reason i can't get a guy. Could someone please tell me what to do? :-/
desperate, do diee.
hmm where to start... about 7 months ago me and this really adorable kid we'll call "sean" started goin out... we hung-out once and we both immediatly feel for eachother... Our relationship was GREAT like perfect. but then one of my best friends started budding in and kept tellin me how he was always flirting with his bestfriends (grlz).... so of course i belived my bestfriend over him and started b!tchin him out! well eventually it became too much and he dumped me... :( we ended in a big fight and didnt talk over the summer. then at the begining of the skewl year we went out. we broke up after 3 dayz, but every day he was tired or was at his dad's (lives 25 min. away) we're friends now. but im still in love with him. i recently went to a party and made out with one of my X-b.f's "john" and john likes me adn this other grl and i like both of them! who do i go for? should i get over sean? is john messin around with me?? plz!! i need help!
eat a bush.
ok my bf told me he loves me when he left a mssg on his fone but he wont say it directly on the fone or in person so i just broke the ice n sed if furst last nite when i saw him and he sed it back but i sed it as i was turnin to leave so i didnt see his reaction or nothing n we both sed it like really quietly....but then he called n he didnt say it (i didnt hear my fone ring) so he lft a mssg but he didnt say it....does it mean he didnt m ean it or he didnt wanna say it again or wat? did he only say it bak so i wouldnt get mad or somethin?
start a smoking.
ok so not to confuse, let's give names:
my friend: sara
her best friend: liz
liz's boyfriend: bob
bob is trying cheat on liz with sara. he's asked sara to have sex with him, take pictures of herself and give them to him, etc. sara refuses and has put up with this for a while, and then finally told liz. liz believed her at first and then i don't know what happened. sara tried calling liz and liz's mom answered saying that liz wasn't available. sara asked when she would be and she said, for you, never. sara is devastated and can't understand why liz would do this to her. (liz and bob are still together, btw). what can i say to comfort sara? is there any way i can help the situation?
tell her she is ugly to top it off.
i am 13 and i have a boyfriend. i was at a football game tonight but my boyfriend wasnt there. These other guys were there, and i found out that they liked me. it was like 4 guys. it was really cold out and i was doing anything to get warm, even if it meant that i had to hold one of the guys hands. we went into the parking lot, well kinda parking lot, and all the guys except one were touching me and hugging me and stuff. i feel guilty about hurting my boyfriend's feelings, even though he doesnt know about it yet. Did i cheat on him, and should i or shouldnt i tell him about it? Im afraid that if i tell him that he would break up with me, plus all the guys and i promised we wouldnt tell him about it....WHAT SHOULD I DO?
signed,
~*~dazed and confused~*~
cheater!!
Well, i have this friend and i mean she is really really nice when it is jsut us two, but when we are with our other good friends or when we are with boys, she always has to be the center of attention. She knows she has the best body, so she always says something about being on a diet, so people tell her that she is perfect, and she knows she is like gorgeous and so she always talks about how she looks bad so everyone can reassure her some more. Me and my other bestfriend have been talking about it constantly and we love being with her alone, but it is really getting on our nerves, especially because it makes us feel worse about ourselves. Please help!!!
dont b jealous cause shes pretty and yur not!
13/F. A guy told me I had a hairy upper lip, and that I should shave it, but if I shave it, the hair is gonna grow darker, and make look like a man. My mom says I am too young to have a laser hair removal, and that I should have it when I am 18. This makes me soo mad! IDK WHAT TO DO! Please help!
haha! thatz ugly!
my mom and dad both smoke (just ciggarettes) and they both go out in the backyard to smoke but my dad lights in it the house n goes in the back bathroom...(ther bathroom)....and they ALWAYS smell like smoke...my mom even has a ashtray thing for her car and she smokes there too...our car smells so nasty sometimes...and when she comes in my face or watever to talk to me she smells nd she gets mad when i back away and say ew did u jsut smoke? theyve both tryed to quit my mom even has a nicorette tape in her car but they never follow through on it! theyeve tryed everything and my mom quit when she was pregnant with me but she started back up again...ontop of that i hav asthma and reallie bad allergies and smelling smoke makes me sneeze like all day....wat can i do? they wont quit! ive tryed everything....and wer learning bout tobacco in health class right now and its really scaring me bc i kno how dangerous it really is now...=\
tell them 2 die.
Hey yall! I just got the cutest little louis vuitton purse on the planet! It is A White Murakami Purse from the "Eye Collection". I absolutely love it! I really want to wear it to school on Monday but what with? It has alot of colors in it so most anything would match. I was thinking a cute mini. WHat do you think!? Do tell...Ü (I rate well for good answers)
nothing.